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Another designation other than gay or bi that has gained traction in the last few years is MSM - Men who have Sex with other Men. There's nothing about love or attraction. It's purely about the sex. There are a number of men on this site who are married to women who enjoy having sex with men and share those experiences. I knew I was gay at 5, have never dated nor had sex with a woman, and have no intention of ever doing so, so I can't be of much help to you from that perspective. Although I do have a theory that men can more easily separate sex from love than women can. So just because a man has sex with someone else doesn't mean that he doesn't love the person he's with. Only you can decide for yourself whether it's cheating if you get fucked by a man (as opposed to you fucking someone else).
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Sorry for what you went through, but every time I look at this thread I'm reminded of a greeting card from the 90's (?): Don't! Stop! DON'T! STOP! DON'T STOP! DON'T STOP! DON'T STOP! DON'T STOP! DON'T STOP! DON'T STOP! You appear to be like me in that I have GREAT willpower until it's tested! I have all the willpower in the world not to have that horrible thing to eat that I shouldn't have in my apartment. But if it somehow manages to get into my apartment? I have ZERO willpower to stop myself from eating it! IF you want to stay true to your BF, delete the apps off your phone and don't download them again when you travel. If you don't want to stay true? Have FUN! As for the "If I was blindfolded, it didn't happen...." line of reasoning? π€π€π€π€π€
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He may feel that kissing is a level of intimacy with a man that is dangerous for him as it might make him face some things that he'd rather not face....
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I've recounted the story elsewhere on this site, but I bottomed through the 80s and part of the 90s because I thought I was a premature ejaculator and therefore a bad top. It wasn't until the mid-90's that I played with a guy and after I came, we kept playing, I got hard again, fucked him again and came again. So it wasn't until my 30's that I discovered that I'm multiorgasmic. Now, I liken my orgasms to going to out dinner. The first is like the appetizer in that it usually arrives pretty quickly. The second is like the main course in that it usually takes longer to arrive and hopefully is worth the wait. The third is like dessert in that sometimes you get it and sometimes you don't. (Dessert usually takes a 3-hour+ session these days.) So, as others have said, just because a top comes quickly doesn't mean he can't come again.
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I haven't read any of the posts in this thread except for those on the same page onto which I'm posting.... For decades, chub was explicitly OFF my radar! I like builds from skinny right up to chubby/linebacker! Chub was just one step too far removed. Last year this bottom cancelled on me at the last minute. I was horny and this chub hit me up. I fucked him and bred him. Didn't need (or want) to see him again as I didn't enjoy the experience. Yeah, I got off. But.... Couple of months ago this guy hit me up. He looked chubby in his pics and his height/weight stats could've been right on the border between chubby and chub. So, I agreed to hook up. He was definitely a chub! Color me π€―though! I thoroughly enjoyed the experience! He was a great kisser AND his hole was silky! (That's a term I'm pretty sure I've never used before about ANY bottom. ) The more he gets fucked and the more turned on he gets, the more he self-lubricates! HE was embarrased by that, but I told him it turned me ON! (I even started a thread about self-lubricating bottoms before I met him!) We're trying to arrange another time to hookup, which takes some planning since he lives 2 hours away. SO! While I know better than to judge a book by its cover, I was doing exactly that! Lesson learned! (Hopefully)
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Bless You for your service to the community!
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Turned on by having a slutty reputation
Ieatcumholes replied to BritishCumdump's topic in General Discussion
π― x π― x π―! As a top, I know I make sounds when I cum that I don't otherwise make. Generally, I'm not one to show vulnerability. But in that particular moment? I'm good with showing vulnerability, especially if I enjoyed the journey getting to that particular moment! And the more I enjoyed that journey, the more guttural and unlike me that sound is.... -
Turned on by having a slutty reputation
Ieatcumholes replied to BritishCumdump's topic in General Discussion
You say I'm a (insert pejorative term) like it's a BAD thing? π€π€π€π€π€ π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£ -
Where did you get (or give) your last load?
