Go To BB Sex Parties? How Often Do You Get STDs?

[rawTOP]

Had regular doctor's appointment a couple days ago and told him about some clear discharge I was having. I didn't know if I had irritated my PA by sleeping with it in one night (generally a bad idea for me) or if I had picked up something at the sex party I went to last weekend. He treated me just in case but then called today to tell me I had had chlamydia. That's not a very good record in my case - go to one party and pick something up. Those of you who are regulars at sex parties - how often do you have problems after the fact?

[plowedanplanted]

Took me forever to go to a BB party. Not only did I stay negetive but I stayed STD free. Though to be honest the bullet dodging , danger and thrill of it was brilliant and hot.

[rawbottom1963]

I don't go to many sex parties, but when I did go to a few regulars, I was mostly a marathon cock sucker (which is my life story). I was in hospital in March, negative for all STDs. But Fever of Unknown Origin. 2 weeks after a slamming fest with one man. That's an STD in itself!

I know a man who goes to many sex parties in NYC, and is both top & bottom. He's been treated for the usual stuff - even to syphilis. Of course, HIV came after many lucky years for him. At least he was responsible, and phoned every man he "had" recently in his black book and told him to get tested. The men were not happy. 'Rather know, than face complications, later.

Good post.

[rawbottom1963]

Yes, I could see that a PA would be a great hiding place for infection. I suppose this is an occupational hazard... The one problem that remains is this: how many tests are we supposed to get? Just the ones that the Public Health Clinic on Ninth Ave. offers?

And about the chlamydia: it just takes one contact - one guy at one party. That same party guy could show up on a website & visit a man 1-1 the next day. Chlamydia isn't just for sex parties. But the pool would be more filled with it. Of course.

[btmwsfun]

I seem to get Chlamydia every time I bare back either top or bottom. In the bottom is no joke.

[PhoenixGeoff]

This problem is a bit of a pet peeve of mine.

In my opinion, the public health policy ought to be to remove as much stigma as possible from STDs and make it as easy as possible to seek out anonymous testing and treatment. I'm a firm believer in providing testing and treatment wherever men get together for sex (doing it in a bathhouse when the place is crowded is a good idea, not 3 PM on a Tuesday afternoon). And when I say anonymous, I mean anonymous: no passing names to the testing organization or the government, no collecting names of partners to notify, no nothing but testing and treatment. Collecting treatment data without names or identifying information is fine for epidemiological purposes, but that's it.

I also wish the focus was taken off HIV a bit in this regard, for three reasons. First, many STDs can be spread even if you do use a condom; condoms are not a cure all. Second, it's a lot easier to spread most STDs than it is to spread HIV. Third, most other STDs can be treated easily with little or no long-term impact if they are caught early enough.

This is all basic stuff, but between the HIV organizations and the anti-sex moralizing types, it's amazing how many places screw it up.

[JoshLandaleXXX]

I've never picked up anything from a sex party... the only time i've picked up anything was when i got fucked by 60 random guys in Antwerp last year, and i came home riddled... but sex parties here in the UK, even the most dirty of them, have never resulted in me getting anything at all... other than massive cum down and a hang over.. .

[HotAssinPA]

I have been to a few bb parties. And I'm still std free, as well as hiv-.

Edited June 5, 2011 by HotAssinPA

[v1rg1n1]

I got STDs twice...and that was during a 1on1!!

[elemenoh]

I too had thought I injured my PA. I had some yellow discharge that I thought was the piercing acting up. Went to my piercer to have her take a look and she sent me to the STD clinic. My piecing was fine. Not sure where I caught it, but probably from a group anon scene a week or so before.

[aidsfukka]

Rarely in POZparties - quite frequently Syphilis & Chlamidia in not explicitly "poz-only" parties. Seems those dolls do not consider themselves at risk just because "they're neg" - or am I wrong?

[pigskintop]

I've had a lot of groups over the years and know that a lot of men come with their own bugs. A lot of them have told me what they had and who they fucked or put their cocks into.

[pulszer]

After having had gonorrhea Im less keen to try it again... the pain...

[sheogite]

Got the clap and Syph once each oh and pozzed, not a bad record since I have been a party and sauna goer on and off since I was 18 (13 years now)

[PissPigBrooklyn]

hmmmm...only went to one bb party in the past two years although I have barebacked (bottom) on two occasions at parties that were supposed to be safe sex. Didn't get anything.