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I don't know if "requiring" more information in the profile is the way to go. After all, this is a Forum, some people wish to share less than others. They may not want to be tracked, or give other members an idea as to who or where they are. I think the profile section is fine. You put in your contact information, or you decide not to. However, REQURING members to give out that kind of information may make some people think twice before joining. That would be a negative since there are many BZ members who share information, either medical, political or sexual that we don't know much about personally. To me their contributions outweigh knowing if they are close enough to hook up with, or if they are a top or a bottom.

If you don't mind, could you just post on here if you indeed received that deposit by the date promised. I use PayPal as well, but I have had issues with theft so I opted for the paper check. Thanks again for responding.

I received an email two days ago telling me that I was entitled to a whopping $32.32 from a settlement regarding Zoom. due to possible privacy violations. It was one of those class action lawsuits and I do recall filling out the form that I did participate in Zoom calls during the time frame that was mentioned. God some of those Zoom calls with a 100 naked guys were fun, but that's another story. Here's my question to BZ members - they offered to pay me via credit cards, google app cards, or a direct deposit to my checking account. I know better than to give out that information, but I did reach out to the administrator. This morning I received an email back that read "a paper check option may be available for this settlement. Please note that the paper check reissue process can take 4-6 weeks to complete". Now on the initial email there was an area to check that I wanted to be reimbursed by a paper check, but it never asked for my address. Now I could have given them my address when I completed the initial form, I can't remember. However, there was no way I was going to give them my routing number or checking account number, I would not give them PayPal information either. Have any other members received a similar email? I think it is legitimate but I was curious as I know there are some members that enjoy Zoom and may have been in the Google Plus rooms before they were taken away from us for our naughty behavior...... '

There is truth to that saying, "Young, dumb, hung and full of cum". Hey if they want to, why not? Frankly, if they're interested and they initiate the encounter I won't say no. I don't chase down guys who are in their late teens or early 20s but at times our paths cross and I was happy with the outcome. I didn't mean any offense by including the word "dumb" it's just what was included the first time I heard that mentioned. I don't make it a habit of calling people dumb, for the record.

He's all over the place video wise. I believe the pairing with Andy Starr was courtesy of Men.com, but I have seen Sir Peter work for Eric Videos as well as his Onlyfans account. He also has worked for Lucas Entertainment and that was the first time I believe I saw Sir Peter bottom. So if you have a place you "go to" for porn, he has worked for a number of studios. Good luck with your search!

Sir Peter fucking Andy Starr......okay, it's been done already but I wanna see Episode 2 (if there is one).

I wouldn't. Why ruin a good thing, it could happen again in the future with his son so why ruin a future encounter. Plus you ruin an opportunity to continue to play with a guy who is so very close to you. If he was "gay curious" when he fucked you, he may be "curious" again in the future. I would just put the past in the past and not say anything, it could ruin all future hook up chances with both of them.

I remember taking school work over to a class mate who was sick, we were in 6th grade. He was my best friend, so it was not as if I didn't know him. We sat in the living room, both his parents were at work, and he climbed under the table, pulled my dick out and started to blow me. That had never happened in the past, he wasn't exactly someone I had even the notion of being sexual with. The funny thing was, I shot my load in his mouth, and he ran over into the kitchen and spit it out in the sink. He thought I pissed in his mouth. No, I shot my load in his mouth. Neither one of us really understood what happened but what was in the sink was while, not yellow. It triggered something in me, that made me want to find other kids and older teenagers to repeat the process. The irony of this is that he never spoke to me again, and actually sent out a petition to my classmates to get me to "fly right" and "be straight". To this day I wonder what happened to him, I know we went to colleges in different states, and I eventually lost track of him. Obviously having my dick sucked really turned me on to guys, I would never think a girl would do that. For him, I guess it was some sort of awakening and he felt the urge to tell people there was something "different" or "wrong" with me, but in that petition he never mentioned he was the one who climbed under the table and pulled my dick out. True story, to this day I am tempted to try and track him down, find out where he lives and what he did with his career. I'd love to know if he married a woman or stayed "single" like myself. Ah, the memories of Catholic schools.

