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  1. 100% the fucking. if i get a load, that's a perk but it's not the sole goal
  2. oh, i hadn't had one of those in a while. one did however help me get over the hump. i've always been a natural verbal moaner etc but when i was young the whole concept of "dirty talk" was weird to me. but one night i fucked this guy who turned out to be str8 on the DL (very pretty eager bottom, and a dad w kids - go figure) who was hardcore into it. he was literally babbling like a parrot who's owner watches too much porn but once i saw how excited it got him, i joined in. i was terrible at it, but he didn't care and it excited me to get him excited. OTOH, enjoying nurturing my sub bottom side of late, i love it when im moaning about how good the dicking is and the top harshly growls at me "shut the fuck up and just take it bitch!" 💦💦💦
  3. oh, the viagra does that to me now. tbh it's always taken me forever to cum but this too is something that in the 90s was a bonus but today is a liability. everyone seems to have become such a cum slut that guys start beggin for your load as soon as you impale them. the other day this guy was giving me such great head i swear i came twice but it turned out to be orgasms w/out ejaculation. i felt like a prostate cancer servivor. the bj was great for me but the guy never got his "reward"
  4. i've joined several meet up groups that proport to be about massage or nudity or whatever, and they are, but they all also quickly devolve into orgies. the guys who attend them all seem to be more like you so perhaps you should check some of them out. i don't agree 100% about the apps. everyone is there so it's hard to say "everyone is so..... " because there's actually a wide variety. i know i've been frustrated when looking for just the opposite. it's like dude i wanna get fucked by a stranger, not get married! 😜
  5. i think most guys are like this. i used to be. but i think these labels are really more for show than science. it's almost like "who are you taking to the office xmas party?" you're not gonna show up w last night's drunken mistake. you're going to take someone you're emotionally involved w. which gender that person is tells your coworkers if your "str8" or "gay"
  6. i love this story but i just want to point out that it's from 2008 at least 4 years before prep so the whole cumming outside angle makes more sense. i used to cruise the park in nyc in the 90s because that's where'd i'd more like meet black and latino guys who barebacked. so i'm both sad and happy i missed going here. sounds like my kind of place but id prob be poz for sure if i'd of known of it.
  7. i had a sim but dif thing happen: id been bred earlier in the evening and still had the load up inside me. this kid was one of those people giving mixed "will he or won't he" signals all night but he did end up coming over and just when he was pounding away good and deep he suddenly pulled out and asked for something to clean off w. he started getting a bit agitated saying tissues weren't enough and i had to bring him a wet facecloth etc then i tried going down on him and he freaked out and pushed away and said "no! you made a mess!" then got dressed and left. i looked at the discarded tissues and it was just some cum and a lil bit of brownish ass juice. ive fucking felched bottoms before and this princess was having a mental breakdown over gettin a bit of slop on his dick? everyone's different i guess.
  8. schwing! damn, now i can't leave my desk till this hard on goes down 😜
  9. for us boomers and GenXers who lived thru the trauma of the aids crisis: prep was a game changer. even tho i've taken countless loads over the past few years, emotionally it's never enough to compensate for decades of not taking any. we are also not young studs and boners on demand is a thing of the past. milenials take too many antidepressants 😜prozac gave me ED and as a 30 something i flushed that shit. i'd rather be depressed than celebate. and frankly, given all the yearning for a strong daddy, i think younger guys are too scarred by modern life to be tops. if this was 1960s trump and biden would have had bullets in the back of their heads by now. we older guys may be dicks but we do seem to have thicker skin
  10. how are the housing prices in your area? because i am moving there immediately! 😜 i currently live in southern new england aka bottom capital of the world. the last guy who bred me did so after a long day of swallowing anon loads at a glory hole. even the tops are bottoms here 😜 meth is one part of it but it also much more. considering that the last two guys i topped were a bi flip-flopper and a str8 anal-curious novice, i think tucker carlson has a point about male masculinity crisis: even becky with the good hair's husband craves anon raw dick up the ass 😜
  11. hook up apps expose you to all sorts of people you'd not meet in your everyday life. it also has a way of shining a light on people at their messiest. but it has provided me with many a humorous "and this one time band camp" slutty sex story😜
  12. it all depends. what's both great and awful about sniffies is its full of dl, cheaters, sr8 guys etc and they can be high maintenance and annoying at times. or they can be fun. saturday one hyper guy hit me up lookin for quick head asap and liking my offer of blindfolded door open anon. he wasn't kidding either, got right to it, growing rather quickly as my mouth work on him, then just grabbed my head to hold still for some rough throat pounding. his ragged breathing clued me that he was ready to blow but i wasn't prepared for the absolute flooding my mouth received. i kept swallowing but more jizz kept coming. poor guy must have had a serious 4 day load clogging up his pipes 😜then he zipped up n quickly left. i was almost breathless myself from the driveby skullfucking and the tasty load still coating my mouth, having swallowed what felt like 3 normal loads, all from some bitch's husband i never even saw 🐷 the phone thing also depends wildly on the guy, the vibe, who's doin what etc. i've had dom masters scroll their phones while i blow them. usually they're tryin to whore me out, lookin for other tops to come use me, so i'm cool w the phone in those cases. 🐷
