what or who makes you start having raw bb sex?

[BootmanLA]

17 hours ago, mostlytotaltop said:

I'm 32, and from Boston, but lived in London when I was 18 for the year. I had sex there for the first time, and it was bareback (I bottomed). I had sex with maybe 20 guys that year and I'd say half were bareback. The cuter the boy, the less apt we were to use condoms, but there were still a lot of "safe only" guys, and at that time I didn't really care. 

I broke up with my boyfriend (24yo total bttm) of four years last summer, and we never once used a condom. We both were really into barebacking. 

Since we broke up, I've topped A LOT of twinks. Almost all were/are (I have a good rotation) 18-22. Out of maybe eighty twinks, only one Harvard kid asked that I wear a condom (and I fucked a few other Harvard freshmen and they all wanted it raw). And only one kid told me his status or asked asked about mine. So generally from my experience the younger millennials and practically all of Gen Z are unabashedly barebackers. A bunch of them have stopped listing HIV status all together on their profiles and never ask about mine before, during, or after we hookup. 

I was fucking this stunning half-asian, half-white kid, and I asked him where he wanted me to cum, to which he said, "on my face," and because that was not the answer I was looking for, I just kept fucking him until I eventually had to cum, and was just like "I'm gonna cum, can I cum inside you," and he was all for it. 

I just get the impression that all these boys want it raw, and as soon as they or I explicitly bring it up, either chatting before we meet up or when we're fucking, that we're fucking raw and I'm going to breed them, it's like a switch flips and they just get so turned on and start begging for my cum. 

I suspect that's due to at least two factors, one good and one not as good. A lot of guys are smart about getting on PrEP as soon as they can. That's the good factor. The other is that guys that age often think they're indestructible, and none of them lived through the 1980's and 1990's when friends were dying every week. They figure HIV is "no big deal" and maybe they'll go on PrEP sometime but if not, well, if they get HIV they'll take a pill every day and it's still no big deal.

Compared with what it was like in 1988, they're right. But they don't have the long-term vision to see what life may be like when they're out of school and off Mommy & Daddy's insurance, when they have to start paying copays for medications that run $2,800 a month. Or worse, finding themselves at a job that has no health insurance benefits at all, and they live in a state where they make too much for regular Medicaid and the state doesn't have expanded Medicaid, and they don't make enough to really qualify for a discount on the exchanges. 

Even when HIV is far from a death sentence - which is a wonderful advance! - it's no cakewalk. 

[nightkat89]

It feels WAY better, like it cannot even be compared. On top of it I have a huge breeding fetish so having a strangers DNA in me turns me on

[BoyishInBaltimore]

I was introduced to bb fairly young, like 16 or so. While it was fun, I generally played safe because that was what I was expected to do.

On my 18th birthday I met this couple out at a bar near campus. They were both 36 and fit, good looking guys. They invited me back to their place for an after hours. Being naive, I didn’t think to ask too many questions. Once we arrived and no Jen else showed up I asked and was told that I was their after hours. 
 

They undressed me and too me into the bedroom where they laid me in the bed with one on each side of me. This was my first three way and I had no idea what to expect. After the obligatory sucking, they took turns eating my hole and spent a long time loosening me up.

 

Without any warning I was turned over, my legs were raised up and a cock head was pressing against my hole. There was never any discussion about condoms and it was just assumed that I’d be ok with taking his bare cock. It was one of the most amazing nights of my life being completely used by two older tops. One had a long, average thickness cock and was very aggressive. The other had an average length cock that I could fit my hand around and was gentle. They each bred me a couple times that night and again in the morning. 
 

While I hadn’t expected anything like to happen to me I was hooked. From that night on I spent most nights sleeping between them getting aggressively pounded and bred deep before falling asleep and gently fucked and loaded while showering the next morning. This went in for about two years until I found a boyfriend of my own that would have never understood. 

