norefusal
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sucking dick and more specifically swallowing cum is considered "low risk" so this is a personal choice of how much risk you are comfortable with. the advice from experts is always going to be a CYA scenario as the whole safesex message relied on a "assume everyone with a penis is a pathological liar not to be trusted" mentality
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Anyone else have a cut/uncut family difference?
norefusal replied to cumfillthishole's topic in General Discussion
every blood relative who's junk i've seen has been cut. OT but there is a special mixture of lust and shame that came w those teens years changing in the same room as your cousin and totally droolin over and being jealous of their big meat 😜 im naturally attracted to anyone who "different" so almost slll my BFs etc are foreign born and thus uncut no matter their race. but i also have a preference for dark meat (sorry to be unwoke) so that also tends to up the uncut %. as for medical justification: i never bought the argument when my ex tried to tell me ikea throw in extra screws, and i never bought the whole "your body come w spare parts u don't need" concept either. guys who want their son's dick to look like theirs are weird. jmho. as for identity issues: i personally could give a flying fuck. why waste time dwelling on what u have no control over. it is what it is. not to overshare but several guys have looked right at my flaccid dick and asked since it is somewhat "not obvious " if i'm cut or not but i also don't waste time dwelling on that especially since if everything is going to plan, i won't be flaccid for long 😜 -
Gay sides on hookup sites and in in person sex venues?
norefusal replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
i'd assumed it was: top = i fuck (ass) bottom = i get fucked (up the ass) side = no fucking (no anal) -
agree to disagree perhaps im lucky but SM is not riddled w asshats for me. these jerks are the exception and not the rule and that's why i report them. i also report them as a record. if grindr is or isn't doing its job is not in my control but i'm not going to ignore bad behavior due to pessimism about the world in general. if enough people report the same guy eventually they'll have to stop ignoring the complaints. jmho and ITA w everyone who says you just keep being you. i wish i was closer so i could come dump a load in you myself you beautiful shameless man slut 😜
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what am I doing wrong? (be nice in your replies haha)
norefusal replied to a topic in General Discussion
this. it's shocking to me how uninterested in sex most men are. my local sauna is regularly packed with guys wondering around for hours never engaging in sex. -
am i the only one who has no fuckin clue? i mean, i know i was a tween but it wasn't a memorable moment at all and that's assuming i was aware of it. i could have easily had a wet dream and i didn't notice the stain in my undies. some of us aren't that self aware lol
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i hope you reported him before blocking him. his comment was antisocial, demeaning g and abusive and he should be warned by the admin to start behaving like a civilized person or be banned. sorry you had to face that. some people are so damaged they only know how to hurt others rather than heal.
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lol i was going to ask if you were a time traveler from the 1950s until i realized you just live in FL. 😜
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squirt and sniffies both have good info you may be asking for too much tho because most of these places rely on easy access and frequent user turnover and thus the thrill of possibly getting caught is part of it for some guys, as is the thrill of being watched and the thrill of group participation etc
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not sure why everyone is misinterpreting my comment. i'm not saying it's wrong to ask questions. but the OP didn't word the post like he's asking about a status. he phrased it like he's demanding to see a test result as a requirement to sex. hipaa may not cover private citizens demanding health information that is none of their fucking business, but i still say demanding to see someone's test results goes against the spirit of the law. it's our own private business. we can voluntarily share as most of us often do, but requiring to see a medical test result? uncool. and let's be truthful, THE only reason most of us list our statuses online is to increase our chances of getting laid because irrational prejudice against hiv+ men is still pervasive in current culture. also uncool
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What's the hottest thing a hookup has said to you?
norefusal replied to jackbottom's topic in Your Last Load...
"i fuck you more often then i fuck my wife" -
are we sure it's neither illegal or immoral? it's sounds like a direct violation of the hipaa act as well as an over reach of one's authority. you have the right to refuse to sleep with people but you don't have the right to request they seek medical help. if you can't trust someone don't fuck em. otherwise, that's why condoms exist.
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i think there are two different things going on here and it's interesting that everyone seems to be focusing on the bottom- rivalry aspect of it. it was a 3-way! ymmv but in my whole life i've once and only once had a great 3-way where no one felt left out or miffed that the other two seemed more into each other etc. even then it only considered great if u focus on just that day. it's also the only time i've ever gotten an sti so... but otherwise, the sex was great 😜 i love group sex. but there's something about the elusive 3-way that seems so hot in theory but somehow is always the worst sex in reality. i've sworn off doin couples for the moment. the jealousy factor is too much but also what really put me out the last time was all the non-verbal communication between the couple. like they're talking about u right in front of you ugh
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i went thru a somewhat similar phase from about 50 to 57. its hard to pinpoint an exact cause and perhaps it is more of a perfect storm. suspect #1 i start high blood pressure meds at this time and soon coupled them statins. suspect #2 itd been married and monogamous for 13 years and had hit my runners wall with the gay porn version of groundhog day that closed relationships are suspect #3 a combo of #1 and depression. we moved back to my hometown and i feel it was a big mistake. it wasnt just my husband i no longer wanted to fuck- the whole idea of sex was like "ew! are people still doing that?" i actually thought when we moved here "thank god everyone is so ugly, i wont be tempted to cheat" but now i readily fuck those exact same guys then one ffreaky friday, something unexplainable happened and my middle aged dad bod suddenly became possessed with the libido of a teenage boy.