Unfortunately i have had three outpatient procedures for HPV, it has not been a fun journey. The first was to repair a fissure, but the second surgeon told me no, it was actually HPV. I have to go every six months, and if I am having problems in that area sometimes they can treat it with a compound ointment, if not, she has had to go in and remove them surgically. I never knew there was a vaccine for HPV, and I happened to get it in one of the most painful areas possible. At this point in my life, they can make me "comfortable", but it will always be there. Fissures and HPV can ruin, or rather curtail, your sex life depending on what your interests are. I watch TV at night and see how you can now be vaccinated against HPV, but there is that disclaimer at the bottom of the screen saying it does not cure HPV and they want people 45 and under to consider getting vaccinated. I have always been pro-active about my health and had I known there was a vaccine, I would have taken it. My infectious disease specialist never mentioned it to me. I suppose I should have done my homework but I never really heard much about HPV until 2020. By that time I was already infected. So, all you guys out there who are not vaccinated, please get the situation taken care of. Get vaccinated. One less thing to worry about if you get it done early.....

I would be afraid to show mine, not because I am modest, but because many would say to see an anal fissure and cancer specialist due to all the damage. Just being honest guys....

Just a follow up on the East Side Club, the management sucks. I had a friend who had a medical emergency, and it was NOT drug related. I had to travel to the club, speak to management to get his wallet and keys back. The were SO inconvenienced you would have thought you were asking them to go to the moon. I would never go back there again.

Well I know in no means meant to offend individuals and I certainly didn't use the term "If you're not fucking, go away unless your white". Please don't group me in with a specific segment of the white population because I am not.

One video you may want to watch is Cutler X fucking Andy Starr. It is on the Cutler X web site. Now, I believe it was shot abroad, and Andy is so high, he looks almost frightened about what is going to happen to him. Cutler doesn't hold back and Andy takes it like a pro. But if you do get a chance to see it, look at the expression on Andy's face. It's a cross between excasty and horror, I know he has taken alot of huge dicks in his life time but it was obvious Cutler was really into him (literally). I don't know where it was, but I saw photos of the two of them sharing lunch or a bite to eat and they were both smiling from ear to ear. I guess it was a good match and a very good video. I am not a huge fan on one-on-one, but those two truly seemed matched for one another.

Your profile says you were born in the year 2000, so that should be your first clue. Many guys like their tricks to be in their 20s. Don't be offended. On another site, Adam4adam, the term being used is "Can you be generous". Now I never had seen that till I moved from rural Florida into a city the size of Tampa/Saint Pete but if you were born in the 70s, frankly, this is something I see often. Usually guys in college or underemployed, it's a less than tactful way to solicit. I don't turn them in, but I do block them. Enjoy the attention, you have years of it ahead of you. This really is nothing new, people are just becoming more forward imo.

I like how you said "a lot of people", I always review who is attending a party and I don't go anywhere with high expectations. I never think it's "all about me", though a condo full of eight naked men usually works out. Naked oil wrestling? Not for me, but I do agree that cattiness and backstabbing has no place in a location where almost any sexual desire can be fulfilled. I try to think outside the box and enjoy myself. But getting back to this thread, I really have never found situations where too many bottoms was the problem, it was usually those attending that created issues that made the situation uncomfortable for a few.

I find this subject of "too many bottoms" quite amusing. If it were not for bottoms, tops would have no place to put their dicks, they would be standing around in circle jerks. Years ago I was at a group sex party and someone was complaining that there were too many bottoms. Someone stood up and said, "they only people who don't like bottoms are OTHER bottoms". Truer words were never spoken. I don't ever recall a top complaining to me, GEEZ, there are just too many bottoms around, what am I going to do? You don't hear that because tops generally don't make those kinds of remarks. Sure, at times there can be an unequal ratio of tops to bottoms at group parties, but it always seems to work out.

I have kept my head in the sand regarding this subject as long as possible but here goes. Will everything that you mentioned be implemented on every social media and hook up site in the very near future, or has it already happened? Obviously "Meta" and "Barebackrt.com" have an entirely different group of members (at least I think) so I am confused as to how all of these different rules will be implemented, and how it will apply to someone like myself who may come across an app or site and decide to join? I know the responsible thing to do is READ all the TOS but it is very easy to just scroll down and check off the box that indicates I understand and agree. My fear is that once I hit that enter key that site now has enough identifying information on me that there is no question as to who I am and where I am located. I have read posts that BZ was not going to be available in certain states but I thought a VPN would get around issues like that. Like you mentioned apps need to be simple or people won't use them, I just wonder how quickly all of this is going to be part of our everyday lives or has it already happened? I should have been following your posts more closely because this is your site and you have mentioned that things would be changing. It wasn't until I read your most recent post regarding this subject that it dawned on me I better start paying attention. I know it's not possible to have some blanket statement that makes everyone feel comfortable and informed, because that's impossible. You mentioned you would let people give their opinions about how these rules would be enforced, I am hoping at some point there's a reference point that members can refer to. I can't imagine how moderators are going to deal with all of this when you have people joining daily that maybe are new to a Forum like this and may post something that is illegal and can result in a ban. Like you said, it needs to be kept simple and I would think common sense dictates what I post and what I don't, but everyone is different. Any idea as to when things will begin to feel differently here, because personally I've been here about fourteen months and after a few initial bumps in the road subject matters and posting still appear to be the same. Thanks for your time.

