Preparation For First Penetration

[badboy69er]

Advise for preparing to take my first cock. Cleaning?

Should I be using toys to get loose?

Or do guys prefer an arsehole to be tight not stretched?

Everyone's thoughts?

[NLbear]

There are several topics on cleaning your hole and preparing here in the General section. Look them up.

You can always practice with dildos.

As for tight or loose, the preference will differ per top. But since you have never been fucked before you will be tight :-) Even if you do practice before. I like to be tight (and am).

[badboy69er]

Thanks for the tips. If anyone has further info I'd appreciate it a lot! Still finding it hard to find info on how to clean my hole in preparation. I just want to be ready for when the time comes and I decide to go for it

[snaketat]

many ways to get started.  you may want to consider oral prior to getting fucked the first time.  learn to enjoy the scent, feel and pace of m4m sex.  

 

no doubt, being very clean (inside and out) is something i am serious about.  many top partners will expect a high degree of clean.....and it can be quite uncomfortable....and nasty if you are not.   some guys like that nasty stuff....but many recoil at it.

 

using toys at home is good practice.   get several sizes and try working yourself up to the larger sizes.  go slow, use lube.....and learn to enjoy the sensations....and learn what it takes to open yourself to a comfortable amount.....you will find that not every top understands who to gauge where the bottom is (open-wise and pain wise) so you will find that your verbal and physical guidance is quite important.

 

now if your fantasy includes a rape like scene...then just go for it...but that is probably not the best way to learn to really relax and enjoy an anal pounding.   that scene is about so much more than just enjoying good manses.

[badboy69er]

I need to learn hoe to clean and get prepared! I guess it's a personal preference whether to be hairless or not?

I'm kind of stuck in the middle with what to do first. Take it slow and get straight to the hardcore stuff to make the 1st time memorable. I also want to repay the faith to everyone in the zone by providing myself for want people want me to do

[breedbaltimore]

here is one thread for cleaning out, that might help.  if you just use the search at the top and enter douche, you will get many others.  but as others said, make sure you are comfortable with yourself and with the guy.  you never get a chance to have a second first time.

 

https://breeding.zone/topic/24349-douching

[drscorpio]

Also, if you are going to get fucked your first time out, the top needs to know you are inexperienced. Preferably, he will have broken in a virgin before and will know what to do. 

[atlfukbud]

I'd say flush out with some warm soapy water till it runs clear, put some coconut oil or your favorite lube in there and then relax and enjoy his tongue, fingers and cock opening you up--- don't over prepare or you'll miss out on the sensations that make the first time special.

[fillmyholeftl]

Should NEVER use Soapy water

[NLbear]

I see I repeated myself in the other topic about cleaning. But yeah, just use water. In addition to "douche" you can also search on "cleaning".

[btm2bbred]

Good suggestions on this thread for you, badboy.    Make sure you are cleaned out!

 

You are going to be tight if it's your first time.    While some Top guys prefer tight holes, others prefer looser holes so their dicks just slide in to your warm, moist hole.

 

I would engage in some foreplay before he starts drilling you in earnest.    If he likes a looser hole, you might want to consider jacking out your own cum load and offer it to him to finger into your hole.    Most Tops can't resist a cum lubed hole.    I would suck his cock and/or balls while he's fingering your hole, or work his nips,etc.  just to divert him for a few minutes.     Take it slow, get his cock nice and hard, and let him take over the driving when he is ready to make love to you.    Once he slowly works his cock fully into you and is balls deep, and you are used to his fullness, then he will pick up the pace and start the steady, unrelenting drilling of your virgin hole.   Your initial pain, if any, should melt away, and be replaced with waves of intense pleasure.     I hope you get a fuck to remember!