Give Verbal Or Stay Quiet When Being Fucked?

[evilqueerpig]

As a 50/50 vers, I find verbal is good for both parties.

[BlindRawFucker1]

I can get extremely verbal.

 

As soon as a tongue touches my hole, all of my switches are flipped.

 

Once inside, and I’m comfortable, I’m begging for harder, faster, deeper.

 

I’m almost embarrassed at times at my reactions.

 

Whether topping or bottoming, I do want some verbal feedback from my partner.

 

I hate hearing a bottom groaning and moaning with every thrust.

 

If any top doesn’t like my reaction to him fucking me, he is more than welcome to move on.

[PozTalkAuthor]

6 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

To me, verbal, or any sounds that come out of me, are a response to the Man i am with, not the other way around.  

i sucked a Mans cock about a week ago, and He was incessant with verbal.   i have experienced incessant verbal with a Top before, and it was one of the most profound connections i have ever had, but with this Guy, it was interfering with the connection. The difference?  The Man i connected with was real, all His verbal was a real expression of what He was feeling and experiencing, the one who disconnected was trying to hard, he was doing what he thought would be hot, effective, but it was contrived vs a real expression of where he was at, what he was feeling. 

i think verbal or sounds that we make, are tools to communicate, not to imitate some porn scene or some imagined event we want vs the one we are currently experiencing. 

As an aside, sometimes the words that come out are nonsensical, especially if the sex connection is really good, brain gets overloaded and what comes out of the mouth is word salad lol. 

i think imitation begging from a bottom, or imitation instruction from a Top, are both obnoxious and counter productive. But when they are expressions of what One/one is truly feeling and experiencing at the time, i think it is part of the fuck and connection and i'm glad when it's expressed.

As I have said elsewhere, reality and porn must not be confronted... It's like comparing a real relationship to the prince-princess in fairy tales. No way! As a versatile guy, I prefer verbal both as top and as bottom, I don't specify more because from my displayname anyone can guess; so, from my experience I say that the intensity of verbal depends on how confident I am with the person; when I was with some fuckbuddies who did not know my status, I was mostly quiet and -as top at least- I found sex quite boring; of course the experience I have now, with the love of my life, it's completely different.

Anonymous sex or with unknown partners? I'm not much into it, but if it ever happens, I don't think I'd be verbal. 

And I admit, I've learnt the importance of being more verbal, when I met a blind person; no sex with them as I'm talking about just a friend, but confront and confidence with them, opened a completely new world to me. Including to turn people on by writing dirty messages LOL

[LetsPOZBreed]

8 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

i think verbal or sounds that we make, are tools to communicate, not to imitate some porn scene or some imagined event we want vs the one we are currently experiencing. 

6 hours ago, hntnhole said:

In the backrooms/fuckjoints, there are always grunts, groans of pure, Lustful pleasure, and (depending on the Top's skills), some bottoms can almost start speaking in tongues - but definitely not in the babbling usually associated with that ridiculous contrivance.  

Both of these nail it.  I want my sounds to come naturally; if I'm getting railed good, I just moan like crazy - not because I want to, but it's my body's natural reaction to a good pounding.  It's basically reflexive; I'm not really "trying" to do it, it just happens.  So, if I'm going from that to more structured verbal play, I need to be guided...I need someone to respond to in kind.  Otherwise, it just comes across as just doing what I want and taking control of my top, which is certainly not in my nature.

On the flip side of that, I want my top to make me desire him...if a guy just goes straight into dirty talk without any build-up, then it is off-putting to me.  I want to earn that level of connection, and going straight into it just seems like jumping the gun.

[VersGuyAnon]

8 hours ago, tighthole64 said:

At a bath you are simply a hole to fill.  I've never heard anyone be verbal in a public area of a bath.

Now at home in a bed, totally different.   Yes you are still a hole, but more likely to get the load.  Way too many at baths just want to edge in your ass and not breed it seems.

I have to say I love the idea of just being a hole to use. Basically because I figure it's true and it hopefully makes everyone happy. I'm finding more and more that guys will fuck throughout the day but save the breeding until later in the session, just before they're planning to head home. That suits me, as long as I get enough raw cocks in me earlier to open me up for lots of loads later. 

[VersGuyAnon]

2 hours ago, LetsPOZBreed said:

Both of these nail it.  I want my sounds to come naturally; if I'm getting railed good, I just moan like crazy - not because I want to, but it's my body's natural reaction to a good pounding.  It's basically reflexive; I'm not really "trying" to do it, it just happens.  So, if I'm going from that to more structured verbal play, I need to be guided...I need someone to respond to in kind.  Otherwise, it just comes across as just doing what I want and taking control of my top, which is certainly not in my nature.

On the flip side of that, I want my top to make me desire him...if a guy just goes straight into dirty talk without any build-up, then it is off-putting to me.  I want to earn that level of connection, and going straight into it just seems like jumping the gun.

Very well put

[tighthole64]

14 hours ago, VersGuyAnon said:

I have to say I love the idea of just being a hole to use. Basically because I figure it's true and it hopefully makes everyone happy. I'm finding more and more that guys will fuck throughout the day but save the breeding until later in the session, just before they're planning to head home. That suits me, as long as I get enough raw cocks in me earlier to open me up for lots of loads later. 

Very true.  Most loads at a bath come late at night.  Sadly I usually work at 6am and nearest bath is like 30+ minutes away, so don't stay late.  I'm OK with just edging in ass also.  Also found that once seededed, more guys love to add their loads!

[hntnhole]

18 hours ago, LetsPOZBreed said:

it just happens

It's supposed to "just happen" - completely natural, not contrived, and a response to feeling that magical "connection" with not only the Cock, but the Man himself.  That kind of music comes from deep within your soul, your Lusts, without any extraneous prompting.  It's the mark of a Top's skill inducing that response, and the bottom's receptivity to repeating the acts his sexual nature requires, over and over and over again.  Thanks for the response. 

[hntnhole]

On 2/2/2023 at 7:45 AM, tallslenderguy said:

i think verbal or sounds that we make, are tools to communicate

^ this.  That's exactly why the aural quotient to a Breeding can make it a very special conjoining of the two into One.  When a bottom groans with pleasure at the right moment, I know I'm giving him the best fuck I can.  I don't particularly like when they lie there like a dead fish.  I love the feedback when it's genuine - not so much if it's contrived.  

Communication generally precedes the ultimate "Connection", and both can be expressed clearly by tuning into the aural sounds of offering submission/accepting Possession.  It can be soul-thrilling when it's real.  

[VersGuyAnon]

Off to the sauna today for what I hope will be a busy day taking raw cock and loads!

Based on the above, I'll play it by ear, but occasionally beg for it. Let's see what happens :-). 

[likaleather]

I love verbal.  I like tops that say what they are going to do and what I am going to do.  "You are going to lay back and take my dick and when I'm ready to load you up, you are going to take it."  Real honest communication that is dirty and real is great.   I love verbal scenes.  Tim Tyler is one of the best "talkers" I've seen.  Even as a bottom, he taunts the top to do more.  Sexy AF

[downtownswallow]

When the cock slides in my words come out.  I've always been a vocal fuck and can't remember too many Tops that found it distracting.

[VersGuyAnon]

Back to the sauna tomorrow. I'll play by ear, but if a top's been in a while I'll definitely beg for him to load me up.