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My gangbangs will only be for neg bottoms. But the afternoon sessions will be for everyone as will the cum exchange. Let's have you bottom at one or more of my gangbangs.

What's FFA/CAC? I'm depending on you to give some loads to my neg bottoms!!! Don't be a total bottom that weekend

Glad to hear you'll be there. I see you're into fisting. Would love to fist you at some point that weekend - only done it once and need more experience.

Just to follow up, I'm going to start by contacting BarebackJimmy, TignerMilner, VersMetroPig, WantToBeSeeded, and one writer HungLatinDom recommended. I need to discuss things with them and see where things go...

As most of you know, I'll be at MAL (Mid-Atlantic Leather) January 11-14 in Washington DC. I'll update this post with details of what I'll be organizing for you guys... Wrist Bands I've purchased 200 wristbands so you guys can find each other easily. Just stop by my room at MAL to pick up your armband (they're free to all who ask until they run out). They're light blue, and they glow (green) in the dark so you can find each other even when you're bent over in a dark room... I know the hanky code says that color is for cocksucking, but it's the closest I could come to navy blue (which is for fucking). I figured the glow-in-the-dark aspect was more important than having the absolute perfect color. Plus, most of you suck cock - so the color is still appropriate. [White would have meant jackoff (boring), pink would have meant dildos, and green would have meant prostitute/john, and I'm not sure what clear would have implied.] So basically the idea is to create an identifiable Bareback Brotherhood at MAL (to use iBlastInside's term). They will be guys who are there to fuck. The wristbands let you cut through the crap and get straight to the point. See a fellow brother in the hall and you can just point at the wristband and say "fuck me" or "want a load?". The idea is that members of the brotherhood are never rude to each other. So you can approach without fear of rejection. It may not work out, but they'll be polite about it. Given that MAL's an event that puts a wristband on you when you pay the entrance fee, people probably won't even think twice that you have another wristband on. They've got BREEDING ZONE debossed on them, but you have to get pretty close to the wristband to read the words. Following the hanky code, bottoms will wear theirs on the right, tops will wear theirs on the left. If you're vers you'll just switch sides based on your mood. I'll give two wristbands to poz unmedicated tops and neg bottoms - so you can tell those guys when you see them wearing two. Gangbangs I'll be hosting a number of gangbangs. All the bottoms at the gangbangs will be neg (but "poz-friendly"). If you're a neg bottom who will be there - hit me up and I'll have you at one or more of the gangbangs. Here's my tentative gangbang schedule: After Work Gangbang - Thursday, 1/10 from 5:30 - 7pm (this is the night before MAL starts and aimed at DC area tops who are going home from work). Friday from 8:30 to 10pm (the night most guys arrive at MAL) Saturday from 7:30 to 9 Sunday from 7:30 to 9 Morning Wood / Last Chance Gangbang - Monday from 8am to 10:30 (as people are packing up and leaving the hotel) Afternoon Fuck Sessions Saturday and Sunday afternoons I'll be hosting informal groups in my room from 1:30 to about 4:30 - basically places where barebackers can hangout and fuck. This is new for me - so I'll have to see how it goes. My goal is just to have a low-key sex party. No drugs will be allowed (but you can do them before you come as long as you're not too tweaked when you arrive). I will start being selective and ask guys to leave if there are too many guys there or if the vibe starts getting too intense and crazy (I don't want my room trashed). The MAL Cum Exchange The idea is to multiply the number of loads guys take exponentially by having bottoms share their loads. So when you have an ass full of cum you use a funnel to dump some/most of that cum into someone else's ass. If a top fucks a bottom that load could wind up 3 or 4 guys as they pass the loads from one guy to the next. If you're a top who doesn't want to get fucked, but wants cum in your ass - this is a great way to take loads. So bring a funnel to MAL or stop by my room and use one of mine. Urinal Service My friend PortaUrinal will be at many/most of my events. So drink up before coming to the gangbangs. He can drink from the tap, or you can piss into his portable urinal. If you're a piss bottom and want to cover the events he can't attend, let me know. Twitter I encourage all of you who attend to get on Twitter. I have the account @MALBareback. Any thread you start in the MAL forum here will have it's title tweeted within 30 minutes or so to that account. But it's also a good idea to use @MALBareback in your tweets - though don't make it the first word since Twitter interprets that as a direct message that's semi-public and hides it in other people's streams. So watch this thread for more on what we're doing at MAL...

yeah, sounds good... hit me up closer to the event and we'll figure out which gangbangs i'll have you bottom at.

Unless you're taking loads for hours on end, the bulb is probably sufficient. A regular shower shot will get you cleaned out faster, but going deep can be counter productive in most scenarios since the water comes out at the worst possible time unless you give it a long time before you get fucked.

The bottom is spdtalentthrill9 on BBRT - a sk8r twink. He was one of the bottoms at my MAL gangbangs 2 years ago. He freaked out a bit a bit and left early after only getting a few loads. But since then he's realized he should have stayed. He's been taking loads, but is still testing neg.

