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  1. the rash is considered a stage II symptom. i'm still flabbergasted i missed all stage I symptoms but reading here this seems to be more common than i realized.
  2. i found it less a flex as a sad comment on america and how racially divided we are. the fact that he's not worried about an awkward encounter w a black guy he sucked off thru work or at a social event is scary but probably accurate. also, the demographics from the last census was something like 51% white, 33%latino, 12%black so even if your sucking anon dick at a truck stop, that's a lot of white dick you gotta say "no thanks" to waiting for that 12% to come along. and bless anyone who can easily tell whites from latinos at a glance, cause there so much cross over beige between the white and the brown it's a very blurry line. dick is dick. i suck it all.
  3. my pickiness is directly proportional to my horniness. the thirstier i get the lower my standards drop😜 it's also influenced by reputation. out w friends, anyone chattin me up is held to a much higher standard. alone in a cruising area, ill spread em for just about anyone 😜
  4. wait, what? lol to quote ru paul "whys it gotta be black?" 😜 so what's the goal here? how many dif cocks can you suck in one day? how many, specifically black cocks you can suck in one day? 🤣 what are the rules? just a cock you had in your mouth, or do you have to successfully make each one cum? cause those two very different numbers 😜
  5. all i can say is we must both be definitely democrats as we agree 99.9% but are quibbling over details 😜 the proof of the pudding will be in the tasting. i hope you're right about the voters. i think it too but i disagree that the facts support it. if we were a nation as you describe, Trump wouldn't even have a political career, never mind be constantly within range of the win. have you talked to a trump voter recently? they are mixing up new batches of kool aid to drink everyday. im hoping this shuts up the stupid youth vote "im not voting because of gaza" bs but i also know that young people are notoriously undependable when it comes to actually getting their asses to a voting booth.
  6. vivid memories in fact of the time we overwhelmingly chose the seemingly inexperienced black MAN over the white FEMALE senator. i dubbed it the triumph of sexism over racism. i also remember the 8 years they somehow managed to never once blow a fart in public knowing the blow back would be 1oz what it would be if they were white. people lost their shit over a tan suit and a dirty look at a funeral. then we elected (not by popular vote) a white supremacist because there are fine people on both sides 😜
  7. i'm confused 20 loads a week is like a part time job lol certainly a lot of loads for a guy on the DL. i just fucked a guy the other who had to be home by midnight so his GF didn't start asking questions. so it def happens, guys like you, but i doubt you'll be able to keep up a 20 load per week schedule AND a heterosexual marriage. any thought of marriage flew out the window for me the day it came out i slept w dudes. i could do it on the DL but once it became know, str8 life was officially closed to me. it's been so long i can say in retrospect it was worth it but i also know it didn't always seem that way, especially in the beginning. as for the gettin bred, it's addictive for sure but unlike T there's no known comedown or side effects imho. it used to be the fear of aids but prep fixed all that. it's feels great and i love being a cumdump
  8. this was exactly my situation. when i reentered the market after many years off, i went out and bought a big box of condoms and started meeting guys and see where things led. after 3 months it seems it almost always led to me w some random dudes load up my ass and an unopened box of condoms, so i went on prep. 3 years later and ive had 0 side effects. at least 1 sti so now they send me a bottle of doxy w every bottle of prep.
  9. ok. maybe. look, if Harris wins i will absolutely be leading the celebratory conga line thru the streets. our first female president, and a woman of color to boot. however, i live in the usa and absolutely nothing in recent years shows us to a non-sexist, non-racist nation over run with white supremicist men. i always assumed he was trying to win so he could hand the job to Harris after he gets past the kkk roadblock of the voting booth. now she's got to get past voter suppression, gerrymandering, too scared to say out loud how sexist/racist they really are liberal white voters etc Looking forward to this country pleasantly surprising me.
  10. i was at a gay nudist campsite recently and one of the other campers gave such a convicted soliloquy on how trump is our savior and biden the very devil that for a split second i had to wonder if i should continue to trust my own eyes and ears. we truly have come to the point where half of us have fully drank all the kool-aid but which half? if cock sucking nudists don't believe in democracy anymore, nothing can be counted on
  11. i need a pimp. in general i do better if i have a dom top buddy who whores me out or at least an extrovert buddy who attracts moths to his flame. my best nite ever at a BH was when i chatted online w another vers bott who invited me to his room. unlike mine, his room was party central and once id gotten his 👍that i was cool i just hung out there and serviced and or got fucked by fandoms who came n went attracted by the gathering
  12. shrug. every site has its pluses and minuses. i'm learning the hard way that BBRT is apparently full of pathological liars. one guy who's profile says "420 only" did T the entire hook up. another guy who's profile says "neg only" has been DMing back n forth w me about the toxic loads he's taken and how none of his efforts to get knocked up have taken yet. he's promised to invite me along next time he's doing group action w toxic guys he knows (not holding my breath lol) but i never would have met this guy if i'd filtered like u say.
