ellentonboy

I find your doctor's response surprising. I switched physician's because the previous one always wanted to run some new test, send me to some specialist for a condition that he THOUGHT I might have, it was like "doctor-a-go-go". I understand your concern about being seen monthly, that's wise. You would think he would want to bill your insurance, as most guys try as much as possible to avoid going to see their doctor. I finally changed because my long time doctor would no longer be my "primary care physician", nor would he write controlled substances, in my case sleeping pills. So that meant I needed to see three doctors now, instead of one. He did make an announcement and he did give everyone ample time to find a PCP and someone to write controlled substances. But WHY do I need three doctors, when he just continue to follow the same course and treat everything himself. Why? MONEY. He became part of corporation. I really think I will start a thread on here because after being a patient of a doctor for so many years, and then finding he had a change in "Business Model", I was furious. Now I have an Infectious Disease Specialist who is about to turn 68 and I fear he may retire any day. I am glad there are posters on here who want to have their health monitored. Frankly, and I know this idea is not popular, but I cannot wrap my head around "bug chasing" or failing to treat an illness and let it just run it's course, so to speak. I hope you remain healthy........it seems most gay men I meet have at least one on-going condition, and that is a shame.

I am familiar with @onlyfans/letseatcakexx - I have seen a number of their videos. The guys are indeed hot. I am not sure where they are based out of, or where they actually live, but they do travel and I think it is their purpose to find guys who will let them film during sex. It does make sense. Some of their videos have "gone off the rails", you hear them talking more about the equipment (and not always being in focus or forgetting to hit the damn RECORD button) but yep they are hot, and they do pop up at a lot of organized gay events.

So you are saying we have to go to the doctor every other month for an injection as opposed to having a delivery man come to my door to drop off my meds and controlled substances. My doctor requires me to come twice yearly to make sure I have behaved,,,,,,,,I will stick with the delivery guy.

Lito Cruz, Jerry Stearns - you have very good taste guy!😏

Someone gave me a free membership to ass pig. One problem, I am not into being fisted. Surprise, surprise! I was not happy to learn when I put the word "bottom" in my profile all these guys wanted to get out the Crisco. Nah, not for me, But my God were there alot of guys I recognize from BBRT and A4A. Yes I knew it was still around!

I see you are from Pensacola, I have been there several times as I have two sisters living in that city. I live in Saint Pete, I feel like I am driving into another world when I go up there. To say they are a bit "backwards" would be an understatement. All the anti-abortion signs, with the exception of the beach area the city itself does not give me a gay friendly feeling. It's funny, I always stay at a certain Best Western and the front desk guy, whose family owns that particular franchise, is gay. He tells me if it were not for his connection to that hotel he would have left Pensacola long ago. However, last time I was there I noticed quite a bit of young, college types near the hospital area, and where the majority of restaurants are. I know there are young guys there, they have to be horny, so I imagine things are better when college is in session. I hear what you are saying, BBRT is probably better, you must get sick of seeing the same faces all the time. I suppose during the summer months there are people that go to the beach area to visit, so I suppose that is an option. I have spoken to two very hot guys on BBRT from that area, so you probably don't have that difficult a time finding some quality guys - it's just, it's probably the same guys over and over. I have, in the past, taken little three day sex vacations to say Orlando, or Lauderdale, just because I am sick of the same guys. I advertise as being from out of town and that usually sparks interest from the locals. Hang in there, it will get better. Surprised, you haven't ventured off to Atlanta, now that is where some action is....

Promote, promote, promote! I hope I am allowed to say this, but post in BBRT and even A4A that you are visiting and looking to play now. Being from out of town always has it's advantages. Those two sites are usually friendly to visitors from out of town.!

