I have a 3.5 inch penis. Can I be top?

[Cumjunky215]

A number of years ago I had a smaller guy that was just coming out and would always fuck me.  He was passionate, came a lot, and sometimes came 2-3 times.  And he was a decent guy, too.  Wish I had spent more time with him, and often think how he'd fuck me, lay on my back and we'd talk, then he'd just slide back in and fuck again, just taking my ass.  Do it.  You can fuck me anytime.

[bbcunthole]

thats as small as mine . you cant b my top. i need powerful strong men who kno they are special cause they have a big cok n who love to weild it as a weopon . 3.5 is a third of whats needs to pound into my cunt n make me scream . i think u have to accept your worrthless as a man and a top n accept the dergadatuion of being a tiny cockked btm 

[find91]

Topping is about attitude and knowing to how to use what God/Sarah Palin( depending on your perspective) gave you. It has very little to do with dick size. Being hung has it's benefits and draw backs same as being average size. A lot of hung guys fall back on the fact that they have a big dick and they just lay there and do nothing or just ram it in thinking hurting a bottom is power topping which is total bullshit. 3.5inches is more than enough to reach a man's prostate and stimulate him to cum. Furthermore topping ain't just fucking, eating out your bottom, being verbal and giving commands are all aspects to being a good top and you ad that with fucking the shit out of a bottom you'll have them coming back for more. Just be yourself and be confident.

[tallslenderguy]

4 hours ago, find91 said:

Topping is about attitude and knowing to how to use what God/Sarah Palin( depending on your perspective) gave you. It has very little to do with dick size. Being hung has it's benefits and draw backs same as being average size. A lot of hung guys fall back on the fact that they have a big dick and they just lay there and do nothing or just ram it in thinking hurting a bottom is power topping which is total bullshit. 3.5inches is more than enough to reach a man's prostate and stimulate him to cum. Furthermore topping ain't just fucking, eating out your bottom, being verbal and giving commands are all aspects to being a good top and you ad that with fucking the shit out of a bottom you'll have them coming back for more. Just be yourself and be confident.

Can’t think of anything to add, i agree

[renovers82]

You can absolutely top, but it will take time before you get good. Remeber, most prostate massagers are relatively small.    Only 3 guys have been able to make me cum handsfree while bottoming.  One of those guys has a small dick (3 to 4”). He has me lie on my back and situates my hips in such a way where his cock hits my prostate perfectly - in some ways more intensely than a huge dick.  And because of his cock size, he can plow me almost indefinitely without causing pain.  Last time he fucked me, I had 3 organism without touching my dick once.   

Usually, when we fuck, I top.  He has a much smaller frame and it is fun to throw him around, but it is important he knows gets to fuck ass too.  Plus, he is so god damn good at it! 

Be prepared for some guys to make rude comments.  That’s okay.  Don’t be ashamed and never ask if you are too small - proudly own what God gave you.  

[find91]

23 hours ago, find91 said:

Topping is about attitude and knowing to how to use what God/Sarah Palin( depending on your perspective) gave you. It has very little to do with dick size. Being hung has it's benefits and draw backs same as being average size. A lot of hung guys fall back on the fact that they have a big dick and they just lay there and do nothing or just ram it in thinking hurting a bottom is power topping which is total bullshit. 3.5inches is more than enough to reach a man's prostate and stimulate him to cum. Furthermore topping ain't just fucking, eating out your bottom, being verbal and giving commands are all aspects to being a good top and you ad that with fucking the shit out of a bottom you'll have them coming back for more. Just be yourself and be confident.

That was suppose to be God/Sarah Palin ?? my phones auto correct got it right anyways LOL

[mblad99]

I know a guy who wants to bottom for the first time and you are exactly what he is looking for.  He wont let me fuck him because I have a  six inches.  Remember a bottom wants to please another man, I would put this in your profile, "Top with a comfortable dick wants to own an ass" and see where it goes.

[suckerboi]

I rarely top.  I enjoy getting fucked way too much.  I am about the same size as you.  I do occasionally top, though, and never had a problem fucking a guy.

[Pozlover1]

Sure

[melvin0095]

Sure you can top.   I have had several hung like your are.

To be honest, I would rather have a average or small dick, with a guy that has some idea how to top.  Rather than a lazy ass big dicked guy thinking his dick will get him by.

[gwmxyz]

If u were any nearer I’d volunteer if u wanted to make sure.

Like others have said, answer is of course (and offer stands if you find yourself in Hong Kong)...

[Sunovabesh]

Dude, I feel you.

When I was 18, I had the same problem. I was always obligated to be the bottom bitch. I have a 6 inch cock, and most guys that were around me were size-queen assholes who wanted a porn fantasy that would never happen. It really made me feel like crap, and took me some time to get confidence to see if I could even get ass.

However, I'm now 23 with a 49 year old marine boyfriend who loves being my bottom bitch. I went from sissy bottom twink to alpha young buck who makes older men fall into position. And it's amazing. I've talked to guys who are younger than me, and have the same issue. Hell, even have 1 inch cocks. And even with them, they became alphas. There's anal alphas, oral alphas, kink master, etc. You can do whatever you please. Just be confident and be comfortable with yourself. Though some pointer I'd advise are: go to the gym and learn to be funny. Do those 2 things, and guys will pay attention way easier, if you wanna begin somewhere.

[Samanthads]

being top is all about confidence not about size at all, use what you have baths saunas a good idea as bottoms usually ass up so wont see you 

[Guest STLjeffDadd]

Fuk yeah!  You rim my hungry hole and seed me Yur just fine, baby! 

[BearOKC69_Poz]

Don’t let the length or girth of your cock (or anything else) define what you like or enjoy. When I was younger and less chunky, I topped regularly with my below avg toilet paper tube sized cock (length & girth). Always presumed it was 5” to 6” then I measured a toilet paper tube. Not even close!  As I got older and chunkier I transitioned more to the bottom of things and embraced it. Not opposed to topping someone but the logistics can be a challenge. As a mostly bottom I run across all of these hung guys with monster cocks and they are complete bottoms!  I see it as a waste but they are following their one wants and needs. The gays here in Oklahoma tend to want the bottom to be hung for some reason. I can’t figure out why. So go for it!