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I guess I'm going to have to make that trip to Buddies and make the report. Colorado Springs is on my shortlist of cities I was thinking about relocating to, but close to 1,300 miles from where I live right now. DSC was the my 1st bathhouse, and almost my 2nd home for the next 8 years that I resided in Denver. DSC is my standard for a great bathhouse, so I am almost always disappointed by other bathhouses. The amount of fucking on Friday and Saturday nights, as well as Sunday afternoons was difficult to match almost anywhere else I'm familiar with. Even weekday evenings and nights, you were pretty much assured of finding a willing fuck partner in less than an hour. Denver Midtowne, is also in my great category, and Denver is a fairly small city, but with an abundance of horny men.

I'm firmly in the anon loving group. Even finding fuckbuds that are willing to go along with my proclivities, seems to be a problem in less sexually active regions of the country, they simply have too many inhibitions and restrictions about the types and frequency of fucks they are willing to participate in or even that their fuckbuds participate in. Which quickly becomes boring for me, and what I am doing with other guys as aften as I can seems to terrify them. That said I spent some time at a fuckjoint in a city that has an abundance of fuckjoints, none of which would be considered active by most standards, and the only guys I hooked up with were 3 guys that I fuck with regularly. Counting the 3 fucks I participated in, there were only 5 fucks that I witness in the almost 4 hours I wasted, and not a single one of them involved more than 2 guys. Sadly there wasn't even sucking going on, there were usually at least 6 guys standing on the lower level of both gloryhole ramps, but no cocks being offered for sucking.

I like your attitude. I don't mind fucking in a public place in view of others that are there to intentionally watch or join in and participate in the activities. As long as we aren't doing it somewhere we are likely to be accidentally view by people who don't want to see, and potentially complain to law enforcement, I will happily fuck in public.

Want to fuck? Suck and rim long enough to get the dicks hard and wet, and the holes relaxed and wet, and then let the fucking commence.

I'm versatile and am sure I average at least twice a day. I typically start the day off jacking off unless I'm reasonably sure I am fucking someone that day, and if I am planning on going to an orgy I will often hold off the day before. With the right inspiration, I can still cum 4 times a day at 54 and even if I can't get it up to cum again, I am always good to keep getting fucked. One of my favorite things in the world is to breed a man and immediately flip over and have him breed me, knowing I just dropped fresh load in his ass.

Most of the time in the toilet, but my back yard is fully private, so I will pee just about anywhere the urge strikes me if I'm already in the backyard.

The 4th of July was the 4th day of my sexcation, and I decided to get a day pass at CCBC for the afternoon/early evening. I was now fully recovered and ready to fuck as well as get fucked. There was a good sized crowd, and even though there were a lot of couples and groups of buddies making the rounds together without joining in the fun there was also a lot of action. To be fair, there was on group of 5 really young latino friends who were trying to out do each other in sluttyness and another group of 3 guys in their 30's that definitely weren't there to prevent each others from having fun and one of them seemed to be trying to compete with the 5 young latinos for the biggest slut award. Due to the heat, there wasn't much outside fucking but the quonset, the porn viewing/playroom and the cargo container setup for sucking were seeing a lot of action. The 5 latino guys were even fucking and enticing men to fuck them in the cargo container that is setup for sucking. I spent most of my time in the other 2 areas. Maybe it was the heat, but my afternoon was kind of a blur. I know I got bred at least 7 times and dropped my loads in 3 holes, and it was all the dogpile group type sex I really enjoy there were only really 3 memorable events for me. The 1st was fucking and breeding a guy that I later found out was the boyfriend of guy I used to hookup with occasionally in Portland that had moved to Palm Springs. He and I spent a little time reminiscing while eating ice pops, when he told me I had just bred his boyfriend. I didn't tell him, but he needs to have his boyfriend teach him how to act in a sex venue, he was still acting like he was in Portland. The 2nd event that stands out was getting in line to breed a hole that was getting men to breed him one right after another on the fuck horse, I was 4th and licked up the cum that was dripping out of his hole before taking my turn in his heavenly loose cum sloppy hole and replacing what I had eaten. The last event was right before I left, a really fit older guy that had been there the entire time I had been there finally railed my by then loose cum sloppy hole on the U shaped bench for at least 20 minutes before he bred me, while having 3 other guys offering me their dicks to suck while he was fucking me. Unfortunately by that point time was up on my day pass, and I was hungry so I decided to head out and get something to eat rather than renew. After I ate, and rested a little I decided to head down to the river area where I had been fucking and getting fucked the previous 2 nights, only to discover that it was also the ideal place to view multiple firework shows, so a little to busy for cruising to fuck. Since I had observed that the action didn't really get started until around 11 I sat down on a rock with 7 loads slowly dripping out of my hole and enjoyed the fireworks. Luckily the last fireworks display ended around 10:30 and the area was back to normal by 11. I didn't even really mind the fact that the back of my shorts was soaked with cum. I didn't get any more loads, but was so loose the 2 guys who weren't really hard were able to get their dicks in my ass and commented on how nice and loose and cummy my hole was. Around midnight a really hot black guy bent over for me and I shot my 4th rocket of the day up his obviously well used hole. Since I was pretty certain I didn't have a 5th load in my balls (I am 54) and did have 7 loads in my hole I called it a night and great 4th. You really have to love how slutty you can be and find men who are equally slutty in a place like Palm Springs.

