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I have frozen my cum from jerking off into suppository size/shape. And everyone I know who appreciates that and wants it is many hundreds, if not thousands, of miles away... ☹️😢

I think I've recounted this in another thread someone here at BZ, but I bottomed for many years because I thought I was a bad top who came prematurely. It wasn't until my mid-30's that I discovered that I'm multiorgasmic. Now I explain to bottoms that the first orgasm is like the appetizer when you go out to dinner. It arrives quickly and gets you ready for what's to come next. I gravitated from being primarily a bottom to being more fully versatile to being primarily a top. (I'm not adverse to bottoming. I just haven't found a man I want to bottom for and/or had the opportunity.) And a number of bottoms have told me that I'm really good at what I do. So as long as the flesh is as willing as the spirit, I'll continue to be a top.

A preloaded hole is a BONUS, NOT a requirement for me. If I'm first, hopefully I can be last too! 😍 (And THAT would be a requirement for any man with whom I was in a relationship! I'm going to give you your first load of the day. You can take as many loads as you want during the day and evening. But I'm going to give you your last load(s) of the day to remind you whose hole that really is...)

I am SO not in the headspace to answer you properly, but I'm still going to try. YOU have to accept him AT HIS WORD even if his actions might seem to be different! REGARDLESS what YOU might want WITH HIM, you have to honor what he's willing to give to you! I have had sex with a number of "straight" men in my life. In retrospect, it was JUST SEX for them though. Have you heard of the old saying, "ANY port in a storm?" Even if he DID have sex with you, it wouldn't mean the same thing to him that it apparently would mean to you....

As a Black man who loves, "Black, White, Puerto Rican, EVERY body just A Freakin'! (basically ALL races and most types), I am NOT going to cum inside a bottom who asks me to pull out! Cause I'm NOT trying to catch a RAPE or ATTEMPTED MURDER case (cause I'm poz even though I'm U=U)! Pretty sure I've already told this story somewhere on BZ, but I got all the way in this bottom, and I SWEAR it was one of the top three holes I'd been in up to that point. And he asked me to pull out! 🤬 But I did, cause I'm NOT trying to catch a case! Years later he told me that he wished I had been a little more forceful! 🤬🖕 🤬🖕🤬 WTF!!!!!

I don't often breed and tell, but I have to this time. A visitor from the Northeast hit me up on another site. We unlocked pics for one another and when I saw his pics my response was, "YAAAS LAWD!" He's bald, hairy all over (and NOT manscaped), uncut and with some roundness to him. So we hooked up this afternoon, as he was looking for someone to get him ready for a night at the bathhouse. When I meet him, he's attractive enough (that's not a particular criteria of mine though because if Quasimodo or the Elephant Man checked enough other boxes, their physical appearance wouldn't mean anything to me). We immediately stripped down. He was surprised that I was already hard as he sucked me for a bit. He'd told me in advance that it had been awhile since he got fucked, so he was really tight. I ate his hole out real good and he begged me to fuck him. Even though he had silicone lube on the bed, I managed to get in with just spit on my cock and the spit I had already pushed into his hairy hole as I was eating it. We started doggy style where I could see (and lick!) his hairy back. Then we switched to him on his left side with his right leg at an angle so we could kiss. As it often does, my first orgasm caught me by surprise. He got a huge load out of me. There's like a 30/70 chance that I can continue to fuck after cumming, but he beat the odds and I stayed hard. We went gay missionary and missionary with him riding me both face to face and back to front. He was quite juicy from the load I shot in him. If I hadn't been fucking him, I definitely could've gotten lost in his eyes when we were in missionary. I gave him two buttgasms, but had already told him that I would need to pee before I could cum again. At one point he said he left his body and needed a moment to gather himself. We didn't disconnect though! After I peed and he gave me some water to drink, we went back at it, this time with him on his stomach. It took a bit, but he got my second load in him. We weren't able to go for orgasm #3 because his host's dog needed to go for a walk and the host wasn't home yet. He wanted to be gaped and ready for other men to fuck him. And he was! He was also rather creamy inside... Bathhouse ended up being a bust, but I was definitely a huge check in the "relocate" column! We already agreed that if we lived closer, we would hookup regularly. And I let him know that I don't mind sloppy seconds, fifths or tenths! I also let him know that he's welcome to stay with me next time he visits. Even though I have a second bedroom, it doesn't have a bed in it, so he'll have to sleep with me. DARN!

