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Hey RawTop- from what i have experienced on sites like A4A Radar, these are the issues I can report on. If I access Radar from my phone at work, then close it and later after work get online at home on my laptop, I am still 8 miles away at work. So there isn't a real or accurate distance unless you close out of the laptop, relaunch the Radar app from where you are at the moment, once it locates you you can shut it back down and relog in on the laptop. Probably a simple fix for them that they have not addressed, but I see a lot of guys having the same issue- so distance away is a bit buggy As far as non members being able to locate me- fuck them- they can join if they want to know how close I am. And a member has some info on file with you, I am comfortable with a fellow breeder knowing I am available and nearby. I would hope tho that I could block a certain member from being able to assess my location, so if at some point down the road someone becomes a psycho and is a pain in the ass, I could block them and not have to wonder if they are in a Green Kiak 4 cars back <g.>

Hey guys- just thought I would share something with you all and maybe save you the same fate I had-- glans rings ( some are not much more than a 1 inch cock ring, others are metal bands; flat or flatter, and about 1/4 inch wide and are designed to snugly fit just behind the head of the cock) are getting more and more popular- I picked up a round ring from the local leather shop- chromed ring 1inch inside diameter- fit perfectly behind the head of my cock.Easy on, easy off. During MAL ( Mid Atlantic Leather) I searched for a flat ring-but the vendors did not have any, so when I returned home I went to my local leather store and picked up one. I have been wearing it for the last couple of weeks, no issues. Today I was about to head out to the store, slipped the ring on, and headed out. I must have slipped it OVER the foreskin, not under it. About 30 minutes into shopping , I felt like my cock was pinching, so I finished up and headed home. When I took off my pants the ring had migrated down my cock and was about halfway down. Try as I might, I could not get it to move back up, and the more I worked it, the more swollen my cock got above it. I tried oil, Crisco, soap, warm water, ice baths- even tried to use a small hacksaw blade to cut thru the band- but could not--so, after trying everything, I headed off to the ER. My cock had bloated , was a light shade of purple ( but not totally cut off from circulation) and was losing feeling. The front desk girl asked why I was there, and I explained my problem. I was sent to a nurse in a small office who went thru the questions to intake me, and a doctor came in and triaged me to a room. Another doctor came in and I dropped trou and showed him the problem. He had been briefed and had a power Dremel cutter with him, and after wrestling a tongue blade under the ring and above the skin of the cock (very uncomfortable, BTW) he began cutting away at the band.The metal kept heating up, so I had a bottle of water to pour over the metal as he sawed.At one point the blade skipped and nicked my cock on the bloated side of the ring- dark spot of blood but no pain. When he finally got all the way thru, the ring was too strong to pry apart, and he had to cut 180 degrees under to get the ring off- which required the helping hands of another ER person. It did finally get cut off, and the circulation returned fairly quickly. I will be "puffy" for a day, and I will be sporting a small scratch/cut on the top of the base of my cock- all over a stupid metal glans ring that went over the skin instead of under the foreskin. So- lesson learned- I am never going to slip anything over my cock or balls that I cannot cut off myself in an emergency. I wanted to put this out to maybe save a few of you from having the same issue- and expense.(not to mention the embarrassment of having an elephant trunk between your legs getting the once over by half the ER department. ) BTW- the staff were really reassuring and cool- seems this is fairly common, so just a heads up guys- don't get yourself in the same predicament !! ( and it has cost me 2 fuckings tonight, dammit !)

Hey men- now that January is over, I have a monthly tally : loads taken :: Anal 26 Oral 3 Fist 10..... and in a rare occurrence I GAVE 2 fistings !! Piss 1 Feb is a shorter month and NO Mid Atlantic Leather to help build up my load counts, so any guys in the Ft Lauderdale area free mornings and willing to help me on my way to breaking last years numbers, please hit me up!

