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Question to @Shotsfired - at what point, on any site, do you cut a guy off after he has asked and you have answered twenty or thirty questions. I know people's evenings and free time are valuable, but so is my time and fielding questions that won't end up in a hook up just make me go nuts. I try to make my profiles clear and direct, I invite people to say hello and I don't list "Absolute No's" in the general area of my profile. However, I have had individuals ask me 20 or 25 questions, acting as if they are looking for sex at that time, only to be told they are interested in getting together "sometime next week". This kind of behavior drives me bonkers, I don't engage with people on hook up sites unless I am looking for sex that afternoon or evening - not next Thursday. So what's your feeling on the subject?

Let's give BZ's server a try and post those pics (I know I will hear from a moderator about this but I couldn't resist).

I don't recall anyone every asking me to see any kind of medical reports - EVER. Now have they asked me, sure. I have a friend who actually posts his results above his toilet in his bathroom, frankly I am not going that far. If I meet someone from BBRT the question of status is there, I believe on A4A as well. If you have been online in a specific geographic area for a number of years many people have a good idea of your status. I have had Xanax and sleeping pills stolen from my house ONCE, it never happened again and every time I am "hosting" my medications are locked up and put away. But I am not about to hand over my latest Quest Diagnostics report, no way. no how.

This has happened to me, only I was on the receiving end. It was a work night, he had to get up in the morning, but he fell asleep after he shot his load. Funny thing, I enjoyed the cock but when he started to snore, I had to wake him up. He was embarrassed, but appreciated my concern for his job and getting home to his own bed. I still play with him to this day,

I have noticed this on a few occasions in Only Fans videos. I think the guys already know what the answer is, but what is great about Only Fans is the audio, sometimes things are said that can be a real turn on. At least, that has been my experience.

Since I am usually out of town if I go to the baths, I make it a habit after checking in of walking around the entire facility - twice. It gives me the opportunity to get acquainted with the facility, and also allows those who have lockers or rooms a chance to see me. Public spaces like hot tubs or pools I make sure I am naked and people have the opportunity to view me. I always take a shower immediately upon arriving so those who may have been "occupied" when I first unlocked my door have a chance of get a look. It's free advertising, so to speak. Nothing wrong with that....

I have stayed at several Best Westerns in Florida over the past two years and after 10 pm they will not allow anyone even into the lobby without a key card. It doesn't seem to be based on race, it happened to me as I returned from dinner and was shocked that there was an added layer of security. I still think drive up motels where you don't go through a lobby are the best idea, but I know in cities like NYC that isn't possible. Just wanted to pass the word on Best Westerns as I am a member of their "loyalties" program and have noticed an increase in their security measures. Day time hours seem to be fine, and while staying in Pensacola I became friends with the gay front desk clerk who worked during the day. He said he has actually found guys having sex in the stair wells (sp?)during the day, he just told them to take it back to one of the rooms instead of calling the police. The added security may just be implemented during the evening but I can't be positive.

#16 - plays well with others, but is too nosey I have to see what else is going on.

@PigBoyDallas - that was an excellent post, the first model mention, Phoenix, was in the local news after his shoot out with police and subsequent death. They gave his legal name and mentioned his gay for pay porn career, but didn't mention "Broke Straight Boys". I have, in the past, wondered how many were truly "straight" and from what I heard in that post it seems the majority were (or are). Thanks again.....

@chipygmalion80 - I agree with you that these cruise places are not a good idea. I live in Florida where they routinely have busts in cruising areas, I have driven by a particular location that was the entrance to a wooden area and police were taking pics of guys right in front of passing vehicles, some in handcuffs. What is worse is some sheriff's enjoy going on the 6'o clock news and posting pics of those arrested in these various sting operations, even mentioning where these guys work. It's just not worth it. I'll stick to apps, I offer guys the opportunity to web cam or Face Time with me if they are not so sure. Currently the closest cruising area has cops giving out citations for men having sex in vehicles. Not for me.......I am proficient enough to whore myself out online, thank you very much - 🫢

Yes I actually read a book he wrote, talking about homophobia he faced growing up as a child. He is a pastor and of course, is no longer in porn. He was a very impressive top........

Definition of BBC - porn star Cutler X. If BBC ever becomes part of the dictionary they could use of pic of him about to enter some bottom's ass. No it's not the biggest, but it's a good example of what constitutes a BBC.

I am a huge follower of OF and I have seen a number of videos where the poppers are sort of "just off camera", but it's apparent that they have been used. In particular, group videos I have noticed prescription medication bottles (for say viagra) and I think it should be considered normal as these videos are shot in people's homes or hotel rooms. Perhaps the reason I am seeing these particular videos that show what you are saying is prohibited, is because of my source for these OF videos. I suppose these are discarded or taken down because someone flagged the video for it's content. To be honest, I never knew these rules were so strictly enforced by OF. So management of OF thinks we all believe their performers do not use any kind of medical or recreational enhancement? That's just being unrealistic, but thanks for your post because I wasn't aware that OF performers were held to such a high standard. It's their content, they produced it, so I find it kind of sad that a bottle of poppers would result in the video being removed.