There is no rhyme or reason that I've been able to figure out for why/when I can sometimes cum, keep fucking and cum a second time. Sometimes it's been a really hot first session with a guy, and other times it's been a really hot Nth session with a guy. Usually, I have to pee between orgasms, even though I'm multiorgasmic. (And, no, I was too well potty trained to pee IN someone.) There was a guy I fucked the first time. I came, stayed hard, didn't pull out and fucked and bred him a second time. I told him he was a unicorn cause that doesn't happen often. I stayed hard, didn't pull out and fucked and bred him a third time. I told him he was the King of the Unicorns cause that had NEVER happened before! And it hasn't happened since with him. I have bred him three times in a session, but I have to pee between sessions. There are things in my life that I need to examine and figure out the reason why. And then there are things that I just accept without having to examine. Being able to cum, not pull out, keep fucking and cum again falls into the latter category.

Exactly! 🤮 He dropped off the face of the earth, so we never got to use his safe word. If I ever hear "Limeade" while having sex, I will definitely know, "Do NOT pass Go! Do NOT collect $200!" 🤪😂🤣

I was talking to a sub and his safe word was "Limeade." My response was 😂 cause I think Limeade is nasty, so I would never use that word. And if I heard it, I'll know that was a safe word.

When I'm close to cumming, I pull as far out as I can without actually pulling out and then push as far in as I can and hold there as I cum. (New this year, after I think I've finished cumming, I pulse a few more times and cum some more!)

In the 90's I played with a guy who was 6'3", wore a size 13 shoe and probably had big hands (honestly don't remember). His penis was the size of a Vienna sausage. I guess the growth hormone hit every part of his body except his penis.

My nipples aren't wired either. I've been more intentional this summer about using different nipple suction devices. My nipples still aren't wired, but they are more sensitive and erect more easily. I'm guessing I'm on the right path?

I actually have a Phallomancy Oracle that was created by a gay tarot author and deck creator under the pseudonym Peter Zout. It's 32 cards and was self-published in 2015. Haven't looked at it in years, but I remember it being hysterically funny.

THAT is the question, and I have far too many answers for the 13 minutes I have before I should be in bed! So, I hope to come back to this tomorrow. If I don't, someone PLEASE call me on it! (FTR though, I don't regret anything I haven't done, because if I didn't do it, I wasn't meant to do it. On the same note, if I had done things I didn't do, I wouldn't be the person I am today. And that person and I are GOOD with each other! 😍)

I know myself well enough that I know if I had to GO to the gym, it would never happen. There is a gym in my complex. I've lived here almost 10 years and have never stepped foot in it! I have a Total Gym that I pull out 3x a week to use to workout, then I fold it back up and put it back out of the way until the next time.

Sorry, but I have to give a contrary opinion. By someone who knows what they're doing, teeth can be used to nibble and/or lightly scrape instead of bite. When I eat ass, depending on the bottom's reaction to my tongue in his hole, I will lightly scrape my teeth across that spot between his taint/perinuem and ass lips. Depending on THAT reaction, I may lightly scrape my teeth across his ass lips. I have encountered bottoms who have just about jumped out of their skin (in a good way) when I've done that. If there's no reaction or a negative reaction when I lightly scrape across that particular spot, I don't introduce teeth and instead keep using my tongue.

I prefer it as hairy (or not) as genetics intended it to be. Preference is hairy. Naturally smooth is fine. Manscaped/shaved is disappointing, especially if I know the hole should be naturally hairy. Disappointed doesn't mean that I would pass up a manscaped/shaved hole though!

I actually miscounted. The recent sex I had was with two ex's ago. I might have sex with one ex ago if the planets lined up just right. Three ex's ago and four ex's ago? No way in hell! (🤔 OK, four ex's ago for a revenge fuck might be worthwhile... 🤔) I have zero interest in pursuing a relationship with two ex's ago (or anyone else just to be clear). But an ongoing FWB thang with two ex's ago considering how piggy we both are now? 😍😍😍 x 💯 x 💯 x 💯 And, for the record, I don't want to reconcile with any of my ex's! 😖 I definitely understand that we are ex's for a reason, and unless we have both changed, we're just going to end up right back in the same BS that caused us to break up. Thanks! But NO THANKS!

