norefusal
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yeah, i do the clam/ghon/hiv home tests every 3 mo. the blood for the hiv screen can be a pain in the ass but it annoys me that they're not screening for syph too. now i gotta go to PP just for that instead of one stop testing.
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im interested to hear the answer to this. im in the US and my biggest regret is not acting sooner. it was over the holidays and i didn't want to be judged. i tried going to a clinic but they wouldn't see me, so i ordered an online at home test which took forever and once the results did come not only had i lost valuable weeks but they also refused to treat me referring me to a specialist in my town anyways. by this time the secrecy and seclusion was sending me into a shame spiral so i confessed to my therapist who luckily referred me to planned parenthood. they took me as a walk in. their confirmation test took a couple of days but given the online results coupled w my obvious advanced symptoms they recommended an immediate injection that day as the best treatment and i agreed. as w all things medical, early detection and quick remedy are ideal.
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What sort of guys did you hookup with before you turned 18?
norefusal replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
judging from the guy's clone uniform, i'm guessing this was the 80s. 😜 im a few years older so jail bait cruising, especially w Dukie Hauser disease (look younger than i am) in the 70s when the gay ideal was tom of finland meets the village people was a disaster. by the time "gay cancer" came along it was a weird twist to know all the damaging rejection had probably saved my life. -
thanks still, the pain from the shot wasn't as annoying as the all night fever side effect. but both better than the stress: just trying to hide my "trump hands" in public was ott
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in context: for a shot in a dr office, i was surprised how much it hurt for something having to do w m2m sex: easy peasy for annoyance: the 5 min of hurt was wayyyy better than the previous week+ of joint pain when i was infected long story short, my advice: drop your pants, bend over and take it like a man: just like you probably did when you got infected 😜
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What sort of guys did you hookup with before you turned 18?
norefusal replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
imaginary 😂 tasted my first dick at 19 -
outerwear is anything simple that can be discarded asap. if i'm going somewhere i know to a regular's i'll do just gym shorts an flip flops weather permitting. hosting, ive given up on greeting guys at door clothed altogether in favor of door open waiting blindfolded an ready as for what i leave on, i tailor it to the guys' bent. i lean heavily leather harness and used jock typically but i also have a drawer full of uncomfortable thongs etc because i aim to please
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lol well if you want a quick 2pt bump, get up right now, head to the office toilet, slip off your undies and free ball it back to your desk like a slut 😜 10pts if you lick the toilet rim while your in there 🐷
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my personal experience w truck stops is it's a good way to hook up w other frustrated guys being ignored by the truckers they came to cruise. it does seem like the best way to hook up w a trucker is to contact him online and make plans to meet altho i've never successfully done this. but i have hung out at truck stops and gotten plenty of non-trucker D so don't really feel like im missing anything.
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i would think normalization would required wide spread interest which honestly i don't see. even the niche porn seems to rely heavily on the step- whomever aspect of the relationship. i could see wider interest in fucking your mom's hot husband than your real dad. and then there's the whole : it's hot cause it's forbidden aspect so normalizing it would take away the kink aspect of the sex and just focus on the relationship part.
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Are Democrats ashamed of Michael Dukakis?
norefusal replied to highcountrybb's topic in LGBT Politics
my question is: why? tbh i had to google it to remind myself of why this "non-issue" was so important and when i read that "25% of respondents to a poll said they would no longer vote for him because he was seen wearing a helmet" i really had to question if perhaps the right to vote shouldn't come w somekind of minimal intelligence requirement 😜 -
Are Democrats ashamed of Michael Dukakis?
norefusal replied to highcountrybb's topic in LGBT Politics
Trump hung a portrait of A Jackson in the oval and MAGA voters made their own "basketful of deplorables" tshirts they wear to nazi-style rallies. Reps don't know that embarrassment even exists as an option. 😜 -
lol sounds like a scene out of Logan's Run 😜come to think of it i did have a guy off of grindr come over and claim he was escaping gov agents who were after him. he was a bipolar meth head tho. still, he did eat ass like a champion 😈
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then my most common would be the subway. sometimes we'd chat each other up before going back to someone's place, or i've also just gotten off at someone else's spot followed them home and hooked up. they'd beckon me on silently as gettin fucked by a random "intruder" was part of their fantasy. sorta cnc i guess.
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Where do you find dark rooms? Aside from bath houses.
norefusal replied to btmdad's topic in General Discussion
gay men often forget what it was like coming out. they feel comfortable in all situations from the local ABS which charges a modest price for access to private booths and videos to a circuit party targeted to beautiful gym bunnies w an inner vip area for extra $$$. closeted, questioning, DL guys, younger inexperienced guys short on $, etc seeking m2m sex prob won't be in the vip section of a circuit party. they all offer access but some offer exclusivity as well and that's just yuck for me personally but that's just an opinion or personal preference. -
Where do you find dark rooms? Aside from bath houses.
norefusal replied to btmdad's topic in General Discussion
lol true dat still i think there a dif between a local bar charging u for drinks and/ or cover and a VIP section at the already elitist circuit parties, the gated community of the gay club scene 😜 -
Where do you find dark rooms? Aside from bath houses.
norefusal replied to btmdad's topic in General Discussion
🤮 i don't know if it's because i'm a hippie at heart or a big old slut or just a cheapskate but the whole idea of paying for sex pisses me off -
our two top priorities are always to protect ourselves and to be kind to others. you can't force this guy to have sex before he's ready as that will just backfire on you. so the ball is in your court now. can you hang out and wait till he's ready knowing that the possibility he may never be is real? are you ok with the status quo? or are you setting yourself up for a fall? only you know.
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the most obvious answer is the gym. unlike gay bars or cruising areas, it's the only spot i can think of where guys regularly hook up despite other people just using the space for non-sexual purposes. there's always some guy going "oh jeez. come on guys i just wanted to shower" 😜 once someone actually complained about me and when i checked out the desk told me and just said "try an be a bit more discrete in the future please" 😜
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Where do you find dark rooms? Aside from bath houses.
norefusal replied to btmdad's topic in General Discussion
the eagle in providence still has their back room. -
addiction is often subjective so we are always looking for rules like " most people only do this common thing 2-3 times a week so if you're doing it 8-10 times a week you may have a problem" i sat in on a SA 12 step for a few meetings years ago mainly because i found myself increasingly barebacking and that worried me. the people speaking at the meeting were literally out of control and ruining their lives so it just made me think i wasn't addicted after all. i've kinda come to think it's a problem if YOU think it's a problem. otherwise, what does it matter what benchmark you passed or not.
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workin my way there 😜 monday did my first door open blindfolded for complete stranger. st8 daddy skull fucked me rough w fat 8" uncut an fed me tonite, again door open blindfold, hot st8 guy on dl again stranger never met came in and fucked me hard n long with his 7.5" meat. he wore a condom, shot a huge 3 day load an after he left i took the used rubber and swallowed all the jizz this is my new fav thing can't wait for unseen stranger to breed me
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im not trying to dismiss how other people feel, including myself and my bug chaser fantasy life ... but these are emotions not facts and highly flexible. ex: back in 1985 condoms allowed me to be "piggy slutty power bottom". deciding that bb was a thrill was just me moving my own goal post of what defined "piggy slutty power bottom". once i went on prep the goal post was moved even further. chasing will only make me feel more piggy slutty power bottom if i choose to throw more chips on the pile and once more up the ante on what makes a "slut" a slut cause i gotta say, takin dick over decades from literally countless strangers seems pretty fuckin slutty 😜
