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  1. i got the impression that per gay hook up apps, a "simp" refers to the partner who likes to watch his husband get fucked by strangers. as for your examples above, none of them seem str8 exclusive so in theory i'm sure they happen w gays. personally, i can't think of a single example of me doin any, but there are maybe some close calls lol theres a guy who attends a lot of the same parties i go to who i kinda have a crush on. he's spoken to me in depth about my thoughts and opinions, has fooled around w me but not gone "all the way" yet, etc. i get a bit excited to see he's going to the same event but id still go even if he wasn't. there's a vague i may like him more than he likes me vibe, but it never crosses over into simp territory like you describe above.
  2. interesting. i'd have to say that just as much as i'm turned on by manscent, i'm also turned on by wearing other guy's intimates, especially if they're used. once in a blue moon a hook up will unexpectedly pull something out of a hamper and tell me to put it on and wearing his musky jock/thong/whatever is instant boner material.
  3. i had that job in college! it was the best! most guys didn't pay for the service so i rarely had to hand out towels and got tons of homework done on the job, plus the view of everyone walking back n forth to the showers 😜# in praise of guys who strut around nakid 🍆 the membership locker guys kept their clothes in had mesh fronts (if you've ever opened a locker a day or two after putting your gym clothes in it, you know why lol) so that made it easy for me to steal used jocks and speedos 🐷that i am. but the best were the nights when the wrestling team would do their group weight ins. the scale was right in front of my desk and they would all strip naked and as each got on the scare the others would all comment on his body and what was looking good, sometimes they'd touch the areas they were praising, etc it was all very soft core edge porn and i nearly creamed my pants on several occasions. 💦💦😜
  4. different days = different guys i get bored in general doing the same thing all the time, and guys are no exception. this is why cruising areas are so fun. you can spread your ass for a dom top one minute, only to later be forcing a faggot to choke on your cock, the now departed top's load still tryin to leak out your cunt. bitch doesn't need to know what you got up to before he arrived 😜
  5. interesting recent comments from Fauci's book tour. its nice he credits the Aids activists and compares them favorable vs the antivaxers but old habits die hard. as one of those activists, i haven't forgotten how it all seemed too little too late at the time. also interesting his dire predictions on how ramped up covid would have been if we hadn't rushed out the vaccine. still, where my hiv vax at? i'll continue to ruin my liver w pills but i can't help be frustrated.
  6. this! 100% even as a young virgin i was the type of person who believed in facts, science and the word of experts, so when i repeatedly read that the average dick is 5.5 to 6" i believed it. im lucky in that i've been able to do exhaustive research over the years and have literally been up close and personal with several hundred erect penises. my findings corroborate the experts: most guys have a 5.5 to 6" dick. when asked i often say things like "i got a standard 6" or "all-american boy-next-door dick" and i can tell you that not a single one of those hundreds of men turned their nose up at it or refused to play. would i turn away a genie offering to grant me a thick 8" porn schlong? no. but do i waste my time feeling insecure about something i have zero control over? not for a second. but let's be honest even if it is a toxic attitude. it's fun to see all the different shapes sizes and differences but there is such a thing as a "pretty" dick. like @sub4oralcummine is straight, unblemished and looks just like a toilet stall drawing of everyone's preconceived notion of what a dick should look like, so that may explain all the compliments despite it being "nothing special".
  7. squirt was a dud for me, but i agree the cruising section was its best feature. but honestly, unless you're new in town, you only need to know this info once, not keep checking back in to see where the trendy new cruising spot is lol
  8. i'm not a total top, not even close. but when i do top, the more masc the bottom is the more turned on i get, and vice versa. femme twink bottoms are are huge turn off even tho they're always tryin to get this hairy daddy to fuck them. this can be frustrating as it seems as of late that if i liked to fuck femme bottoms i'd be fucking 24/7. but the dick wants what the dick wants.
  9. i find the opposite. i mean i get it, weather it's coworkers, friends, or fuckbuddies, str8 guys are always high maintenance 😜 but i like the way they fuck. they're always so happy to have permission to live out all of their perverted porn fantasies, that they readily adapt to kink. no one wants to snarl "take it bitch!" then spit in the face of the mother of their children, even if it's just fun roll play. it's weird. and nobody enjoys tight ass like a guy used to fucking the busted cunt of a mom after multiple births.
  10. i actually hear "you DDF?" much more often. i usually just nod are give some barely answered response. perhaps this is a dick attitude, but i only asked such things before i got a prep. i mean, im fucking raw because i accept the risks i take and they should too. if i give someone an STI because im in that window of infected but no symptoms yet, thats the risk they took when they decided to fuck around. not my problem. the condom thing w cheaters im more wish washy on. i purposefully don't travel w them. sometime when i host and they ask i deny i have any. i mean, if u require it, then fucking bring your own. but my willingness to cave is proportionate to how thirsty i am to get fucked. a dick in your home is worth two on grindr. 😜
  11. when i got Syph i was livid! not mad at whoever gave it to me, or myself for being such a slut it literally could have been anyone 😜 i was angry at puritanical society for their archaic efforts to control us. i was at the clinic ranting about why do i have a Tudor dynasty disease in this day and age. they can clone a sheep from cells but they can't eradicate a 15th century disease? i went full conspiracy theory 🤣i was still an underage virgin when they test tubed a baby.