I got mine a day or two ago. I got the small, but I'm finding it's not as flexible as I thought it would be and my dick is a little big for it. I can get my dick in, but it's a little too tight, a little too rough on my dick (and that's not even with the pressure a bottom's hole would add). I'm thinking I'll have to get the medium. If you wind up wanting the smaller one, I'll swap with you...

OUCH!!! Was his metal or rubber? Or did the force of the water do it? Was he high at the time (so he didn't feel the pain)?

I'm thinking of buying a deep cleaning nozzle for my shower shot. At MAL this year I'll be whoring out a neg bottom all weekend - so I want to clean him out as much as possible so he can go for 8-10 hours at a stretch without having to worry about shit. Fort Troff has two nozzles that I'm considering. I'm wondering which you guys think is better... There's the 15" Ass Blaster which looks like it throws water in a bunch of directions, which I'd think would be good... And then there's the 18" Standard Design, which I presume shoots straight... Any idea which would be better? Have you guys used either one?

I got sidetracked. It's still an important item on my to do list. I'm hoping to get something up in the next 6 months or so. Because of cost and Apple's "family friendly" policies for their app store what I come up with will be web based.

Just the opposite problem here - they have two entries for the same place - so half the guys are under "Manhattan" and the other half under "New York". I've tried multiple times to explain the problem to PigMaster (even in person), but he just doesn't get it... I finally just gave up, and from what I've heard PigMaster isn't running it anymore - though they still have a profile with his pics up... I don't get that one at all...

It's in Edit Profile under Settings...

Settings (top right) -> Edit Profile -> Instant Messaging

I should mention that Drake Rock is closing down at the end of the year. It's too bad. He had some hot videos on there, but he was so conflicted about bareback. He did it, then he stopped, then he went back to it, and now he's stopping everything...

The other day I was being a bit nerdy and watching TED Talks on my Roku and I came across this talk... http://www.ted.com/talks/ben_goldacre_battling_bad_science.html Basically, because of a profit driven business model, pharma companies regularly suppress research. In fact sometimes most of the research on some drugs is suppressed and only positive studies are released. As a result, evidence-based medicine is impossible since doctors are not given the information they need to make informed decisions. So when a pharma company pushes early and aggressive treatment of a highly profitable drug (ARVs), when they push the idea that people who aren't sick should take those same drugs (PrEP), and when doctors blindly follow "thought leaders" who are being paid by those drug companies - you have to ask whether it's healthy for you to follow your doctor's advice and agree to aggressive treatment.

Sorry I haven't taken action on finding writers yet. It's on my list for next week. Don't see any other significant obstacles - so if you've contacted me about it, I'll probably get back to you next week.

I hate dirty holes, but accidents happen.

If they're someone you'd hookup up anyway, and the money/gifts come without strings - why not take it? The whole image/dignity thing is just in your head. Just change how you look at it and let them do their thing and say thank you with money/gifts. That said, I do know where you're coming from. I escorted for 9 months many years ago when I was in grad school. I needed the money and selling my body was the easiest and least disruptive way for me to get the extra cash I needed. It did fuck with me. Because I needed the money by the end of it I didn't feel like my body belonged to me anymore and I was more detached when I had sex - I felt obligated to perform how they wanted me to perform. That's why I say forget about the money - have sex the way you want to have it. But if, at the end of that, they want to give you money - why not? Now if they think they're buying a boyfriend - that's different... BTW, not all the johns are creepy old men. Quite a few are attractive 40-something businessmen who are just too busy to spend hours online only to have things fall through.

Yeah, I'll be videotaping at least some of the cum swapping... Will you guys be at MAL?

Unfortunately NYC doesn't have decent bathhouses. When I'm in a city that does have them I basically hunt for sluts. I'll usually try out a bottom's hole if he's ass up in his room. Lighting-wise, the room should be light enough to show the basics, but generally pretty dim. When walking around, be assertive, but not aggressive. Pause a second at a top's door to give him the chance to say 'no'. Then proceed in and get to work sucking his dick, etc. In public areas of the bathhouse (dark rooms, mazes, etc.) again be assertive but not aggressive. Make it crystal clear you want the guy without being a nuisance.

I'd guess that men are genetically programmed to have a wandering eye. In an evolutionary sense it helps to have genetic variation. I've even heard someone go as far to say that the normal state for human reproduction is for the woman to take loads from multiple guys and have the sperm compete to impregnate her. That might be a stretch, but don't underestimate biological programming - it's powerful.

I can never understand why some guys feel the need to be completely naked when they fuck. Sometimes it's completely understandable, but if the room is cold or it's a pump-n-dump, or a gangbang with a line of tops - getting naked just doesn't make sense.

Feel free to add the events to the calendar here on the site... People lie about their status all the time