NWUSHorny

Damn, I really need to expand my horizons on darkrooms. I'm pretty sure I prefer the visual stimulation, but can definitely comprehend the appeal you describe and have experienced a handful of times at a darkroom in LA, a lot of my opinion was formed based on the only darkroom I have regularly frequented, which was at Hawks PDX, which was never completely dark and very rarely experienced the type of activity you described. I did post a thread that is essentially about darkroom etiquette here.

I'm curious, but if you were fucking guys at gay fuck venues and lost track of how many guys you had fucked, how were you keeping track of who you had fucked. While I never made it a quest to never fuck the same guy twice, within 6 months of starting to fuck, I had guys seeking me out to fuck them again even though I didn't remember fucking them before. I'm extremely guilty of this one myself, I definitely tend to stay clear of anyone who is even a "bit pushy, clutching", which has almost certainly been a detriment here in the PNW where so few guys go to the sex venues to hookup with strangers, but I've pissed more than a few of them off by trying to get or even suggesting to them that we should try to get someone else to join in, even when the someone else is hot and watching us at a sex venue.

I love uninhibited pig, dog pile orgies, while my 1st preference isn't to do it in complete darkness, if that is where it is happening I will make the rounds fucking the available holes and offering my hole to be fucked. If I'm in a club or orgy where there is dog pile fucking happening where you can see, I will gravitate to that over the darkroom.

I lost track of the number I had hookup with within a few months of starting so for sucking I was 20, I was 21 before I really got into fucking so I was around 22 when I lost track of that. That's been happening to me for 30 years. If I'm somewhere random hookups are readily available, I might be able to remember who I've fucked or been fucked by in the last couple of weeks. If they remember me from several years ago, not a chance. The weird thing is most of them remember my name, which I will give them if asked but it is not something I volunteer. The exception is if it was particularly bad or they had a long laundry list of inhibitions we had to abide by to have sex or in many cases have "sex" that did not involve penetration, I'm very good at remembering and avoiding them.

I've actually thought a lot about this.. I was diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer a little over 5 years ago, and was told that if the original course of treatment did not put me in remission or I had a recurrence I would need a stem cell transplant. Having been through a rigorous course of chemo and radiation, that stopped short of completely destroying and replacing my immune system the current "cure" is something I would put myself throu only as a last resort. If a less dangerous cure for HIV is found I will seek it. I did find 1 small bit of encouragement in this article, in that we now have someone who was cured without requiring stem cells from someone with that was believed to have genetic immunity to HIV.

I love variety, so I would take the 6 cocks preferably in a rotation, and flip and returning the favor for any of them that are versatile. I'm not that particular about getting the 5 loads, in fact I would prefer that we all got at least 1 load in our hole and had lots of fun swapping back and forth sampling each others poles and holes.

Well I guess there is a little bit of good news, they are no longer billing Thursday nights as dildo playdate night. The do still list toy washing sinks and sex free spaces prominently on there list of features. I really need to find the time to make my move to another part of the country, I'm not going to accomplish it by spring of 2023 like I had hoped.

I am a blue eyed blonde that will admit that I have a slight preference for black men, especially well endowed black men, but it isn't for the reason most are expressing on this thread. My primary reason is that other men who are stereotyped as tops are the most likely to flip fuck, and being 6'2", 220# even when in great shape, and having 8 thick inches between my legs, I know a lot about being stereotyped as a top. I do love to top, but I like to bottom just as much and have hooked up with numerous black men that share my love of flip fucking over the years. At an active orgy it seems like it is almost always a flip fucking black man that gets my last load and plants the last load in me.

While I "panted like a bitch." He would pull out when I stopped panting. It either wasn't memorable or bad for him. He has hit me up on multiple apps the last 3 or 4 times I've been to PS since then, once was enough for me.

Do requests during the hookup count? I hooked up with a guy in Palm Springs that wanted me to "pant like a bitch" while he was inside of me, and basically just lay there with him in me and let him talk about getting his buddies to fuck me. He also stopped me or pulled out any time I tried to fuck myself with his dick or even milk it. I put up with him mostly keeping his dick in my ass for about an hour, but eventually told him if he wasn't going to fuck me I needed to go back to my hotel and get some rest.

and for the most part I don't run into those strange requests outside of the PNW.

