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I'm quite happy to let other tops break them back in first. If it's too much like work getting into a hole, that's an easy pass!

💯 x 💯! I tell people all the time, "I was a Boy Scout. So I've done the whole sleeping on the ground in a tent thing and don't ever have to do it again!" Although with climate change and natural disasters, I may have to modify that to be "don't ever have to willingly do it again!"

I was a Boy Scout long enough to earn 8-12(?) merit badges. If anything untoward happened, I have zero memory of it. Considering other history of mine that I've divulged on BZ, if something untoward had happened, I might have instigated it and definitely wouldn't have been adverse to it. So I can only guess that nothing untoward ever happened to me while I was a Boy Scout. For anyone who was a Boy Scout and had something untoward happen that you didn't want, I hope you have been able to achieve some level of healing and acceptance that something was done to you that you did not want or deserve. Acceptance is not forgiveness though! Whether or not the person who did something untoward to you continues to exist on this plain, I hope you hold the organization that protected that person accountable! 💜💜💜💜💜

The better kisser the bottom is, the better top I am..... Guy I hooked up with last weekend for the first time told me afterward that I made him love kissing again. And he was a good enough kisser that I gave him two loads in fairly rapid succession. And even though he's a bottom who prefers his dick be ignored by the top, I did note (and he commented later) that he was precumming when I was making love to him and kissing him.

Only just noticed that the embedded link I included got stripped out. Weird. Let's try this - [think before following links] https://www.holidayinsights.com/moreholidays/may/national-outdoor-intercourse-day.htm

Searching for something else, I came across National Outdoor Intercourse Day! 🤯 For those who enjoy getting it on out in the open, you have your own special day to do so!

Back when I was a bottom, there was this guy whose name I think was Bill. Top. Thick 8" cut and knew how to use it. But randomly while fucking he would pull out (still hard) and put two fingers me. I kid you not, it felt like he was doing a goosestep in my hole! Then he would fuck some more. If he only did that once in a session? It might've been alright. But it was multiple times a session. That was 25-30 years ago, and I can't stand to be fingered to this day! 😖

I joke that I come from "promiscuous genes." I was my father's 6th child by the 4th woman, and he was only 25 when I was born. My mother had her 1st child at 16 and me at 21. My earliest "sexual" memory is in nursery school at 5 or 6 with a boy of the same age. There were two toilets in the bathroom, so it wasn' unusual for two kids to be in there together. We must've done whatever we needed to do and my memory is of us with pants and underwear at our ankles and grinding our crotches together. So I knew at a very early age that I liked "outies" and not "innies"... Had I been heterosexual, I'm sure I would've had more children by more women than my father did. I was 11 when I had my first ejaculation. Had that been with a "fertile" girl instead of a boy, I could've been a father by the time I was 12. Had I passed those "promiscuous genes" on, I could be a great-great-great-grandfather right now, and I'll be 59 this year. 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

Which is stronger? Your love for your BF or your lust for his brother? Not devastating your BF or fucking his brother? That should inform how you proceed. Most "dumb animals" have enough sense not to 💩 where they eat and sleep. Homo Sapiens Sapiens isn't always that smart.... Fantasize to the ends of the Earth! I won't fault you for that. But do you really want to potentially destroy two relationships (yours with your BF and your BF's relationship with his brother) by acting on a fantasy? Best case scenarios, you either nail the brother and he keeps it quiet or the three of you have the best 3ways imaginable. Worst case scenario, everything crashes and burns around you. I'm a pretty low-risk person, so I know which option I'd choose. Do you?

Society will tell you that you need to be this, that or the other. YOU can be (or not be) whatever you want to be (or not be)! You may or may not be gay. You may be nonbinary. You may be polyamorous or asexual. Or you may just be YOU without any of the labels that society tries to impose upon you! Sorry to hear about your friend. It sounds like he was murdered instead of he just died? You have every right to miss your friend and to be mad at whoever caused your friend's life to end. There is no expiration date on grief, so you should grieve as long as you need to. But don't let missing him or being angry at someone else stop you from moving on! I would guess that he wouldn't want that for you. I wish I could reach through the internet and give you multiple hugs. But since I can't, I'll send them electronically! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

💯 x 💯!!!!! WAIT! I'm not old enough to be your.... OH 🤬🤬🤬!!!!! I AM! And with the promiscuous genes from which I'm descended, I'm actually old enough to be your grandfather. But we WON'T go there! 😜😁🤣

I know I'm in the minority, but I prefer the hole as hairy or smooth as genetics intended. So, if one is naturally smooth, that's fine. But if one is naturally hairy, the hole should be hairy.

I've fucked a self-identified straight guy who refers to his hole as a pussy and likes to have it fisted.

I haven't bottomed in a dog's age, but when I did bottom, the length was less important than the overall package.... If he kissed well or was hairy or found and worked my (secret) weak spot, the length was much less important to me. THAT said, a top with DDD (Double Digit Dick) made me discover in my mid(?)-30's that I have a "Good Spot" that's about 9.5" deep. It's a pleasure/pain spot where if you touch that ONE MORE TIME, I'm going to kill you! And if you don't KEEP ON touching it, I'm going to kill you! I've only had two men who were able to touch that spot.... All that said, when I did bottom, I was a size queen who didn't care about size! 😜 Part of me belived that "It's not the length of the wand, but the magic in the stick that counts the most!" The other part of me believed that, "In a water fight, I'd rather have a garden hose than a water pistol...." So, one has to determine for oneself what brings the most pleasure - depth, skill, load, overall experience, other factors, or some combination of the above....

