norefusal
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lol which is the part you are now sorry about? your protagonist is an illegal drug taking dishonest adulterer. are we now suppose to condemn him for also having a personal taste for well hung black men? 🤣 this is the fiction section. but should the woke police get words like "bbc" banned, we'll still have the majority of the fiction left to discuss rape, stealth pozing, older men emotionally manipulating naive teens, incest, etc. and all that will be fine just as long as we don't venture into morally objectionable areas like saying attractive men w dark skin and big D are 🔥 anyways, you did leave us with a cliffhanger. perhaps you can continue w the "sequence of events" storyline but make Reggie a multi-racial, polyamorous, gender neutral, entrepreneur who's fluent in sign language. 😜
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Am I too vanilla? How are you vanilla, or not vanilla?
norefusal replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
the first thing i did was try to see the OP's age and yes, i was far less kinky at that age. i don't know if other guys feel the same, but ive def morphed into a dirty old man. 😜 -
How stupid is to propose taking a HIV test before sex?
norefusal replied to soki's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
it's somewhat of a fool's errand imo the only time i ever did it was back in 2001 when my ex and i decided to become exclusive we both got tested, showed each other the negative results, then threw away the condoms. as an er dr pointed out to me circa 2009, trusting a man not to lie about cheating is not a 100% fool proof plan. 🤣 either u trust people or you don't but im on prep now so i never even have to ask. -
it's only gone in one direction for me: i've become friends w guys i originally just fucked, but i have never later fucked someone i started out as friends with. but people move on, or move away. sexual compatibility is hard to be enough for a sustained relationship.
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Finding guys online for relationship
norefusal replied to tallslenderguy's topic in General Discussion
spam and scammers are annoying but i find them relatively easy to spot and avoid. im more triggered by how unapologetically rude some regular folk are. there will be guys who are openly racist, ageist, body shammers, etc and then try to hide behind the excuse of "it's how all gays are, you should be used to it" um, no. it's just how YOU are. in a lot of ways, going online helped exposed the hidden ugly underbelly of the community - grindr is like a 60 Minutes expose 😜 -
i wonder if it's a dated expression? prick, like dick and cunt was used to not only refer to genitals but also a person who's a jerk. a real asshole 😜 vs pussy which is someone weak or cowardly.
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🤣true also, when a blank profile cold DMs me "sup" i know im about to get black dick 😜
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once in middle school my best friend told me in all seriousness: penis is a tiny dick dick is average like what most guys have cock is a big fat dick prick is when it's long but thin 🤣
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same
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ok, the answer is either, 19, 29, 39, 59 or never. 😜 at each of those stages i discovered new and more intense ways of enjoying sex w my hole but still, the dime is taking forever to drop. 😜 i've recently gotten into FF so maybe once i experience my first gape i'll finally accept that i've got a cunt between my legs as far as pleasure goes.
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Bareback Bastards video links go here
norefusal replied to HardOneLA's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
i had the same but opposite. because it was back during "the crisis" he always either fucked me w a condom or his fav to straddle my head and give me a facial, which yes, made a huge mess with jizz flying everywhere. not getting fed or bred by him is one of my biggest life regrets but young people are dumb. he's probably still walking around spewing huge neg loads all these years later. 😜 -
Reconnecting with my gay uncle
norefusal replied to Jaygusher's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
speak for yourself! 🤣 i suppose it's weird that i get paid to sit at a desk and read BZ m-f 925 but unlike T this addiction doesn't have as bad a comedown 😜 -
i can only remember doing this once because i was very triggered. generally i stick by the rule "don't yuck someone's yum" but some guys seem to use "we like what we like" as a cover-up for bad behavior. so... you wanna write fiction about bad behavior, or share rRL experiences from your past, go right ahead. but don't encourage people to do awful, technically illegal things in RL and then get all hurt if someone downvotes it.