I have experience with that scenario, though the father and son did not touch each other. I knew the father for about seven years, he was late 40s and I found him on A4A one night, he promised to come over the next morning and he showed up right on time. Amazing how a web cam can convince someone at 11 pm at night to be at your place 9 am sharp the next morning, see I keep pushing the web cam gentleman. I would have him over maybe every other month, huge top who was very skilled, knew what he was doing. Very good natured, I always managed to get him off, he told me how much he enjoyed my company. Nice enough to pick me up, take me to his "second home" and play there in a sling. I also invited him if I had a "group" over, usually someone who was local who might have been entertaining an out of town guest. One particular friend had a guy visit who took the Greyhound Bus from Oklahoma to Tampa, so I invited them to come down to the Bradenton area to play. Well I also invited my local buddy, to make it an even four, and he really appreciated me asking him to join the group. He said he was flattered I would think of him, but to be honest, he was non-judgmental, he basically was nice to everyone and proceeded to fuck the hell out of me, his little socks flew off his feet when he shot his load. I felt I was a good host that day So a few weeks later he said he had a "surprise" for me, and wanted to know when I might be free for him to come over. We planned on a weekend, mid day. He shows up with this guy in his mid 20s and says "this is my son". Well when he pulled down his pants, I could see the family resemblance, though the son was a shade or two darker, and about an inch or two bigger (really big). I remember blowing the two of them and I looked us as they were thouching each other's nipples. Now, there is only so much room in my ass, and they are very hygienic. So the son went to town on my ass, I remember him smiling at me, he still had braces. I did ask for ID only because I was so excited, and they are indeed father and son. His Dad took a whole bunch of pictures, while his son fucked me, I never saw them touch each other besides the nipples. The son pushed me so far back on my bed by the time he shot his load in me I was virtually standing on my head. We had a good laugh about it, the father enjoyed it, we had a blast. I continued to see the two of them over the next several years, usually adding another bottom so that it would be an even four. I miss my old apartment, living in that small city where "being a big fish in a little pond" had it's advantages. My old city was known for it's outlet mall off of I-75. I used to joke when the exit was coming up on drivers, I said they should post "next exit to @ellentonboy. It would have made giving directions so much easier. That's my story of having sex with a father and son. The son was mid and I suppose now late 20s, I guess over 30. I really miss his Dad, who was wonderful to me. It can happen guys, no need to make it creepy or illegal, because this is an example of two legal aged gay male adults, who just both happened to be father and son, and didn't mind stopping by my apartment for a little "[banned word]" fun time.

Attention SawMill fans (lol): If you are on their mailing list I believe first weekend in November they are having one of their special events - not sure if it the "Leather weekend" but the cooler months are enjoyable there because you can wear leather and not suffocate in the heat. I think what I enjoy most are the special events, usually during the winter months. For those who have not been, it's sort of in the middle of "nowhere", which is fine because it's incredibly private. It's not exactly easy to navigate once you exit I-75, but once you have done it, you usually remember how to find it. Those special events attract guys from all over.

It's all about timing, and the city you are in. In certain cities the bath houses (or sex clubs) are only busy on the weekends during the evening. Now think of Lauderdale, and I remember a time I could stay eight hours at one place, drive to a second location and then drive back again once I completed my eight hours to the original spot. You have guys on their lunch time, some who work evenings and not during the day, some from out of town on vacation, and of course - the staff! I don't give up after thirty minutes, because the tide will change in the blink of an eye and an entire new group can arrive. It's about timing, not blowing your load with the first guy, more importantly - pacing yourself!

One problem I have with “location services” on apps is I find guys know exactly who is at your home. I had an embarrassing incident where I was “mid-play” when someone, who had been turned down by my “visitor” showed up and knocked on the door. The two of them had an argument, and the guy who interrupted us left. However, it did not prevent my neighbor from coming out and observing their confrontation. My advice, if your trick shows up, turn your phones or location services off, because I had a negative experience making my location known.

Scams as in outright CRIMINALS (yes they have been in my home) and Recon is widely unused in the US (at least not to hookup). I agree, though on occasion there is a chance someone from A4A may NOT be a felon ,,,,,imagine that!

I can say some of these long time sites are still popular, but it does depend on where you live. Here on the west coast of Florida, specifically Tampa/St. Petersburg, Adam4Adam is still popular and you can hook up fairly easily. Now let me preface that statement by saying this - it is a free site and you will find many younger members on there. You find college students who are available during day hours, and like BBRT, the members who are actively looking increase on weekends and after midnight. A4A even has a section called "Looking for Now" - which indicates who is looking to play within the next hour or two, not next week. So for that, I give them credit. I have noticed some guys who, if they see you are in your 40s, may ask "can you pay for my Uber" or even worse "Can you be generous?" Now, A4A has a section for guys looking to earn money "as models" so try to read "between the lines" as they say. If someone asks for me to pay for an Uber, I tell them to take the bus (yep, I have said that). If they say "Can you be generous", I take a screen shot and report them to A4A for soliciting. I know some guys may think I am a prick for doing that but they specifically say but the site is not Men4RentNow.com. There are sites for guys looking to be paid, I have nothing against sex workers, but I don't like some 24 year old asking me for $80, it's insulting. A4A has worked for me. At least in this geographic area. I have traveled to other parts of the country and the pickings have been slim in some areas, but that generally meant they were using another site. For instance, "Manhunt" is pretty empty in this area. Another site gave me a free week on Manhunt so I joined. The majority were "Not Looking for Now", more like "Looking for the end of October, on a Thursday, between 3 and 4 pm". Not kidding. There was somewhat of an anti-poz feeling as well, it was usually the first question asked and I understand that. Manhunt was a bust, there was a guy who remembered hooking up with me, and as I reflect he was very good looking with an awesome body, but it was oral sex and I remember turning him down on one occasion and he was livid, after I told him my other option included fucking and he did not. Well, we got passed that, I have seen him since, and he's great to look at and it's a much different type of encounter. I hear people complain about BBRT. I know other sites have come and gone. I just thin it depends on where you live and what time you sign on. What you get at 12 noon on a Friday is not what you are going at 12 midnight on any weekend. That's been my experience, I have thought to expand my opportunities by trying new sites, I have done the Grindr route (laid on the first night, about an hour after I joined) and Scruff (questioned endlessly about my relationship status and many "what if" scenarios). Again, these apps and online sites are about one thing. LOCATION.