[Guest]

On 2/17/2018 at 1:27 PM, Guest FriendlyBottom said:

The first time a bare cock went in my ass, it wasn't planned (on my part anyway).  It was over 20 years ago and I was at a gay, nude beach south of San Francisco (locals will know what I'm talking about).  I approached a handsome, hairy and quite nicely hung man older than myself who was lounging behind one of the driftwood shelters that line the beach.  (I was 24 years old, he was probably early-to-mid-forties.)  Friendly chat seemed to confirmed the mutual spark which led to passionate kissing and mutual sucking.  He handed me a bottle of poppers and manuevered me onto my hands and knees so he could eat me out.  I was loving the attention of his tongue and my hole was soon wet, relaxed and receptive.  He lubed me up, playing with my tight hole with his fingers, first one, then two... and then surprised me by pressing his cock head agains my hole.  I hadn't heard a condom wrapper open.  I had been enjoying his slick fingers in my ass and then the next thing I knew, his lube-slicked hands were on my hips and I felt him slowly entering me bare.  I was simultaneously TURNED THE FUCK ON and alarmed -- he was so hot, it felt so good, yet it was "unsafe" and went against my commitment to "safe sex". 

"You're not wearing a condom, are you?", I asked, as he popped past my second ring.

"No" he answered, calmy and matter-of-factly.  He held his cock still inside me, allowing me to adapt to his presence.  "Do you want me to stop?" he asked casually as he slowly start to gently slide his cock around. 

"Uh....".  I was torn.  This was REAL sex, not the latex-covered synthethic version of it that was my only prior experience  with fucking.  I was LOVING it -- this was how men were supposed to fuck.  I figured I would eventually be taking cock raw, but thought I'd be doing so with a boyfriend after discussion and testing and a commitment to monogamy.

"You feel so great!" he said.  "You like this, don't you?" as he continued with his gentle movements.  "Your ass is so snug and tight."

I was at a loss for words.  I *DID* like it.  I FUCKING LOVED IT!!  I remember I took another hit of poppers, so I could continue to enjoy these sensations while I wrestled with my conflicted feelings.  He knew what he was doing -- a truly expert top.  I hadn't been fucked very much at this point in my life.  He knew how to open me up and with perfect pacing, he started to slowly pump the full length of his cock in and out of me, stopping on the back stroke just before his head popped out of my hole, then sliding slowly, gently, back in balls-deep. He keep his pace slow but determined.  He was gentle but persistent.  He wanted me bare, there was no doubt about that -- and he was perceptive enough to know that I wanted it too.

Within a couple of minutes.  I asked him if we could take a break.  I was truly conflicted -- torn between what I wanted and what I thought I should do.  He was a gentleman and slowly withdrew from my ass.  As soon as he was out, I was missing his cock and craving it again...

We continued kissing.  He patiently listened to me babble ("That was sooo HOT!"  "I can't believe I did that."  "Fuck, that felt good."  "I just want to be safe.").  

Granted, he was a mature man, more experienced than me and he had his own desires and needs and agenda, but I don't feel like he manipulated me so much as he *guided* me that day toward giving into what I wanted.  He was consoling and complimentary and reassured me that I had nothing to worry about.  He repeated how much he enjoyed being inside me and remarked that he knew I liked it too.  He marveled at how tight I was as he went in and raved about how I had opened up to accept his full lenth.  He repeated that he wanted me to be comfortable and it was OK that we had stopped and we could just lay here and enjoy the sun and continue to cuddle.

Soon we were kissing again.  In a few minutes, his hands found their way toward my ass.  He gently cupped my and pinched my cheeks and then he started to finger me again...

"Can I have those poppers again?", I asked.

"Sure"  He handed me the bottle with his left hand, while continuing to gently probe my hole with his right index finger.

