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  1. Huge tache fan, guess it was a relic of the time when I became sexually active in South Wales when seemingly everyone had one. While I like facial hair in all it's forms, there is something great about a bushy top lip contrasting with a smoothly shaved chin. Love it's slight resurgence and a young cub sporting one definitely piques my sexual interest. Of course getting rimmed by a tache wearer is something else, expecially if he rubs it well!
  2. While I have horned theistic tendencies in my pagan beliefs, I recognise that all religious beliefs are written (almost exclusively) by men, so there is no argument against creating your own viewpoint. Following that it can then go in the way of group worship or you can remain solitary. Of course it follows further that there would be a diversity of approaches. There is no right approach. I found the the most challenging, for me, was the recognition that rejecting Abrahamic doctrine, I had to own my own moral choices and couldn't hand the responsibility to others. This ultimately become worthwhile as I found I was kinder, more tolerant and laid back. But I do keep the general pagan tenet of not trying to harm others including yourself.
  3. Probably going to wait for the you know what to peak alledgedly in a couple of weeks. I've sorely missed the raw pissplay here.
  4. My first long term partner absolutely refused to use condoms with me, and I was probably not assertive enough in my youth to challenge this. At the time the treatments were only really coming to light, but his argument was that HIV was a myth and that AIDS was caused by poppers. It was my first experience of an outwardly looking intelligent person absolutley missing the point on data and knowledge. I've not exactly blamed him for my barebacking lifestyle, but after a few years of exclusively raw sex, it did mean I wasn't ready to go back to condoms when we split. At least however that was because I was slutty, not ignorant lol
  5. I spent 2 days in New Orleans quite a few years ago. I slept for about 4 hours in the middle and fucked non stop in a bar the rest of the time. Not sure if it's changed, but unlike other parts of the States, the body fascism was milder, as I was never a gym bunny. However as a Brit, word got around I was uncut and so perhaps that helped my popularity. The city was also generally quite easy going in tourist areas too, although that's no help as things might have changed.
  6. Most of my working life I did shifts over Christmas, so often was at home on my own across either Christmas or New Years. However going home in the car in the evening, I had a fair few encounters with other workers in lay bys and cruising areas. Because the roads are really quiet, there was the opportunity to be a bit more blatant as well. Horniest was fucking a security guard in uniform outside a cottage illuminated by street lights. Sadly no one drove past at all. Otherwise I kept away from pubs and clubs as it was either holiday mark ups on entry or clingy weird guys trying to hook up to fill the holiday void period.
  7. I was chatting to a guy years ago, he was really model cute, but not my type. Anyway he was discussing how nobody ever approached him in clubs and bars as they throught he was never going to respond to an "average" person*. Turned out he was jealous of "average" guys like me who were getting far more sex. I guess it all boils down to confidence really. But I do agree , if I don't fancy anyone, I'd never resort to anything that would seem like a put down, it's horrible. *my description, not his.
  8. I think in a British context we have to remember the skinhead scene goes way back and wasn't particularly linked to racism until later. Hence if you meet a skinhead of a certain age, they often might discuss this. Like others my attraction to a shaved head, which is strong, gets a bit uncomfortable in certain expressions. They have to me been a personal awakening in many fetishes, and so fondly thought of. Took my first toxic load off a furry one in the 90s, had my first heavy PA experience with a bodybuilding skin, my first cuckold experience with a skin couple. Plus you can't experience Boltz in Birmingham without ending up with some play, as the club is very welcoming to the scene. I know by sight a couple in the locality with prominent biohazard tats and since I've seen them naked in clubs assume it's poz not statement as mentioned above. Sadly they don't give me a second look.
