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i agree with those who say it's a sign of respect, but if the stars align, the cleaning will reawaken the beast and i'm treated to a second breeding 🐷
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Looking for advice from dominants on how to serve effectively
norefusal replied to Chuckybb's topic in BDSM Discussion
know what u want and try to commit to it. all guys like rough sex and anyone can be a cumdump. the question is do you want more and are you really willing to be mindfucked as well as merely fucked. often the dom will groom you. test you and see how far u are willing to go. play w you for hours on end like a cat w a mouse, edge u. how willing are you to be broken in? to be completely dominated, no questioned asked? -
level 5 for decades i guess. for most of the aids pandemic, i'd be too ashamed to ask for raw w a bf. but i'd let an anon rondo fuck me raw in the park.
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thank you for sharing here with us. i've shared my story in different ways over the years. at the time i shared it because i had to as it made me sick and really fucked up my whole life for several months. i described it only in factual terms and never used the r word. it still shocks me the reaction, especially by the ER doctors who hearing an obvious description of rape only took a dismissive " the fucked up things you fags do to yourselves" attitude. it still angers me. i sometime fantasize about suing them for malpractice. a few years later the term "date rape" suddenly became popular as people were more openly discussing how most of us get raped by someone we knew and trusted and still blamed ourselves for being naive. i started to share my story more then using the new phrase. a couple of years ago i revisited the subject w my current therapist and he asked "why not just call it sexual assault? that's what it was." Date rape is a way of softening it. The saddest part i feel is that whatever happened to that guy, im 100% sure he's been walking around all these years fully believing we had consensual sex, not even allowing himself to realize he's a rapist. ugh.
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love them both but pissing seems a tad more humiliating to me. i think it's the smell. but drinking piss is the ultimate imo as it's not just humiliation but requires the participation of the sub to accept and conform
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i'm not sure what you're asking. the main point of worry is preventative protection. it's why we take precautions, follow medical advice, get tested frequently for early detection, etc. but it sounds like you are already doing all that. are you asking if you should panic? i wouldn't advise it as it's counterproductive. try to relax and wait.
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Tested positive for Syphillis....
norefusal replied to Cubbtm4poz's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
good questions! i don't remember exactly which means neither were a big deal 1. i think it was just 2-3 days. seeing as i had them for a couple of weeks that seemed to last an eternity, it was almost as if the disappeared overnight by comparison 2. i think they told me 2 weeks. tbh i was so upset about testing positive i had 0 interest in hooking up for several weeks so it was easy for me to beyond the recommended period. just the memory of the joint pain alone put me off the idea of fucking -
hmm i'm intrigued. the only thing even close i experience is if im sucking dick for a really long time i get all stuffed up and my nose starts dripping lol
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i was both very lucky and unlucky as they spoiled me 😜 first dick i sucked was 8+ i'm guessing, first that fucked me was 7-7.5" i eventually got over my bigger is better fixation but the other problem was one guy was black, the other latin. both uncut. to this day i have a bad "i guess white dick is better than no dick" attitude 😜
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well these things are not mutually exclusive. fauci could have overstated the transmission of hiv via sperm but that doesn't change the fact that kennedy is a crack pot dabbling in pseudo science a fact based book written by a disinterested 3rd party would have been nice
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possible yes. probable, idk. i was single and slutty about a decade b4 marriage and about 5 years since. 1,000 fucks would be about a fuck and a half per week. so yeah, probably but i can't say for sure.
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i never thought i'd say this, but gays have ruined sex! 😜 wtf with all 101 pre-hook up questions. age? size? height? stats? pics? more pics? dude, you wanna fuck or not? back in last century when you'd meet guys in person and not ask for a brochure of selling points before sex, i had this one bf: how big was it? stupid huge like dude are u even human big. def way bigger than anything i've seen before or since. how far did i take it? as far as i could! each time i slobbered over it, both of us moaning in ecstasy, the one thing that never happened was one of us stopping so we could go get a ruler and start jotting down dimensions.
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i think i've told this story before but one day watching tv batman and robin jumped on their fireman poles in street clothes and then landed in the batcave in costume. realizing they'd been naked together at one point during the decent, i became obsessed w the image of the two guys naked side by side on stripper poles 😜
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giving head always makes me proud as i consider making someone cum w my mouth a skill. oddly, getting sucked is not my fav thing, mostly because i'm shocked at how bad most guys are at it. but i love the taste and smell of jizz and the fact that it lingers in my mouth long after i've swallowed.
