When the bottom cums first

[rednyellow]

True bottoms let a top finish inside whether or not they cum before he's done. I don't usually cum until the top starts pumping his load in me but sometimes if he is hitting my G-spot just right I lose control and cum before he does. When that happens I always let him continue fucking until he busts his load in me. I'm a true bottom cumwhore and the fucking is not complete until I've got his load in my ass.

 

Same here(ish). When I'm being a bottom pig, I don't want to cum until I'm done collecting loads, wore out. If I find myself starting to cum or getting too close because I'm being fucked really well, I have to make sure I don't touch myself or let others touch me because I don't want to cum.  

 

If I'm topping, it's hot if the bottom cums while I'm fucking him and I will continue to fuck him until I'm done. 

[chubbybear]

. . . If I'm topping, it's hot if the bottom cums while I'm fucking him and I will continue to fuck him until I'm done . . .

 

Fuck, I would love to get you hot by cumming while you pound my ass. After that I would obediently submit to your continued fucking for as long as it takes for you to reward me with your hot poz load deep inside me.

[VersatileBreeder]

I had this issue with a bottom dude I used to hook up with. In the beginning from when I first met him, it was great, I could fuck him 2, 3 times in a night before he would cum. For some reason, after a while he started jerking his cock while I fucked him and then would cum and once he'd cum, he would be done and unable to get fucked anymore. The second time after that, I told him not to touch himself, but he still did and then came and then we had to come to a screeching halt again.

The third time, I actually would grab his hand away from his cock when he would go to touch himself. Well when I got him on all fours, I didn't realize he was jerking again and then he came. I was so fed up with him that I just left, deleted his number and blocked him on BBRT. He hit me up a couple times after and I just ignored him. If a guy makes himself cum before the top and then basically blue balls him, then he's a shit bottom that deserves zero cock.

Being vers, I can't understand why a guy would want to cum before his top. When I get fucked, I'm all about the top's pleasure. There were a couple of instances where I actually came hands free from amazing tops. I didn't even stop them, they continued to fuck until they blasted their loads in me.

[topstud127]

It's near impossible for me to cum when bottoming. It doesn't happen from stimulation and I can't get into a comfortable rhythm when jerking. I'd love to but I can't figure it out. I probably need to vary my jerking off techniques by myself as a start. Any tips would be awesome. 

 

As a top, if you cum, I try to ease you back into going again, if not, I reluctantly pull out and jerk off or get a bj (which I also can't cum from). If I notice you jerking and getting close, I tell you to stop, pull the hand away or put you on your stomach.

[Guest btchbyl]

i just stay in position and let the top finish in my ass. if he makes me cum that fast then i let him stay in my ass for as long as he wants as a courtesy fuck.

[jockwhore]

Thats why i never touch my cock when someone is fucking me in the ass. i enjoy on what top is doing and the pounding my hole receives. So my cock i always hard during the fuck with leaking precum. But sometimes i cum without touching my cock whether it may be due to top's pounding or i am more horny.

[fieldpussy]

If a bottom knows that he cannot take it any more after cumming, he has to avoid cumming until the top is done with him. Period.

[chubbybear]

If a bottom knows that he cannot take it any more after cumming, he has to avoid cumming until the top is done with him. Period.

 

And if he does cum, he needs to man up and let the top keep going until he's finished. The first few times I was fucked after cumming were rough but I knew my place as a bottom and took it anyway. Although it was uncomfortable, being used like that made me feel super slutty and soon horned me back up. Now it's a way of life. The fuck is not done until my ass is full of cum regardless of who cums first.

[subbytch]

If I cum, my prostate is so sensitive, it's agony to continue to be fucked. So I've learned to avoid jerking. And, thankfully, with long sessions, I'm not hard the whole time. Not only does that tend to prevent orgasm, it feels so much more submissive.

[xxbjn2]

The job's not over until the top says so, even if I cum, it's my duty to stick it out until he's had enough. Once had a guy jerked me off, then proceeded to fuck me after I'd blown. Was hot giving him total control like that and being such a whore.

[fieldpussy]

I have a fuckbuddy who makes me jerk alone while he watches. Only ater I have cummed he mounts me and fucks me hard until he creams my hole.

[dude8688]

Once I've cum, either from jacking off or during sex, I totally lose interest and sometimes even get waves of depression, guess it's like a downer, I dunno. I've paid good money to fuck escorts before (I'm bi) and blasted early and just finished the meet even if there's still time left. My drive just totally disappears it's odd.

Point being, fucking my arse would be off the table once I've cum and my mojo has disappeared.

Luckily, I don't need to play with my cock during sex and very rarely do I actually get hard myself while taking dick. More inclined to enjoy having dick inside me and then jack myself off to the memory later.

Edited October 2, 2016 by dude8688

[FelchingPisser]

A good cock cage helps eliminate this problem.  The bottom can't get hard.

[Junosoda]

Sometimes I cum when being fucked. If you are a good bottom, you should still be able to take cock until the Sir finishes.

[Cumjunky215]

The first time I came getting fucked the top gave me a minute to relax then kept fucking.  I wasn't comfortable and complained and tried to pull away.  He wasn't going to have it, and kept me in place and plowed harder telling me it was my fault and shouldn't have come first.  He pulled my hair and slapped my face when I struggled which seemed to turn him on even more.  He loaded my ass and left his throbbing cock up my ass til he deflated.  I told him I wanted to meet again and he said if I cum first again he'd just keep using me like a whore because that's my role.  We kept fucking and I usually never came first again, but he would still occasionally get rough and it would be so hot.  It was all about his dick cumin and I was only the hole to be used.