norefusal
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omg i'm in the group with the absolute lowest % lol what a weirdo 😜
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yeah just like there's a difference between eating and having an eating disorder. its a literal necessity for life and yet an ED can kill you. i don't think anyone's going around saying they're a "sex addict" just because they got laid a few times this week. you don't start self labeling until you've reached the point where you feel you've lost rational control. usually the problem behavior is well established long before you start calling it things only to have the grammar police tell you you've mislabel your own neurosis 😜
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give me a frickin break ive binge watched a lot of shows: not a one of them has inspired me to go on a crime spree or become an ad exec or cheat on my spouse etc yet i'd pop a porn tape in and half way thru i'd purposefully stop jackin off and run over to one of the local cruising spot to recreate the random risky scenes of public often bb sex w strangers collecting mid-century ceramics wasn't a gateway to anything yet grindr hookups lead me directly to T last nite i ate two brownies despite being allergic to chocolate. but that didn't seem like a self- sabatage acting out like the previous nite i DMed a guy off sniffies cause he hinted he was toxic and willing to poz. bug chasing is not stamp collecting
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addiction. compulsion. bicycle. waffle. call it whatever the fuck you want. it's still going to be behavior you can't seem to control dispute it having tangible negative impacts on your life. what is the agreed upon label we can use in order to start discussing how "sex compulsion" leads directly to "drug addiction" in so much of the lgbtq population? or are we all experimenting w T or G because it makes watching baseball with our dads so much more fun?
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i can't even imagine what my life would be like if i didn't go w the flow. half my experiences would never have been lived. my biggest issue w sites is the lack of follow thru. i recently chatted w a nice guy who said he was part of a couple looking for a regular 3way fwb, so wanted to meet for a drink first to see if we all vibed. this made perfect sense to me and i wasn't even all "we fucking rn or what?!" because it's possible to do parallel paths. i agreed to meet sometime, while also DMing other guys to come tuck me rn. my only regret is the trail went stale. tbh if they're anything like most couples, he really wanted the 3 way and the hubby didn't thus all the "maybe. we'd have to meet first. no not him. no not tonight." etc
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well that's an interesting form of control and abuse: they decide when u cum and then fuck u at the one moment of the day u least feel like getting fucked. def a power move 😜
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interesting. everyone's different i suppose. i often have multiple orgasms before eventually ejaculating. this often confuses people. when i was younger it was seen more as a bonus that i "could last" but lately everyone seems to have become so cum hungry it's too stressful. now i more often just let the guy breed/feed & leave and then just enjoy a leisurely wank at my own pace.
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come on guys. everyone knows KN took the worm down to the gravel pit and shot it in the face 😜
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Looking for older tops and couples
norefusal replied to darkmusketeer17's topic in Miami / Ft. Lauderdale / South Florida
i don't even know what this means anymore. when i was young homeless guys were literally dirty men living on the street for prolonged periods because they'd burned every bridge. nowadays, so many people are temp homeless. the homeless guys i sleep w are usually hot young guys w meth addiction issues that get them thrown out by their BF or sober hs as they relapse etc. it's not uncommon for them to shower or do laundry at mine as part of the hook up as they're all very clean and trying to live "normal" despite being in a "situation" -
really? back in the day both of you cuming at same time used to be the goal and seen as the ultimate. once i started BBing as a sort of kink or acting-out or whatever, the fact that i was about to get a load of stranger cum up my ass during the aids crisis would be such a turn on id cum too, making me literally jump off his dick as he unloaded all over my ass and lower back. i suppose i'd lose my nerve at the last min, deep down wanting to live, but the orgasm i'd have having nearly taken a possibly poz load was always super intense, and thus addictive.
