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Just left, my sweet FB. When He walked in He apologetically said it would have to be a quickie. He's been breeding me for 3 years, and despite my telling Him several times in many ways, i don't want Him to ever feel like He has to perform for me. i often feel like He keeps fucking even after He comes... which means i get more than one load, but i also get this sense that He feels like He has to fuck me good. He doesn't get that any way He fucks me is "good" as long as He really gets off on it. i'm not altruistic, i love the fact that He enjoys fucking and leaving His seed in me. When He was done, i told Him again that He never has to apologize for a "quickie," that i love having Him however i can get Him, how much i love His orgasm inside of me. He told me He'd been saving it all day and i told Him i was grateful that He saved it for me. We both agreed we have good chemistry. i don't care if He slides in and comes immediately, the fact that He wants to put His cock and seed in me is awesome... i love being he place He gets His pleasure and plants His seed. i'd much rather Him do that than jack off. i think it's awesome that He knew He could save if for me and that i'd want Him/It.

About 30 minutes ago. FB contacted me while i was doing some paver work in my front yard. Spontaneous, butt cannot say no. i ran in to my shower, prepped and thankfully was able to prep fast. He is really getting into oral and loves when i suck Him, lick and kiss His thighs, balls and taint, it's the most expressive i ever see Him... He really wants me to rim Him too. Seems like i'm going that direction, though it's not really my inclination... but it really turns Him on, so i seem to be inching my way there. For His it's all foreplay for fucking and breeding me, so i think that's what's making it something i love doing for Him. He definitely breeds hard after, and i have Him inside of me the whole day after He leaves. Back to laying pavers, just have a funny smile on my face now. life's sweet.

As a bottom, it seems to work best if the Top initiates? idk, i'd think some Tops would appreciate a demonstration of being wanted, but it never really seems to work with the FB's i've had? The rule of thumb seems to be a bottom can always be ready to fuck (despite the prep involved), but a Top has to be in the mood? That's the feel/impression i have gotten with my FB's over the years, and there is no discerning how or when that's going to happen. i have a current FB Who is very spontaneous, and not very verbal about His feelings. Sometimes He will want it a couple of times a day, other times He can go a week, ten days. i'm not in His head, and He doesn't share those feelings with me, so i pretty much just make myself available whenever He wants. Last time we fucked (three days ago), i had just eaten dinner when He called. i told Him i'd just eaten and was preparing for my work day the next day, but i was so easy to persuade, and ran to the shower to prep, he was fucking me 15 minutes later.

i'd guess the real answer for most of us would be "both" and the minority of us would be strictly one or the other. Personally, i make a distinction between a connection and a bond. To me, the former can lead to the latter, but not necessarily. But i value both. For me, any Man Who wants to penetrate, fuck and breed me is a wonderful connection of our mutual need/desire. Just the "wanting" is meaningful for me. "Bonding" can happen faster with some than others, for me, and some bonds are stronger than others, but i always seem to bond with an ongoing FB.

Then there's this... a bit of extrapolation since the study was hetero, but i don't think it's a stretch to be inclusive. "Does semen have antidepressant properties? Gordon G Gallup Jr 1, Rebecca L Burch, Steven M Platek Affiliations expand PMID: 12049024 DOI: 10.1023/a:1015257004839 Abstract In a sample of sexually active college females, condom use, as an indirect measure of the presence of semen in the reproductive tract, was related to scores on the Beck Depression Inventory. Not only were females who were having sex without condoms less depressed, but depressive symptoms and suicide attempts among females who used condoms were proportional to the consistency of condom use. For females who did not use condoms, depression scores went up as the amount of time since their last sexual encounter increased. These data are consistent with the possibility that semen may antagonize depressive symptoms and evidence which shows that the vagina absorbs a number of components of semen that can be detected in the bloodstream within a few hours of administration." [think before following links] https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12049024/

Can't have too much anatomy info. 🙂

^this i’m a critical care nurse. In school we learn all kinds of ‘norms’, but in a hospital environment, more often than not, our parents are outside some of those standards. Blood pressure is a common one. The ‘norm’ is bad on the Western diet, high in sodium. So the “normal BP “ ends up being higher. You get fucked a lot, it can change from the norm where most are not getting fucked.