  9. I've always read it two ways. One that they don't have an agreement with their partner to play outside their relationship. Or second they are a happy and out man who is keeping quiet about a slutty raw fucking lifestsyle. That is certainly me, which is why I'm never open about my face on places like BZ. It doesn't matter if you frequent saunas and sex clubs a lot, which precovid I did, there does seem to quite a strong understanding that what you see doesn't necessarily get discussed. One time in SBN I was ploughing some guy and looked up to see an ex's best friend doing the samething next to me. That never got back to the ex. On the apps I guess the same protections and assumed anonymity that means there is bullying and harassment means people don't trust to be as out. I could see my ex's best friend maybe dobbing me in if he sees my "Don't Care" status on BarebackRT 👿
  10. I have a friend who used to work in public CCTV and he tells me there was a thriving trade in clips of sex from people who didn't give a fuck about what they were doing and being recorded. It became harder to snip the clips that interfered with that as systems became more complex sadly.
  11. I think of myself as quite generically vanilla, but my straight friends when I say this to fall on the floor laughing. From my early twenties I found cottages and when I got a car remote laybys. Never been much of a bottom so the idea of ff never appealed. Was a very innocent young thing when a furry, thickset pickup pissed on me and that was added to my repertoire, and took to it quite enthusiastically. Twenties and thirties meant I was blessed with youthful stamina so could fuck quite a few times a week, staying out late but still get up for work easily. Done innumerable truckers in their cab (once at 3am in the morning on a busy road with his cab light on and curtains open), coppers, bus drivers, security guards, married guys quickly with their families outside. Bareback orgies, outdoor group sessions, naked club sessions, with my exhibitionist streak love guys watching and got off on their shock when I fucked raw. Have fucked guys while their partners tell me what to do which is horny, fucked naked wearing boots and had guys want me to treat them rough. My partner numbers must be in thousands over the years. As I'm older I look back with fondness now I participate less in these covid times, so don't feel I've missed out. I kind of guess I was not as adventorous as some gay men, and it was quantity versus quality.
  12. It's a lottery isn't it? In the mid 90s I was in a known cruising area in the middle of the night and two cops stopped me. Expecting the worse, they were polite and friendly. "Sorry sir, I'd recommend you move on tonight. We are monitoring this area because of reported violent homophobic attacks which are causing some concern and we are waiting for the likely suspect"
  13. I'm from near that area and know Usk well. It always tickled me that it's name in Welsh was Brynbuga. Using my Wenglish I used to laugh because I've buggered many a guy in the hills
  14. That's my view too. If I arrive at a sex club I'm usually of a mind to fuck based on quantity to get me going a bit. I can abstain for a few days before and I'll definitely shoot a couple of times but have to chill in the middle. However when I fuck, even though I'm trying not to shoot, I am also giving the bottom a good time too hopefully. To put a converse side to your argument, I'm never offended if the bottom doesn't cum. If I find a nice arse though, I always return to them later in the evening though. Generally tell them to come back loaded up too. Yes, I too hang on till later as well. You get some well filled cunts and the sleazy fuckers are still around. All the nice guys have gone to their beds or b/f and the bad ones are in slings with their legs open wanting just one more haha
  15. Just curious. Has anyone been to the new Boltz. Was wondering if the vibe is the same and worth a visit.
  16. Sometime in the late 90's I did the annual sexual health survey, and I calculated over that year I'd had 700 guys. I've had a couple of quiet years which don't bother me, but before Covid I was generally doing monthly sex club sessions and not shy about fucking 10 plus guys a time. I'm definitely in the 0000s but couldn't be more specific. I'm always conscious in straight terms I'm "slutty as fuck" but in gay it's "has potential, could try harder" 😁
  17. Since Boltz in Birmingham is by far my favourite play space, my colleagues used to take the piss by saying he's been to Birmingham whenever I had a a fuck. The times I arrived in the office after a weekend and been asked how I was, and barely able to respond before getting a loud chorus of "Look at him smiling, he's been to Birmingham this weekend!". I guess these things were really obvious
  18. I put it down to being brought up Welsh but sex is just a big rolling pile of fun and joy. If you're not smiling or laughing it's not being done right. I kind of get that some activities might require a bit of thought and care, but it should never be sterile and without connection. I have a particular ex who was far less (as in not at all) a slut than I am. And I would say I would rather tumble under a duvet having a good time that made me laugh than failing at sex because me costume was wrong or I was being accused that I was giving the wrong vibe.