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this is fascinating. i guess im old fashioned because im still stuck on the idea of consent it sounds like he described the situation beforehand and you were into it so win win the only experiences ive had close to this have been w liars who try to pull something on you at the last minute so lol at " he met me outside" because that is exactly the moment i usually realize ive been lured into a situation w someone who's not being honest. im thinking of one guy in particular who never came out and said his wife was asleep upstairs but the whole situation supported that possibility. i was looking for an easy exit the whole time as this guy had told so many whoppers including sending dic pics of someone else's dick. at one point i sighed in frustration and he asked me if i just came and seeing my opportunity i quickly told my own lie: "yes! sorry, im a premature ejaculator. sorry." zipped up and ran out that basement so fast. 😜
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the pics are great tho. they're all gl and muscled out. but everyone all looking for tru love between their busy work in online finance investments 😜
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it's like those grab bags they used to have when we were kids, you never know what you're gonna get. hot dad in baseball w sweet dick you just drained as he leaned against his f150: could be MAGA, or could be grand marshall of the local pride parade. alll bets are off😜
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🤤 im also currently obsessed w PAs. you guys are hard to find round my parts.
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i grew up in a predominately italian hood so many of my baby-faggot-wanna-be early crushes were on sexy older guidos. think saturday night fever. those guys love their jewelry. anyways, not my main type but i do have a weakness for a dark guy w a gold chain. mmmm
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i love hanging out nude w other guys i'm comfortable with. this is why i joined a couple of nudist groups but it's awkward. finally i joined a nude yoga class and that went well because i was quickly able to forget i was naked and focus on the class. the parties and cookouts etc are awkward for the reasons you say. there is always a sex part and although i happily join the group orgy, it's awkward beforehand. we're just making small talk w strangers over beer and chips but i'm keenly aware that im being sized up and my dick's likelihood of getting action later on depends on how well he shows in this portion of the competition. we're just bullshittin about vacation destinations or whatever but i want to scream "sparkle Neely sparkle!" down at my crotch 😜
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i only answered no once but honestly, if a guy ordered me to jerk off for an audience, i know id probably do it, it just hasn't happened yet. 😜
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trying to manage my attraction to man smells is like buying an avocado from the supermarket: too clean, too clean, too clean, ah just fucking perfect!, stinks, stinks, stinks, dude seriously take a shower, ugh i might hurl, omfg are u homeless
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to me sniffies and grindr are separate beasts. to make the analogy: grindr is like a 90s gay bar, sniffies is like a 90s reststop off the highway😜 the only sites i got zero hookups from are the really niche ones like recon or buddy that cater to bdsm or chasers. apps: grindr was by far my best success. scruff, growlr, daddyhunt, etc were like bars in the sense i'd hookup some as "fresh meat" but then the trail would go stale. adam4adam and squirt were sim, a few early hookups and then long months of "why do i bother" before not bothering sniffies is like the toxic ex i keep going back to. it's not healthy but hey, what's a sex addict to do
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😱 when i was young, there wasn't much acceptance or even a gay community to speak of, and even then kids aren't always ready to join the other team so quickly. so ABSs etc is all we had. for years i still didn't know if i was gay or not despite having sucked countless cocks of unseen men at GHs. in a way it helps disassociate the primal need to service cock from any kind of real world feeling that would come from knowing the guy or even recognizing him on the street. it's an idol to worship, you don't need to know it belong to some dull accountant in a cheap suit.
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"Despite its reputation for being a rich source of protein, you would likely have to consume gallons of semen to see any dietary health benefits." game on! sounds like a challenge to me 😜
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wait... what? did i hear this right? they said on the radio today that RFKjr had a brain eating worm in his head!?! i mean, it explains a lot,but.... whaaass?
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it completely depends. dump your load in me like i'm your bitch, but im not your bitch so don't hang your shit on me. even a dom top sadist will praise you for "taking it like a true slut" etc but a recent "str8" dl guy who bred me was so harsh i was confused and then i realized - i wasn't getting rough fucked, i was getting angry fucked. and he wasn't so much disrespecting me as a dirty faggot, as he was disgusted by his compulsion to keep fucking faggot ass.
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i hear ya. i've gotten to the point where ill eagerly eat "the right ass" but it's not a given. i'll still refuse a unappetizing cake. but i have gotten over the hump where now i just love gettin my ass ate out like a bitch's pussy. 😜but it took me a minute cause: - society homophobia -aids scare - ew, you know that's bacteria right etc so, other than waitin for the 3rd thursday in nov to say "i'm grateful for enough culturally diverse immigration over the years to finally somewhat loosen the strangling effect of these fucking religious puritans who insist on using sexual shame as a way of controlling people" before heading to the park so some trump voter can eat my hairy hole while insisting he's not "gay".