Neither of those scenarios sound that strange to me after living in the PNW for 16 years. I've learned that not mentioning fucking in their profile or in the initial communication usually means they don't. The salad scenario not only doesn't involve penetration, it doesn't even require a dick, which is another problem I run into frequently.

I'm not sure it is the weirdest, but certainly the most frequent is to walk him on a leash, in the park, like a dog. There are a few parks around here where it is a common sight, so my refusal shouldn't hurt them that much.

I didn't move to a smaller city per se, I moved from Denver to Portland, but it is a night and day difference in piggyness. When I 1st moved I found myself spending twice as much time and getting maybe a quarter of the sex. Portland has multiple gay sex venues, but most of the guys at them just want to see, be seen and socialize. The same with cruising spots, they love the attention from cruising, but don't want to actually hookup. I was never a fan of the apps, but it is an even more extreme version of trying to hookup in person.

I did remember that it was in the same building as a gay bar, but hadn't made the connection that it was the one where mass shooting occurred. It has been 6 or 7 years since I've been, or for that matter to either Denver bath. I had a major health crisis sideline me in 2018 and was just starting to travel again when COVID hit in 2020. Unfortunately travel for my line of work hasn't returned post COVID and I'm starting to think it never will, which is why I need to move out of the sexless PNW. When I was able to travel outside of the PNW regularly, I could meet my needs on the road and not put myself through the frustration of trying to hookup here. We still have bathhouses, but they have never had the kind of activity on their best nights that you would find at DSC even on a slow night. I lived in the Tech Center when I lived in Denver and used to go down to Buddies about once a month from the time they opened until I moved to Portland in 2007.

I guess I'm going to have to make that trip to Buddies and make the report. Colorado Springs is on my shortlist of cities I was thinking about relocating to, but close to 1,300 miles from where I live right now. DSC was the my 1st bathhouse, and almost my 2nd home for the next 8 years that I resided in Denver. DSC is my standard for a great bathhouse, so I am almost always disappointed by other bathhouses. The amount of fucking on Friday and Saturday nights, as well as Sunday afternoons was difficult to match almost anywhere else I'm familiar with. Even weekday evenings and nights, you were pretty much assured of finding a willing fuck partner in less than an hour. Denver Midtowne, is also in my great category, and Denver is a fairly small city, but with an abundance of horny men.

I'm firmly in the anon loving group. Even finding fuckbuds that are willing to go along with my proclivities, seems to be a problem in less sexually active regions of the country, they simply have too many inhibitions and restrictions about the types and frequency of fucks they are willing to participate in or even that their fuckbuds participate in. Which quickly becomes boring for me, and what I am doing with other guys as aften as I can seems to terrify them. That said I spent some time at a fuckjoint in a city that has an abundance of fuckjoints, none of which would be considered active by most standards, and the only guys I hooked up with were 3 guys that I fuck with regularly. Counting the 3 fucks I participated in, there were only 5 fucks that I witness in the almost 4 hours I wasted, and not a single one of them involved more than 2 guys. Sadly there wasn't even sucking going on, there were usually at least 6 guys standing on the lower level of both gloryhole ramps, but no cocks being offered for sucking.

I like your attitude. I don't mind fucking in a public place in view of others that are there to intentionally watch or join in and participate in the activities. As long as we aren't doing it somewhere we are likely to be accidentally view by people who don't want to see, and potentially complain to law enforcement, I will happily fuck in public.

Want to fuck? Suck and rim long enough to get the dicks hard and wet, and the holes relaxed and wet, and then let the fucking commence.

I'm versatile and am sure I average at least twice a day. I typically start the day off jacking off unless I'm reasonably sure I am fucking someone that day, and if I am planning on going to an orgy I will often hold off the day before. With the right inspiration, I can still cum 4 times a day at 54 and even if I can't get it up to cum again, I am always good to keep getting fucked. One of my favorite things in the world is to breed a man and immediately flip over and have him breed me, knowing I just dropped fresh load in his ass.

Most of the time in the toilet, but my back yard is fully private, so I will pee just about anywhere the urge strikes me if I'm already in the backyard.