Hey OpenHole- if you have reservations tomorrow or down the road and go back to using a rubber- try using Arm and Hammer Wintergreen or Spearmint GEL toothpaste as a pre lube in your hole- not a lot- a gob half the size of what you would use on a toothbrush is almost too much! Your hole will begin producing natural juice slime and you will be able to fuck with your own lube, not silicon. And the mint will warm your ass up- not burn- but give it a tingly aura.One other aspect of it-- the rubber will have the mint flavor and odor imparted into it, -the rubber taste will not be eliminated but will be modified. I know- I just had a guy with a 9 inch cock hit my ass today for an hour- in a Magnum ( he is partnered and i MAKE it very clear I am + with my bio tat over my hole) He pummeled my hole deep and hard, and finally after a lot of fucking he was getting close to cumming. I told him all loads remain in my hole an d the rubber would have to be peeled off as he pulled out after cumming. He shot a HUGE load, stayed in until he softened, and as he began easing out we worked the rubber off and into my gaping hole, I finished it off by poking it deep in, then I climbed out of the sling and sucked his cock of any cum stuck to it.There was a rubber taste- but it had a mint overtone and the cum was def a good flavor . As far as the amt I used- about the size of a pinky nail, and I pushed it into my hole- not so much on the lips- about 5 minutes before he got here. I sucked him (bare) for 10 minutes before getting in the sling- so my hole had about a 15 min head start to lubricate up-and we used NOTHING else in the 45 mins of fucking- and I was never dry even with him in a condom

I had my door ajar during MAL a couple weekends ago, and had some guys wander in and fuck me. But one guy was def scruffy looking- tangled grey beard, baggy clothing , about a 50 yr old black guy, so he could have been homeless with that look, one of the cabbies from the curb, or just oneof the guys attending MAL and that was his look- no matter- I was in a jock and I quickly took his cock up my ass and let him unload. He stopped in the bathroom and washed up, then headed back into the hallway. I saw him a couple times over the weekend in the halls- so I don't know if he was or wasn't homeless

LOL- I have sworn off IML since the sex is no where as good as it is at MAL. But after the way you worked my ass and tits, I may just have to rethink skipping IML this year-- and thanks for a great weekend- the scabs finally fell off last Friday <g>

Prob could have phrased it better- but as a father, he will ALWAYS be concerned about his child-even when the "child" is 60. He will have a concern about his childs health and possible health issues exaggerated if /when the boy converts- from the original post it sounds as if the day will be sooner rather than later. But does HE want the Dad to always see him as the cause? And the anger/frustration/ fear directed at him ? Saddled? Too harsh? OK Worried, caring for , angry at,frustrated, disappointed with.. fill in the blank. And as a child, we too can be "saddled" with elderly parents who refuse to give up driving, or won't adhere to meds, etc. I didn't sense saddled to be that harsh- but I guess you did, so pick a word that fits better?

Supposedly he is straight too- and only did it to help pay the household bills. ( his Mom is a stripper and wasn't making enough to cover all the bills) And the school suspended him not for porn, but because he was getting shit from some students about it and he raged out and made some comment about a gun. In todays environment, that is a totally zero tolerance item no matter what bullying precipitated it ( as the news drones on about a shooting today at a mall, a shooting last week on a college campus, etc)

As a sub slut bottom, I think you must have one hell of a fine cock, and they realize solid gold when getting fucked by it and just want it all <g> A thirsty man really doesn't want the whole fukkin river- but watch him when he first hits the waters edge and gets a taste and you might be confused by the way he gulps at it. Same with a top and a hard cock- a guy who is craving cock all the time and finally gets a hard one is hooked to it- until the rest of the man attached to it begins to emerge- and all the quirks and idiosyncrasies he comes a packin!

Sounds like he is thrill fucking, and getting fucked by his Dads best friend is just a part of it --there may be something underneath that- maybe he has an issue with his Dad and wants to piss on the father- have his fathers friend be the one to convert the sons ass, so that the Dad is forever saddled with a son who is poz, and a person who was a trusted friend now detested and out of his life. While the kid is 19, he isn't beyond using people for his own purposes. Don't let him play you. If anything- play HIM.Let him come, tease him, flirt with him non stop.Maybe even toy his hole, but don't let him have your cock. He is there a week? Do frottage, edge him all day long. Spend a day milking him. But don't give him your cock - at the end of the week, he will either want to marry you or never see you again. But YOU really should be the one controlling the set up. I f he stays in touch, he wants you for you. If you get a vibe he is really on a dangerous path; do you feel comfortable approaching the Dad and discussing your concerns?