i love a PA on a Top. To me, a PA screams "TOP." Don't know why, but it's a Top accessory in my mind, so i would not be inclined to get one. i love getting fucked and bred by a Man wearing one. As to pics, if you're willing, i'd appreciate seeing pics in all stages of healing, even right after it's done.

i'd go with Pals as well. Surprised no one has mentioned all the flakes you have to deal with with anonymous hook up. Just not as reliable or easy to arrange. With a FB, i can get a text and have His cock in me soon after. With anonymous, you never know if the person will even show up. Even at a sex venue, no guarantee you're gonna get bred. Pals are a sure and constant source of lust for me. i get anonymous in between, but if i had to choose? Pals. i'll add that i also like the connection and bond that forms with a Pal. To me, sex that goes beyond the physical is sexier. you get to know what works and what doesn't and just do what works with a Pal. Anonymous can go either way, sort of roulette. If you have a FB/Pal, there's reasons that you keep fucking together over and over again.

Mine hasn't and i don't really want it to, to me it's the mark, signature of the Men Who have bred me, and i love having Them always with me. It's more a sphincter for receiving than retaining now, much easier access. The body is somewhat adaptable, and my hole is different now. i can flex it and squeeze a cock, but it's more opened even when a cock is not in it.

just left. Fuck i needed that. FB, we kept missing each other, He'd call, i'd be at work or He would be working. Tried Him last night, but He was working late again. Prepped this morning thinking might work out, then gave up, did the gym, ate dinner and He called. Fuck, i just ate, but had prepped this morning and did another prep and was ready. So fucking sweet. i sucked Him first, He really likes that. i kiss and lick His thighs and balls, His taint... drives Him wild when i do that, so that just makes me hungrier till He says: "I wanna fuck you." He plows me so hard, it's like He is fucking His soul into me. i try squeezing His cock with my hole, but He fucks so long and hard, incessant, that finally i just give in and open wide. i'm full of His seed right now. i have to work the next couple of days, so glad we got together before. Sweet.

Yep, totally an individual need/desire question and the answer cannot be generic me thinks. i'm on the far end extreme of this one. i only like to masturbate to edge, to make and keep myself hornier for a Top Who needs/wants to penetrate me with His cock and release His seed into me. i do masturbate, and i do cum that way, but it's always a disappointment for me even though i do it to release the tension and for prostate health. my ideal orgasm would be hands free from being penetrated/fucked... just my particular psychosexual wiring, so i'd be one of the ones who would definitely not cum prior to going to a sex venue. When i am getting enough connection with a Top/Man, and getting bred regularly, i do not need or want to cum, even solo or behind closed doors. i find i derive a lot of satisfaction from having His orgasm inside of me, plus i love that ongoing lust i have for Him. But really, that ongoing lust only works if it's mutual, then it becomes a connection, a bond. But that's me. i know we all share similarities, but we're all unique as well, so would not presume to think what works for me would work for any other bottom.

haha, this is great!!. Watch the cherries closely, one is filling the other up.

There was a time when i'd do that... fuck a bottom in need before leaving for the night, but i seem to have lost the ability to do that. It's not physical. If i a Top talks to me about wanting my hole and wanting to breed me, i get hard as a rock. Same with edging, i stay hard for hours (days lol) edging to fantasy about getting fucked and bred and doing other things i perceive as 'bottom.' Last year a sweet young university student from a repressive family hit me up on Squirt. He had a gorgeous, smooth ass and is such a sweet guy. He had not been fucked before and i didn't want him to get a jerk who didn't care his first time, so with trepidation i told him i'd try. i've never taken viagra in my life, but had some i got sent free, so i used it and was able to get it up enough to get it in... and it wasn't easy lol. He was soooo virgin his hole was very tight, so only a really hard cock was gonna get in. Plus, he had his eyes closed and was missionary, but kept pushing his legs against me instead of receiving my whole body lol. i did get in, but went slow and only got in and did a couple of thrusts before i lost my erection. it's all psychological for me, even then i was doing it for him, really not turned on by it, just wanting to give him a good time... but my penis didn't agree.