It was July 1st 2023, I had just finished a long work week and flown to LA with plans to drive to Palm Springs for CumUnion at CCBC and learn how to be a slut again after a long year being mostly stuck in Portland. I may have had a few adventures traveling for work in between, but hadn't had a chance to really indulge my inner slut since my 4th of July sexcation in 2022. I finally arrived 2 hours later than I planned in Palm Springs, because I had to wait to get a rental car and then the usual SoCal traffic jams. So I was really tired and frustrated by the time I finally arrived and then needed to rush to get ready for CumUnion. Luckily this CumUnion did not disappoint, as soon as I made it to the play areas I got a refresher course on how hooking up at a sex venue is supposed to work. Guys were groping each other and quickly moving on to fucking and sucking with out the lengthy courtship I have to put up with in Portland, and group sex was actually happening. I'm sure that I saw guys spit roasting and fucking in threes, fours or more in the 1st 10 minutes than I saw in the last year at home. My 1st fuck took place in the outside play area past the cargo container with the multilevel setup for sucking. An asian guy got me on my back on one of the benches and after briefly sucking his cock I raised my legs welcomed him into my hole and was very quickly bred. I thought I would be well primed for a night of fucking after that. My next stop was the quonset building where I fucked the guy in the sling, the guy on the fuck horse and at least one guy just milling around for a few strokes and got a couple more cocks in my ass for a few strokes well. After just a few minutes I went across to the other porn viewing/play area and found 2 couples fucking on the U shaped bench, plus a tall larger built black man that was just my type presenting his hole to be fucked, so I more than happily obliged. He was loose and obviously already had a load or 2 in him so fucking him was awesome, maybe too awesome. I really intended to fuck him for a long time, but as luck would have it one of the guys who had just been fucking me in the quonset came up behind me and started fucking me while I fucked my perfect fuck. I don't think I lasted a dozen strokes in that silken cum filled hole and the big dick filling me on the back stroke before I came. Unfortunately due to the circumstances of the day/week, I wasn't able to get it up again. I did get fucked a lot more over the next several hours and took at least one more load in my ass. My biggest regret came shortly before I left around midnight. A really cute cub joined the fun and I really, really would have loved to have fucked and bred him. For some reason he didn't seem to be able to attract anyone who could get hard, and at one point we were side by side on the U shaped bench, while I got railed by an older guy and he was being occupied by a hot younger guy who spent a lot of time eating his ass and trying to fuck him, but couldn't get hard. Because I was so tired, I called it an early night and headed back to my hotel and slept like a well bred slut, and knew it was going to be a great sexcation.

Spit works for me.

Has anyone been to Buddies in Colorado Springs recently? I haven't been in more than 5 years, it was a smaller venue than DSC, but similar vibe. Hopefully someone has and can report back as to whether or not it is still a very active fuck club.

