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🤤 im also currently obsessed w PAs. you guys are hard to find round my parts.

i grew up in a predominately italian hood so many of my baby-faggot-wanna-be early crushes were on sexy older guidos. think saturday night fever. those guys love their jewelry. anyways, not my main type but i do have a weakness for a dark guy w a gold chain. mmmm

i love hanging out nude w other guys i'm comfortable with. this is why i joined a couple of nudist groups but it's awkward. finally i joined a nude yoga class and that went well because i was quickly able to forget i was naked and focus on the class. the parties and cookouts etc are awkward for the reasons you say. there is always a sex part and although i happily join the group orgy, it's awkward beforehand. we're just making small talk w strangers over beer and chips but i'm keenly aware that im being sized up and my dick's likelihood of getting action later on depends on how well he shows in this portion of the competition. we're just bullshittin about vacation destinations or whatever but i want to scream "sparkle Neely sparkle!" down at my crotch 😜

i only answered no once but honestly, if a guy ordered me to jerk off for an audience, i know id probably do it, it just hasn't happened yet. 😜

trying to manage my attraction to man smells is like buying an avocado from the supermarket: too clean, too clean, too clean, ah just fucking perfect!, stinks, stinks, stinks, dude seriously take a shower, ugh i might hurl, omfg are u homeless

to me sniffies and grindr are separate beasts. to make the analogy: grindr is like a 90s gay bar, sniffies is like a 90s reststop off the highway😜 the only sites i got zero hookups from are the really niche ones like recon or buddy that cater to bdsm or chasers. apps: grindr was by far my best success. scruff, growlr, daddyhunt, etc were like bars in the sense i'd hookup some as "fresh meat" but then the trail would go stale. adam4adam and squirt were sim, a few early hookups and then long months of "why do i bother" before not bothering sniffies is like the toxic ex i keep going back to. it's not healthy but hey, what's a sex addict to do

😱 when i was young, there wasn't much acceptance or even a gay community to speak of, and even then kids aren't always ready to join the other team so quickly. so ABSs etc is all we had. for years i still didn't know if i was gay or not despite having sucked countless cocks of unseen men at GHs. in a way it helps disassociate the primal need to service cock from any kind of real world feeling that would come from knowing the guy or even recognizing him on the street. it's an idol to worship, you don't need to know it belong to some dull accountant in a cheap suit.

"Despite its reputation for being a rich source of protein, you would likely have to consume gallons of semen to see any dietary health benefits." game on! sounds like a challenge to me 😜

wait... what? did i hear this right? they said on the radio today that RFKjr had a brain eating worm in his head!?! i mean, it explains a lot,but.... whaaass?

it completely depends. dump your load in me like i'm your bitch, but im not your bitch so don't hang your shit on me. even a dom top sadist will praise you for "taking it like a true slut" etc but a recent "str8" dl guy who bred me was so harsh i was confused and then i realized - i wasn't getting rough fucked, i was getting angry fucked. and he wasn't so much disrespecting me as a dirty faggot, as he was disgusted by his compulsion to keep fucking faggot ass.

i hear ya. i've gotten to the point where ill eagerly eat "the right ass" but it's not a given. i'll still refuse a unappetizing cake. but i have gotten over the hump where now i just love gettin my ass ate out like a bitch's pussy. 😜but it took me a minute cause: - society homophobia -aids scare - ew, you know that's bacteria right etc so, other than waitin for the 3rd thursday in nov to say "i'm grateful for enough culturally diverse immigration over the years to finally somewhat loosen the strangling effect of these fucking religious puritans who insist on using sexual shame as a way of controlling people" before heading to the park so some trump voter can eat my hairy hole while insisting he's not "gay".

🔥 hot story but can i ask if im correct in assuming everything turned out ok? did u ever find out what happened to the vid: was it an OF content or just for priv use? i'm assuming he didn't go on to try an blackmail you etc and if it did all turn out ok, did it feel that way at the time? was there panic and fear until inactivity doused it? was the initial lack of consent a turn on or a wtf am i doing w my life moment or possibly both? even "brutally fuck me for hours" could have been either heaven or hell depending on your mindset at the time. sorry for all the questions but i'm curious

i'd hooked up w him twice before so i knew the D was good and for whatever reason, dude was just my idea of a 10: mid 30s neither short nor tall, slim but fit, very handsome black guy with a sweet 10" cock, long but not too fat. he'd already bred me twice that day - after the second time i was able to cross item #1 off my bucket list when he stayed inside me for a min and slowly i could feel the warm flow of liquid up my ass, followed by a quick head rush as the chem piss took affect. laying there just enjoying all the feels - i was pleased to hear him say "my buddy wants to come over. i think you'll like this guy. he's got the fattest dick i've ever seen. what you think?" i quickly agreed as being shared by a dom top with his pal was another item on the list. then he advised i go push the piss out as it had been stewing inside me for a while. we showered and then he asked for a syringe which i actually had so he started preparing. told to get on the bed on all fours, he lubed my hole then inserted the syringe and i felt a squirt of warm liquid followed by another head rush. my first booty bump. cross another item off the bucket list. then i gave him his and he started opening up my hole with dildos of increasing size. his buddy arrived - a tall, formerly muscled out middle asked white guy w a big beer barrel gut and the thickest cock i've ever seen. we took turns trying to swallow this guy then my friend, usually a strict top but i guess the T was gettin to him, assumed the position. it was wild to see the guy i'd only known as topping me try to take big dick and i helped by working his nips and sucking his dick but i could tell he was struggling to take something this big. then he announced it was my turn and i felt a completely different kind of rutting. my friend usually fucks me so deep it's amazing but this guys fat cock starching my hole to the max gave a different focus as i enjoyed the sensations around my hole as he pumped in and out. then he abruptly said he had to bounce and i noticed for the first time just how frickin drunk this guy was. i can't belive he drove. heck i can't believe he could get it up that wasted. then my friend proceeded to fuck my stretched hole long and deep and deposited load number 3 deep into my guts. he then flipped me onto my back and proceeded to give me the best frickin head as i thought about how lucky i was to get 3 items crossed off the list all in one night.

