Versatility: a turn-on or a turn-off?

[mancuntt]

I am total bottom.That is what i enjoy but i don't mind getting fucked by fellow hot bottom.

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

As long as they fuck me, I don't care if they're vers.

[seaguy]

When your versatile you get more so I don't see how that vcould be a turn off.  To me as a vers guy nothing is more of a turn off than being stuck with a dude who is a total bottom and I want to get fucked.

[Mayhem]

I never make it a requirement, but I think being versatile is the ideal way to go, for obvious reasons: more options! Nothing hotter than breeding a guy's ass good and then having him flip you over and filling your hole too!

[DesertChaos]

I totally relate to the OP... As I find establishing a knowing the guy I'm with is a true blue total bottom.   I'll fuck a vers guy as long as he knows I'm top only, and he has to be my bottom bitch... but those are usually one-off encounters, whereas when I find a real total bottom (one's that ignore their cocks, stay limp while getting fucked, wear jock straps while we fuck), those guys I like to fuck on a regular ongoing basis.   They gotta enthusiastically love servicing my cock and getting their cunts fucked hard/long and live for having me breed them....   That said, I do have a couple of like-minded top buddy's that I'll share/tag team a bottom(s) with, but we only play if we have a bottom lined up.   So I'm with you, give me a total bottom over a vers guy any day!! 

[JimmyWhackers]

I hate versatile guys.

I'm a switcher myself. I love to either be dominant and use a bottom like a cheap slut with my monster cock, or I like to be treated like nothing more than a cum dump to a top.

When a guy wants to fuck me and suck me, or bottom for me and have me suck him, it completely turns me off.

[Davidc]

I’m in to total bottoms,who are just in to getting fucked

[Guest Cumlaut]

Well, a lot of people can't really choose to be versatile can they. If you have a tiny dick you're a submissive bottom and nothing else.

Surely it's a bigger turnoff if a guy has a big tool but chooses to only be a bttm slut. Or at least an annoyance. Slutty submissive bttms are hot an total tops can be hot if they alpha enough.

Versatility is hot because it gives me more options, duh. No point having a pre-set rule against using your own tool.

[Guest]

On 7/15/2018 at 9:10 PM, DesertChaos said:

I totally relate to the OP... As I find establishing a knowing the guy I'm with is a true blue total bottom.   I'll fuck a vers guy as long as he knows I'm top only, and he has to be my bottom bitch... but those are usually one-off encounters, whereas when I find a real total bottom (one's that ignore their cocks, stay limp while getting fucked, wear jock straps while we fuck), those guys I like to fuck on a regular ongoing basis.   They gotta enthusiastically love servicing my cock and getting their cunts fucked hard/long and live for having me breed them....   That said, I do have a couple of like-minded top buddy's that I'll share/tag team a bottom(s) with, but we only play if we have a bottom lined up.   So I'm with you, give me a total bottom over a vers guy any day!! 

I'm vers and love a good flip fuck BUT I can switch with a moment's notice to a total top or total bottom bitch for a hot guy like you desertchaos :).  Saturday night I was on bbrt looking for a vers situation (hopefully group), but a repeat HUNG top guy hit me up saying "looking".  An hour later I was his bitch in heat with my ass in a jock, cock trapped inside.   I can usually get fucked with just spit for lube, but needed a little to get started due to his size.  For over an hour he power fucked me any position he wanted......I never touched my cock (was too hard - I might cum).  He bred me on my back, eye to eye while I begged for his load.  I could have cum at any point, but was loving the fuck so much I didn't even care about cumming....even after he was done.  After 30 mins of pillow talk he asked if I wanted to get off......seemed like I should for his ego, so he stuck his cock back in me and I shot in a minute or two.  He has a 9" hung buddy he mentioned, and I plan to be spit roasted by them both very soon.  I was farting out cum for a couple hours Sunday morning, and I'd love to be even more sloppy with two of them using me!!!  Last night I went and bred this sex addict cumdump I do pretty regularly, so I can flip either way based on the situation and other guy/s..  I LOVE being vers   put me in the middle of a train fuck and I'm in heaven!!

[Read1]

Being versatile I find is SO hot! Trying to figure who's versatile at bb sex parties or Steamworks is a lot of FUN! It's so easy to spot 100% tops and 100% bottoms. Jutsexnowatl, I agree with you 150%. WOOF! OINK!