  13. i prefer verbal but variety is the spice of life 😜 anon GH hookup the other day was silent type, but he was one of those guys that finally slams balls deep and then goes still all is quiet including breathing but you feel your hole register each throb from the base of his dick as he pumps 1, 2, 3, 4 squirts before pulling out
  14. you do it cause it feels great. these neg thoughts and/or fear of other people's judgement is what kept me from exploring more at a younger age. ironically, it take a huge amount of self confidence to be a total sub servicing faggot. personally, i'm just glad im not going to end up on my deathbed going "you know, i really wish i'd let two guys piss all over me outside at least just once" when it comes to sex: "life is a banquette and most poor suckers are starving to death!" 🐷
  15. i went over to an anon GH "goatthroat's" house sat nite for the very reason @ShootDownMyThroat described above: after a busy day of servicing he needed to bust a nut in a fellow slut. his profile pic is a close up of his luscious mouth, his surrounding beard covered in thick jizz. now that's truth in advertising! 😜
  16. that being said, he still has a point. i came here not understanding the bug chasing fetish and simply by reading and listening silently, i learned. there's plenty of fetishes i don't get but i dont initiate topics about them just to say "ew". even the post he's responding to is more a statement of dislike rather than a genuine request for information.
  17. the closest tangible real life example i can think of, is when comedians complain that people come up to them after the show to say certain topics shouldn't be joked about. kinda like PC Karens i guess. this is such a non issue for me i can't even be bothered to roll my eyes. people are worried we're all gonna be thrown in jail for using the wrong pronoun, meanwhile people are actually going to jail in real life for abortion, assisted suicide, etc im not saying it's impossible but trust me, ill be long dead before this country ever becomes "too liberal" 😜
  18. i've enjoyed many a fb "relationship" over the years including one that really got me thru covid lockdown w/out going insane 😜 as for regrets: i've only two: 1. lockdown fb was the only one i had during my long marriage and if i had it all to do over id cheat on my husband every chance id get 2. like all other relationships they don't last. i'm sad some of them ended and regret if i was the cause.
  19. i'm a tight bottom so i've tried all of the advice given above. here's my rating in order of best to worst: 1. rimming etc. asses are like cunts. the more foreplay to get us in the mood the more we just open right up. it's almost shocking how wet down there the right guy can make me. 2. pull out, pause, add more lube, try again, don't force. this is my go to when guys rush to the main event. 3. walk away and find a "better" hole. this only happened to me once and i hope the guy is currently having his balls mauled by a wild dog in the most painful and prolonged way. what a dick move!
  20. tbh the gayest thing about this description is that he didn't mention having to pick up pizza for his kids' dinner while walking out zipping his pants up. in my experience str8 guys always need to mention their wives/girls/kids after they nut. i figure it's part guilt, part str8 guy arrogance (they all seem to think everyone is in love w them lol), and part reminder to both of us that what just happened was 100% about nutting and nothing more. i've hooked up w a bunch of straight identifying guys who profess to love breeding ass. and tbh they all do go right for it acting like i got a Ken doll crotch they've no interest in. one of the things i love about these guys is they're also the first to start tellin you to take it like a bitch, smacking your ass etc all the good shit they feel weird doing w the mother of their kids.
  21. i've had similar experiences w site like recon or buddy etc. anyone you chat w is way far away and the 3 guys even remote close are of course the polar opposite of what your looking for. any effort to make s&m happen always seems to come up short, not sure why. even joining the local leather group produced nada, although i've had some fun w sadists i've met thru the local nudist group. go figure. anyone else i've met on sniffies or scruff or even live cruising areas and just been lucky to find a fellow kinkster. although they've all similarly petered out too.. mostly because so much of s&m also seems to be chemsex and i'm not ready to make long term commitment w a drug addiction.
  22. last time i spit, bill clinton was in the white house! who's spitting in 2024 and why?
  23. i can't believe i'm going to say something posiTive about T but it's really what got me to love rimming and being rimmed. if you're both on T, jesus you could do nothing but stay up all night rimming the shit out of each other and consider it "great sex" lol
  24. which? chasing is just that chasing. like sex itself, often the hunt is the real thrill, sometimes more than the catch. for a lot of guys, risky sex is the kink, not being poz. for other guys it is being poz. you can't swing a virtual cat around here without hitting 20 posts about how much better sex was once they converted. and of course, for some guys it's having the gift to give that becomes the fetish. guys who focus on the disease part of it really seem to get off on the idea of spreading it. and then there's all the posts of guys looking for a "recharge" of all the things i've learned by reading this site, i can't think of ever coming across posts about how once it happened it was over and now they're deflated.
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