As posted above, it isn't just the bottoms that are tardy or no show. I was at MAL last weekend. I had contacted tops in the DC area and told them I would A) be in the city and the dates, taking raw loads in my hotel room all weekend C) I was not looking for voyeurs or guys to linger, but would prefer for this weekend for them to come, fuck, seed and then hit the leather market or the lobby, if they wanted seconds or thirds my hole was theirs. D) I then asked them,if they were interested , to let me know and I would email them the room number as soon as I got in. 2 guys wanted 1st thing Fri when I got in, a 3rd set a specific time. So, as soon as I got in the room, I dropped mail to the 1st 3 guys, then to the remaining 30 or so who had replied wanting my info. One of the early guys wrote back 2 hours later saying I should have called him, he was sleeping and would be away all weekend (he WAS online all weekend) the other never relied. The man who wanted a set time was prompt, sexy and we had a great 2 hours of sex. Of the remaining 30 guys I reached out to, I think only 4 ever dropped by. I did get door traffic, so I wasn't without loads- but the written promise of the internet is pretty weak no matter the sexual position

Just a follow up to the above ( or below depending how it posts) IF you have any belief in hypnosis, I did it for gut issues and the hypnotist did a free follow up dealing with my HIV- and my T count more than tripled. I do self hypnosis now regarding sex pig and cum slut and I know it has helped me go in deeper and be more willing to take anyones loads- so if you want to boost your mental health regarding HIV - you might try a hypnotic session (one of my repeating thought sayings is "Every day and in every way I am stronger and healthier" Does it make me heathier? Who knows- but if I THINK it does, maybe it does)

Hey man- I just celebrated my 27th year since getting diagnosed. So it has been a very long time ago to recall vividly- but : I got the info over the phone at night from the doctor- I had an allergic reaction 3 days earlier and ended up in the ER, where all sorts of tests were done. The cardiologist ordered a Western Blot test in the middle of the night. I went home the next day, and 2 days later around 8p I was at home with my partner, and the phone rang. He passed it to me, the doc said- You are positive, you need to come to my office.That was it. No preface,-I hung up and was in shock- all the things I would never see or do again ( in the 80's it was a death sentence and I fully expected to be dead in 12 months) Then I got pissed-at the delivery method, his lack of compassion, and so I decided no meds (AZT killed everyone back then) I saw the summer come and go and come again- and kept my resolve to live and not to buy into the medical gloom and doom. I finally began meds 11 years later due to stress from the relationship failing and work- but even then I resolved it was a bandaid and I was not in any distress. So,watch what you let get put into your head- I refused to give in, and I am a bigger pig and kink man today than I ever was as a teen in the 70's when sex was free and easy. Your mind will heal you as much or more than meds will- they def can HELP- but YOU have to want to keep going on. And trust me- it is very much worth going onward

Just from experience- if 50 guys say they want in your hole- plan on 5 showing up, and 4 of them actually cumming. Aim high, be happy with whatever cums your way

Hey FieldPusssy- any new updates on your son and his sex activities- has he gotten into anything wilder / new?/

Hey guys- sort of fresh back in from MAL ( MidAtlantic Leather weekend) -if you didn't go you really missed a great weekend ! I was bred a total of 16 times, ate 2 loads, was pissed in once, and got fisted 7 times. No where near as much as I had wanted, but then I had set my expectations high- I was going for 185 loads LOL. Even got some new video of my ass in use-now I have to upload it from my phone to here somehow. Wildest moment by far was at the FFA party Sunday- I was fisted by a black guy 1st- he had huge paws ( and he had fisted me Friday in my room ) Sort of gaped me open quickly and really made the outer lips hang. Then a good FF bud took my hole and punch fisted me for 30 minutes- I was honestly flying- the leg straps had my legs up, and I was grabbing the chains near my head- so all of my body was airborne as he kept punching into my hole. Afterwards, he wanted his hole worked over, but no tops were available, so he asked me to do him. I never top, but since he had just done the favor of fisting me, I obliged. I worked his hole while watching his face and getting pointers where to turn and twist. Couldn't get all of my hand in him, but could work 8 fingers in and really stimulated his hole. When he cliimbed out of the sling, another man asked me to take his hole. I was being set up ! I got behind him, eased a few fingers in, and in a swoosh, my entire hand dropped in- and kept going in- at one point I realized the bulge moving on his belly was my hand- then my fascination got broken when I hit something hard- I had hit the rib cage! Looking at my arm, I was almost in to the elbow ( and I have a 38 inch sleeve !) After a few more minutes of play, he began getting tired, and I extracted my arm- as it exited there was an expulsion of Crisco and air like a cannon! I def will remember that event for a very long time