Ieatcumholes replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I don't often "kiss and tell" but this Filipino bottom I hook up with a LOT less often than I want to wanted to hook up with me Saturday night OUT OF THE BLUE! I am SO not the Night Owl, but he didn't show up until 10:30 and we played until almost 2 AM. I only bred him once (mostly lots of foreplay cause I came before I wanted to), but for the first time he was actually able to cum during our session and I swallowed it down. So, two loads: I gave one and swallowed one. -
Turned on by having a slutty reputation
Ieatcumholes replied to BritishCumdump's topic in General Discussion
To-may-to, to-mah-to. Judging by the ass in your avatar, I'd fuck you regardless! Of course, we're many thousands of miles apart, alas. βΉοΈ -
If you could possess a supernatural power, what would it be?
Ieatcumholes replied to Sharp-edge's topic in General Discussion
After giving it lots of thought, I have to agree with this one. Not only could I use it to make any man do what I wanted him to do sexually, I could make anyone do what they should do but are loathe to because of public opinion, partisan politics, fear, etc. I could even use that power to disrupt people's inclination toward crime. Win-win for me and for the world! (Because, of course, my mind control power could be used remotely across very long distances. π) -
Had a guy recently tell me his feet were really ticklish. Turns out only his arches were ticklish. He thoroughly enjoyed me working over every other part of his foot.... Just saying.... π
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π€Iβm Right-Handed but JO with my Left Hand
Ieatcumholes replied to a topic in General Discussion
As I like to say, "Don't threaten me with a good time!" π π π -
π€Iβm Right-Handed but JO with my Left Hand
Ieatcumholes replied to a topic in General Discussion
OK! Well, I guess that BLOWS my supposition to shreds without any oral! π€£ -
Sorry to quote myself, but since I can't edit my post, I'll add that I love sloppy seconds, thirds, fourths, fifths, etc. Bring me a cumhole, and it's ON and Popping! Over and above musk, I started a thread in this forum on Sweat/Sweaty Men. I had forgotten until recently how much I π a man sweating ON me. Ears are another of my softcore fetishes. Most men don't realize their ears are errogenous zones. And I am quite happy to show them! Speaking of which, men whose whole bodies are errogenous zones (and they're NOT ticklish!) should get added to my list. Not sure if this counts as a fetish or not, but men who can kiss! The better kisser the bottom is, the better top I become! My nipples aren't wired to my dick, but my lips most definitely are! (Kissing me will get me harder faster than sucking me will....)
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An uncle of mine. I was probably 12 or 13 (I knew I was gay at 5), and he was living with us, probably after getting out of prison for something or other (so he was probably familiar with man on man sex even though he wasn't gay). I don't remember what I did, but I DO remember he was in nothing but boxers and probably had been shaving. He's holding me down on the carpet in the living room and complaining that I play too much! My mother (his sister) wasn't home. He must've been holding me by my shoulders because my memory is that I could easily have reached up into the gap of his boxers, but I stopped myself for some reason. (By that point, I had already played with two cousins, so us being related wouldn't have been the reason why.) The cable guy in the mid-to-late 90's. Don't remember if this was when I first moved into the building or when I moved into the apartment next to the one I had been living in (inverse orientation from my original apartment). I remember overalls unbuttoned 3 or 4 buttons and a pelt of hair peeking through. π I probably had a Chippendales calendar in the living room (cause I didn't have a TV in the bedroom) and he mentioned something about liking pictures like that. But it didn't register until AFTER he left! π That was back when I was a bottom and I would've given that man ANYthing he wanted as long as he got nekkid and I could explore his hairy body! There have been others I wanted to have sex with and didn't for whatever reason, but, under torture, I couldn't even tell you who they were! The two above definitely count as ones that got away!
