To much Illegal talk on here

[Bibttmmiami]

16 hours ago, BareLover666 said:

How would you propose ending or stopping 'underage stuff' in real life when the subject is not talked about?

There's a serious thread on this site discussing legal age, what it is in various jurisdictions and including when two young people explore their sexuality together and how the law could strike a balance between defending children from abuse while not hindering the natural growing up to healthy adults. I'd like to invite you to find it, join in the discussing and add your 'two cents' there.

It's a difficult enough question without puritans declaring all sex under the age of 16, 18 or 21 [banned word] IMO.
The fact that different legal systems and jurisdictions set different age limits is both proof and a result of that struggle. 

It’s not the discussion of underage sex.  It’s the people on here that talk about it like it’s a good thing that bothers me  and by that I mean adults with minors.  

 

[wood]

13 hours ago, drscorpio said:

Moderator's Note: The only mentions of underage sex you should see are people discussing their own experiences when they themselves were underage, and even those should not be explicit or eroticized. If you see something beyond that, please report it. 

If someone is talking about committing rape in real life, you should also report that. Fantasy stories about sex with dubious or absent consent are allowed in the story sections; I get that you might find that distasteful, but you should probably just avoid those sections. 

We have a very small moderation staff and a huge volume of new posts every day. We need your help finding posts/threads that need attention. Please report the things you think are issues. 

Thank you drscorpio and Rawtop especially. 

The site is far from perfect but I also thing given the context of the site things are doing fairly well. 
 

I also fully approve of rawtops crackdown on some of the “fantasy” stuff a few months ago. 

 

[ErosWired]

19 minutes ago, Bibttmmiami said:

It’s not the discussion of underage sex.  It’s the people on here that talk about it like it’s a good thing that bothers me  and by that I mean adults with minors.  

By this I assume you are referring to the accounts given by members of their own experiences of being used sexually by adults when they were minors, and their claims that it was a positive formative experience for them or that they enjoyed it. It is difficult to know whether these accounts are all genuine, but if they are, the recounting of them is legitimate. Your or my sensibilities have no bearing on the validity of their lived experience.

[revemupman]

Illegal talk. Didn’t know free speech was illegal these days. Smh 

[SpectreAgent]

It seems rather odd to me that someone would join a site called Breeding Zone, which makes no bones about what is discussed, then clutch their pearls and reach for the smelling salts like some outraged Dowager Duchess when they read something they don’t like. I did 20 years in TV and whenever someone bleated about a show, I merely said “there are other channels and I’m assuming you don’t have one of those TV sets without an off button”.

Do I like every discussion on here? Of course not. Do one or two make me uncomfortable? Yes. But press gangs aren’t roaming the streets forcing anyone to read anything. So I do what most do and skip them. This site doesn’t have to pander to every member’s whim. I hate a lot of what is in the Daily Mail. But I still buy it because I like the showbusiness coverage. I pretty much dislike what Rupert Murdoch stands for but I’ve happily worked for his companies because principles don’t pay the rent (and most writers are socialists except when it comes to money).

And what do we mean by “illegal”? This site has members from across the globe. What is illegal in your country may not be in mine. There are some members on here who live in countries where it is illegal just to be gay. Do we deny them a voice?

For what it’s worth, I really enjoy this site and I think the moderators do a bloody good job. It isn’t perfect - no site is - but I do find this throwing toys out of the pram rather wearisome. 

 

 

Edited November 11, 2021 by RawPlug

[str8mature5]

On 11/9/2021 at 1:48 PM, viking8x6 said:

This site actually has excellent moderators and a seriously responsible webmaster/site owner. You might like to read the actual rules of the forum before dishing out criticism:
[think before following links] [think before following links] https://breeding.zone/topic/12285-read-this-before-you-post/
[think before following links] [think before following links] https://breeding.zone/topic/64867-read-this-significant-change-in-rules-effective-31/

Also, if no one reports a post that is against these rules, they have to read all of the posted content in order to catch it. They have lives outside the site, so that's an unreasonable demand on them (though they do read an amazing amount of it!).