  19. Not been since before the pandemic and really due a return. However let me assure you no one is judging, they;re too busy checking out the next opportunity for cock and cunt. I'm middle aged and not an a-gay at all, but never had any judgement. Always smile and thank the bar staff, and they'll be fine, and just chill on a sofa and settle. Once a couple of beers are down, I get horny as hell and then start the circle tours. Wierdly I always found it more relaxing naked than clothed
  20. if he is he must be pretty into BDSM. Due to a multitasking error, I got some hand sanitiser on my cock accidentally and the pain was really intense and in no way pleasurable. It felt like I was having a layer of skin peeled off like cling film. I in no way would want to explore that in my arse area!
  21. Quite furry myself and have always been turned on by the furrier the better and don't get me started on what a stocky hair covered back does to me. However when I've met guys that are naturally smooth, I've found that really sexy. A bit of hair here and there spoils it, but fully smooth woof. I've been lucky to get a few chunky clean shaven guys that have been smooth and it's been the best sex I've had. A shaven head and no hair on the arse is quite appealing. I think it's because it offers easy access and you can enjoy the view while my own arse is like the Amazon. Mind you, it might be because of my coming out in the 80's and in Wales, but I get ridiculously enthusiastic if a guy has a tache, even a wispy bum fluffer!
  22. Few minutes after I get naked I leak precum like a tap, and so thats what guides me in. Never had to use lube at all, but has already been mentioned, cum inside is great.
  23. Well into my fifties and know all about this. I love to go to saunas becuase I love the heat and steam. The presence of a bunch of naked men to look at is a bonus. But it's been at least a decade since I did any meaningfully enjoyable sex in one. (The bears days in some local saunas being honourable exceptions). I kind of understand why guys invest heavily in their appearance and want to connect with someone of the same type, But there is a real difference between that and being disparaging about people around you with their distaste being displayed in looks or comments. Of course bitchy queens trolling the corridors proclaiming their superioity being such a turn on to all.... Sex clubs are the exact opposite. The ones in Birmingham and London are generally far more welcoming and sex is more frequent. Many years ago it took quite a bit for me to approach SBN and Vault being far from body positive, and I remember the fit and attractive staff being genuinely welcoming and friendly when I'm standing there skinny and being a grower not a shower. I think it's the darkness, the beer, the presence of so much musk in the air that gets your lust going, and finds connection, and means guys response to attractiveness goes further than appearance. But I do think you need to go with a positive energy of just enjoying it, as thinking you aren't going to pull becomes self fulfilling. I tell myself of the sexy 50 and 60 year olds I was fucking in my 20 and 30s to remind myself that they might now be feeling the same way.
  24. Not as horrific as some of the other posters above, and when shared with my close friends they think it's freaking hilarious. I had a run of three sexual encounters in a local cottage. They were all differing heights so knew they were different guys, but all three looked like Neanderthal lumberjacks. Thick set, furry, thickly bearded etc. Getting right off on snogging them, getting a good blow job etc, but they're a bit hesitant on getting out their own cocks. Gets verbal and it's pretty clear I'm being invited to fuck them. As they drop their trousers, I'm confronted by red silky, frilly knickers, suspenders, black stockings. Crucially bearing in mind their Brick Shit Housedness, the underwear is several sizes too small! Not my thing at all and my cock shrinks to micro size in about 17 seconds. Make my excuses and leave, one of the guys wearily sighed, this always happens.
  25. 48 hours once in Glasgow. Picked up this short stocky tached guy and went back to his place. Mutual fucking everywhichway. Left to go back to work and I was certainly sore and had to have a couple of weeks off lol. Obviously something I could only manage when in my twenties. What I remembered vividly how time slowed and the atmosphere became quite unusual, spent most of the time naked or in a towel. Just fucking when mine or his cock stiffened and stopping when we were sated.
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