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it's funny how much changes in just a year. i've doubled down and gotten far more into blindfolded anon than before so have come to regard the muteness as part of the kink 🔥 but i still prefer a verbal guy. at least a smack on the ass signaling "job well done" but also, although i've gotten used to being present and reading the signs - i recently had a few very verbal guys who shouted all sorts of shit out loud as they came and i gotta say it made me realize how much i missed that. especially str8 guys seem to be masters of the silent orgasm and while i've come to accept it, i really appreciate a good verbal cummer. 😜
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😮this is by far the 🐷-est thing in your whole story 🤣 im not sure i would have done it. im not sure i could have done it. here in the NE most campuses and their dorms don't let outsiders in. the closest thing i ever did to this was once a grown adult snuck me into his sober house. still, it was a "what am doing w my life?" moment. possibly getting caught being somewhere youre not supposed to be sometimes sounds hotter that it is in reality. like gettin bred in a car that has child seats in the back 😜
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how did i get into it? a hot guy goated me into doing it 😜same way i first sucked dick way back when 🤣 i was at an outdoor cruising spot one nite and he was i guess what you'd call an experienced kinky dom bottom. he walked me thru how to fist him and although i'd never been particularly drawn to it before, i loved it. i was 59 and let's be honest, my top a stranger on demand stud days were behind me. this provided a nice way to top w out topping 😜 but we continued to hook up and the more i did it w him, saw how much he loved it and the big orgasms he had, i now wanted to try taking a fist myself. i've tried a few times w various guys but thus far i havnt gotten past 4 digits. but im gonna keep trying.
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Faithful Husband Tempted By Poz Neighbour
norefusal replied to Tommy Tank's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
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i guess it just goes to show how much we all live in little bubbles of our own experience. it's shocking to me to hear of this parallel universe where the AIDS epidemic didn't affect BHs which not only remained open but were full of guys raw dogging their way through a heath crisis like a bunch of MAGA anti-vaxers 😮 but i think it's also about fads too to a certain extent. when i was a kid in the 70s BHs were a famous symbol of the gay lifestyle so to me theyre like liking the dorky music your dad listens to. i'm sure it's different for younger guys who weren't around for the village people 😜
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absolutely! but cruising in general has always been hit or miss. heck, w the apps, now one doesn't even have to leave the house in order to strike out on a fri nite 🤣 but also the whole world is going this way. personally i think the gay bars would be a bigger loss than the BH but that's just me. i think losing the gay bookstores was huge and yet most people have forgotten them and adjusted. the internet gave us unprecedented access to info. but it's also helped isolate us. and that's true for everyone, not just the "gay community."
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it's not just eggs that have gotten crazy expensive. I'd be more prone to go to an ABS or BH if they weren't the price of a good meal out, never mind the cost of the STI treatment after 😜But there's also the lameness of some of those who do go, that often make the trip seem not worth the entry price. Everytime i think to go to either, i remember the last time i paid to get in to what was essentially a dead party, and then i talk myself out of going.
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Have you ever thought when gays discovered fisting?
norefusal replied to Gingerguy's topic in General Discussion
i think the confusion comes with how fads and/or contexts plays a role. i feel like FFing was put on the "no fly list" when AiIDS hit the scene and is now enjoying a sort of retro comeback. similarly, i have no idea when the first group decided to "snowball" I just know the concept is new to me. when i first started fucking, rule 101 of m2m sex was don't go near another guy's ljz w a 10 foot pole. now w prep every hook up is like jizzapoluza 😜 -
last time i got breed was kinda both i guess. his orgasm was kinda loud n showy so id assumed he'd enjoyed himself 😜but after he left i just rolled over n went to sleep. i woke up in the am when some very wet sounding gas escaped with a sort of plop sound. my eyes opened wide as i felt the wetness spread and sure enough my crack was flooded w jizz. i cleaned up and went about my day when an hr later i needed to push something out and sure enough, it was more cum. like a lot. like wtf did i get gangbanged by 10 guys and sleep thru it amount. lol so, embarrassing that i cum shartred myself, but hot that i apparently made this guy dump the worlds biggest load deep up my ass.
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there are two types of people. unfortunately there are times when the gay cruising scene seems to be overrun w basic bitches who only have the same type of sex w the same type of people over and over again like groundhogs day. it's sounds like hell on earth to me only because i'm the opposite: i crave trying new and different things. i move a lot, have lived in dif countries, eat a wide variety of food and love trying new dishes, travel often, have been to over 30 countries, etc and some of the best sex i've ever had was with people i initially said no to but was glad i changed my mind as they proceeded to rock my world. 😜 i've got this friend who now when he points out a hot guy i don't even bother to turn my head to look. how many gen x latin bears can you check out before it all becomes one big blurr like he's literally cruising the same dude over and over again 🤣 live and let live i guess
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wow! that was different and a welcome pallet cleanse tbh. reminded me a bit of the gay cinema of the 80s and 90s. old fashioned boy meets boy tale. good job
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Attractiveness of assholes vs female pussy
norefusal replied to ktopper's topic in General Discussion
pussy: if i was drunk id go to town eatin it like a starving man at a buffet. sober, ew man ass: hairy top bubble butt is my kryptonite. especially if he's muslim, sorry to be unwoke, but those guys keep their asses cleaner than a dinner plate. so both i'm uneven: either i'm all in, or phoning it in.