  12. i've always gotten a secret thrill off of fucking ugly guys i wouldn't want my friends to know i fucked. but now, i'll literally fuck anybody, never say no. it's a gamble but it's a double thrill: i love being such a slut that i'll literally accept any dick, but also the gamble. some of my best fucks have been w guys i was going to refuse, doing things i previously thought i didn't like
  13. the body regulates sperm temperature to keep it healthy. between 90-95 deg. if it felt warmer than usual, his balls were prob just a bit hot - like tight pants on a hot day sweaty. was he out on a summer bike ride in lycra? jizz can taste funky or look discolored if diseased or unhealthy. but i don't think it's noticeably warmer.
  14. am i a different person? i want to say yes but the truth is, when it happens it just feels like an honest moment when i can be more myself than who i force myself to be. long story short: the only reasons im not a constant cumdump faggot whore 24/7 include: - societal homophobia -toxic masculinity - aids phobia - an reluctance to get reinfected follow an STI bout - cultural slut shaming - cultural pro-monogamy propaganda
  15. i tried PUR because it's advertised as a healthy alternative to douching. unfortunately, it's not up to the standards of today's Felix Unger neat-freak tops demanding a fully sterile exchange of bodily fluids. i continue to take it tho as i like the regularity the fiber supplements offer and douching is now easier as there's typically a whole lot less to clean out. i typically take 2 pills daily, one in am, one before bed. it's the only practical routine to ensure continuity.
  16. i wish i could have this attitude. santa etc are blips on the radar screen, not quite as optional as big foot or lock nessy but not heavily pushed imho god however is the abusive cult i was born into and even after leaving, continue to be hounded and harassed by its members. the fucking Allito douchbags aren't flying flags about the tooth fairy. they are using god as an excuse to control our lives, our bodies, our freedoms
  17. i did. but i also havnt forgotten how fucking dangerous it all was. the park during the day was the constant risk of arrest. it was common practice to ask guys point blank if they were cops before you sucked their dick because entrapment was common. at night, guys would actually periodically get murdered. and yet, there we were. cruising strangers we could barely see in densely forested areas. don't even get me started on barebacking w random strangers while hospitals were overloaded w aids patients dying horrid med-evil style deaths. we were fucking insane and lucky to still be alive imho.
  18. this is something i'm trying to work on. in the past i only had 2 types of sex: relationship sex, or anon hookups w strangers. a sort of spin on the madonna/whore syndrome. in retrospect i regret not acting in all those awkward moments when a friend gave me "the look" and i decided to ignore if for fear of ruining the friendship. as for sex parties: i'm like u but it can backfire. 1. new england is insanely compartmentalized and it boggles my mind that i've been back in my hometown for a decade and have yet to ever once run into anyone i know from the past. 2. im an introvert so a roomful of strangers can eventually go south and end w me slinking out unnoticed because i wasn't "feeling the vibe". seeing guys i hooked up w previously, actually helps get things started.
  19. ok, this is both me and who i wish i was. yeah, i've always readily given it up to any random stranger who asked, and secretly gotten turned on if they were too ugly to admit to my friends i served them like they were gods. but honestly, when i was your age, i foolishly let too many of those "haha, why don't you lick it off" awkward moments slip away for fear it would "ruin the friendship". if i could do it all again, i'd make myself the last call bottom bitch for every roommate who came home after closing frustrated to not have scored. my man ever said on his deathbed "if only i hadn't fucked so much" 😜
  20. im sure somebody did a study somewhere w data lol but on a personal note: i lived in italy in 84 and 85. princess diana was a big big deal. no one ever mention reagan once. ever. the average italian was vocal and unapologetic about their hatred of the japanese. it was shocking tbh. that's just a snap shot of one country at a particular time for what it's worth.
  21. yes! interesting i'd never made the connection between starting dialysis and the sudden worsening but it's def true in my case.
  22. interesting. i did not know any of this. i currently take cialis (i think 5mg) daily that my dr who treats my low testosterone prescribed. honestly, i'm not sure i notice any real affect. but my ED is apparently emotional per my GP, this guy, and my shrink. i was hoping it would help as a placebo but i guess that only works if you're not in on the ruse. my boners randomly show up unexpectedly depending on how my dick feels about the guy, which doesn't always match how my brain feels. they have different tastes apparently. the worst is when it randomly decides to get hard as a rock for guys who are "ew - i don't suck dick." which frustrates me to no end. if future me went back in time to tell past me that "someday, str8 guys will willing want to try sucking dick just to try it, and some self described gay guys won't suck dick at all" i'd be like "get lost nut job!" but here we have it. life in the modern world! 😜
  23. yeah, no. i wasn't trying to channel my inner kellyanne conway. but why try to explain the evils of the church to your catholic grandma? she not only drank the cool aid, she runs her own cool aid stand by the side of the road. 😜(ha. that's such a libra thing to say! )
  24. to be fair, it's starts w "i believe.... ". personally, i believe telling you im a libra gives you information on my personality. neither of these are rational or based on science or law, but if we're gonna knock belief systems: may i introduce you to the concept of an all knowing God that micromanages events on planet earth? 😜
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