Viking8x6 and BootmanLa hitit right on the head, This sit e may not be for you.

[Aidsbait]

What should be illegal is using the word “to” when you mean “too”. Bye bye Karen. xo

[BBArchangel]

It’s always amusing when someone comes onto a site like this - or any site, really - and starts prudishly demanding the content be tailored for their sensibilities only and if others don’t share those exact sensibilities, then they are “disgusting” or “offensive,” or often worse.  

Some things on here occasionally bother me, too, among them stories involving forced poz Ing or stealthing. I’m not too crazy about forced chem-use, either.  But stories are fiction - fantasies - and I make a conscious choice as sn adult to read them or skip them. But I don’t insist the writer “fuck off” and not write them or not post them for others.

I feel the same about the discussion topics. I make a choice which topics I follow. There have been a few that creep me out. They’re probably not the same ones that creep you out. But I make an adult choice to read, participate, or just skip them. Everyone on this site can make the same choices. Just don’t be a dick-head by criticizing people who make different choices than you do.

Civilization really is not going to crumble because of anything said on the Breeding Zone.

[DarkroomTaker]

Hasn't the weather been bad lately?

It has rained for almost 3 days. Tbh, I am starting to feel the cold of late.

I much prefer the summer months, when its nice and I can sit outside.

Snow coming in a couple of months, hope we get a good few inches,

[AirmaxUK]

6 hours ago, DarkroomTaker said:

Hasn't the weather been bad lately?

It has rained for almost 3 days. Tbh, I am starting to feel the cold of late.

I much prefer the summer months, when its nice and I can sit outside.

Snow coming in a couple of months, hope we get a good few inches,

Anyone got any good knitting patterns to swap? Although, remember to keep posts about Sewing & Macrame in the Hardcore S&M section or you'll get a warning for posting in the wrong section. 

[Bibttmmiami]

On 11/10/2021 at 11:09 PM, ErosWired said:

By this I assume you are referring to the accounts given by members of their own experiences of being used sexually by adults when they were minors, and their claims that it was a positive formative experience for them or that they enjoyed it. It is difficult to know whether these accounts are all genuine, but if they are, the recounting of them is legitimate. Your or my sensibilities have no bearing on the validity of their lived experience.

No I’m not. That would be valid and helpful to some. I’m talking about accounts where members talked about sex they had with minors. In some cases their own children, and other members praising them for it. That’s the shit that needs to go. That’s the shit I report. 

[SpectreAgent]

3 hours ago, AirmaxAndy said:

Anyone got any good knitting patterns to swap? Although, remember to keep posts about Sewing & Macrame in the Hardcore S&M section or you'll get a warning for posting in the wrong section. 

Is there a section on dog breeding?

I think my Jack Russell  could do with a mate.

[PupLucca]

Seems to me Breedingzone just isn’t fir you at all. Maybe it’s high time you delete your account and never return 

[EricX]

11 hours ago, DarkroomTaker said:

Snow coming in a couple of months, hope we get a good few inches,

First time I heard a gay man only wish for a few inches…

[backdoorjimmy]

On 11/9/2021 at 1:23 AM, Mcv69 said:

Makes me sick to my stomach this kind of behaviour on here I will probably leave this forum for good there is way to much talk about illegal issues involving under age and rape etc, this is wrong and it has now alignment on the way Gay men should act. Please fuck of with that sort of behaviour this page needs better moderators on here!! Fucking disgusted!  

While I don't totally agree with the original poster in general, I think this is a healthy discussion for us to have and I'm glad that @rawTOP and @drscorpio haven't locked the thread. People have their own experiences and their own traumas, and if talking about it helps them process it, then why not?

We're capable of discussing uncomfortable topics without fetishizing them. If something is over the top, it's okay to report the post or comment inside the post. Hell, I've even reported one of my own comments because it discussed a fetish that the admins have made it clear shouldn't be talked about (not rape or underage).