Thank you for your response. Thinking back, this video was older in nature, as Cutler himself was thinner and younger than the Cutler we see today. The fixtures, bedding, everything I could see in the room led me to believe the video was shot abroad. It was a part of a collection that actually included Tim Krueger (sp?) of Tim Tales fame, and he too was younger. The video could easily be 15 years old, or more. Tim and Cutler were performing in a three way video with a European bottom and I believe this "bleeding video" was lumped in with that one, only Tim was not involved. Both videos had little theatrical enhancements, not glossy, almost as if they could have been shot within a day or two of each other. In the three way video Cutler looked iike a really in shape college football player, not the bulkier huge guy we see today. Also, the credits (if there even were any) were minimal at best. Thanks again for responding. It was just something I found so upsetting I didn't really want to remember how I stumbled upon it. Thank you again

Since you mentioned CutlerX I thought I would follow up with something equally as, ah, disturbing. Cutler was fucking this latin bottom like he always does, and the camera man swings around, and there is blood just leaking out in a very direct stream towards the bedding. No one bothers to say, hey, we have a problem here. I am not sure if the bottom was aware, if Cutler himself was aware because from that angle I am not sure he could see, but the camera man sure as hell could see. They didn't stop, they waited for Cutler to cum, and that was it. To be fair to Cutler, this film is a number of years old, it's not from his CutlerX site but from another studio and I am not even certain if it was shot in the US. No matter what, the camera man should have put a stop to the production. Anyone else see this? I don't ever recall seeing someone bleed so obviously and no one bother to tell him.

It's been over a year now since I first asked Forum members their opinions on inter-racial sex. Most who responded have been very open minded, thinking my question to BZ members regarding the subject to be a "no-brainer" so to speak. I have seen plenty that have said the subject never crossed their minds, while others seemed to act as if the question was somehow offensive. That was never my intention. It was just a question I felt could be answered in an adult manner, not to be used as a platform for some to state just how difficult their lives are because of the color of their skin. This was about sexual likes and dislikes, not a Forum on racism. I won't mention names but I have had several posters tell me that because I am white I have absolutely no idea what they go through because they are black. True, I don't know what your life experiences have been but this thread has gone WAY off track and if you read my original post you'll see it was a question about preferences, not the colonization of Caribbean nations or anything like that. This is a Forum that touches on all parts of our lives, but the main focus is sex and I think if you read the very first post you'll see that was what I was asking about. It's a shame some people were offended.

So now Doublelist is flagging accounts????? One of the good things I felt about both DL and CL was that I never mentioned "enhancements" so to speak because frankly, the guys that showed up had no idea I was "under the influence" and it was really none of their business. I gave them what they wanted and they did the same for me. This is the first I am hearing of DL flagging accounts. I had even created a new email account because DL required one, but the ones I have either include my legal name or are my gmail account, which easily identifies me. I didn't appreciate DL making us use an email address, but it was the closest thing to the old CL so I agreed. Can anyone just tell me when they first noticed accounts being flagged? This is very disappointing.

It's still by "go to" profile when wanting to hook up. Now that I live in a city as opposed to a more rural area it works well. One cautionary note, I may have mentioned this before. The guys who are are signed on during the day are either very young, very mature or retired/unemployed. Try 2 am on Saturday night and the entire cast of characters changes and it is a much more active site. Funny thing, everyone wants to host because they don't want to drive at that hour. Thank God for Uber and Lyft.

On @Onlyfans I love @Deepvoice7 or @Deepvoice whatever number. What I like is that he shows his face, he is incredibly handsome, and he has no problem getting involved in group play. In other words, the video does not have to revolve around him.....

......Good luck with finding that... Nothing personal, but I doubt there are may here that fill those requirements. Again, nothing personal.

No, I was in something called the "Webelows", which I always thought was a junior version of the Boy Scouts. I didn't last long, I know we took a bus trip from Philadelphia to Washington, DC, and I had to wear this new, itchy uniform. I hated it, after that trip I was pretty much done with that........