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  1. norefusal
    this was exactly my situation. when i reentered the market after many years off, i went out and bought a big box of condoms and started meeting guys and see where things led. after 3 months it seems it almost always led to me w some random dudes load up my ass and an unopened box of condoms, so i went on prep. 3 years later and ive had 0 side effects. at least 1 sti so now they send me a bottle of doxy w every bottle of prep.
  2. norefusal
    ok. maybe. look, if Harris wins i will absolutely be leading the celebratory conga line thru the streets. our first female president, and a woman of color to boot. however, i live in the usa and absolutely nothing in recent years shows us to a non-sexist, non-racist nation over run with white supremicist men. i always assumed he was trying to win so he could hand the job to Harris after he gets past the kkk roadblock of the voting booth. now she's got to get past voter suppression, gerrymandering, too scared to say out loud how sexist/racist they really are liberal white voters etc Looking forward to this country pleasantly surprising me.
  3. norefusal
    i was at a gay nudist campsite recently and one of the other campers gave such a convicted soliloquy on how trump is our savior and biden the very devil that for a split second i had to wonder if i should continue to trust my own eyes and ears. we truly have come to the point where half of us have fully drank all the kool-aid but which half? if cock sucking nudists don't believe in democracy anymore, nothing can be counted on
  4. norefusal
    i need a pimp. in general i do better if i have a dom top buddy who whores me out or at least an extrovert buddy who attracts moths to his flame. my best nite ever at a BH was when i chatted online w another vers bott who invited me to his room. unlike mine, his room was party central and once id gotten his 👍that i was cool i just hung out there and serviced and or got fucked by fandoms who came n went attracted by the gathering
  5. norefusal
    shrug. every site has its pluses and minuses. i'm learning the hard way that BBRT is apparently full of pathological liars. one guy who's profile says "420 only" did T the entire hook up. another guy who's profile says "neg only" has been DMing back n forth w me about the toxic loads he's taken and how none of his efforts to get knocked up have taken yet. he's promised to invite me along next time he's doing group action w toxic guys he knows (not holding my breath lol) but i never would have met this guy if i'd filtered like u say.
  6. norefusal
    this is imho the political equivalent of "well what were you doing out at night dressed as a slut. you basically wanted to get raped" if trump wins it will be because half the country looked at a modern day Hitler knock-off and said "yes please".
  7. norefusal
    this whole dragged out election cycle has gotten so depressing i long for those 18-22 yo years where i went into Nov barely knowing who the two candidates were.
  8. norefusal
    my #1 rule is "avoid any discussion of it" 😜 until fairly recently, i've been able to ridiculously boast "i've never cheated on anyone". it's not cheating if you never officially agreed to be exclusive. it's BS i know but as george costanza says " it's not a lie if you believe it" 😜 this continued thru the times i tried to cheat on my husband and the hook up just didn't happen, or didn't continue until "completion". i'd convince myself it wasn't cheating if no one came. that worked until the day i took a load and could no longer lie to even myself. i know other cheaters have specific rules. the guy who became my sole FB during lockdown wouldn't fuck me. that was the rule he set for himself. it seems silly to me to think the daily loads i swallowed weren't technically "cheating" but hey, his rules worked for him, who am i to say they're silly.
  9. norefusal
    i started doing this but quickly lost interest. i'd rather just live in the moment. the fact that i struggle to come up with a real number when asked how many partners ive had, alone screams "SLUT!" so why bother. "too many to keep track of" is its own answer 😜
  10. norefusal
    to me sniffies is a hook up basic staple, like jeans and a white tee are to your wardrobe 😜 it's great for travel, quick hook ups when horny, and perfect if you're into anon w whomever as it attracts str8s, cheaters, guys on DL etc sure there's lots of BS, time wasters etc but that's because it's connected to people and people suck lol
  11. norefusal
    i'll tell ya, i've gotten way more action from the gym locker room then i ever got at any ABS or bath house 😜
  12. norefusal
    i met my ex husband when he cruised me in the steam room at the YMCA. afterward, when people asked, he liked to quip "we met at the gym... and neither one of us have stepped foot inside one since!" 😜
  13. norefusal
    *shrug* id rather get fucked w a condom than not get fucked at all so respecting his opinion coincides w me meeting my needs. whenever guys say they just move on to the next top i always think "must be nice to be you then" lol refusing a top in this "bottom's market" and as an older guy, its basically like saying "well guess im not getting fucked today" 😜 and that doesnt even include the 60% of the guys hitting you up for "oral only" 😜
  14. norefusal
    yes. post lockdown i was able to work from home for over a year and str8 guys love the mid-day quickie between meetings or on the way to or from home. early am "going to the gym honey" etc now i have "summer hrs" so get fri afternoons off and that's when i host most of my anon hookups. the worst was when i was still married and trying to start playing around. i gained a new respect for cheaters then. trying to schedule a DL hookup is like trying to solve a rubic's cube 😜
  15. norefusal
    lol grindr is literally that friend who says "oh i have a gay coworker. you two should meet!" that's it. the end. how the interaction goes from there is 100% up to the humans involved. i'm actually both impressed and horrified by your suggestions that a computer program interfere in an effort to correct human behavior. your post reads like the basis for a sci-fi novel 😜
  16. norefusal
    i suspect that the closest we've all come to being a simp, especially in our youth, is the crush on a str8 friend that bedeviled our days and nights until we were old enough to go out and find a gay community to engage with. i was a simp for a str8 friend in college, except that being thirsty for him was a perk, not a motivator. he was a popular kid i used to get inside the cool-kid's clique and improve my social standing. so it was mutually beneficial even if never consummated 😜
  17. norefusal
    only 2 going to a party fri nite. will try to improve on this weeks dismal showing 😜
  18. norefusal
    no idea what you mean but like bear, twink, top, sub etc it's used as code or shorthand on hook up sites to easily describe kinks sought. how do you explain to the potential anon tops you're asking to come NSA breed n go u as your husband watches or films but doesn't participate, and why? simp cuts to the chase. i've seen other sought after kinks use it to: like the guys who get pleasure out of one bullying the other to send him $.