At least in my geographic area these are my feelings on both computer and phone apps: Barebackrt.com - still my "go - to" site, especially on weekends after 11:00. No problems with playing raw, if they are online after 1 am they have been on the hunt and hungry and the "travelers" area has worked out well for me since I live in a vacation area. Daytime members are consistently the same, I sign in to check messages but when I want to play I check on weekends and late at night. Adam4Adam.com - Really has changed in this area. Prior to 2017 I lived on that site and found maybe 90 percent of my hookups. Upon moving to a bigger geographic area the guys got younger and some have motives that were not always sexual. I have had encounters with guys who are basically homeless, and looking for a couch to sleep on. At least two I initially met when I moved here were still on parole and had been out of jail for less than a year. I don't advertise that I am party friendly as some members will zone in on guys who post an interest in that subject. I had to turn off my location indicator because I was having trouble with guys getting a good idea as to where I live and verifying my identity. I deleted my account there. Sniffies - okay, there is alot of interest and activity during the day and week on this site. Many guys looking for you to host. Age range varies, in this area they tend to be younger. There are some guys that are virtually "passing through" the area, some have maybe one pic or even no pics. This geographic area is experiencing an increased amount of "Sextortion" cases as was reported on the local news and is being investigated by the local sheriff. Cases have doubled since this time last year. It's best to keep your face off this site if I were you. I can't say Sniffies is the cause, I haven't had bad experiences personally but people have pointed to Sniffies as the source of some catfishing issues. Grindr/Scruff - okay, pet peeve here but so many guys create an account, then delete and reappear as someone new when it fact it is the same guy you messaged two weeks ago. Considering the amount of money they want I found it wasn't worth the aggravation and time searching out someone new. Like A4A I don't use either any longer. Doublelist - okay this has been a pleasant surprise. Like Craigslist, there are guys on this site that don't appear anywhere else. Many are married to women or in relationships, want you to host, and are very direct in what they are looking for. One good thing is that I had to create an account with an email address so you have some point of reference if you meet someone and it goes badly. I use it and it has produced some really hot men who I wouldn't find on some of the more "conventional" sites.

Get well soon rawTop, health does comes first. We'll all still be here......chat or no chat.

I don't know if "requiring" more information in the profile is the way to go. After all, this is a Forum, some people wish to share less than others. They may not want to be tracked, or give other members an idea as to who or where they are. I think the profile section is fine. You put in your contact information, or you decide not to. However, REQURING members to give out that kind of information may make some people think twice before joining. That would be a negative since there are many BZ members who share information, either medical, political or sexual that we don't know much about personally. To me their contributions outweigh knowing if they are close enough to hook up with, or if they are a top or a bottom.

If you don't mind, could you just post on here if you indeed received that deposit by the date promised. I use PayPal as well, but I have had issues with theft so I opted for the paper check. Thanks again for responding.

I received an email two days ago telling me that I was entitled to a whopping $32.32 from a settlement regarding Zoom. due to possible privacy violations. It was one of those class action lawsuits and I do recall filling out the form that I did participate in Zoom calls during the time frame that was mentioned. God some of those Zoom calls with a 100 naked guys were fun, but that's another story. Here's my question to BZ members - they offered to pay me via credit cards, google app cards, or a direct deposit to my checking account. I know better than to give out that information, but I did reach out to the administrator. This morning I received an email back that read "a paper check option may be available for this settlement. Please note that the paper check reissue process can take 4-6 weeks to complete". Now on the initial email there was an area to check that I wanted to be reimbursed by a paper check, but it never asked for my address. Now I could have given them my address when I completed the initial form, I can't remember. However, there was no way I was going to give them my routing number or checking account number, I would not give them PayPal information either. Have any other members received a similar email? I think it is legitimate but I was curious as I know there are some members that enjoy Zoom and may have been in the Google Plus rooms before they were taken away from us for our naughty behavior...... '

There is truth to that saying, "Young, dumb, hung and full of cum". Hey if they want to, why not? Frankly, if they're interested and they initiate the encounter I won't say no. I don't chase down guys who are in their late teens or early 20s but at times our paths cross and I was happy with the outcome. I didn't mean any offense by including the word "dumb" it's just what was included the first time I heard that mentioned. I don't make it a habit of calling people dumb, for the record.

He's all over the place video wise. I believe the pairing with Andy Starr was courtesy of Men.com, but I have seen Sir Peter work for Eric Videos as well as his Onlyfans account. He also has worked for Lucas Entertainment and that was the first time I believe I saw Sir Peter bottom. So if you have a place you "go to" for porn, he has worked for a number of studios. Good luck with your search!

Sir Peter fucking Andy Starr......okay, it's been done already but I wanna see Episode 2 (if there is one).

I wouldn't. Why ruin a good thing, it could happen again in the future with his son so why ruin a future encounter. Plus you ruin an opportunity to continue to play with a guy who is so very close to you. If he was "gay curious" when he fucked you, he may be "curious" again in the future. I would just put the past in the past and not say anything, it could ruin all future hook up chances with both of them.

I remember taking school work over to a class mate who was sick, we were in 6th grade. He was my best friend, so it was not as if I didn't know him. We sat in the living room, both his parents were at work, and he climbed under the table, pulled my dick out and started to blow me. That had never happened in the past, he wasn't exactly someone I had even the notion of being sexual with. The funny thing was, I shot my load in his mouth, and he ran over into the kitchen and spit it out in the sink. He thought I pissed in his mouth. No, I shot my load in his mouth. Neither one of us really understood what happened but what was in the sink was while, not yellow. It triggered something in me, that made me want to find other kids and older teenagers to repeat the process. The irony of this is that he never spoke to me again, and actually sent out a petition to my classmates to get me to "fly right" and "be straight". To this day I wonder what happened to him, I know we went to colleges in different states, and I eventually lost track of him. Obviously having my dick sucked really turned me on to guys, I would never think a girl would do that. For him, I guess it was some sort of awakening and he felt the urge to tell people there was something "different" or "wrong" with me, but in that petition he never mentioned he was the one who climbed under the table and pulled my dick out. True story, to this day I am tempted to try and track him down, find out where he lives and what he did with his career. I'd love to know if he married a woman or stayed "single" like myself. Ah, the memories of Catholic schools.