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While I generally agree with the sentiment that something was forced on you that you didn't want, I have to express what may be an unpopular opinion. Anonymous sex, whether in a dark room, back room, woods, ass down/face up, blindfolded, etc., kinda by definition lacks accountability. In those situations, the top can do whatever they want to a bottom, regardless of the bottom's wishes, whether or not what is done is morally right considering the bottom's wishes. If I come across a guy in an anonymous situation and in a position that screams, "FUCK ME!", as the top >> I << get to choose how to fuck that guy. If I, as the top, choose to wear a condom (probably to protect myself more than it is to protect someone I don't know, don't care about and likely has some STI cause he obviously lets anybody fuck him, regardless of what I might say), oh well! And the same is true in the opposite situation where the bottom wants condoms used, is in an anonymous situation and is bred by a top. (>> I << would never willingly use a condom to fuck! I'm playing Devil's Advocate here! 🤪) Whether a bottom only wants to get fucked raw or only with a condom, then that entails a conversation, agreement beforehand and not an anonymous scene.... So, while I agree something was forced upon you that you didn't want, I have Judge Judy (American TV Court show judge) in my ear talking about "proximate cause" - if you hadn't put yourself in a position to be taken advantage of, you wouldn't have been taken advantage of and had an experience you didn't want.... Case dismissed! And I would give the same reply to a top who blindfolded himself, laid on his back with a condom-covered erection and multiple bottoms came through and rode his cock for the same amount of time each until the top came. If one of those bottoms sabotaged the condom so that he was effectively fucking raw, oh well! He relinquished the control to make sure the sex happened how he wanted it to happen. So he can't then complain after the fact. Now, if the top and bottom had discussed condom use beforehand, then the top came over and forced himself onto and into the bottom raw and bred him, THAT would be rape.

IRL, I'm a man of few words and I make the words I use count. If a bottom's profile says they want a verbal top, I'm generally not the guy for them. 😄 I've had to do the same thing as a top! I keep repeating to myself, "Great sex does NOT equal love!" FTR, I wouldn't be turned off as I understand that anything said in the heat of passion shouldn't be taken seriously. 😘

Whether the bottom's dick is caged or swinging free, it's his ass I'm interested in. I see the caged cock as a banner that says, I don't want my dick played with. End of story, and no further conversation needed on that topic.

As a 50+ top, I prefer a 50+ bottom (in shape or not) to a twink, a 20-something and probably even a 30-something. My experience has been that older men (tops and bottoms both) know what they like and know how to use what they have to bring the most pleasure to both parties involved. Of course, that's a generalization and there are exceptions to that, even for me. (Like this late-30's bottom who has this "magic ass" that always makes me cum sooner than I want!) I think what you may be bumping against is a twofold issue: 1) the shortage of tops vis-à-vis the number of bottoms and 2) the culture of youth that seems to permeate the US. You need to not only play to your strengths, but play to the audience who wants what you're offering. (If we were in the same town, I'd be inside of you regularly. Just saying.... 😍) Give me an older bottom who knows how to take dick and can hang for a 3-hour session over a twink who's ready to tap out after 20-30 minutes EVERY day of the week!

Porn moaning? No. A truly-elicited reaction to something I'm doing? Most definitely!

Smallest was about the size of a Vienna Sausage. The guy was 6'2"+, size 12 shoe and huge hands. 🤯 I can only guess that the growth hormone hit every part of his body but his dick.... Back when I was mostly a bottom, I had two guys in the 10 inch range (what I call, "Double Digit Dick"). And I know cause my "good spot" is about 9.5-10" deep and it turns me into a gibbering idiot whenever it's touched. It's a pleasure/pain spot where if you touch it again, I'm going to hurt you. And if you don't touch it again, I'm going to hurt you.

I voted this morning but didn't have time to reply. I'm probably closer to @viking8x6, but that wasn't an option so I chose loose. I prefer a hole that is loose enough that I can get in using spit for lube OR that is loose cause it's already been fucked and hopefully preloaded. In either case, if the bottom still has enough muscle control to milk my dick while I'm fucking him, extra added bonus! I don't want a bottom who's so loose that I could fist him up to my elbow in one stroke. (I don't fist, but that was to make a point.) Now if he's really loose cause I'm the umpteenth guy of the night and his hole is full of cum, all that cum has weight and substance and will fill in the space in the hole, giving my dick something nice and squishy and tight enough to fuck.

