norefusal
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oh i've given to the dems many times 😜 in a way it's the same: Hillary's emails, Hunter's lap top, Clinton's bj, Obama's beige suit... people are losing their shit over things i just shrug off. as no biggie if others can shrug off Alito's insurrection flags, Trumps unending criminal probes, Thomas' $4M grift gifts, what can i say: i see the dress as blue and black, they see it as white and gold. (btw, did u see the dress couple is getting div cause he a wife beater!)
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First time fucked. Unexpected and shocking
norefusal replied to Teeslad70's topic in Your Last Load...
you yourself hold the key. if you are doing all this because it's fun and you're enjoying the pleasure it brings: then take @Alaric's advice and act responsibly, take control and be a proud bottom pig. and yes, by most people's standards: getting fucked by a stranger over a car bonnet in broad daylight = you've embraced your inner whore 😜welcome to the club however, if you feel you have no control over this compulsive behavior and hate yourself for it afterward, than it's probably a trauma response from past abuse and this is not the way to confront it and you should probably take a break or scale back. so just ask yourself: why am i doing this? and then act accordingly. -
😂now their going to take his gun lic away! obviously Biden is behind this as revenge for Hunter's trial 😜 #professionalvictim
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you're gonna love learning about Dobbs v Jackson 😂
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What superficial / physical quality turns you on the most?
norefusal replied to Musclebot's topic in General Discussion
BBC i know that's technically two things, since being black or being hung are as good separately as they are together 😜 doesn't help that my first sexual experience ever was w BBC, so it's got the added "you never forget your first cock" nostalgia as well -
wow. interesting i only come across two types of guys who fuck w condoms; 1. married guys on the DL trying to avoid STIs and blowin their cover 2. college age guys, who i assume are timidly exploring their gay side so either have a GF or just have "my high school health teacher said fucking guys would give you aids" type knowledge
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if he ever gets jail time, i hope the central park 5 get to be there to watch him walk inside
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she might actually be the smarter businessman. it was reported that she renegotiated her prenup before agreeing to be flotus. of course, how much she gets will depend on how much personal wealth he manages to hang onto, despite the impending court losses. she'll never be Melinda Gates
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i tried it once back in 1990. yuck! STIs go away. i swear i can still taste that fucking condom today. blech 🤮 i know at least two guys who still request it. one in the back room of a bar. i literally just start sucking the raw dick of the guy next to him 🤤ain't nobody got time for that
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Depression & Barebacking/bug Chasing
norefusal replied to cheatingjock's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
well... we live in a post-prep world so surely i'm not the only one getting annoyed by all the bareback=high risk talk like it's forever 1995. as for bug chasing: one thing i've learned about the community is that we all have different reasons for the attraction. not all of it is coming from a place of self- harm. sure, those guys online begging to be made an "aids whore" perhaps fit the depression led me to self- harm mold, but i don't think that's all chasers. -
here's my advice: - yes, go to the gym because it is healthier, makes you sleep better feel better and you'll be less likely to fall over and break a hip at 80 the more you exercise now - in my experience, the gym was a great place to find casual sex. when i was your age, i probably had more sex in the gym locker room than i did at home in my bed - stfu. seriously, you are your own worst enemy. i find that being considered "hot" is a fake it till you make it situation and the single most thing that scares horny guys off is a perceived lack of confidence. if you think your body isn't up to code, so will they. horny guys are like animals, they can smell the fear and perceived weakness. be an arrogant prick, even if it's a character you play like an actor in a movie - accept reality. you are a new guy in a foreign land. anti american prejudice is real in europe so accept that only the more open minded guys are gonna give you a chance. try to fit in, but accept that acceptance is not going to happen overnight. have patience and keep working at it till it pays off. you're not 5 yo anymore, instant friends on the playground is a thing of the past. - accept reality. this isn't the local bath house. it's the world's biggest sex mart you're on broadway now baby, not in the local theatre so make sure you project so they can hear you in the back row. - at the end of the day rejection is more about them than it is about you. accept that's it's their loss and dwell on the victories rather than the losses. living well is the best revenge and nothing feels better than accepting yourself for who you are.