i'd suggest that what you eat is an ongoing factor in the digestive/clean out process. Most of us do not eat a healthy amount of fiber. Fiber comes from whole fruit, veggies and grains. There's soluble and in soluble fiber: "Soluble and insoluble fibers have unique benefits. As soluble fiber dissolves, it creates a gel that may improve digestion in a number of ways. Soluble fiber may reduce blood cholesterol and sugar. It helps your body improve blood glucose control, which can aid in reducing your risk for diabetes. Insoluble fiber attracts water into your stool, making it softer and easier to pass with less strain on your bowel. Insoluble fiber can help promote bowel health and regularity. It also supports insulin sensitivity, and, like soluble fiber, may help reduce your risk for diabetes." [think before following links] https://www.healthline.com/health/soluble-vs-insoluble-fiber#benefits Everybody's body has traits/aspects that are the same, and things that make us different. Our guts are effected by what we eat, particularly our microbiome, and that becomes more individual because we all eat differently. As ErosWired points out, what we eat does not come back out very quickly, so what we eat the day of the event is not as big a factor as what we eat on a regular basis (pun intended). The body has ~four feet of colon (large intestine). Most of us are not cleaning out the whole thing as part of prep. When we eat, there is a physiological effect called the "gastrocolic reflex." Simply put, when we eat and food stretches the stomach, it also sends signals to the colon and increases peristalsis. [think before following links] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK549888/ i'd suggest eating an apple or banana. But on a routine basis, i'd suggest you eat a lot of fiber. You will find that what comes out changes and becomes a lot 'cleaner.' A good test is the wipe test after a BM. If it's clean (and you are not constipated), it's a good sign you are eating a decent amount of fiber and clean out will be a different and easier process.

This is a great discussion, i'm glad it got reawakened. A few thoughts before i have to go to work. i do not relate to the notion that a Top gets pleasure and a bottom gives pleasure. i've read myriad profiles of guys who self describe as loving to "please," and invariably that's another way of saying they are bottom. i derive pleasure in so many ways when a Man fucks me or i suck Him,, both physical and psychological. my best sex as a bottom has been with Men Who are conscious of Their position, power and ability to please/give pleasure as well as receive it. To me, the best sex involves connection of mutual desire and need from opposite sides. It's symbiotic. i do understand the objection about "ownership." i use the term often enough, but i think it can have different meaning to different guys. Partly i think the challenge with the term is it's repurposed. We all grow up in and live in culture that has been heteronormative, so we end up using that vocabulary and heteronormative terms to try and describe who and how we are. i think "ownership" is one of those terms. It is for me. in a sense, it's mutual too, when two people give their self to each other. The difference for me is as a bottom i am a receptacle of sorts and perceive myself as having a 'place' inside of me that is made for a Top to occupy, fill, "own." It's complex. gotta go to work.

For those interested in health info about oral/anal. 🙂 "Rimming carries a risk of passing on or contracting sexually transmitted infections (STIs). According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)Trusted Source, there is a risk of the following STIs from oral sex: chlamydia gonorrhea syphilis herpes HPV HIV trichomoniasis There is also a risk of contracting bacterial infections or parasites, such as E.coli or giardia, from contact with the anus. People can transmit a type of bacteria called Shigella through oral-anal sexual contact, causing a gastrointestinal infection called shigellosis. Hepatitis B and C are infections that people can pass on through bodily fluids. A person may be at risk of one of these infections if they have any cuts or sores that come into contact with the bodily fluids of a person who has one. There is also a risk of contracting hepatitis A from oral contact with the anus. To reduce the risk of passing on a bacterial infection, people will need to avoid rimming if they have any symptoms of a stomach bug, such as diarrhea, constipation, or vomiting. They should also wait until any cuts or sores around the anus or mouth heal before giving or receiving rimming." [think before following links] https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/rimming#who-does-it

Censorship is control. i think anyone who wants and loves freedom will agree that control also needs control. i am grateful to rawTOP and the moderators for the BZ. i'm also grateful for the contributing members. As others have implied, i think a hallmark of any substantial discussion is the exercise of self censorship and maturity of its members. To me, a mature person acknowledges that they can be wrong, and admits when they are. Sort of a self censorship? None of us would be here if someone had not pushed against boundaries. Hell, we might all be in prison. i think questioning authority is a good and proper exercise. That said, there are benevolent organizations with well meaning leaders, and then there's North Korea. my attitude and demeanor towards the first it going to be different from my attitude and demeanor towards the latter. i think this community does a good job with checks and balances and has provided us with a forum that pushes social boundaries. i think participation in discussions like this are good and necessary to help keep evolution alive and thriving. i think it's noteworthy that we can have them, uncensored.