I almost wrote pigs in blankets, but decided to make a little bit ambiguous. I also realized after I published it that they had a special on pancakes and bacon and that was what I ordered, so there a little bit of literary licence any way.

Obviously you never been to an orgy or sex club in the PNW. It usually feels like I'm the only one there to fuck and get fucked. Yes they have CumUnion parties here, but they aren't well attended or attended by men who are fuck pigs.

Personally I think "none" would have been a better descriptor, most if not all of the apps have the option to list both oral and anal positions, so I don't think that is who they were catering to. I often call them "functionally lesbian", but can see why a lesbian might find that offensive.

It definitely helps, but they get men from all over that bring there local customs with them. I ran into a couple of guys at CCBC, that I knew that moved from Portland to Palm Springs. One is a total pig and fits right in. The other is fairly promiscuous by Portland standards, but not Palm Springs standards. He was at CCBC for Saturday night's CumUnion and during the day on the 4th of July and still acting like they do it in Portland. His hesitance and what looks like prudishness to me, seemed pretty comical especially during the day 4th of July, but I'm sure most of the guys feel that way about how I act in a Portland bathhouse. I need to do a "Last Load" post on my 4th of July which took place mostly at CCBC. I've never actually stayed at the gay resorts, just day passes. As best I could find out there are only 3 left that do day passes at all. CCBC 24/7, All Worlds on weekends, and Canyon Club had a couple days a week but I don't think weekends. Things change, not necessarily in the direction we would prefer.

I'm not really sure moving to a more liberal accepting place will necessarily help. At least in the PNW being liberal and accepting translates to you can go out openly in whatever outlandish fetish gear you want, you can eve get a buddy to walk you through a public park on a leash in broad daylight while dressed in your most outlandish fetish gear, just don't ask anyone to have penetrative sex with you and if you do "hookup" with someone there is only a 50/50 chance that they will even want to touch your cock or let you touch theirs. I frequently joked during the COVID lockdown that social distancing really had no impact on cruising and casual hookups here, but to be fair you can't cuddle at 6 feet. The better than thou enlightened flamboyantly gay cockblockers at the ABS, park and bathhouses are just as effective as stopping gay sex act as the bible banging holy rollers. They both are determined to prove their point, and both are getting their way. I know there are better places, I just came back from one, but it definitely feels like there are fewer of them.

I observed last week that even where there are still active cruising spots, guys at them are using their phone apps with sex going on right in front of them even in the parks. The 1st night I went in Palm Springs their were probably 30 guys in a very small area, with lots of sucking and fucking going on, with half of the guys who weren't actively engaged on their phones. At 1st I thought they were filming the participants and hung back, until I figured out what was going on. There was a huge difference, in that guys on their phones were actually putting their phones away and joining the group action, versus here where if they do decide to hookup either the old or new way most men will insist on taking it somewhere private rather than try to get a group going. In LA I visited a couple of parks, that didn't have the group action, so the men on their phones kind of struck me as zombies walking up and down the paths glued to their screens. They were still hooking up and pairing off and I did see a couple of 3 ways, but not the groups that I prefer. I was familiar with both the group sex cruising spots and more one on one type spots going back 35 years so despite being one of the older men in both scenarios I was still able to get some action. So I haven't lost all hope. I really only struck out completely at one location I went to. I bought a day pass for the All Worlds Maze, there was action, but it was almost exclusively oral which wasn't what I was looking for (I had the same problem at that venue 5 years ago). I also went to a warehouse party, and a CumUnion party that did not have much if any app use at them and a lot of fucking, but the age of the men definitely skewed older.

That sounds like my kind of cuddling, I love the taste of fuck sweat, especially fuck sweaty balls.