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sounds to me like you want your cake and u want him to eat it too 😜 he fucked u didnt he? now what? your saying saying gettin bred doesnt count cause he wont out himself publicly? wtfc. is he your bf or an nsa hook up? pick your battles. thats my 2 cents
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to me its more about generations than age or type. gen z is the first gen raised on pornhub on their phones and it shows. these guys will do the kinkiest shit and seem to think its just what sex is. after they cum their the sweetest guys. i got a couple of gen z FBs goin atm. its the main reason i dont really like guys my age. either they refuse to fuck rough or they think they own me just because they bred me - start tell me what to wear and who i can see - fuck off. although my gen z FBs are slim an young PoC guys, i wouldnt call them twinks per see. ive know too many milenial twinks: silly, gender neutral, overprivledge white guys w strong opinions on everything who dont like to be challenged or contradicted. ive really come to hate twinks over the years because of these types.
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ive been on descovy for well over a year and havent noticed any issue w bruising
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sex is not very woke. but that doesn't mean we need to make being unPC a lifestyle. u felt the need to tell us right away he was latino because you are sexualizing him by race. macho possessive latin guy oh no. danger. lol u also seem to hint that u both loved the dynamic when horny. why whisper hes the only cock for u unless the possessiveness was turning u on. and maybe he came quickly because he was turned on by fucking a used cummy hole. then he slut shamed u. humiliation is also a big turn on sexually ya dumb slut 😜 so which is it? are u guys enjoying some fun role playing? or is he too controling for your free spirit. only u know the answer to that. sounds like you might have to *gasp* have an adult conversation with the other adult youre adult fucking. oh no.
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What awakened your sexuality in your early years.
norefusal replied to a topic in General Discussion
one day i was watching batman. they jumped onto the firepoles as bruce and wayne and arrived in the batcave as batman and robin. i then realized that for a split second while descending the poles they would have to be naked next to each during the costume change and i couldnt get the image of batman and robin naked together on poles out of my mind. too young to know what sex was exactly but i knew i wanted in on this 😜 -
just to clarify, as i feel people may be misunderstanding my comment from a hindsight perspective: my memory from having lived it was that the CDC in the early days of the epidemic told us to avoid cum at all costs. it wasnt until the mid 90s iirc that we were being advised that swallowing had been reclassified as "low risk" due to the reasons you list above. Anyone who lived thru the everchanging narrative of the recent covid pandemic can understand that in the early days of "mysterious gay cancer" the message was to lock yourself in the house and speak to no one. 😜
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tbh i get "u clean?" most often from "str8" cheaters so i get why they're being uber careful- ish. i of course will literally say anything to get dick and honestly, gettin barebacked on the sly by some bitch's dog of a husband is hot. why bother pointing out that last week's clean lab results don't prove i wasn't freshly loaded up by one of this weekend's anon guys? im not dumb. lol
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im a cock-half-hard kind of optimist who's view of nsa hook-ups is u can have quality, or quantity, but u cant have both. because im arguably a sex addict, i tend to think the only bad sex is no sex so... you got head, you fucked ass, pissed on the bitch... this is more than most fags are willing to give, so take the win an move on to the next bitch. but u sound like u def want quality over quantity so imo the moment he spat your load out you should have kicked his ass to the curb. if u dont want less dont settle for less.
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i absolutely can tell the difference both as top and bottom. its not dramatic or a deal breaker but raw just feels better period. but im more a "its not if u win or lose but how u play the game" kinda guy who enjoys the actual fucking of fucking. too many guys imho have their eyes on the prize and the whole world has become cum addicts. its one reason why ive stopped topping random hookups. i barely get it in and already theyre beggin "breed me daddy!" stfu and enjoy how good im fuckin u. but in truth, im just being used as a cum dispenser for their crazy collecting addiction. yuck.
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im gonna rest my vote on the word "favorite". yes, i enjoy suckin dick of all skin tone etc but my very first experience as a teen was when a guy my age rough skull fucked me w bbc and it was da bomb. thats really the snake ive spent all these years chasin, the dream im tryin to relive over n over. sorry if thats not woke. i eat all flavors of ice cream, but choocolate will always be my fav 😜