Even with this thought, the testicles manufacture and store our sperm. i don't think storage space is what decreases, but probably the speed at which we produce sperm is what decreases. I.e., if one is making a gallon an hour, no one will notice a change if He only shoots a gallon a day. On the other hand, if a Top is shooting a couple of times a day and His delivery outpaces His production rate, there's gonna be a decrease in the amount delivered. i frequently will edge for several days to a week, ten days before cumming, or just reserve it. When i cum i shoot a lot and far. On the occasions where i climax more often, a couple of times a day say, or several days in a row, i don't shoot as far or as much. my guess is if You went several days or a week without cumming, You'd likely shoot hard and a lot. But i suspect bottoms would argue for getting Your cock and seed more frequently than waiting a week... ❤️

lol, fun question. i have an average size penis, and i edge... a lot, because i like a Top to control my orgasm, and redirect that energy to His orgasm... butt that's another topic. The bottom line (so to speak) is, the less frequently i shoot, the more semen i shoot and the farther it goes. Not unusual for me to end up with cum on my face. i notice one time that i had something on the headboard of my bed... yeah, it was cum. What causes variation in volume and force of ejaculate? People may notice sometimes they ejaculate more, or their ejaculate comes out more forcefully. Several factors influence this, including: Age: Males tend to ejaculate the largest volume of semen in their thirties. As they age, this volume decreases. Sexual activity: Recent sexual activity, including masturbation, may decrease semen volume, which potentially reduces the distance semen can travel. Prolonged periods of abstinence may cause a person to produce more semen than their usual amount. Genetic factors: Genetics play a role in most aspects of health, including the volume of semen. Some people naturally ejaculate more or less compared to others, regardless of health or lifestyle. Lifestyle factors: Diet, smoking, and many other lifestyle factorsTrusted Source can affect semen quality and overall health. For example, most research shows regular exercise may improve fertility and sperm quality, and studies suggest it may increase semen volume. Overall health: General health may affect semen volume. For example, a person with a chronic illness, such as diabetes, might notice a change in their semen. Hormonal issues may also influence semen quality. [think before following links] https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/how-far-can-a-man-shoot#causes-of-variation

Seriously? Vice cops still go to gay venues and pretend to be gay to entrap men to ask for sex?

i was at All Worlds in May. i went to PS 2-3 times a year prior to Covid. i've stayed at All Worlds (usually) and CCBC. Been awhile since i stayed at CCBC (prior to the pandemic), but had my best on site sex there. Would leave my door ajar at night and lie ass up and had a lot of walk in breed and go. During the day, especially on weekends, the playroom would be wall to wall sex. All Worlds? Hit and miss for me, but i may be figuring it out? When they also owned the facility across the street, i found that play room to be very active. Was a lot smaller than the maze, 4 large booths with large GH's, on big room with couple of sections with sofas and a sling, divided by the "booths," but it was always busy and i got fucked a lot there... as much as CCBC, more really in the play room, less in my own room. AW opens The Maze on weekends, it's closed week days. When it's open, you have to pay a cover charge and enter through the lobby. On week days, the lobby isn't even open and you enter through a coded gate. i checked in on a Wednesday and didn't see any staff till Friday, check in was done online and i got a 'key' code to the facility gate and to my room. If i go back to AW, i know better how to work it than i did this last time. If it's a week day, half the PS population is gay and i find anonymous walk in is pretty easy to arrange using apps. We're back to the "numbers" reality. The large gay poplulation increases ones chances, eh? i'd just give the gate code to whoever wanted to fuck, they'd come to the hotel, let them selves in and come to my room with my door ajar, find me naked and ass up and breed me. i like that venue better than just any hotel because it's in a gated, safer? environment? At least, it's at a place where fucking is the expectation, not the random gay guy using the local Motel 6. Though, honestly, i wonder if that would work better in a city like PS? Come the weekend, no more walk in sex. i had one Guy arranged and they had blocked the after hours gate. He went to the lobby and they would not let Him in without paying a cover charge so He left. He was (rightfully) pissed at me... i didn't know, that's how i found out about the after hours gate being blocked on weekends. i got mixed sex in The Maze. Friday was busy, and i didn't get much. Saturday was a little better. Sunday i got the most (oddly to me?)... especially at the end of the day when everything was winding down. i went to the back room with the large king sized bed and lay ass up and got some incredible fucking. damn, it was good. Friday and Saturday was a mix of sucking and getting fucked, but i was a little fish in a big pond those days/nights. Lots of sex going on, just not with me.

