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  1. 100%. Again, confidence in yourself is key. You may choose to exclude showing face in an action pic, but it's just another way to show off the pigginess and depravity.
  2. Smooth, on tight(er) side, lubed, raw. Ready and willing
  3. I attribute quoted anonymity to venues in Europe that host blackout nights. Not 'lights dimmed down low' American style - pitch fucking black. Not 1 single room like a bar backroom that you can sit out to catch a cute guy entering - most of the venue away from the foyer. You see literally nothing unless you can feel it up and kinda compliment the shape of what you are fucking. And fucking they shall commence wall to wall. That would be anonymous (to you), even though the organizers probably sold a ticket electronically to an (identifiable) patron that brought up a copy of the receipt to enter. But I know that you can buy a cash ticket without a discount at the door as well. Most venues in North America don't reach that level of ambient darkness.
  4. I keep my gear (which over time outgrew the original design) in a dedicated wheeled small suitcase like a carry-on. I am not a kid, but it still works I think, as no one visitor suspected a link between sex and travel by seeing a suitcase in the bedroom. Their loss, it could have been interesting.
  5. So true for many more perverts alike. That's why old-fashioned in-person interactions are head above the rest.
  6. Can't make this shit up man - not even an hour after - they just keep on coming - a faceless single-line profile of a self-proclaimed masochist sub, 53, happily pushy individual, keeps messaging me (yet again) [somewhere else] - " Sounds like you need a sub masochistic bottom toilet to abuse and let some frustration out. It'll be good for both of you ". Both of me. The voices in my head must have been rowdy loud that even the interwebs have heard them.... But they are not only 2. ?
  7. Guys online (today's one is from bbrt) that would quickly plug their number into the message in the early exchange to switch to unlimited texting - and with non-paying memberships I get it, you want to have as many free options remaining to interest future someone else other than the current counterpart to get more play if this one doesn't work out - and then continue to message you different things through different devices. You'd tell him to stop splitting threads, and he'd get all confused and pissy that he got caught saying different things to the same guy attempting to spin multiple plates. Spectacular
  8. Proclaimed 'non-stop bottoms' and 'total' bottoms - IDK what that may even be these days - having most of their provided pics being of his dick and not the ass. If wanted dick (on occasion), I would have looked at other places. Subs reaching out to tell that we 'should' do something. Oh honey, where to begin. 'Anon' people insisting on all stats and true pic to hook up. Better yet, a face pic vs. none of their own. Bottoms at the baths with head turned away from the door (yet bare ass is in full view with an open door) only to say that 'they are okay and don't want anything'. No-limits bottoms telling what they won't do because it's nasty or beneath them. Oh well. I believe technology today is allowing the faggery (and other humans) to show its absolute worst - just because one's fingers can peck into a keyboard through some fancy swipes, that completely disables any comprehension to what is being said. Add your favorite meds to this flight of ADHD fancy. And after a decade or so of such practice in common acceptance, the result is on full display now so that very few people even register this as .. odd .. or .. undesirable. Atrophy of a basic brain function to follow a train of though - you just have to follow the action on some screen, nothing else is needed. I'll be just such an imagineer for a quick second here - and at the next click (turn, swipe, street, page, site - insert your other favorite option - I'll find something new and exciting and fabulous, of a handsome Prince Charming of the minute, on a tall white steed, with a big dick or a juicy ass, or both. Oh, god - both! Just another one yet to one better!! No effort needed, there will be a new app for that. Are we just showing age?
  9. I think I can agree. But timing is everything. If pee trick comes after the gang bang, I don't see a possibility for a problem at all.
  10. Simple - next time you hold it for him, if the room space allows, lean in from of it and point the dick to your mouth and don't let the dick go. Sometimes people underestimate the power of suggestion.
  11. Well, if you show him your elevated appreciation and he takes to it, I am sure you'd be both happier about yourselves.
  12. I think the case in that clip is more simple - it's liberally-applied Crisco with uneven coverage on body parts, whipped by the motion with a compliment of body liquids, sweat and ass juices. Usually it melts into a semi-clear form, but extra liquids make the fats into a whitish frothed matter.
