Stealthing

[Leo177]

As a top, i have stealthed a woman before.

As a bottom, it would never happen since i only go after barebacking tops

[hungry_hole]

On 10/29/2025 at 1:59 AM, Leo177 said:

As a top, i have stealthed...

Stealthing doesn't have the same power it had in the 1990's, early 2000's, when anon loads were considered dangerous. Every time a dude left my room at the sauna I wondered if that cum I felt in my hole was the one that would poz me. 

[Spermchute]

I have to admit- I love the Bad Boys ☣️

[Guest Ronnie]

On 12/16/2025 at 2:12 PM, Spermchute said:

I have to admit- I love the Bad Boys ☣️

You / your profile Extremely HOT !  Stealthing - so Fucking HOT on videos - cutting tip or pulling Off !  Going to Happen - especially a party or sniffing poppers ! Imagining first steps developing a Whore - having them being Fucked Raw while Sucking Cocks - Power to Breeders !   more - more - videos ?

[PozToxVersPig]

I had this conversation last night with a buddy.  If we define "stealthing" as misleading the bottom that you're going do "safe only" or lying about your status, I'm not for this.  If it included not proactively telling them you're poz even though they don't ask, then that's not my problem and I have no issue not proactively declaring my HIV status.

I have stealthed a few times - one time was a pure grudge fuck because the bottom was a self-righteous asshole even though we still ended up fucking.

At any rate, it doesn't really do it for me.  I'd much prefer a bottom beg me for my poz cum emphatically while we're fucking, tell me about what a slut they are and how now they are a poz cumdump.  This gets me going.  This makes me want to shoot my load.  Watching and hearing them emphatically become a poz pig.

[PervBugChaser]

Before 2013, I played with condoms most time. I only had BB sex with my BF and some "trusted" regular FBs. But since I experienced BB sex and loved it, I did stealth some randoms guys too. Also got stealthed by some. One day I went to play with a guy at his place. He used condom. And I came back home. The next morning when I used toilet, I found out the condom left in my ass. I was kinda panic but also felt excited.

[Guest Ronnie]

1 hour ago, PozToxVersPig said:

I had this conversation last night with a buddy.  If we define "stealthing" as misleading the bottom that you're going do "safe only" or lying about your status, I'm not for this.  If it included not proactively telling them you're poz even though they don't ask, then that's not my problem and I have no issue not proactively declaring my HIV status.

I have stealthed a few times - one time was a pure grudge fuck because the bottom was a self-righteous asshole even though we still ended up fucking.

At any rate, it doesn't really do it for me.  I'd much prefer a bottom beg me for my poz cum emphatically while we're fucking, tell me about what a slut they are and how now they are a poz cumdump.  This gets me going.  This makes me want to shoot my load.  Watching and hearing them emphatically become a poz pig.

You are so FUCKING HOT - reading your Messages - wishing we were Neighbors - Oh Fuck Me !

[PozBearWI]

2 hours ago, PozToxVersPig said:

I had this conversation last night with a buddy.  If we define "stealthing" as misleading the bottom that you're going do "safe only" or lying about your status, I'm not for this.  If it included not proactively telling them you're poz even though they don't ask, then that's not my problem and I have no issue not proactively declaring my HIV status.

I have stealthed a few times - one time was a pure grudge fuck because the bottom was a self-righteous asshole even though we still ended up fucking.

At any rate, it doesn't really do it for me.  I'd much prefer a bottom beg me for my poz cum emphatically while we're fucking, tell me about what a slut they are and how now they are a poz cumdump.  This gets me going.  This makes me want to shoot my load.  Watching and hearing them emphatically become a poz pig.

I am finally breaking into being poz medicated, although Biktarvy causes my body some unhappy issues and I am in the process of transitioning over to Dovato.  If I were fucking someone this weekend; which most likely isn't going to happen anyway, I would have a risk discussion.  But once I am on meds and reliably undetectable, there is no benefit in disclosure.  When I do that I get all the bs of the fact I am poz and I am the least risky fuck.  So, why?

[PozToxVersPig]

1 minute ago, PozBearWI said:

I am finally breaking into being poz medicated, although Biktarvy causes my body some unhappy issues and I am in the process of transitioning over to Dovato.  If I were fucking someone this weekend; which most likely isn't going to happen anyway, I would have a risk discussion.  But once I am on meds and reliably undetectable, there is no benefit in disclosure.  When I do that I get all the bs of the fact I am poz and I am the least risky fuck.  So, why?

Yeah, you essentially also with stupid or uninformed people have to step in the role of educator and explain concepts like U=U, as an example.

The ultimate thing that disclosure affords you regardless of the status you are currently in is some protection against legal causes of action under HIV criminalization statutes.  In order for there to even be cause, the person would have to become positive/infected, and that it is provable it originated from you, and that you failed to disclose.

Because U=U, he will not become positive, so disclosure doesn't matter - as you astutely point out @PozBearWI! 🙂

[PozBearWI]

And one challenge of us poz guys being the educator are the host of folk who conclude we're lying and just trying to get into their pants and infect them.  

The sticker I had on my pickup truck back window read "you can't fix stupid, but you can numb it with a 2x4".  🙂