I had to adjust my position to take a hit of poppers without slipping them and, as I did so, I slid off his finger.  Out of the corner or my eye, I saw that he was reaching again for the bottle  of lube.  The warm rush of the poppers hit my brain.  Without another word, I got on my hands and tilted my hips in order to presented my willing hole to him.  I heard him spurt a dollop of lube out of the bottle, followed by the squish-y noise of him lubing up his cock.

"Good boy...There you go..." he said reassuringly as he slid into my accommodating hole...

 

I’m in a very similar situation with a hungry total bottom now. I’ve already broken him in a little by gently and slowly fucking him from behind whilst side-by-side. Drove him crazy, but, I could tell he was conflicted, just as you were. I dutifully obliged when he asked for a break, before I re-inserted my cock inside his tight ass again. We’ve had sex a few times before, but this last encounter is the first one with anything that happened bare. Figuring he was truly ready, I got to my knees and positioned him on all 4’s in front of me. This was it! But, he asked rhetorically if I was wearing a condom. 
 

Decision time: do I step out-of-character  to carry on as if I hadn’t heard him and assume he wants the fantasy of being taken raw with no say in the matter? 
Or, do I stay in-character and reach for the nearest Magnum?

In the end, I know I’ll eventually have him bare as often as I want. All because I put on that condom. If he’s already come that far, I don’t think it’ll be too long before we rock and roll raw regularly. 

[Guest]

My master, he is a mature daddy, muscular, with a hairy and gray body, he only fucks bareback, he is undetected, my first time bareback will be with him, for the take prep, for him I am in this forum

[LurkingBottom]

Recently got into it. I had always been a condom user to avoid everything if possible until a while back when one guy only told me he would fuck me only if I took it raw. He actually told me that he had always used condoms and was tired of it and wanted to find someone who he can fuck bb. Don’t know why I believed it but I think part of it was that I was just wondering about it anyway so I let him breed me nice and deep and we had a good time and then he blocked me immediately after. Found out later that he was poz detectable and was a bit notorious for converting guys. I’m still neg but it was an experience for sure.

[cman54]

First time I was fucked was very late in my life. I met this guy I had been talking to on bbrt. Form his profile I could see he was open to poz. First time meeting him was like just an intro over coffee and some chat. I met him again a couple of weeks later at his place. When we were chatting watching some bareback porn he said he had to tell me he was sure he was poz and he was not on meds. He said we could use a condom if I wanted him to. I thought about it some and told him I want it bare.  We went into his bedroom and fucked it was awesome. I was nervous at first but once he had his dick in me it was awesome. No regrets and it felt so good afterwards. I was proud of myself for doing it.

[Ronchipig]

If I'm completely honest I have to say that I cannot remember ever having sex while wearing a condom. My first time having sex was with a woman about...well...a very long time ago, long before AIDS popped up its ugly little head. My dick would never stay hard when I tried to put one on, so I just never tried again after the 2nd or 3rd attempt. So I have been a barebacking fucker for my entire sex life. 

[ronnie4u]

Think it was with a group of males - cross dressers - party - drinking , smoking , poppers - the condoms were breaking . Then , also my mother - divorced - having sex in her bed room raw sex - I be watching her from her bed room window . She was totally amazing - free sex - raw cum loads - smoking whore - love showing off her large breasts !

[Beetle]

For more than 14 years I have never barebacked. Always been the top and always used a condom, even if my bottom boys begged to load their asses and cancelled the hookups when I insisted on safe fucks.

Since november 2021 I am on PrEP and really enjoying bare sex. My bottom bitches are begging for a load and I give it with pleasure. Even now I still feel unsecure for contracting HIV but that’s still a remainder of 14 years safe sex obsession.

But I am afraid to admit that once you go bare........

 

[BannedWord]

On 2/17/2018 at 1:59 PM, SirPhilippe said:

hello guys,

I was wandering about that decision you ever took to have raw, unprotected natural bareback sex. What or who was it that makes you go for that option? Some boyfriend, some happening? Has it become your usual way to have sex for all occasions or only under certain circumstances?  