  13. J, I can volunteer an opinion to that extent. I've done many -sexual- things - out of curiosity mostly - over the years that an average or a high-brow unperverted fag (sans straights and bi's completely) would consider appalling and may be even violently disgusting. Some I liked more than others, some have changed my opinion, some I had to put a major effort into. Some were disappointing and fell flat. But that was my interest at the time of such varied 'acquisition' or experience. When one doesn't have such an inkling, that is something else. And the range of definitions from one side to the other may be not so short. That one just defies gravity for me. Talk about mentally unstable. Truly all clinical shapes and sizes are out there.
  14. Congratulations, I can only encourage someone like this. I can agree, the tune in and adjustment takes time. Do yourself a solid, buy a book - "Ask the Man Who Owns Him". It is basically self-published by the authors, ISBN 098236931X, At $20 it has so much of good insight into this type of the relationships, that I'd say you can't beat that research despite it being almost 10 years old now - it is the stories of the couples in their own words.
  15. I'd say no need to analyze. These things happen, you just haven't claimed your excuse right off and kept your parachute on. I can't say it would have been my case just from range of interests, but I've had someone say upfront they were not into me, and similarly I've had quick realizations that I am not into the other guy to spend time playing along. Could be underwhelming, especially if you'd had to put an effort into it to happen in the first place, but result can't be guaranteed. It is never too late to pull the plug if you're not into it. But .. again, you'd need to be aware of such a possibility when that time comes to do it. And don't feel bad, we can all get tongue tied on occasion, especially if your expectations were entirely somewhere else.
  16. I don't think that's competitive at all. The guy wants the load but doesn't want to do the mileage to get it?
  17. On the first glance I'd be in the 'he's a show-off' group. Keep in mind that sex clubs in the US are places of, let's say, 'questionable morality' classification to everyone else but the patrons. Every location would insist in public writings of varied language that engaging in sex on premises is prohibited, and like all rooms are single-occupancy only. On the other hand, every patron goes there for exactly that and knowing full well that it will happen. So that's where the social flexibility of the opinion partially comes from in the attending demographic. Engaging with multiple partners without much knowledge about them also comes from the same social flexibility. If you're rolling around showing off your cockiness by behaving vividly different, it could be shrugged off by others to your age. But you also won't get a ton of play because of this, it being seen as poser attitude, unless the other guy is also looking to satisfy his own ego by a new conquest. Okay, then you've got one winner. But your objective above sounds different from that - you want multiple connections. Knowing the venue, I'd say you will benefit from being very approachable and willing in public play in the steam room or in the corner playroom with a sling as promotional activities. Then all the attendance won't see you as a cocky young ass rolling in the halls but a willing bottom. And if you keep your ass up towards an open door of your room, I am sure you'll catch the attention of willing tops repeatedly. Hell, I'd be willing to mount it myself. Cheers
  18. It is definitely sentimental of a note to flash a hankie off-premises these days. But there is still a very common use of the same hankie color scheme in general attire and sex gear that can be seen at all major gay events worldwide. Stripes, ribbing, piping, weaving, hosiery and even lacing - anything can carry a color-coded meaning for an in-person encounter. Here strength can be in numbers too. And many can invite a compliment or two to strike a convo with or without a mutually-satisfying 10-min or more long term relationship. It's even more fun to indulge in other things than one vs. grand ole fucking waiting for another session to start.
  19. New batch of 'non-secure' errors through Mozilla v59.0.3 and IE 11 - yesterday 05/15 around 8:22 PM EST: SO today the site opened up with no issues - I've grabbed the cert info and cypher type - I did see that the cert got renewed around the timestamp of earlier reports:
  20. It's not even fuss but amount of sexual tickle considered sufficient when randomly applied to willing participants. While you and I are more likely to go for much more heavier stuff and longer sessions full bore just to keep us interested, I realize not everybody is into similar levels of engagement in fun activities. And right on & totally correct view - there are plenty of (other) options in Berlin to satisfy similar desires for a sexual tickle, that are (subjectively) better, more frequent year round, deeper in range and focus or more random in themes than a pre-scripted fantasy scenario. Again, everything comes in comparison. Fuck, I'd tell you I've traveled for it more than once there just for the right experience to see if the socks get blown off. You have to realize that not everyone is into it to the same degree, and some opt for Lab Lite-Lite with the lights on that takes their breath away. It's not worth pontificating human sexuality, but for me the more the merrier. It's about travelers in the same direction as you and I.