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what if i get BB without being bred?
norefusal replied to kotcas's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
if you're a virgin hole as u say, the chances of rips, tears, etc is likely increased and the best way to get hiv pre-cum or full load, is directly into the bloodstream. try making sure to be well pre-lubed and try stretching your hole out beforehand w a buttplug. make sure you get well turned on by foreplay and for god sake don't go by the barbaric "no pain no gain" or "it gonna hurt the first time" crap. my first guy was hung but got me so worked up it just slipped right in like my hole was made for it -
The relationship between barebacking and casual sex.
norefusal replied to brnbk's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
i think you are missing the ven dia where bb overlaps w casual and is labeled "risky" one can bb safely one can do nsa hookups safely however, if you're addicted to risky sex as so many of us gays are, then you're a raw is law no refusal slut -
it's an ongoing project with something new always to learn. guys who like sex are more than willing to teach and i've picked up lots of pointers over the years.
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What's the weirdest fetish you formed over time?
norefusal replied to a topic in Hardcore Fetishes Forum
prep kinda killed this habit which is probably just as well as i even disgusted myself when doin it but... i'd go to cruising areas very early in the am, pick up the discarded used condoms from the nite before and lick all the jizz out of them if it hadnt dried up yet -
Have you (been) fucked while talking on the phone?
norefusal replied to a topic in General Discussion
last week i was hosting blindfolded door open. this guy i never laid eyes on was in the middle of raw doggin me when his phone rang. he covered my mouth w his hand and continued to fuck me while making an appointment for something all in spanish. last nite i was blowing a regular dom fb when he made a long call in the middle of it, i assume just to humiliate me. at one point he said "im gettin serviced by some dumb faggot." then put the phone toward my full mouth and said "say hello faggot" then they both laughed at me. -
The First Time You Got Fucked Was It Safe Or Raw?
norefusal replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
it was 1989. i was single but that's no excuse on why i didn't have condoms handy, as i got fucked in a bed at home by a nice guy. he had a bunch of old(er) ones in his backpack. the first broke mid fuck. the second tore when he was putting it on. the third seemed to hold and he came in it. telling the story to my bff the next day, he freaked and started ranting about pre-cum and aids, never trust men, and how i better get tested etc when i think back to this era it angers me how much hysteria tortured us with needless angst. still, i do enjoy jerking off to a good condom-to-raw sheathing video 😜 -
in addition: cruising spots were either seen as home turf of the closeted or breeding grounds for early death. those of us who didn't want to live a double life and or lose our first class privileges in the patriarchy were encouraged to uncle tom our way to mainstream acceptance via marriage and an almost public denouncement of "filthy habits". it's sad that public parks, rest stops etc are like dead malls. plus i've lost my patience w the toxic online world of NPNC. buy a dictionary and look up the meaning of "anon" assholes. other than watching al pacino in Cruising, i'm not sure the good old days will ever be back.
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this may sound twisted but i'm going to say the Meet Up app. unlike those proposing to be "dating" or "hook up" sites, it's still exactly the same. sometimes it leads to sex. sometimes it leads to friendship. at a min it's a couple of hrs you left the solitude of home and interacted w other live men. it also leads to interesting dilemmas like what kind of costume does one wear to a halloween party hosted by a nudist group? i've picked up guys at halloween parties before but this was the first time i hooked up at a party, as part of a group action situation 😜
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keeping track Apps to keep track of total loads taken?
norefusal replied to bbdude88's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
thanks for the advice. i just downloaded this and started tracking -
the main difference between grindr n sniffies is that sniffies is great if you have no problem fucking other peoples' cheating husbands. but cruiser beware: sniffies is also full of toxic trophy collectors asking for "stats" as a way to ensure they only sleep with well hung young underware models 😜 live venues have the advantage of stupid people not curating based on meaningless math. unfortunately, apps have made live cruising spots (back rooms, ABS, parks, rest stops, etc) into dead malls - shadows of their former glory days. lastly, there are private sex parties. if you can get invited to one be prepared that they not only tend to be racially lopsided but in my experience lean heavily toward daddy/son pairings.
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Why Did You Start Barebacking?
norefusal replied to west933's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
i've always been much more fearful of pregnancy than aids. to this day i'd rather get pozzed than be a dad.
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