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  1. topblkmale
    DICK
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    Its the sad reality of our lives in the US and other western societies. One can no longer be around any family, friends or co-workers without hearing mindless, endless political 'discussions'. (I just nod in agreement and politely change with subject)
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    Glad things turned out ok and he's NOT underage or a LEO. One day this kid will mess with the wrong guy on Grindr and find himself in a bad situation.
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    Yes, I'm aware explore and distance can be turned off. I keep these settings disabled when I'm home. I mainly use Grindr when I travel as I am not interested in doing anything with local guys.
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    Careful. Depending on where you live (suburb, urban, rural) and the distance, he could figure out where you live using the explore function on Grindr. I turn my distance off after I have a shady interaction with someone. But I live in an urban area so someone close-by can figure out where I live just by walking the neighborhood.
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    I was approached by a guy first claiming to be 19 years old then later changed their age closer to being 15 years old. Similar to the OP. The chatting back and forth didn't match the age/demographic I was supposedly chatting with. (use of slang/abbreviations) Also alot of the conversation appeared very purposely scripted. After I the guy changed his age and I suspected it was a LEO, I quickly blocked the profile. Blocking a profile removes the chat history on both parties.
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    Reporting this to the local police might not go over too well for none of the parties involved. Its quite possible that this WAS actually law enforcement trying to entrap the poster. For discretion on Grinder I recommend using disappearing pics and NOT talking to anyone under 21 years of age. There are lots of high school age trans kids on Grindr in my neighborhood. (whole other topic for discussion) I immediately block them if they are too close or make ANY kind of contact with my profile. I live in the NE where there are many local jurisdictions and I have been approached at least twice by LEOs aka 'to catch a predator'.
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    Since your younger I would recommend Rainbow Playground Club. Its a play space where you undress at the check in desk where your clothing is stored in a plastic bag. Guys walk around in underwear or less except Tuesday nights which is totally nude. Tell one of the guys working the front reception desk its your first time. They are generally helpful with that. Most sex venues in NYC have a similar set-up.
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    When I go to certain sex venues (baths, ABS, clubs) in my area, guys on Grindr immediately hit me up and ask if I am there. They either live nearby or use the 'explore' feature to find guys who are there. Never understood this.
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    Straight sex has clear boundaries. Step outside of those boundaries and you kinky (as they say).
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    It counts as 'due diligence' and it makes guys feel better about themselves for having unprotected sex with random and complete strangers who they just met in a cruise spot or an online app. The correct answer remains: Yes, I'm clean. Are you? (make suspicious looking expression on face)
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    Is this place still open? I've never been to Detroit but would love to check it out.
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    I wonder if there are still guys out there who will meet each other WITHOUT face pics. I have had to block local faceless profiles on Grindr who have said they have seen me going to work. I don't need that kind of attention. I live in a dense urban area. I would NOT recommend hooking up with sketchy folks who live within > 1000 to 4000 feet. I've had two previous hook-ups show up at my place randomly unannounced and WAIT.
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    In October 2021, Manhattan was in the height of the delta-Covid surge. Many workers were still remote and alot of businesses were closed still in Manhattan. I worked in midtown east 3 blocks from ESC during 2022 and midtown did not come back fully post-post pandemic til around gay pride and tourist season in June 2022. Also ESC was heavily enforcing the vaccine requirement which turned away alot of patrons who were not vaccinated in early 2021. Fast forward to fall 2022 and I would say ESC is actually busier than pre-Covid. There was a lull in attendance in August 2022 during the monkey pox outbreak. I go weekday afternoons and its always pretty busy. I have also noticed the crowd is very different. Many patrons I hear come from the two bath houses that shut down during Covid. So yes, I would say ESC has bounced back. For bath house type activity I would consider you also check out Rainbow Playground Club and their nightly events.
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    I'm assuming ATL still only has the one bath house, Flex, and no sex clubs. Is the scene in ATL mostly in guy's private dwellings?
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    That's not the case in NYC.
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    Sadly Covid and the closure of Paddles ended Lidell's parties. I am wondering where many of the black men who attended his events go now. I've been to other parties but its not the same welcoming all-inclusive vibe. Lidell really knows how to have an event where the staff are all friendly with ample refreshments and clean-up supplies. Not to mention he would play that SAME scratched house music CD at every event. I knew the mix by heart. Also Lidell would always personally greet guys with a warm hello and small talk where he remembers everyone's name. I consider him to be an icon of the NYC sex party scene.
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    The stereotype that gay men are very neat and clean is TOTALLY FALSE!
  19. topblkmale
    fraud and identity theft 👍
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    I didn't find anything non sincere about him having a preference. I love all sodas and as a black man I love grape soda more if given a choice. 👍☑️
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    Lidell had the best parties that attracted some very fine sexy black men. I've heard Nubian Dukes has parties still.
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    For me I NEVER fuck in an ABS unless I know the bottom previously and if their hole is clean. There is nothing worse than fucking a dirty whole where there are no facilities to clean your dick.
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    I have had a few who tried to imitate porn. For some reason they usually imitate the female sucking dick in straight hetero porn with the excessive moaning, (imaginary) hair toss and generally doing way too much.
  24. topblkmale
    Ruin't, routed out holes are the best. Especially when the gape makes that hollowed out negative suction noise.
  25. topblkmale
    Did you experience this in your 20s as a top, bottom, or verse?

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