I don't know of any straight guy who (and I mean identifies as heterosexual and has never had sex with a man) relishes the fact of having a dick up his ass. I have spoken to straight girlfriends of mine who have told me they, on occasion, have stuck their fingers in the butts of their boyfriends. Some got positive responses (no pun intended) while others said the finger was met with much anger and disapproval. So to say that a straight guy is nonchalant about having a cock up his hole, is to me, highly unlikely. Like the models in the mentioned videos, I would venture to say the one bottoming in the scene has done it in the past. No question in my mind.

I'll say this, I had a guy who pissed up my ass without telling me he was going to do it. I believe I told him I had someone scheduled later that afternoon. Once I found out what he did, I chased him out of my house with a knife. He left his watch behind. Fuck that! You piss up someone's ass, who spent time making sure it's totally clean, is so disrespectful and rude I don't know how else to describe it. Not this guy, not ever...

Don't feel that way, I saw it when I was in parochial grade school in Philadelphia. Just tell folks it was the very first gay porn you saw, you're not old.😉

You know I didn't want to be the one to mention that, but I thought both had passed quite some time ago. What a shame, thanks for posting that.

Nooooo. Never insist and never will. I am not about to pass up a chance on some great sex with a very hot man just because he wants to put a piece of plastic on his dick that I probably won't even feel. Not passing on a quality guy over an issue like a condom. Not this guy.......

That is some "TO DO" list. Keep us posted if you are successful.

There is a saying - the difference between giving a blow job and getting punched in the face is a six pack of Coronas. I am in agreement with your friend that alcohol, above even "enhancements" allows many men to "let down their guard", and participate in things they normally would not do sober. It sort of follows that senior high or college scenario "Oh man, I was so drunk last night I didn't know what I was doing". Sure, you don't remember, because you don't want to....... I think your friend is right....

Very, very sorry for your loss.

Very very sorry for your loss.

If I am not mistaken Jon King and J.W.King made a movie together, Falcon perhaps? I do believe Jon King passed away quite a while ago, not sure about J.W. King .....

I am glad I am not the only one who recognizes some of these "straight boys" performing in gay porn. I liked your remark regarding "To Catch a Predator", the "I've made some iced tea" is a classic!

One thing that I will admit is frustrating is seeing a guy online, sending a message, and noticing the never opened it - EVER. The haven't deleted it because you can see that clearly in your "SENT" box, because it will have the red X through it. For me, I don't plan sex for Friday evening on Tuesday morning, I just don't do that. It has just been my experience that on a Friday evening, say around midnight, the guys will be much different that those on midday. I said that in an earlier post. But here is the thing, sign on and don't wait for them to come to you, make your interest known. Try asking several at the same time, and the first one that is a yes go with that one. The times I have "double booked" and it has happened, I was able to ask them to come a few hours later than planned and it worked out. If you get a message from say, an out of town visitor, jump on that because they are here for a limited time and if they don't hook up with you, they probably will find someone in your area to play with. I wouldn't put all my interest in one site, I would keep an app on my phone for one site, and keep several online profile showing "online", "active" or "looking for sex now". People have mixed reviews for some of the BBRT sex parties. I can tell you from experience that maybe 1/4 of those who sign up actually show up. If the timing is right, say at a hotel, you might find someone waiting for their "shot" and you can make plans with them at that moment or a short time later. Finally, make your profile honest, realistic but flexible. Granted "substances" are a real sticky point. The words HELL NO should probably be replaced with "You Can", and it will just take a message or two to find out just how much that guy is interested in "enhancements". If it too much to bear for you, then move on.