[bihairy]

I think its cool.  Love when guys fuck and then get plowed.  Its cool to have a vers guy in the middle.  I'm a Top and have tried Bottom.  Really hated it. Kept thinking I'm missing something since so many guys love bottom.  But I accept that I'm a Top Slut and love sliding my dick inside ass. I was born this way..hehe

[rawsatyr]

When I look at porn or the internet and apps and tumblr I notice a polarization towards two stereotypes that get too much focus: one is the self-appointed arrogant ALPHA top who uses language that degrades (often erotically) bottoms into 'just-a-hole', a cliche many bottoms embrace. The other is of course the BOTTOM ONLY type of guy with his insatiable hole.

But there are many levels in between: there are very aggressive POWER-BOTTOMS who take charge and may ride the cock to the point that some 'alphas' get intimidated... then there are versatile guys who may favor being the bottom but get so excited by a certain TYPE of dude (typically inked and pierced) that they suddenly turn the tables on him. I do that some times.

A lot of the role play in gay sex comes from hyped-up, steroided-out, male-chauvinist attitudes. "The bitch better lay back and let me get his rocks off!" A reach-around to those kind of sexist missionary old-timers is not even part of the program. Arrogance and looking down on the 'lesser sex' is part of either their genetic make-up or their defective upbringing! Some bottoms accordingly just lay there and get off on being degraded, laying there like a sack of beans, listless and un-involved like cum receptacles. Don't get me wrong; I LOVE guys you boldly profess: "I'M a CUM-DUMPSTER!" But he better have some finesse and don't just lay there all limp-dicked and methed out getting fucked like a corpse. Or the kind of bottom so insatiable that while taking dick he is already on his I-phone already looking on grindr for the next dick. Well actually, that has turned me on before...

The lamest attitude towards VERSATILE guys I ever observed was a tragic guy on GAY.com (when we all still used it) He was looking for TOTAL TOPS ONLY, apparently seeing himself as some kind of a 'lady', a 'true bottom' and thus some kind of a superior sexual purist! Any guy admitting to be 'versatile' was dismissed as THRASH by him. Apparently (from what I gathered) he believed that having bareback sex with TOTAL TOPS made him the CLEANER, more respectable version of 'the gay'. What a cartoon character that queen was! There may be SOME MERIT to the logic of risk reduction. Not that any of us care, lol! And some ASSUME total tops are MORE MASCULINE because they act more like STRAIGHT MEN!? But the sexist hypocrisy of all his thinking was mind-boggling archaic and judgmental. 

Personally, after having overcome all the hurdles of fear and loathing I have embraced the life-style of TOTAL PROMISCUITY! Keeping myself open to play as many characters as possible: catcher, pitcher, voyeur, fluffer or whatever! Yes, total tops are hot as long as they do bareback! But the biggest thrill TO ME comes from guys who are not afraid, hesitant or reluctant to take it up the ass and then after getting loaded with DNA proceed to bang the first properly-positioned cum-dumpster in the sling. In my mind I have taken the whole thing even further. I LOVE porn where the big-dicked top has a GAPING fuck-hole, proving he takes cock. Even better when the top's hole is wet and jizzed. I told one of my versatile champ-buddies that NEXT TIME he gets loaded by 8 or so strangers, to cum over here, let me use the anon cum in his slobbering hole as lube to fuck me with! Now that is a thrill-ride, embracing TOTAL PROMISCUITY! 

[ConversionPerv]

3 hours ago, bihairy said:

I think its cool.  Love when guys fuck and then get plowed.  Its cool to have a vers guy in the middle.  I'm a Top and have tried Bottom.  Really hated it. Kept thinking I'm missing something since so many guys love bottom.  But I accept that I'm a Top Slut and love sliding my dick inside ass. I was born this way..hehe

Heh. You had me at "bisexual" "hairy" "top".

[ChainedBoy]

On 8/6/2011 at 1:45 PM, Deaner said:

I don't care if a guy is 50/50, 80/20 or 99/1 on his own time. But if I'm looking for a top, I want him to be all top for my play date with him. If I'm looking for a bottom, he'd better be able to pretend he doesn't even HAVE a cock for the next couple hours.

I couldn't have said it better, Deaner. 

[BlindRawFucker1]

Versatile is the best of both worlds.

 

I don't want a bottom who says he's a sub and the top "owns" his hole while using it.

 

I don't want a top who feels he "owns" my hole while using it.

 

I would feel absolutely dirty if a btm told me I "owned his hole.  And, no one will "own mine.

 

Vers is fun.