  13. this is imho the political equivalent of "well what were you doing out at night dressed as a slut. you basically wanted to get raped" if trump wins it will be because half the country looked at a modern day Hitler knock-off and said "yes please".
  14. this whole dragged out election cycle has gotten so depressing i long for those 18-22 yo years where i went into Nov barely knowing who the two candidates were.
  15. my #1 rule is "avoid any discussion of it" 😜 until fairly recently, i've been able to ridiculously boast "i've never cheated on anyone". it's not cheating if you never officially agreed to be exclusive. it's BS i know but as george costanza says " it's not a lie if you believe it" 😜 this continued thru the times i tried to cheat on my husband and the hook up just didn't happen, or didn't continue until "completion". i'd convince myself it wasn't cheating if no one came. that worked until the day i took a load and could no longer lie to even myself. i know other cheaters have specific rules. the guy who became my sole FB during lockdown wouldn't fuck me. that was the rule he set for himself. it seems silly to me to think the daily loads i swallowed weren't technically "cheating" but hey, his rules worked for him, who am i to say they're silly.
  16. i started doing this but quickly lost interest. i'd rather just live in the moment. the fact that i struggle to come up with a real number when asked how many partners ive had, alone screams "SLUT!" so why bother. "too many to keep track of" is its own answer 😜
  17. to me sniffies is a hook up basic staple, like jeans and a white tee are to your wardrobe 😜 it's great for travel, quick hook ups when horny, and perfect if you're into anon w whomever as it attracts str8s, cheaters, guys on DL etc sure there's lots of BS, time wasters etc but that's because it's connected to people and people suck lol
  18. i'll tell ya, i've gotten way more action from the gym locker room then i ever got at any ABS or bath house 😜
  19. i met my ex husband when he cruised me in the steam room at the YMCA. afterward, when people asked, he liked to quip "we met at the gym... and neither one of us have stepped foot inside one since!" 😜
  20. *shrug* id rather get fucked w a condom than not get fucked at all so respecting his opinion coincides w me meeting my needs. whenever guys say they just move on to the next top i always think "must be nice to be you then" lol refusing a top in this "bottom's market" and as an older guy, its basically like saying "well guess im not getting fucked today" 😜 and that doesnt even include the 60% of the guys hitting you up for "oral only" 😜
  21. yes. post lockdown i was able to work from home for over a year and str8 guys love the mid-day quickie between meetings or on the way to or from home. early am "going to the gym honey" etc now i have "summer hrs" so get fri afternoons off and that's when i host most of my anon hookups. the worst was when i was still married and trying to start playing around. i gained a new respect for cheaters then. trying to schedule a DL hookup is like trying to solve a rubic's cube 😜
  22. lol grindr is literally that friend who says "oh i have a gay coworker. you two should meet!" that's it. the end. how the interaction goes from there is 100% up to the humans involved. i'm actually both impressed and horrified by your suggestions that a computer program interfere in an effort to correct human behavior. your post reads like the basis for a sci-fi novel 😜
  23. i suspect that the closest we've all come to being a simp, especially in our youth, is the crush on a str8 friend that bedeviled our days and nights until we were old enough to go out and find a gay community to engage with. i was a simp for a str8 friend in college, except that being thirsty for him was a perk, not a motivator. he was a popular kid i used to get inside the cool-kid's clique and improve my social standing. so it was mutually beneficial even if never consummated 😜
  24. only 2 going to a party fri nite. will try to improve on this weeks dismal showing 😜
  25. no idea what you mean but like bear, twink, top, sub etc it's used as code or shorthand on hook up sites to easily describe kinks sought. how do you explain to the potential anon tops you're asking to come NSA breed n go u as your husband watches or films but doesn't participate, and why? simp cuts to the chase. i've seen other sought after kinks use it to: like the guys who get pleasure out of one bullying the other to send him $.
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