So, I just got back from my sexcation and for once am not sexually frustrated. I spent 5 and a half days in Palm Springs and 3 and a half days in the LA. I bought day passes at 2 gay resorts Palm Springs, when to 2 CumUnion parties (one in each location), cruised parks in both locations, as well as going to a warehouse orgy and a bathhouse in LA. Where I went in Palm Springs: Palm Springs is a gay mecca, and I would expect it to draw the full spectrum of gay men, I was not disappointed. All Worlds Resort did not seem to have unrepentant ass fuckers like myself and the regular clientele seemed to be heavily oriented toward oral, which just isn't my thing. Despite there wonderful mazes, indoors and out, I did not manage to fuck or get fucked while I was there. I don't know if it is always like this, but it has been my experience the 2 times I've been here. Like everywhere else I went in Palm Springs there were also guys there to social, look for a husband, attention whores and sides who don't do anything that even remotely meets my definition of sex that frustrate me so badly in the PNW. I'm sure more than a few of them were trying to slut shame me. I did not either fuck or get fucked while I was there. CCBC, I went to both a CumUnion Party and bought a day pass on a different afternoon and stayed until early evening. Both times I was there I was able to both fuck and get fucked which matches my past experiences (I've probably been there a dozen times). While there were enough unrepentant fuckers at CCBC for me to have fun, there were also plenty of oral only, and all of the other groups that don't do anything sexual. Another observation I made, was even at CumUnion, there were couples and groups that stuck together and prevented their partner or friends from straying into slut activities. On the afternoon I was there, there was also a group of 5 really young friends who were trying to outdo each other as total sluts (fucking and getting fucked by almost anyone willing, so my kind of men). The Barracks Bar, had a nice mix of men, both the kind that I can hookup with and the kind that frustrate the hell out of me. Both groups were represented in large enough numbers that I would guess all but the guys that get off on cock blocking left satisfied. Parks, there were numerous parks in a very small area that I was able to find through Sniffies and Squirt (interestingly they did not both list all of the same cruisy parks, so it pays to check both) where there was a lot of activity. The mix of guys in the parks was similar to what I found at The Barracks, during the day and up until about midnight I'm pretty sure I would be able to find a willing partner somewhere. Where I went in LA: LA is a large city, and seems to have the full spectrum but has places you can find that are very specific to your wants Men's Meat Up warehouse parties 2 days a week in Van Nuys, this is one I have been to before my last trip and it did not disappoint. Other than a few voyeurs it seems to attract mostly older men who are into both fucking and sucking. It has a very darkroom that has a sign at the entrance encouraging groping and fucking, as well as beds and sling in better lighted areas. I am totally in my element at these parties, I always get exactly what I'm looking for and don't have to worry about wasting time with guys who aren't looking for casual sex. CumUnion, while the party at LAX Sanctuary has always been great for me, this time was even better, for whatever reason it did not even attract voyeurs or even oral only guys this time. This time it was the same as the Men's Meat Up party with a larger crowd and no darkroom. Everyone was groping each other and my aggressive sexual approach didn't offend anyone. I stayed the full time and left a very happy boy. Parks/beaches, were pretty much the same vibe as Palm Springs, the cruisy spots I found were further apart but easy to find, and had men looking for the same thing I'm looking for. This is consistent with my experiences in most of North America. Flex bathhouse, I had never been to Flex, but all of the bathhouses I've frequented in LA in the past are now closed. It had the same mix of men that I found at The Barracks and in the parks of both cities. I was very successful in finding willing partners to both fuck and get fucked by. This is consistent with my bathhouse experiences in most of the US and Canada. Slammers, I didn't go this time, but in a past visit I was able to fuck and get fucked but it took more effort due to the posers and outright cock blockers (there was one guy that occupied a prime fuck spot in the darkroom whose only purpose for being there was to shout no and swat away anyone who tried to engage him for any kind of activity. It is halfway in between what I enjoy in most of North America and what frustrates me in the PNW. I can get laid, but it is more effort and there are men there that do not welcome my style. Where I currently live in the PNW: I won't go into another rant about the lack of fucking in the PNW, if anyone wants to look I have made plenty of past posts about it. Having lived other places and traveled extensively throughout North America for work I know I can easily find at least some casual fucking even in small cities east, northeast, south and southeast of the PNW. Unfortunately I've never found it here. Feel free to add your own observations and places you are familiar with to the thread.