  21. Yeas. I've seen a MySQL-referenced error in Mozilla. Funny enough I was in the middle of writing a post, a lot of back-and forth edits, and at the time I finally clicked Submit the black-and-white error message came up. The window completely cleared of everything else, I figured I've lost my musings. Tried to go back and see if there was something left in cache but got a blank page, tried another browser - site inaccessible altogether. Tried yet another browser - same thing. I finally agreed it was down for whatever reason. Then my Mozilla showed a message to update to 59.0.2, downloaded, restarted to update and moved on to other places. Later on came back to the site, and sure and behold it was back up. I've recalled the URL of the thread, and - voila - the very text I had been working on before came back in the Reply frame. Small miracles in computer science.
  22. For US - agreed. What about France? Or UK? Canada? Or Germany? Coverage and offerings are not the same. Have you heard of barebackcity.info? The best German site back in the day. That went offline unfortunately. As well as a Canadian link on old Priape. May be Barebacker.net ? barebackfuckbuddy.com, bbackzone.com, biohazardmen.eu - again, there a few language/country-centric sites that are not CL by all means, but they cater to what you'd like in some locales. Even the ole bareback.com.
  23. I figure some of former CL traffic would be pushed under a proverbial table and bleed over to mostly-fetish-designated and behind-a-password sites - back into an online closet. BBRT, Asspig, Squirt, Recon, cruising and travel sites outside of US. Dedicated hookup apps IMO are hit-n-miss, and mostly a miss. Time to brush off those old cruising skills and polish a few spots for some hands-on ass-grabbing fun. Or pump up the CumDump network.
  24. Well, I agree that healthcare in US is really fucked up. Besides starter use health benefit from PrEP, which I do not question here, I've seen a note to suggest that if you take it continuously, then later decide to stop and subsequently do become infected (no time frame reference) - I am not a medical professional - a return to it as possible infection treatment won't be as effective as for someone without prior built-up tolerance. Same as with continuous use of antibiotics for something else. Meaning you'd have to add more content to the med cocktail (and pay more), and have additional side effects to deal with to get similar outcome. That is on top of clear economic gain for the producer in the mean time (selling tons of pills to people who do not require them but choose to use them). Remember, PrEP is a choice, not a requirement. Unfortunately, the only option to that effect at this time. And as a market circumstance has it, the higher the demand, the higher the price - hype, hype, hype, and the less and less coverage there would be offered from the insurance company to cover your costs - they'd be bleeding money otherwise, and there is enough punters anyway to proliferate discounted access. That is by a willing and limitless demographic base to enable cashflow to an unlimited amount into the coffers of the producer. Just milk'em like cows. Those insurance prescription riders are reviewed and revised every year - whatever cost you have now, you can't plan on it long-term. And whoever really needs that treatment, would have to pay up their last dime if they don't want to deteriorate - again, I am not advocating either side there either. This is what is the most appalling to me. There will be never a cure of the virus - there is no economic interest in curing it, just celebrated prostitution of humanity to the highest willing bidder. Too much?
  25. I guess that is one of those things now that, like many before it, first originated in US and now gotten to be continuing from places offshore, because it got squeezed out of its original <hahum> market for <whatever> challenging reason without a stand-by spare at hand. Not exactly economics, a manufacturing job or material product, but nevertheless - same general framing instigated by newly-shoved legalese. It so happens it just hadn't been picked up there yet, if it ever would be. I hope it would be. Things are reactive, not proactive ATM. And I am sure people will figure it out domestically as well, things will shift around, and there will be Personals 2.0 somewhere.
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