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This is like poetry

I do agree with you. Just brutalizing a guy till he bleeds does not signal dominance to me either. It is reminiscent of a boy playing a man. A bottom having difficulty with taking me does nothing for my ego. In fact I was use to it in my youth. Connecting and bringing out the slutty side in a person is more powerful feeling because I know I caused it and will surrender his hole for me to pillage until I am satisfied.

In general, I like fucking my bottom like a 10¢ whore and I'm out to get my moneys worth. So I like it pretty rough. I like wrecking a hole because most of the people I fuck are into that. But, their is a pride in seeing a ass that can close anymore and totally destroyed and it's because of you. It's like a sculptor but with hole as your medium. Some tops do it because the more they make a bottom hurt or bleed feeds their ego as a man. They feel that by wrecking a hole and making guys bleed their so tough.

Well. I usually have regular Fuckbuddies and still there are times I have to go without even when I want. It can be due to bottom being on vacation, bottom being sick, bottom eating chilli and refried beans the day before or his bf came back from work earlier than expected lol. Going on apps are always hit or miss most guys tend to be flakes. So you might think you have something locked down, then they log off without giving u their number or location.

You're just a cum hungry cumdump and we thank you and your kind for the service you provide to the community

I know I may not be the intended audience for this thread but I thought I might offer some friendly advice since I'm mostly a top. First once you are getting into hard kink or S&M connection is key. Contrary to popular believe it takes a certain mindset and dedication to be a Sadistic Dom this is why it won't be that common to find. Especially if you are located in remote or small towns. It's easy to find am asshole or a top that doesn't give a shit about you, but much harder to find a top that will fuck you up but not maim or kill you because it takes a certain level of skill to actually play rough. Depending on your hard kink you are looking to realize it might be better to actually include vers guys in your search that can take the TOP role because these guys usually have already experienced what you maybe looking for and know how to give you the intensity you need with out killing you. Also, when approaching a top and taboo fantasies, like what a lot of guys have said you need to test out the waters first don't just shoot off all the fantasies you want to try, because firstly, you might scare them off ( some tops just like to cuddle LOL), secondly the top may be into the same thing you are but if we start feeling that the bottom is just using us to realize their fantasy without wanting to connect, it turns a top off. contrary to bottoms top don't like to feel used ( unless you are a service top( look it up)). For all the guys wanting to be pimped out, whored out or be the center of a gangbang. Those tend to be hard things to realize, because most guys tend to flakes in general so a top may contact other tops but they never show up because not all tops play well with each other and some become insecure in group setting. With all that said you have to ask yourself this question for all that work to setup it up, what is the top getting out of this? I'm not trying to knock anyone's fantasy. God knows I have some fucked up shit I want to do to girls and bottoms. I'm just giving you the top's perspective so you bottoms can get better results in finding a top that will help you realize your fantasy. They do exist, you just might have to travel a bit your take your time to get to know them so the play can get to the intensity you dream off.

Thick cocks do feel better gives you that nice open cored out felling. Bear cocks come in all shapes but I do notice that when they are hung it tends to be thick not long.

Their hitting the colon bend. it hurts as fuck once you hit it( aka second hole) but once it gets opened you get an amazing full felling. Try straightening up a bit when you're getting fuck in the toilet stall it should help to not hit that bend. The dildo works or getting on your back

as a Top their two things I get out of ramming a cock back in 1- as a Dom top it's a great show of force and it sends the message I own that ass and theirs nothing you can do about it. 2- it trains the hole to stay open and loose. If timed properly you can force the anal ring to stay open and you can pound ass deep as you want. The ring is highly intense feeling when you hit it so you don't want it closing back too quickly or hitting it will hurt too much. As a bottom long strokes feel amazing from a long cock and that sensation of travelling back and forth through the ring forcing it to reopen is a fucking intense feeling ( in a good way)

It's weird how certain words effect people differently. I use it a lot and the bottoms that get offended by it they usually think I'm using it in a way to degrade and that feminization is only used on a man to degrade. Which isn't for me Because I don't view women as being lower. I like male and female pussy. I call it that because at the moment it's a vessel for my seed and dick just like a womans pussy is. It's not a way of nullifying masculinity but more of a way to access that vulnerable aspect we as men tend to hide. Ya might sound weird LOL

The human body generates heat and all that friction with the dick add cunt walls will just add more. Im my case the bottom was literally just fucked a few minutes before

For a top vers like me when I see an ass with that vertical slit or the crinkled pouty lips. I know the bottom will be a good fuck

There's a point that when you get fisted pretty often it starts looking like one. hehehe

When I bottom I prefer a thick large cocks. I want to feel stretched and owned. REally like that loose feeling after getting fucked. I like doing that to my boys so I want the same to be done to me.

First of all some tops like blownout assholes just saying. But if you are experiencing pain from the hemorrhoids then you should have a Doctor look at it, because there is a surgery than can remove them. If your ass only looks blownout after being fucked by bigcocks or after a long session of taking dicks then give it a few days to a week and it will go back to normal.

That's the problem some guys don't take hints and will chew you out no matter if you ignore or if you say No respectfully

Well depends on the top. Me I have a fondness for hoes and sluts. So it's a big plus especially the sloppy sounds.

Usually the smell gives it away and how you can go balls deep in the initial trust. Also the hole tends to be a bit hotter than normal. If you can make a bottom anally orgasm then the loads will be pushed out all over your dick. If they are a real cumdump then the fuck will sound in a wet swamp.

Rather it pumped deep in me when I bottom and I do the same to my bottoms. I like feeling of being breed and the and loose feeling afterwards when your hole can't close and the loads just keeps leaking out

Use a chastity device and a buttplug at the same time. That way you train the hole to be open while the clit stays soft.

Just gonna put this out there. older bottoms understand a tops that like sluts. They know that not all tops are looking for a virgin. So they know how to relax their holes to give a nice loose fuck

Alcohol dehydrates you so it could probably be that

Very good Advice. Also I heard Gatorade helps because you tend to loose electrolytes from the douching process

Thanx man never used Pure but always hear how great it was. So just wanted the reason why

This above all but I would cover the basics like : Prep for the top and flushing his system (not everyone starts off or is a real piss pig and like yellow piss) Foods to stay away from before a session for the top, like coffee, tea, asparagus, artichoke, vitamin B supplements, Protein shake, how smoking cigs affects the taste or urine. Clean up and site preparations ( mattes, covers, etc.) Alternative areas to do it like in the shower, bathroom, or Bar Bathroom;-) How beer makes piss taste better Sexual diseases that can be transmitted through piss play, Like gonorrheal, chlamydia, syphilis