Ah, Fickloch- thats not piggy- thats raunch , I think .. I think piggy sex is more the head space of the player- a guy jacking off 100 men in a row and getting blasted by each guys load in the face- well, when #100 shoots in his face and the guy cries out" What- where are the rest of the guys??I am ready for round 2" would be piggy in my book. Pig sex can be very banal and plain- but if the players are really into it and push their boundaries each time- isn't that sort of piggy? I will be open for anyone at MAL to breed or piss this weekend. But so will 1000 other bottoms. Are we all pigs, or is the pig the one who pushes the edges to make sure he is getting loads- maybe in stalls by the lobby or stairwells by party room- that guy is far piggier than the guy bent over on the bed waiting for someone to push on his door

As MAL weekend approaches and my desire to be bred by a lot of different men comes near- I find a real problem with any of the naming issues- not just racial slurs but the whole "What do you call your anus/cunt/pussy/boi hole/poop chute etc" or "You are such a pig/slut/whore/ tramp/ scum/etc" ( Ok- I am sort of used to the last string ..but thats not the point here. What I see as an issue is this- I am getting bred bent over the guest chair in the hotel room, and the guy, who is black, wants to be called XXXXX . He finishes up with a huge orgasm, I suck his cock clean and he splits. 2 or 3 other guys wander in and breed me, then another guy, black and very similar to the 1st guy, mounts me and in the heat of his 10 inches parting my hole I use the term the other guy got off on- but this one suddenly is limp headed for the door. Or Someone has been calling my hole a pussy for 15 minutes, and when the next guy gets in it and I say that P word, he pulls out and storms out saying he does not fuck women and I should grow up. So, why do guys have to make fucking my hole so damned complicated ????LOL ..BTW- did I mention I am seeking tops to mount my ( oh fuck- call it whatever you want) and make a DNA deposit in my cum bank??? Drop me a msg here or over oon BBRT and I sure as fuck will shoot you the room number as soon as I get checked in and hosed out to my tonsils

I love "found" underwear- sex clubs, laundry mats, side of the road, hotel rooms. I will be at MAL ( Mid Atlantic Leather) 17-20 Jan 2014 (for those reading this in the future) in Washington DC, and will be taking loads all weekend in my hotel room---I would love to have a scene set up where guys come by and find my ass plugged with a pair of underwear the last guy shoved in- they snatch them out of my hole, and sink in and fuck a load deep up my ass, then, before leaving, they take THEIR underwear off and poke them into my ass to hold their load in . In the corner of the room a pile of cum stained underwear grows,1 fuck at a time. Most underwear in the pile is worn and a few are more holes than fabric, but there are some new pairs, some jocks- whatever the man left behind as my memento of their fuck

Hey men- warming my hole up in preparation for MAL next weekend. It dropped way low for S Florida this week- we hit the 40's overnight- and it really killed the sex online onTuesday- I only managed to get 1 man who was out for a BJ and go. Wednesday, I had a man supposed to drop by on his way to work for morning release- got the wake up text, then 15 min later a delay one- traffic was horrid and he had to go directly in to work. We ended up doing a lunch break BJ- he dropped by-I was waiting, naked with tit clamps screwed down tight, and a bullet vibrator in my ass. He came in , dropped his pants and sat- I began sucking him off- nice and cheesey cock for me, as I love them.I was putting my ass on his foot, and I am certain he felt my ass vibrating. About 10 minutes into suckin ghim, he asked where I wanted his load- as is my rule, I told him that was HIS decision-it was HIS orgasm. So he had me stand and bend over the bed, and with a gob of spit he pushed in and hit the vibrator- only took him a few seconds of that added sensation before he dumped a thick ropey load in me. He pulled out and I mouth washed his cock of any remaining cum - he shivered ( he gets really sensitive after he shoots) and pulled his pants back on and left. I was back on A4A as his car was pulling away, and a visitor had messaged me. I sent a hello back, and the guy was looking- but I had a pre planned meeting at 1p, so I asked if he might be looking at 3p. He agreed, and I ran out to meet my friends. At 3p, I was back online as promised, and he was too- and looking. Asked what he wanted- telling him I was here for his orgasm, but I did not get into scat or punching-- so just how kinky did he want -or how vanilla ( his profile said 8 inches and safesex only) He wanted a BJ, and where he was staying was under 5 minutes away- so I shot him directions and he showed up about 10 minutes later. Nice foreskin that I really worked on- I had pushed the vibrating bullet in my ass before he arrived-put a glob of Arm and Hammer mint toothpaste on it to freshen up the hole from old cum odor- and to make my hole slobber- the toothpaste really produces drool in my ass-- just before he got here I took the vibrator out- it was popping out from all the drool- anyway- he is nice and hard and throat fucking me hard, when he reaches back and fingers my ass. He then tells me to show my hole to him, so I bent over the bed and he slams his raw cock up my ass for about 5 thrusts, then pulls out saying he was too close. With an evil grin, I grabbed the bullet and put it on medium, and while sucking the minty taste off his cock, I slipped the bullet up my ass. Turned and gave him my ass again, and as he slipped in he gasped- then sunk in balls deep and fucked crazy for a few seconds before flooding my ass out. He pulled out, and I put him back in the chair and went all the way down on him.He was afraid he was about to piss (as if I would care) as I sucked any remaining ass juices and cum from his cock. He kept twitching , and said he was only good for 1 load- but damned if he didn't get hard again, and this time he had me climb in my sling and he fucked in his cum over the vibrator and shot a 2nd load after a minute or two. This time his crotch and balls were a cum bath, and I had a task licking them completely clean-although i tried. He used a towel to wipe off, then dressed and headed out--with a promise to come back again while he is in town