Let me know if I should continue my sexcation exploits here or if I should take it to the blog section. Playing with Cornholes and Getting Creamed at the Bar So last Wednesday night I crossed fucking in a bar off my bucket list. I'm not really a drinker and don't smoke, so bars aren't high on my list of sex venues to go to. I had previously been sucked and sucked a little cock at the bars, in fact once in Denver I was being sucked by the guy next to me while sitting at the bar when a bartender bent over the bar and grabbed a tasted my dick a couple of times as he walked by, so I wasn't a total innocent. Back to the present, I went to underwear night the Barracks Bar in Palm Springs with every intention of completely losing my barroom virginity. I wasn't really sure what to do, and didn't get things exactly right I'm sure. I bought a beer and stripped down to my jock as soon as I arrived, wishing I had known to bring a lock since they had lockers available if you brought your own lock. Eventually more guys started trickling in and I started to see some activity as well as getting fondled and taking advantage of packages being offered for me to fondle several times. Out on the patio and in the bar itself most men were either in their underwear, a jock and a few just had a sock over their cocks. I think I had only seen one brief suck when a young cub came appeared on the patio and we started ogling each other. He came over and started kissing and fondling me, he wasn't huge by any means, but was nice and hard producing lots of precum, so I pulled him out and licked it up for him. Unfortunately he wasn't in to doing it quite so openly so he pulled me off kissed me and said he would find me later. At this point I was at a bit of a loss how things were supposed to work, but by this point there were a few guys starting to fuck so I was reasonably certain I could figure it out. I approached several guys who were obviously into not doing anything except teasing and cock blocking when I witness a group break up after some fucking and there were several empty seats along the wall next to the guy who had topped. I sat down, a little too far away from him when a fully clothed guy plopped down between us and started talking to me about he didn't know what to do, and started wondering out loud about the potential for police raids and the consequences for both the men and the establishment, which could have been a total boner and scene killer if he had been here in Portland (if I could even get things started in the 1st place). After just a few minutes another guy around my age came up and offered both of us his dick, which immediately found its way into my mouth. After just a bit of sucking I noticed the guy I had been planning to make a move on had stood up and was giving his hole to someone, so I spun around and was rewarded by getting the cock I had been sucking up my hole for at least 5 minutes. Meanwhile boner killer guy just continues to sit there looking uncomfortable. After it broke up I turned to boner killer and stated "I don't know about you, but I know what to do now," and walked off. Ten or 15 minutes later another guy approached me and guided me to the opposite side of the guy I wanted who was still sitting next to boner killer. We sucked each other and the guy I was originally trying to hook up with and ended up both fucking and getting fucked by my original target, all with boner killer still sitting there looking increasingly nervous. I really didn't notice any obvious breeding, but did have my dick in couple more guys over the course of the evening. A little after midnight the cute cub found me again and wanted to fuck me in the bathroom, so I followed him to a lockable washroom with a single toilet and a stopped up sink, I immediately dunked my shorts that I had been carrying in the stopped up sink when he pushed me down to suck him before he gave me a long hard fuck that ended with my getting bred, after which he let me suck his dick clean and lick the fucksweat off of his ball, which was worth having to drive back to the hotel in wet shorts. I found out his name and that he was 20 years younger than I am. By this point the crowd had started to thin, and it was mostly fully clothed attention whores left, after 10 or 15 minutes of no sex happening around me, I decided it was time to head back to the hotel, which may have been a mistake because one of the bartenders was flirting hard with me despite the fact I had only had 3 drinks (the last of which didn't even contain alcohol) over the course of the evening. Since I hadn't cum yet I went on back down to the river, and found a handful of guys there, but none of them seemed to be interested in me. There was a tall black guy I would have gladly bred or let breed me, but he ignored me and let a short latino guy fuck him in way to public of a spot for my taste. Since I wasn't getting in action at the river I went back to my hotel and went on Sniffies and found an older "cum dump" staying in the same hotel who obviously had not been bred yet that night, lubed him with some of the 34 year old cub cum from my hole and dropped my load before going to bed. All in all a very good night.

