New Phenomenon during COVID

[bbzh]

If there is a market for a service, there is nothing shameful about sellers seeking payment. Certain market participants may not be willing to pay. That's fine. Some are. Well-endowed, bareback tops with a high sex drive are highly sought after so the way I see it, they shouldn't ever want for food, clothing or shelter. Sex is transactional these days anyway. I truly get not wanting to pay, but I don't get the part about shaming those who don't want to offer the service for free. Let's say I'm out salmon fishing, but not having any luck, and then a hot guy walks buy selling fresh, baked salmon....hmmm, come here boy 😂.

[tallslenderguy]

20 hours ago, Read1 said:

Hi, sexpigs! I would like to ask the wider community of sexpigs on Breeding Zone if they have come across this phenomenon during COVID. A little background is needed. I've only seen this with guys off Grindr. Since COVID began, sex is scare but it's still happening. I've run into guys wanting (extorting is more like it) money for sex from e. I thought (and am currently thinking) that sex should be free. I do live in Canada, a fairly prosperous country (part of the G7) with a good health system. This is a new phenomenon (it's happened on three different occasions for me while negotiating for sex) during COVID. I'm not about to shell out money each time for sex. Has this happened to anyone else?

i don't think i have ever hooked with anyone from Grindr, though i have the phone ap and have frequented it enough times.  From other discussions on this site, i've come to see hook up sites as regional. I.e., some aps are more used  or popular in one region the another. Maybe like a bar, guys go to where the guys are?  

Out of 1000's? of hook ups i can count on two hands the number of times i have been asked for money.  Like others have noted, doesn't seem any of us has a problem with someone selling sex, but being up front about it would be more professional. i guess i can see from the perspective of a guy wanting to avoid arrest or entrapment waiting till the last minute to mention money?  idk, that's a stretch for me because vice cops lie and use deceit to entrap, so it wouldn't seem a deterrent to me? 

Mostly, it just seems deceitful, trickery for the trick?  Personally, i'd rather go without than pay for sex.  For me, sex is more than physical, it's about shared mutual desire as well.  i really don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. Sex for money isn't about connection, it's about money.  Which is fine if all parties are informed and onboard, but paid sex is not for me. 

[blackrobe]

1 minute ago, tallslenderguy said:

i don't think i have ever hooked with anyone from Grindr, though i have the phone ap and have frequented it enough times.  From other discussions on this site, i've come to see hook up sites as regional. I.e., some aps are more used  or popular in one region the another. Maybe like a bar, guys go to where the guys are?  

Out of 1000's? of hook ups i can count on two hands the number of times i have been asked for money.  Like others have noted, doesn't seem any of us has a problem with someone selling sex, but being up front about it would be more professional. i guess i can see from the perspective of a guy wanting to avoid arrest or entrapment waiting till the last minute to mention money?  idk, that's a stretch for me because vice cops lie and use deceit to entrap, so it wouldn't seem a deterrent to me? 

Mostly, it just seems deceitful, trickery for the trick?  Personally, i'd rather go without than pay for sex.  For me, sex is more than physical, it's about shared mutual desire as well.  i really don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. Sex for money isn't about connection, it's about money.  Which is fine if all parties are informed and onboard, but paid sex is not for me. 

If the man's desire to fuck and breed isn't pure and authentic, if there's some other incentive, it ruins the connection and fuck for me. It makes it empty and sad, instead of fulfilling and joyous. YMMV.

[yngguy712]

it's sort of like when guys randomly start to call you sir. One day you encounter your older self it's like wham… I'm OLDDDDD.  :: faints ::

[boy4you]

6 hours ago, Read1 said:

The point to my story. I don't mind guys charging for sex on whatever site or app you meet them. If you like to pay for sex, please do so. But what got me, right before I was to give my contact info and address, they snuck in this statement, "Oh, by the way I charge $$$ for us hooking up!" When one side wants your money and the other side does not, this is trickery, and not a treat. Be upfront!

The key to being good is be up front what they are getting and how much. If they leave happy they will return and repeat clients is what’s it’s about. With the new rules of SESTA-FOSTA have how you can attract new clients. 

 

Today people are Desperate as they have lost their job and this is for all M, F Trans. SWers is a profession the ones who take pride in their work can do very well for a long time. You must be willing to change things up to what people are looking for. If you are going to do BDSM you better get a education in it as things can go side ways very easy fast. 

[bihairy]

7 hours ago, MuscledHorse said:

I have run into it on grindr and was already encountering it early last year. Real workers use rentmen and don't blindside people 10 minutes into a hookup conversation with money.  JaredEriksonXXX

I agree. I have had a few guys hit me up with "daddy breed me" and when we get to talking they ask for "Gas money" "tuition help" or ask if I can be "generous"   My answer is NO. I don't pay for sex. I don't need to.  If I did, it would be someone I could depend on to show up.

[bihairy]

4 hours ago, yngguy712 said:

it's sort of like when guys randomly start to call you sir. One day you encounter your older self it's like wham… I'm OLDDDDD.  :: faints ::

This happened to me.  One day I looked in the mirror and saw my DAD!  When did that happen????

As long as I can get it up and get it in, and breed my brains out....I'm happy.  And so many "sons" want daddy to fuck and breed them!  lol

[MuscledHorse]

8 hours ago, bihairy said:

I agree. I have had a few guys hit me up with "daddy breed me" and when we get to talking they ask for "Gas money" "tuition help" or ask if I can be "generous"   My answer is NO. I don't pay for sex. I don't need to.  If I did, it would be someone I could depend on to show up.

which is why real ones are on rentmen, where the guys are all verified and you can leave reviews...

[find91]

It's hard times a lot of students and people that can make ends meet have turned to sex work to survive. Look at how many new onlyfan accounts that have been created in the last couple of months. Canada we received assitance all through out the lockdown. Most countries gave none or very little. 

I personally would not pay for sex at this stage in my life, but I don't knock people that do. My main issue is hitting up people for money on hookup apps can come across as a bit dishonest since most guys are their for some form of "free" sex. It's better to advertise as a escort being upfront helps a lot. 

[drscorpio]

Moderator's Note: I had to hide a couple of posts that went a little too far. Make sure you look over these rules before you post again. I am sorry we have to be so strict on discussions about escorting. 

 

 

[viking8x6]

It does seem to be on the rise. My hypothesis is that the rise of the service economy and prevalence of really crappy jobs (e.g. working at Walmart) have shifted the cost/benefit curve, and simultaneously the proportion of the economic underclass that is on the internet has increased. But really, kids, if I were going to pay for sex, I'd have some pretty high standards for the product, you betcha. And somehow your sketchy ass profile doesn't make me think you're gonna meet them.

[CumBustion]

I have a transgendered friend who had to return to sex work because her hours were severely reduced at her regular job. I also know a couple of cis girls that worked in hostess bars that are now escorting because the bars closed down. 
 

I’m  seeing quite a bit more “escort” or “masseur” profiles on hookup sites like A4A. Corona is having deep impacts across all spectrums that will last even after the disease is under control.