I have been slinging bags for a major US carrier for 28 years, and have been poz for 27 of those years. Never been a question asked of me in all those years- and I know some of my coworkers who are poz as well, some much newer hires- so at least here in the US- I think they worry more about drug addiction or a hernia versus a long term manageable illness

BERLIN. Without a doubt it is the busiest backroom bare city around right now. Mutchmanns on Wed night , or LAB_oratory- Thurs night there was naked night. While LAB isn't "dark" it is a bar with wide open sex everywhere. In spite of food poisoning cutting my week of hedonism in half- I still had a ton of cock in 3 days- enough to more than compensate for 3 days sick in bed. If you visit Barcelona, I found hands down the best place to invest your night was at Open Mind- a sex club/bar on Calle d'Arrago in the Gay Example area. Not dark there , and again sex of all kinks everywhere London was a let down for me- only took 1 load in my ass and 1 down my throat in a week there- and I went to all the bars with events each night- naked at Vault, HardOn in the Embankment- even the FF night at Hoist fizzled to middling- Maybe once this posts you will get others fueling your plans- but if you have one stop to make for certain- do Berlin!!! ( and pack Immodium , just in case it wasn't the pasta I ate but maybe one of those German Sausages !)

Hey men - thanks to all of you for the input. Fillmyhole referred me to a guy here in Ft Lauderdale , went to the shop yesterday and checked it out- nice, and a really helpful man at the front counter- the artist I was looking for was out tending to his fish, but the other guy was very helpful, and he suggested holding off until after MAL so there would be less of a chance of any infection or irritation. Tattpig, your info is reassuring- I really do not want to be a walking scab or in great discomfort from the tat- hell- save that for the dungeon and sex ! LOL Now, just to get to it and have it done-after my slut fest at MAL is past ! Thank you all for the feed back- and still up for any design modifications or suggestions- like Tattpig pointed out- this is a one shot deal ( esp since I abhor needles !!)

As a certified ( on here at least ) slut and 110% bottom- let me put you on track for a life time of fucking. YES- you MUST always have your hole prepped and available. That doesn't mean it will BE available and clean 110% of the time- but to go out and offer your hole to some top and cake his cock is wrong on too many levels- first off, it reflects badly on all bottoms. It also suggests you are a lazy pile of shit, since you didn't care enough to make the effort to be cleaned out. In addition, as a bottom who may have the chance to service the guys cock- I really do NOT want to eat your shit- so when he gets crap on his cock and gives up on you and moves on to me- there better be a nice clean crap free cock moving my way. Of course, nature runs its course and no matter how much you try, things can go south. Thats when YOU take control, cleaning his meat clean with anything and everything you have- your jock/underweear/t shirt- even your shorts. It not only reminds him you care, but that you are responsible enough to know what to do As you will find by researching the forums about the similar threads- there are tricks and techniques, so this isn't ass much about diet or the entire rinse out process- but I do think you need to accept 110 % accountability to ensure you are cleared out if you are serious about giving it up on demand

Hey Tiger- I posted about using A& D ointment on a posting by RawTop about puffy ass lips after a fucking- the stuff is amazing. Beyond that, I have found taking a hot bath with a lot of epsom salt really helps calm the fires. Now, if you are too sore to go to the next gang bang and need a fill in....... I can be hosed out and bent over in 15 minutes