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π€Iβm Right-Handed but JO with my Left Hand
Ieatcumholes replied to a topic in General Discussion
I'm right-handed, but j/o with my left hand. If I only have one hand on the wheel when driving, it would be my left hand. I can write lefthanded, but I have to take my time and concentrate since I don't do it often. And I don't switch knife and fork to cut food with my right hand - the knife works perfectly fine in my left hand! (And the fork works perfectly fine in my right hand!) I started j/o-ing long before I had access to any porn! I would guess I experimented with both hands but ended up using the left hand because it felt better. I've recently formed the supposition that the direction left or right that a man's cock curves tells one which hand he j/o's with. If it curves to the left, he uses his left hand. If it curves to the right, he uses his right hand. If it doesn't curve at all, he either doesn't j/o or uses both hands to j/o. Would that I were able to do an empirical study! So I'll just have to stick to my supposition for now! π -
EVERY guy you had sex with made you the person you are today! Change even ONE of those, much less many thousands of them, and you would be a different person today than you currently are! >> I << don't get the sense that you live with a lot of regrets about who you are NOW. And different doesn't necessarily mean better.... Appreciate the person you were, because he led to the person you ARE right now! If I could go back and change anything from my life, I wouldn't, cause I'm good with who I am right now! (I really want a do-over with my first BF, truth be told, but NO!) ANY change in the past could drastically change your present! (You've heard of the Butterfly Effect, right?) From what I've seen on this forum, the current you is ALL THAT and a bag of chips! (And, yeah, I'm THAT old! π€£) If there weren't 3000 miles separating us, I would show you how much I like the person you are right now BECAUSE of your history! πππππ
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If it's long enough, that's just natural floss! π
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Did a search of this forum and didn't find any other threads about this topic, although there were individual posts in other threads about it. Last Friday I hooked up with a guy who warned me ahead of time that he sweats when he's having sex. A LOT! I was like, Cool! He showed up with his own towel! He did not undersell how much he sweats, and I was LIVING for it! It's been a good 2-3 decades since I've been with a guy who sweat that much! He was reticent to lay on top of me and kiss me cause that makes him sweat even more. (It also allowed me to play with his hole, which he liked.) Sweat dripped off of him onto me multiple times. And I was πππππ every time it happened! My pillow cover was drenched. My makeshift playsheet was drenched. And every time sweat dripped off of him onto me, I was in heaven! I had forgotten what it felt like to have another man's sweat drop onto me. (I probably was a bottom the last time that happened). And I had forgotton how much I enjoy that! I even gave him a tongue bath over most of his body! π π π π π We experienced coitus interruptus cause he got a text that sent him home. But he left the towel behind on purpose, so I know we'll see each other again sooner or later. Anyone else get off on sweaty men? On having another man's sweat drip on you? On giving a sweaty man a tongue bath?
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I think some guys are just in it for the thrill of the chase and/or fantasy/jo material. I also don't understand that one. I have occasionally run across guys even on bareback sites who insist on condoms. I pass them by. Whenever a guy flakes out on me, I look at it as HE lost out, not me. There's always another bottom to replace that one. Had a great time with this one bottom and thought we both had a good time with the other, but didn't hear back from him. So I reached out to him, we set something up and he canceled. Rinse. Repeat. Twice. Won't be reaching out to him again. He at least canceled, albeit three times. When they don't show up and then drop off the face of the earth, I might send a "Wha' happen?" message. More often than not I don't get a response. Next! You can't change other people. Maybe take a glass half-full approach and focus on those who do come through (and in!)?
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Need an Always Ready Backup!
Ieatcumholes replied to Ieatcumholes's topic in San Francisco / Oakland / San Jose
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I'm a contrarian by nature and tend to do the opposite of what the majority does. So the male standard of beauty has little to do with what I find beautiful. Ripped and built like a brick shithouse is fine to look at. I have less interest in playing with it though. Give me a natural build over a gym bod every day of the week! And I absolutely love a (Winnie the) Pooh belly over a 6 pack! I have hairs on my chest (as in I could count them if I were really bored).... I can only guess that it's that whole "opposites attract" thing to explain why I'm so πππ about hairy men! Even though we're in the same state, we could easily be many hundreds of miles apart. But if we're close enough, I'd love the opportunity for you to see and enjoy your hairiness through my eyes (and lips and tongue and mouth and teeth and fingers and hands. If that's even a possibility, we should probably take that conversation to DM.)
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