Man musk is a great aphrodisiac. Give me that over cologne every time. And sex funk smell that comes from hours of fucking is also intoxicating.

Some feet I will play with, others I won't. It's really a case by case basis.... I like making a man moan from whatever I may happen to be doing to him. There are lots of errogenous zones in the feet, and most men have never had them worked before. So I like introducing a man to a sensitive area on his body that he may not be aware of or that may not see much attention. And hairy feet, especially hairy toes, turn me on for a reason that I have yet to be able to explain. Feet that I otherwise wouldn't be interested in? If they're hairy, I'm all over them!

I would fuck Jayson Park all day, every day and even harder/longer if other tops got there before me. But he seems to have a sock fetish, as I have never seen him get fucked without socks on! Now, OTOH, for me personally, if my feet get cold, my whole body is cold! So if I'm with a bottom and I know foot play is off the table, I will leave my socks on, especially if he leaves his on! I fairly regularly have sex with this bottom who pretty much only knows two words when we're together - FUCK! and SHIT! Whether I'm kissing him, licking him, sucking him or fucking him, those are his two reactions. While I agree that "Fuck, yeah" can sound forced, in his case I know those are genuine reactions and I'm OK with them. If I watched porn and that's all the bottom uttered, I actually wouldn't be that bothered cause I tend to watch porn with the sound low so that I don't have to be bothered with inanities.... 1,000,000%!!!!!! Even if I'm not going to work a bottom's feet, they need to be clean! Or keep your socks on! 🤪😜😝

I 😍 friends with benefits! But not all of my gay friends fall into that category. And I honestly wouldn't want all of them too.... I wholeheartedly agree with this! Understanding that I'm making generalities, gay men seem to be able to separate sex from love more than non-gay people do.

Agreed. I tell bottoms who are worried about whether or not they're cleaned out enough that if it happens, no big deal. I have a hookup in the shower and they can refresh if needed. Then we can pick up where we left off. BUT that is different from what I think the OP was talking about - someone who hadn't cleaned out (well enough or at all). I don't fuck anything I haven't eaten first. And if my nose and tongue get down there and it doesn't appear to be properly cleaned? There won't be any eating or fucking.

I mostly hook up through online sites as opposed to anonymous situations. ALL of my profiles state bareback. If a bottom hit me up but wanted me to fuck him with a condom? No. Not sorry! And I don't care how many boxes you may check for me. I would rather fuck a bottom bareback who checked zero other boxes for me than to fuck a bottom with a condom who checked every box for me.

Of course you can give your nephew whatever gift you want! That's between your nephew and you. If his dad doesn't like it, too bad. I agree that a phone would be more practical than an iPad at that age. You don't mention it, but assuming you are out to your brother, what is your relationship with him like? Can you talk to your brother or will that just inflame the situation? As others have said, let your nephew know you're there for him. As you've "been there, done that" have you discussed your experiences with him?

He woke up this morning with a cough and a slight fever. At home COVID test came back positive, so no playing today. 😒 And I have a 5-day load I was going to surprise him with too. Oh well. Guess it'll get added to my container in the freezer. We'll reschedule when he's better.

I used to be a moderator on a site that no longer exists. My "pay" for 30+ hours of work each week on top of my real job? A free paid membership, which amounted to $30 a year. And for that I got to deal with lots of special snowflakes who thought they were the only special snowflake and therefore the rules shouldn't apply to them. 🙄 I'm sure I got called a bully more than once. And whenever someone complained about an action I had taken, I directed them to the site owner as, more often than not, I was just enforcing the rules the site owner had set. I was never told to undo an action I had taken, but might've been told, "I would've handled that differently." I tried to apply the rules consistently. But I'm human and have no delusion that I was 100% successful. Threads here go much further afield than would've been allowed on the forum I helped to moderate. We didn't have a points system, but all of the mods knew who the troublemakers were, and their misdeeds were tracked. When the line was crossed one time too many, that person was banned. We even had a Banned Members thread that only Global Moderators could post in because they were the only ones who could ban a member. Easily 75% of the posts were related to banning new accounts of members who had already been banned and not the banning of new people. (Another 10-15% were related to members who asked that their account be deactivated. So we really weren't banning that many people for infractions.) I have no idea what, or even if, the mods here get paid. But I DO know it's probably nowhere near enough for what they have to put up with! Having been a moderator, I give props to anyone who takes the time out of their lives to help out. And, because I have walked many miles in their shoes, I try not to cause them any additional grief, and I try not to second guess their actions. And one more thing before I end. On every forum I have seen, once one becomes a Moderator, there is no way to post as an individual contributor. Anything JonTheSexGod the Moderator does as JonTheSexGod the individual contributor shows as a Moderator post or action even though it may not have been intended to be that. My suggestion to anyone who wants to complain about the mods on this, or any, forum is to grant them some grace and assume that they are acting with the best of intentions, even if you don't agree with whatever they did.

OK, now I'm really confused. I thought the whole purpose of a cage (to which the bottom DID NOT have the key) was to stop them from being able to get hard and jerk off, thereby increasing their sexual desire to get fucked. (My understanding is that they do nothing tostop spontaneous orgasms.) So, for example, if I put a cage on you, locked it, and took the key with me, you wouldn't be able to jerk off cause you couldn't get hard. Or am I understanding something wrong?

Serious question, because I honestly don't know. Is it about "making it work" (bottom in control) or is it about being forced into the situation (top in control)?