i wonder if it's that society "is just getting more punitive," or if 'offense" and the reasons for punishment have changed? In 1998, i was arrested for asking an undercover vice cop who was purposely pretending to be gay in order to entice and entrap a gay guy looking for sex. We exchanged enough to where i asked if he wanted to fuck me? He confirmed i was asking him to fuck me, then arrested me and charged me with a felony using a 100 year old sodomy law (the court reduced it to a misdemeanor or "indecent exposure" even though there was no exposure involved... at the time, i was just relieved to have it reduced). Gay guys don't get arrested that way anymore? In some ways, i think society has become more aware (and accommodating?) of the differences between people. Whereas women may have just taken sexism on the chin in the past, because it was 'the norm,' the term: "boys will be boys" doesn't fly as readily as a reason for sexual aggression in 2023. Haha, i wonder about the incident you relate. A couple of questions arise now that probably wound not occur to a male during the 1960's say. In the 1960's, probably all those guys would have felt free, even invited, to make sexually suggestive retorts. Today? i'd wonder if she was bating? Or, was she possibly a horny woman fishing for a come on in a now polluted waterway? "Progress" always seems a double edged sword.

i've seen (and remember) the Star Trek episodes You mention, so i guess i qualify as "nerdy" too. i think there is a lot of truth in Your observations and ideas. i think the majority of effects of evolution fly under the radar of our awareness and am grateful for discussion forums like this where another pair of eyes and connected brain are adding to the mix of awareness. Even for those of us who would still go to the local cruising spot, tech has (likely forever?) changed that venue and process. i lived in VA prior to the gay tech age. i knew all the cruising spots where i could almost guarantee instant sex or multiple sex partners just by showing up and sitting in my car or sitting on a toilet in a stall in a RR. There was one park in particular, sandwiched between two Naval bases, that always had at least a congregation of 20 guys with the potential for sex. i went through that park on a trip back east, and it didn't have one guy there... just a bunch of straight families. Sex venues seem to be going the way of the horse and buggy and what we have is the Model T... well, tech has progressed beyond that lol, but we are still in the early stages of evolution me thinks. i do remember my first gay internet porn, trying to watch it using a dial up modem. But fuck, it beat going to an ABS and getting a magazine. Also, now we have a whole generation of guys who have never even experienced cruising like some of us older guys have... all they know is online. Another online phenomenon that just did not exist with IRL cruising is stuff like 'bots' and 'scammers.' The last couple of years, apps have become overrun with them. But even those can evolve or become extinct, eh? Squirt recently added a filter to the log on process that requires one of those "prove you are human" features and i have noticed the bots/scammers i was getting every time i signed on have 'virtually' disappeared (for now).

i see this too. One of the hardest things for me is to feel like i am always the initiator, especially online. Easily for every 100 contacts, i initiate 99... and the number of guys that don't even respond? Eek, doesn't do wonders for the self esteem. i wanna get bred by a Man Who wants to fuck me... but if i'm at a sex venue and presenting and no-one is taking, i find the guy watching porn on TV (and often pulling on His Cock) and i ask if i can suck Him. i cannot remember being turned down. i've also been in sex clubs where i did that, was sucking on a Guy and another Guy would come in and fuck me and i wonder if it's because i am so obviously hungry lol? i usually am fucking cock crazed at those places and any Cock i get, sucking or otherwise, i'm in the zone.