And everything above is why I am envious of you! 😍 I don't want anyone living with me, (at all, but) especially not if they're a regular drug user! I'm less pressed if a hookup does drugs though. EXCEPT for the time when the guy got so high getting ready that a) he lost track of time and b) was too high to get in a rideshare.... 🤬 I'm not really one for performing in public, even in a dark back room. Wish I could be more like you in that regard! My ideal relationship would be with someone who has his own place. There could be the occasional overnight stay, but that's about it. And I've finally come to accept that I'm not really relationship material. And I'm OK with that. On the subject of being too exclusive, about the only exclusion I have is that I'm not all that into chubs (but chubby is fine). And I'm even exploring that option, as of late lots of self-described chubs have hit me up. Didn't enjoy one, was quite pleasantly surprised by another and at least on paper the one I hook up with next week when he's in town should be lots of fun. The two major reasons I might not hook up with a bottom who hits me up are 1) it's late and I get up at zero: dark thirty and 2) they want me to travel to San Francisco, which I just have an aversion to doing! (I'll drive twice as far away as SF before I would drive to SF. 🤷‍♂️) OK, I have a second exclusion - I'm not into a lot of kink (I call it "the alphabet"). If that's your thing, you do you! But I won't be doing you. And my top dance card still isn't full. Like I've already said, I have other things I can do, so I don't trip.

I am 58 this year. In my mid-30's I discovered that I'm multiorgasmic. Before that I thought I was a bad top who prematurely ejaculated, so I was much more of a bottom than I was a top. (For those of a certain age in the US, this revision of the Tootsie Pop commercial perfectly sums up my top experiences before that - "How many fucks until you reach the center of a Tootsie Pop? One. Two. Three. Cum!) Once I discovered I was multiorgasmic, I likened my orgasms to going out to dinner. The first one is like the Appetizer, which arrives quickly. The second is like the Main Course in that it takes longer to arrive and is hopefully worth the wait. The third is like Dessert - sometimes you get it, sometimes you don't. (Dessert has required a 3+ hour session since my mid-30s.) So, in the last decade, my sexual position hasn't really changed. I much prefer to top than to bottom. YES, there is a limit to how many times I can top where there isn't a limit to how many times I can bottom. But there is WAY more prep involved in bottoming than there is in topping! (And let me shout out all those bottoms who are diligent about their prep!) So, under precise circumstances, I would consider bottoming. Otherwise, I'm quite content to top!

As a top, I'm not really into the anonymous hookup scene - the connection is just about as important to me as the fucking. So, while I think a pump and dump is hot, it's not really my thing. (But getting with the bottom from a pump and dump when he's done with that is definitely my thing!) And even though I seem to be a rarity (a top), bottoms flake on me regularly as if tops are a dime a dozen. And I'm in a major metropolitan area. 🤷‍♂️ When that happens, I take a glass half-full approach and just assume that the universe wants me to do something else cause I have LOTS of other things to do besides have sex! Even bottoms who profess to have had a great time seem to drop off the face of the earth when it comes to hooking up a second time....

I can quite easily envision you riding me, bending down to kiss me and that hair covering my face like a canopy.... 😍😍😍😍😍 (Is there an erection emoji on this site?)

I agree with 1-3 in that order. I prefer 5 over 4 though despite the cost because the TASTE of silicone lube isn't as repulsive as the taste of water-based lubes! Don't get me wrong. I put Vaseline on my lips every night before going to bed to keep my lips kissing soft! But I love to felch a hole after breeding it. And the thought of licking Vaseline in that instance just doesn't do it for me. It might be fine. But it might be gross!

Most nights before going to sleep unless I've fucked someone that day or I just don't have time cause I already don't get enough sleep and every minute matters.

Po-tay-to/Po-tah-to, but I would say that I'm more in touch with my inner 🐷, than I would say that I've become sluttier. 😜

@pervinmt not that it matters, but I 😍😍😍 that look on you!

Just to clarify, I will have sex with someone who is more than 20-ish years younger than I am. They just have to hit me up first. (And then not flake. But that's a discussion for another thread.)

Oops! That should've said, "I WILL NOT under any circumstances hit up a guy who is MORE than 20-ish years younger than me." 😊

My "viable" age range has always been +/- 20 years. So, in my 20's, I would've gone down to 18 and up to 40's. Anyone older than that I would've called "Henery." (Look it up if you're not familiar with American cartoons from a certain period....) As I'm approaching 60 (🤯 How did THAT happen?), my lower range is 40's and there is no upper range. If a guy who is almost 80 wants me to fuck him, I probably WILL!!!!! I WILL NOT under any circumstances hit up a guy who is less than 20-ish years younger than me. But if he hits me up (and he's not looking for a Sugar Daddy), it's on and popping!

I've had bottoms I'm fucking think I wasn't enjoying myself because of the look on my face. But THIS!!!!! EXACTLY THIS!!!!! I'm focused on the feel of my dick in the bottom's hole, enjoying the sensation and trying to extend that feeling for as long as I can without coming too fast! And please @bbfarm provide a link somehow/somewhere if you start a thread on whether or not that's a fetish! 😍 I will DEFINITELY be participating in that thread!