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honestly, i've never felt femme in general. in college i went thru a more "gender neutral" phase which was popular at the time of new wave and punk music and guys in mascara lol but my intro to gay sex and anal specifically was very masc4masc during the political activist gay era - often during the aids epidemic, a hook up would start with foreplay that often felt like a sensuous wrestling match for dominance. a few time i actually threw the match so i could get fucked by a sexy alpha 😜but in general it all felt "real men know how to tske dick" in tone. it took me years to realize what i called "passion" most people simply call "rough sex" lol now that i'm older i somehow seem even less femme even tho im much more of a sub bottom in hook ups. sometimes when a good dicking down has me all wet an open and leaking cum i feel like i've got a cunt but it doesn't feel femme somehow, just me being in touch w this side of the male body and a different kind of pleasure. more like "wow i didn't know a man's ass could do this" - even when i'm enjoying getting my hole eaten out, it just feels good, not femme if that makes sense
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i've actually met Melania which is not the same thing as knowing Melania. in fact what struck me most about her was her almost aggressive vagueness like she doesn't want to be known. that being said, i have a hard time believing she spends much time feeling shame. humiliation is for wives who love their cheating husbands. that's just not my understanding of the Trump union which appears very transactional
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i don't think there's any science behind the idea of jizz being chemically addictive. but damn, i too guzzle that shit any chance i get. when a guy blows his load in your mouth: talk about a "feel good moment"! 😜
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yeah, but where's the lie? 😜
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context is everything and it's hard to say which layer eclipses the others. i had a huge drop in my horniness from late 40s to late 50s but that also coincided w decade 2 of my monogamous marriage. YMMV but apparently i can only go 10 or so years being satisfied w fucking the same guy day in day out. im glad guys in their 20s today can be Hos. i came of age at the same time as "gay cancer" so it's hard to be slutty when most people have a "lock the doors, pull the blinds, and for god's sake don't talk to strangers!" attitude toward sex. i was a total ageist dick at the time but to be honest - older guys were either "wasted aids daddy" or hiding under the bed afraid to have sex. now that my dad bod is possessed by the libido of a randy 16 yo boy, this beggar knows he can't be a chooser. kids w daddy issues and str8 guys on the dl are my two main hook up demographics, rivaled only by guys my age who "didn't realize" they were gay until the kids were off to college. of these 3 groups, i find only some str8 on the dl use condoms. in the last century only someone with a death wish touched another guy's jizz. now guys fucking play with it like silly string. cum inside, now felch, now pass it to me orally... by the time he leaves his load has traveled more places than a college student taking a year off to " find himself" 😜
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as was his mother. ah, str8 boys and their Mommy issues! never gets old 😂
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in the defense's defense: this was such a fact laden case with a long paper trail that it was almost un-winable. even they never spoke once of a possible acquittal but instead placed all their bets on the hung jury possibility. just like his defenders here, don't argue w facts but just throw confusion around to establish doubt. the fact that they kept him off the stand is proof they're better than Habba but that's arguably a low bar. too much time was wasted disputing unimportant facts: it's irrelevant if he came inside stormy or not. but their client thinks court is a political rally so... we got the "you're all just jealous of my boogie" defense
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rotflmao foreign policy: the one thing both sides are guilty of is kissing the ass of israel. but lol at the putin/kim loving, classified info babbled at cocktails party loose lipped financially compromised guy being better for foreign policy. that was a good one! 😂 the economy? lol did you enjoy those 4 years of deficit building, out of control inflation and record unemployment. the pathetic mishandling of the covid crisis alone ruined the economy in ways that will take forever to heal.
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str8 white men are not giving up power without an epic battle - a war really. i just can't believe how much like the terminator the patriarchy is. we've been trying to crush it my entire 6 decades in the planet and everytime the lose a battle they seem to come back with some terrorist bomb
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Is there a med resistant syph
norefusal replied to Simontoxic's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
thanks @viking8x6 for the clarification. i was more triggered by the "this will go down on your permanent record" aspect of the conversation than following the science tbh 😜 -
Is there a med resistant syph
norefusal replied to Simontoxic's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
i was told that's it basically like herpes: it will never go away but will simply be contained. i was told this in part to explain why people will continue to tell me i tested pos for it even tho the levels are low. reinfection is always a possibility tho so that could explain why your levels went up if they did. although that implies you were tested and if so what did the heath care provider who tested you say about it? viking is right, we're not doctors so you should defer to professionals. but as a fellow traveler, i can tell you i was told it will always show up at some level. gono and chly may be visitors, but syph is the unwanted guest that will never leave 😜 -
i've had bad luck w this. basically all i did was waste time and $ just in an effort to be "discrete". at this point, the gals at planned parenthood accept me for the ho i am and don't judge so... anyways, here in the USA it varies wildly by each state's laws. in my case, every effort just ended with the online clinic's recomendation that i go to a local clinic in person.
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ah yes. it's an undisputed sign of a solid argument based in reason when one resorts to cheap insults about typos. very impressive.
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i don't get the question. considering how well documented actual cases are, one could argue that it was "normalized" long ago. sorry, but this kinda smells of "the good old days before woke liberals started screaming about consent and power dynamics" but full disclosure, i don't like my family and have zero interest in getting to know them biblically, so my viewpoint is tainted.