I'm going to post some stories about my last sexcation, out of order but for the most part true stories. CumUnion Party at Sanctuary LAX July 2023 The LAX Sanctuary CumUnion parties have always been good to me, and despite being 1000 mile from where I live I make an effort to get to at least 1 or 2 of them every year. Prior to the July 2023 party the very 1st party hosted there was my best CumUnion event ever, and even the worst events I've been to at this venue are far better than the best I've been to in several cities. I had not been able to attend one of these since July of last year, and Sanctuary had moved to a new location since I last attended. I had prepurchased my ticket and headed to the new venue for the 8 pm start, and got in line about 5 minutes before the event I was number 12 in line, which was also my number for the clothes check. I was told told that there were some wooden benches to use for undressing to the left just inside the main room, as it turns out just past a sling, so I stripped to my jock returned my bag of clothes to the clothes check and started to explore the new venue before getting down to fucking. The main room was huge, but other than the sling and benches contained a couple of couches, a stage and some jugs of Gatorade, mostly empty. Off to the left along the wall with the benches were 3 rooms. The 1st room was primarily occupied by one of the long fuck benches guys can get on their knees on that are just the right width to be used from both ends, plus a couple of other padded surfaces to fuck on, but no one is enjoying any of it yet. The 2nd room contains a large bed, a fuck horse, St Andrews cross, and a padded bench long enough for 3 or 4 guys to fuck along one wall (I sucked a couple of cocks and had mine sucked briefly by the bench, but no one seemed to be ready to start the fucking yet). The 3 room contains a sling (almost too high for me to comfortably top and I'm 6'2") a fuck horse, another St Andrews cross and an even smaller padded bench. By this time roughly 15 minutes into the 5 hour event there are probably 35 guys undressed and ready to start the fun, so I headed back to the 1st room and saw that there were 2 men ass up on the bench, and one of them was getting fucked. I got on all fours on the bench and was immediately offered a cock to suck and within 30 seconds had a nice hard cock gently pushing into my ass as well. I stayed on all fours until my 1st fucker pulled out and the guy I had been sucking made his way around and tried the other end. Now primed and ready, I gave the 4 guys now on the bench a few strokes with my big cock before making my way around again. By this point there were probably 50 guys stripped down and ready and almost all of them were actually engaged in either fucking or sucking. I wound up staying the entire 5 hours, and there were never more than a handful of guys that were just there being looky loos at one time, which is extremely unusual even for this event. The crowd skewed a little older and in less than perfect shape than sometimes, but there was very little attitude and the 3 or 4 guys who did give me an attitude over the course of the evening were all older and imperfect shape themselves, none of the twinks or muscle guys in attendance seemed to have an attitude and other than the looky loos I think I fucked with almost all of them. In other words it was the perfect scenario, for some one like me who loves to fuck and get fucked (I didn't encounter a single oral only guy all evening and while this event sometimes attracts enough voyeurs only to spoil the action I've never encountered a cuddler or foreplay only guy in the probably 10 years they have been holding it. About an hour in I was spending some time in the 1st room on and around the large bench fucking, sometimes while getting fucked from behind while fucking, when the guy I pulled out of got up for a break, I jumped up on the bench to take a turn being a fuck hole, I had a cock up my ass as soon as I got in position and had several cocks shoved in my mouth as well. I stayed on the bench until my knees started to ache, and was fucked almost continuously. For the 1st time since my initial exploration the sling by the door was unoccupied (it had already seen a lot of use), so I hopped up in it and discovered my hole was full of cum, based on the amount someone had either saved up few days or I had multiple loads. The next guy to fuck me was a really well built latino who commented on my cum sloppy hole, and then a shorter asian dude who had already fucked me on all 3 benches, the bed and the fuck horse in the 3rd room entered me again, but neither of them bred me. After the asian guy, I got up and let someone else have a turn. By this point it is a little over 2 hours into the event so I stopped for some Gatorade and stepped out onto the smoking patio to cool off (not smoke), and there was a 3 way going on the patio. Once I rested a little I went back to the 1st room intent on sampling the available holes and giving my 1st load to the most talented one. I think I got my dick into 3 of them before the asian guy came up and rammed his dick in me causing me to breed the loose cum sloppy hole I was in, before I had a chance to determine who was the most talented. Before I really had a chance to rest up, I had more guys wanting to fuck me, and being the slut I am happily put aside my need to rest and let them. It didn't take too long until they had fucked my dick hard again, that and even though no one let on I suspect a couple of more loads found there way into my hole. So I resumed fucking as well as getting fucked. Around 11:30 I shot my 2nd load into the latino muscle guy that fucked me in the sling by the door, loose sloppy hole in the tall sling in the 3rd room. The crowd had started to thin out (it was never huge compared to some of the preCOVID parties which often drew several hundred men), I doubt there were ever 100 at one time, but almost everyone there was there either there to fuck, get fucked of both) and was considering trying to get fucked one more time and call it a night. I was sitting on the edge of the bed in the 2nd room which only had one couple fucking on it when I was approached by an older black guy that has fucked me at almost all of the LAX CumUnions I've attended. He took me on the bed, the fuck horse, the bench and on the St Andrews cross before he took a break. The short asian guy wanted to do me again and got me on missionary on the bed, breeding me this time. By this point I couldn't seem to get hard again and even though the crowd that was left was still doing a lot of fucking was going to call it a night, when I was approached by the older black guy again, this time we stayed on the bed and had it mostly to ourselves, he fucked me in every position possible and I finally rode his load out just before the 1 am ending time (he had never actually bred me before). After a brief post fuck kiss and rest he got up to go home, I walked around one more time, and found that they had closed all but the 1st room, which amazingly still had 2 couples fucking on the bench with 2 fully clothed guys standing along the wall watching. I tried for a couple of minutes to get one of the looky loos to fuck me, but either they weren't there to participate or couldn't get it up again (I couldn't so I had not right to be judgemental). So at 1:05 am I finally left, after either having my pole in a hole or a pole in my hole almost continuously since 8:15 pm. I had loaded 2 guys and had at least 3 loads in my hole. Since I had not eaten since noon I went back to my hotel, put on some shorts that were heavy enough to contain any potential cum that might leak out and walked next door to the all night diner for a well deserved meal of pancakes and sausages.