I did a quick search and didn't find any other topics on the first page of results, so I'm starting a new thread. Anyone else enjoy having sex with an ex? Two weekends ago I had sex with my 3-exes ago. We have both gotten more 🐷 since we were together more than a decade ago. And the sex was hotter than ANY sex we had when we were a couple! That was in part because we understand that we're exes for a reason and in part because we both know it's just sex, which wasn't a problem when we were in a relationship.... We live close enough to one another that we plan on getting together regularly to have sex. And I told him that if he gets bred by someone else and still wants more to let me know, cause I'll be right over! Him having sex with another man would never have been a consideration when we were together, much less me enjoying sloppy seconds!

From a top's perspective, I prefer to lick it and stick it since I don't fuck anything I haven't eaten first. But not all bottoms are OK with that, and I accept that. (But I've also found that more bottoms are OK with it than admit to it.) My second choice would be cum (preferably other men's, but my frozen cum thawed works quite nicely). My third choicce would be a silicone-based lube as there is at least a chance that I'll eat out the hole after breeding it. If any other (blank)-based lube is used, especially if it's flavored 🤮, I won't be eating that hole out again during that session...

Having read through this thread, all I can say, is 🤯🤯🤯! My fantasies/kinks are just that - mine! If the vibe is right, I'll mention them as a possibility to the bottom I'm going to hook up with. If they're not into them, I drop the conversation as I don't need to have my fantasies/kinks happen every time I have sex. Some of the listed requests are so weirdly specific, that I have to wonder what happened in those people's lives to get them to that point...

An angle that hasn't been mentioned so far is that you may have a knack for attracting the "pump-n-dump" crowd who not only want NSA sex but don't even want you to know who they are. So when they see you in public, they pretend not to recognize you for fear of you knowing who they are. That's about them, not about you. And I agree with @viking8x6! I'd do you in a heatbeat! (And I've only seen your avatar pic. 👅)

As has already been mentioned by @Bibttmmiami, once consent has been rescinded, any further action turns into rape. If the bottom says stop, for whatever reason, I stop. More often than not, that will be the last time we get together. (I know that for some bottoms that after they cum what had been pleasure turns into pain. But if you know that's you as a bottom, you should do everything you can to make sure you don't cum and put a premature end to the action...) But I DO have a story about that... Back in late 2017/early 2018 (?) this Filipino versatile bottom hit me up and wanted to hook up. I was game. I took my time getting all the way in, and it was THE BEST hole I'd ever been in! 😍😍😍😍😍 And then he asked me to pull out! 🤯 😱🤬 But I did! I believe in mutual pleasure. AND I wasn't trying to catch a case! He left shortly thereafter. A few months later, when I was in a relationship with someone else, he hit me up again, and I had to say no cause I was in a relationship. Every so often he would hit me up. The answer would still be the same. About two years later he finally said, "Oh, you should've done X, as I was nervous, and it would've been fine." 🤯 😱🤬 Um, you tell me that NOW and not THEN? Cause the relationship I was in would likely never have happened if he and I hadn't experienced coitus interruptus... Any relationship would've been with him! The relationship I was in finally ended and he hit me up again and we reconnected. Between his work and school and family, we don't get together anywhere near as much as I would like. But when we do get together? We're both 😍😍😍😍😍! Looping back to the opening post, I honored the bottom's wish to stop, but, at least in this case, that wasn't the end of the action with that person. (Long game vs. thrill of the moment.)

My last load was actually five loads in 24 hours in the same bottom. Second time we tried for five and accomplished that feat. Yesterday we tried for six, but it just wasn't in the cards... I was too pooped to pop again! I'm damned near 60 and can honestly say I've never cum that much in a 24-hour period at any other time in my life! HE actually got more than five loads from me though. He got five fresh loads and probably six-ish thawed loads that were used as lube before depositing fresh loads... I can honestly say that a good time was had by all! 😍 According to him, he still has all that cum inside of him as of a couple of hours ago.

I wasn't talking about someone like you who has control over your hole, and can basically tighten or loosen it rather easily. I was talking about someone whose hole is so tight that it's going to take longer than I have patience for to get inside of it. I'll let others put in that effort and enjoy the benefit of their work.... 😉😜🤣