Perfect answer! If I asked the question and got that answer, it would definitely make me want to help the bottom out with another load or two! But you're the bigger slut! And I say that with the utmost respect and envy! 😁😍😘 The smell of sex is one of the best aphrodisiacs out there! While I do enjoy generating that smell myself with a bottom during a long session, there is nothing better than a bottom who comes to me reeking of sex and full of loads from other men! 🤔Is there such a thing as too sloppy? 🤔 Not in my experience. But even as a thought experiment, I'd have to say no. If the hole is too full of cum, that's where I can utilize my tongue to make some room. And the looseness of the hole would be offset by the loads coating my dick as I churned them into cum butter. If I wanted to fuck a bottom but he said he didn't have any loads in him, I would still fuck him. If he told me he had X loads in him, I'd definitely fuck him. And if he told me "Not enough," I might have to marry him! 🤣🤣🤣 So, for me, the answer to the original question is No, it doesn't make any difference to me.

Glad this thread got bumped cause I'd been thinking about starting one. As I've said elsewhere on BZ, my favorite bottoms are the ones who don't care about their dick, so I don't either. After I've shot my last load, I will do the gentlemanly thing and ask the bottom if they want to cum and how I can help. But I have never asked a bottom for a dick pic. I honestly don't mind if dick pics are intermingled with ass pics in a profile. What irks me is bottoms who only have a dick pic (or multiple dick pics) in their profile. Having read through this whole thread, I get why some bottoms do that. I would hope that there is someone in that bottom's life they could ask to take pics, even if it's a trick before and/or after the hookup. But if a self-professed bottom hits me up and all I see in their profile are dick pics, NEXT! Because that says to me that they aren't quite as "experienced" as I might want them to be. If the guy says he's on the versatile spectrum, sure, show your dick. As other tops have said, I make it clear I'm interested in fucking, not in getting fucked. And any bottoms who want to see my ass will see it when/if we hookup.. For me it comes down to advertising for what you want. And bottoms who advertise only with their cock are sending the wrong message.

THIS!!!!! I let every new bottom know that I don't mind sloppy seconds (or thirds or fourths or tenths for that matter). I also let them know that's an FYI and not a requirement for me to fuck them. I never expect a cumhole. But if I get one, it's a pleasant surprise. We HAVE To be twins separated at birth! 😍😍😍 Count me in!!!! I would take a sloppy loose hole all day, EVERY day over a tight one that I need to break in. I say "cumslut" and "cumwhore" with the utmost respect and admiration! Yes. How does one compare five loads from guys who don't cum a lot to three loads from guys who do cum a lot? The commitment to take any and all loads IS a much more important thing to ascertain.

Was never really into Will Braun, but with that long hair and nerdy look? 😍😍😍 With short hair, I don't know that I would've necessarily pulled Damien Kyle into my bed, but if I found him there, I wouldn't have kicked him out. He is effin 🌶️🌶️🌶️ with that long hair and Colonel Sanders mustache and goatee. And does my eye spy a quite hairy crack to boot? 👅👅👅 I freely admit to suffering from what I call "The Samson Effect" - a guy I would otherwise not be attracted to who has long hair (preferably past the shoulders!) is instantly attractive, even if the long hair doesn't necessarily look good on him. And most guys who cut their long hair instantly lose their attractiveness. (Except in those rare cases where they actually look better with shorter hair.) I was in lust heaven with the hair bands of the 80's! Max Stoner falls into the I'm not particularly attracted to him, but he has long hair 😍😍😍 so I want him category. I'm not sure I'd be attracted to him with shorter hair either. (Now, if he were a cumslut, I wouldn't care how long his hair was! But that's probably a different thread. 🤣) The blond in the Thor Fucks Loki video on Max Stoner's website checks ALL the right boxes though, and I'm usually not all that into blonds. MORE LONG-HAIRED MEN IN THE WORLD!!!!! Ponytail if you must (preferably not), but no man buns!

Tartare doesn't start with an R? You wrote RBOC not TBOC.

Except, maybe, at work, I can't remember the last time I was bored! I have so many other (somewhat competing) interests outside of sex! If I lived to be 10,000 years old and never bought anything new related to my various other interests, I still don't think I would be bored! I honestly don't know how I would respond to someone who replied to me that they were bored. (I wish I would've told my mother I was bored! She would've come up with a list of chores for me to do in the blink of an eye!) On the one hand, my purpose in life is NOT to entertain someone who is bored. On the other hand, I'm going to do my best to make sure they're not bored during our session! So if they tickle whatever my fancy is at that particular moment, it would probably be on and popping. If they came across as "too much like work," then NEXT! 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 to that quote!