Cuddling seems to have become a mandatory activity to list on the hookup apps in Portland, or at least I feel like I'm the only one that doesn't list it. I even happened on a conversation between 2 Hawks employees when I was checking out one night, one of them was like us and disliked cuddling but peer pressure made him feel bad about not loving it. I actually get guys trying to cuddle with me uninvited at the bathhouses, which I suppose is no different than a friendly sex club grope in most cities. Even if you push them a way a significant percentage will still invite you to come home with them and cuddle all night. I'd rather be the fleshlight, fleshlight user, or either of the livestock than be cuddled, unless someone has a dick inserted in them we don't need to have that much body contact. For the record I don't get frottage either, although some of my earliest gay encounters wanted to do (teenagers just starting to experiment), it does absolutely nothing for me, For whatever reason my experience with cuddlers is that they don't want genital contact of any kind.

I don't remember ever being shamed for being POZ on either a hookup app or at a fuck venue, but if I had a nickel or ever time someone tried to slut shame me I'd have my fuck club admission fees covered for the rest of my life.

This is regional as well. I've been to Cumunion parties in 2 cities where I don't think anyone fucked the entire time I was there. I've probably been to at least a dozen of them in one of those cities and was only able to find a willing partner twice. I also have a list of 3 cities where even if the CumUnion party is lame by that cities standards I'm.still going to get my brains banged out. I need to write about the one I attended near LAX on Friday. The LAX party has always been great for me but last Friday night far surpassed any past CumUnion party I've attended.

If you figure it out let us know, where I've lived for the last 16 years every sex venue and all the apps are pretty much blue ball fests. I've come to the conclusion that it is regional, since I was always able to hookup easily before moving here, and still do when I travel. I've just spent the last 9 days on a dedication banging my brains out and am flying home with empty balls and a full hole.

I need to add that one to my bucket list, the flight attendants would be welcome to join in.