  19. norefusal
    i got the impression that per gay hook up apps, a "simp" refers to the partner who likes to watch his husband get fucked by strangers. as for your examples above, none of them seem str8 exclusive so in theory i'm sure they happen w gays. personally, i can't think of a single example of me doin any, but there are maybe some close calls lol theres a guy who attends a lot of the same parties i go to who i kinda have a crush on. he's spoken to me in depth about my thoughts and opinions, has fooled around w me but not gone "all the way" yet, etc. i get a bit excited to see he's going to the same event but id still go even if he wasn't. there's a vague i may like him more than he likes me vibe, but it never crosses over into simp territory like you describe above.
  20. norefusal
    interesting. i'd have to say that just as much as i'm turned on by manscent, i'm also turned on by wearing other guy's intimates, especially if they're used. once in a blue moon a hook up will unexpectedly pull something out of a hamper and tell me to put it on and wearing his musky jock/thong/whatever is instant boner material.
  21. norefusal
    i had that job in college! it was the best! most guys didn't pay for the service so i rarely had to hand out towels and got tons of homework done on the job, plus the view of everyone walking back n forth to the showers 😜# in praise of guys who strut around nakid 🍆 the membership locker guys kept their clothes in had mesh fronts (if you've ever opened a locker a day or two after putting your gym clothes in it, you know why lol) so that made it easy for me to steal used jocks and speedos 🐷that i am. but the best were the nights when the wrestling team would do their group weight ins. the scale was right in front of my desk and they would all strip naked and as each got on the scare the others would all comment on his body and what was looking good, sometimes they'd touch the areas they were praising, etc it was all very soft core edge porn and i nearly creamed my pants on several occasions. 💦💦😜
  22. norefusal
    different days = different guys i get bored in general doing the same thing all the time, and guys are no exception. this is why cruising areas are so fun. you can spread your ass for a dom top one minute, only to later be forcing a faggot to choke on your cock, the now departed top's load still tryin to leak out your cunt. bitch doesn't need to know what you got up to before he arrived 😜
  23. norefusal
    interesting recent comments from Fauci's book tour. its nice he credits the Aids activists and compares them favorable vs the antivaxers but old habits die hard. as one of those activists, i haven't forgotten how it all seemed too little too late at the time. also interesting his dire predictions on how ramped up covid would have been if we hadn't rushed out the vaccine. still, where my hiv vax at? i'll continue to ruin my liver w pills but i can't help be frustrated.
  24. norefusal
    that would be me 😈
  25. norefusal
    this! 100% even as a young virgin i was the type of person who believed in facts, science and the word of experts, so when i repeatedly read that the average dick is 5.5 to 6" i believed it. im lucky in that i've been able to do exhaustive research over the years and have literally been up close and personal with several hundred erect penises. my findings corroborate the experts: most guys have a 5.5 to 6" dick. when asked i often say things like "i got a standard 6" or "all-american boy-next-door dick" and i can tell you that not a single one of those hundreds of men turned their nose up at it or refused to play. would i turn away a genie offering to grant me a thick 8" porn schlong? no. but do i waste my time feeling insecure about something i have zero control over? not for a second. but let's be honest even if it is a toxic attitude. it's fun to see all the different shapes sizes and differences but there is such a thing as a "pretty" dick. like @sub4oralcummine is straight, unblemished and looks just like a toilet stall drawing of everyone's preconceived notion of what a dick should look like, so that may explain all the compliments despite it being "nothing special".

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