Full disclosure: I'm bi, I knew I was bi since I was young, my first sort of sexual experience was with guys, but I never did any bottoming with guys up to and through a certain point. Then my first experiences were with condoms because, well, for one we were fed the propaganda about safe sex, then I was in no position to knock anyone up, and then the AIDS scare had come into full view (early 80's). Then I got hooked up with a chick who "wanted my bone" according to a friend, so we did and she wanted me bare inside her. She told me she was on the pill and the next morning she offered up proof so I wouldn't be freaked out about knocking her up -- STDs weren't in the picture really. But damn did fucking her raw feel really great. Next women I dated just all wanted it bareback and it just became more second nature as I went on that women hated condoms, perhaps more than guys. I got to the point quickly that I didn't even ask about STDs or birth control (nor did they) and we just fucked to our hearts' content. (Y'all see where this is heading)

Yeah, didn't care if I got 'em pregnant either. If they're letting me fuck them, I was down. Condoms never came up. But I was also playing around with other guys, more as Top than versatile or bottom. And when I fucked, it was always as a raw top. Totally down with sucking cock and swallowing cum. Any dude I was with, I was still topping and they were letting me fuck them raw. And yeah, I cruised the ABSs, dark rooms, etc. Again, once I had the experience of going raw, there was no turning back because it just felt too damn good no matter what hole I was in. Roll a condom over it and I want to go totally limp because I'm not turned on by it and the sex is far less satisfying (actually, it's pretty annoying).

As I've grown older, two things have transpired. One is that I'm rarely turned on by a woman or sex with a woman, bareback or otherwise. I guess I feel like I've missed out on a lot and would have had a fuck ton more fun with guys than women. The second is that I want to be much more versatile and either flip or bottom for guys. It's just further and further down the rabbit hole. I just want to enjoy everything and feel like I've experienced what I wanted in this life. Not that I'm necessarily looking to get pozzed, but I'm not on PrEP either and I'm not doing condoms. So either I'm going to end up exceptionally selective (yeah, I'm too horny for that) or my fate is sealed and I learn to accept that tossing aside my negative status just opens the world to a new liberation and a brotherhood of guys of like mind. Regrets? Wish I could go back and start down just the one path with guys and experience all I missed out on. Damn.

[stoonbtmboi]

My first time was when my best friend and I were both 13.  We had been fooling around for several months.  This one time he invited me over, on a school break.  We did the usual of going to his bedroom, stripped naked, and fooled around.  Something felt different.  He was on top of me and it felt great.  He grabbed some lube and he told me he wanted to fuck me and make me his.  Next thing I knew his bare cock was sliding into my tight virgin hole.  It was amazing and rarely used condoms since then.

[Curiousolderguy]

As a bi married man whose wife is unaware I had played "safe" for 30+ years. We no longer have sex so I decided that I should at least experience swallowing cum and taking a raw cock. Since I swallowed my first load and had cum in my ass I will always be raw. I regret all those years of abstinence especially as it's hard to find cock at my age.

[rockhard801]

I started going bare with the first guy I was in a LTR with.  We were together for almost three years.  When we split up I went back to condoms.  If I was in a LTR I would go bare otherwise safe.  After my last LTR ended a number of years ago, I realized I really didn’t like using condoms.  I slowly started barebacking. First with guys I new and had been with but then one day I over came my fears and let a guy go bare in me at the baths.  It was such a rush.  From there I flip flopped for a few years being slutty and going bare then playing safe for a while. Then about four years ago, I just started always taking cock bare.

[timfreo]

For me, it was athe guy I was seeing at the time , hung , Dom & very sexual. One day he decided he was using condoms anymore with me. And that was it, I've been a BB bttm ever since. 

And that first fuck when he forced me to take it, was the most menorable fuck of my life . Wish it had happened years sooner.