i try to be very glass-half-full about it. apparently my city is better than most about still having a live scene. but it really is a shadow of its former self, slowly being killed in part by the apps. so i kinda have no choice than to also use the apps even tho i prefer the old ways. luckily ive been able to supplement things with member based group sex parties. but it really is generational. live i hook up more w guys my age. the apps attract younger users. at least in my area.

well, this is life in the modern world. it's great that i can have sex at my fingertips and this does expose me to all sorts of people i wouldn't normally meet. the flip side is: people need to stop treating other human beings like fucking products you're ordering online. stop talking like you're calling the complaint dept about your item arriving damaged or not the color you wanted etc sorry to be shady to millennials, but most of you seem to have the social skills of a bunch of homeschooled weirdos. and here's a rant: stop fucking asking for "stats". Math doesn't tell you shit.

lol you don't have to even name a city and the answer is yes. i was recently drooling over a hook up who was a very handsome poc and thus my idea of a 10, and said something stupid about him being able to pick and choose at which point he explained that it works both ways. i know this from my own experience where guys either think i'm gorgeous or fugly based on being a type.

oh honey, you really do know how to pick them 😜 honestly, if 28 isn't time to wisen up, when is?

just to recap what we know so far: - he's cute - he's black - he's a top -he's a cheater -he's a liar who has no problem stealthing a guy - he's controlling so.... 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩😜

i can't think of anytime a guy in a sex club didn't say something. if they dump their load they usually remark on how good the ass felt. if they don't, they usually explain why, which is usually "too early in eve to cum, ill prob be back". even the 22yo who dumped two loads one right after the other had to go off about how that never happened before and how good it felt. or the one guy who bitched i was too tight and he doesn't do tight. just walking away w/out a word? are they psycho?

i moved here 12 years ago. for the past 10 i've had this friend i now call "straight Steve" not to get him confused with "gay Steve" who've i've known for a year. straight steve and i have gotten much closer over the years and he's really someone i can confide in and turn to for help and vice versa. we literally talk about sex but not in much detail esp. since his GF is also a close friend. gay steve and i tell each other many more "and this one time at band camp" sexcapade stories but the friendship also seems a bit forced at times as once my exhusband left i was shocked to find i had 0 gay friends locally so have been working hard to make some. i don't know if others my age find this, but i meet very few guys like me who came out during the scary reagan era. most of guys my age i meet didn't come out till after their kids went away to college. it sometimes makes for awkward interactions.

i like the thanks, see ya, or smack on the ass as it means they enjoyed themselves and may likely be back for more. the ones who just quickly rush out, no words, make me suspect they're overcome w guilt and regret. closet case self-hatred or young gays who think they can do better but horniness made them sink low and fuck a dad

yes but with regard to the pozzlng videos i can see why they choose the visual of cuming outside and then pushing it all in. i prefer the really verbal ones where they yell about how they're dumping their toxic load deep into the bottom's cunt. the worst are when they just grunt quietly for a second. you just fucking changed a guy's entire life and if i blink a second i miss the whole thing?

to be fair, Elvis being alive and an alien spaceship crashing in the desert, while highly unlikely, are actually possible. HIV not being deadly? it's literally been disproven by not only science but real life people dying. lots of them! we saw it with our own eyes. this is more like you're at a diner w a friend and a 90 yo elvis hobbles in w a walker and orders coffee and your friend is like "Elvis never existed. Graceland is a myth. the gov paid actors to play Elvis in the movies in order to control horny teenagers" 😜

i was 21 years with my ex husband, some of the very happiest years of my life. 3 years post divorce and im still heartbroken. but we didn't get match-made by doris fucking day in a pristine rose garden. i met him when he was a nameless dude trying to suck my cock in the steam room at the gym. stop ghosting guys you have sex with and trying to blame fucking grindr for your being single. it's an app. nothing more. you want a relationship, put the fucking work in.

there's all sorts of things i've done and enjoyed in real life that are a instant turn off in porn : mostly anything female, femme, trans, cd etc it's always whiny and fake in porn, even the fake boob jobs are an instant boner killer somehow whenever i go to jack off the porn has gotta be ott butch - pigs grunting in a leather dungeon or im out.