The 4th of July was the 4th day of my sexcation, and I decided to get a day pass at CCBC for the afternoon/early evening. I was now fully recovered and ready to fuck as well as get fucked. There was a good sized crowd, and even though there were a lot of couples and groups of buddies making the rounds together without joining in the fun there was also a lot of action. To be fair, there was on group of 5 really young latino friends who were trying to out do each other in sluttyness and another group of 3 guys in their 30's that definitely weren't there to prevent each others from having fun and one of them seemed to be trying to compete with the 5 young latinos for the biggest slut award. Due to the heat, there wasn't much outside fucking but the quonset, the porn viewing/playroom and the cargo container setup for sucking were seeing a lot of action. The 5 latino guys were even fucking and enticing men to fuck them in the cargo container that is setup for sucking. I spent most of my time in the other 2 areas. Maybe it was the heat, but my afternoon was kind of a blur. I know I got bred at least 7 times and dropped my loads in 3 holes, and it was all the dogpile group type sex I really enjoy there were only really 3 memorable events for me. The 1st was fucking and breeding a guy that I later found out was the boyfriend of guy I used to hookup with occasionally in Portland that had moved to Palm Springs. He and I spent a little time reminiscing while eating ice pops, when he told me I had just bred his boyfriend. I didn't tell him, but he needs to have his boyfriend teach him how to act in a sex venue, he was still acting like he was in Portland. The 2nd event that stands out was getting in line to breed a hole that was getting men to breed him one right after another on the fuck horse, I was 4th and licked up the cum that was dripping out of his hole before taking my turn in his heavenly loose cum sloppy hole and replacing what I had eaten. The last event was right before I left, a really fit older guy that had been there the entire time I had been there finally railed my by then loose cum sloppy hole on the U shaped bench for at least 20 minutes before he bred me, while having 3 other guys offering me their dicks to suck while he was fucking me. Unfortunately by that point time was up on my day pass, and I was hungry so I decided to head out and get something to eat rather than renew. After I ate, and rested a little I decided to head down to the river area where I had been fucking and getting fucked the previous 2 nights, only to discover that it was also the ideal place to view multiple firework shows, so a little to busy for cruising to fuck. Since I had observed that the action didn't really get started until around 11 I sat down on a rock with 7 loads slowly dripping out of my hole and enjoyed the fireworks. Luckily the last fireworks display ended around 10:30 and the area was back to normal by 11. I didn't even really mind the fact that the back of my shorts was soaked with cum. I didn't get any more loads, but was so loose the 2 guys who weren't really hard were able to get their dicks in my ass and commented on how nice and loose and cummy my hole was. Around midnight a really hot black guy bent over for me and I shot my 4th rocket of the day up his obviously well used hole. Since I was pretty certain I didn't have a 5th load in my balls (I am 54) and did have 7 loads in my hole I called it a night and great 4th. You really have to love how slutty you can be and find men who are equally slutty in a place like Palm Springs.

It was July 1st 2023, I had just finished a long work week and flown to LA with plans to drive to Palm Springs for CumUnion at CCBC and learn how to be a slut again after a long year being mostly stuck in Portland. I may have had a few adventures traveling for work in between, but hadn't had a chance to really indulge my inner slut since my 4th of July sexcation in 2022. I finally arrived 2 hours later than I planned in Palm Springs, because I had to wait to get a rental car and then the usual SoCal traffic jams. So I was really tired and frustrated by the time I finally arrived and then needed to rush to get ready for CumUnion. Luckily this CumUnion did not disappoint, as soon as I made it to the play areas I got a refresher course on how hooking up at a sex venue is supposed to work. Guys were groping each other and quickly moving on to fucking and sucking with out the lengthy courtship I have to put up with in Portland, and group sex was actually happening. I'm sure that I saw guys spit roasting and fucking in threes, fours or more in the 1st 10 minutes than I saw in the last year at home. My 1st fuck took place in the outside play area past the cargo container with the multilevel setup for sucking. An asian guy got me on my back on one of the benches and after briefly sucking his cock I raised my legs welcomed him into my hole and was very quickly bred. I thought I would be well primed for a night of fucking after that. My next stop was the quonset building where I fucked the guy in the sling, the guy on the fuck horse and at least one guy just milling around for a few strokes and got a couple more cocks in my ass for a few strokes well. After just a few minutes I went across to the other porn viewing/play area and found 2 couples fucking on the U shaped bench, plus a tall larger built black man that was just my type presenting his hole to be fucked, so I more than happily obliged. He was loose and obviously already had a load or 2 in him so fucking him was awesome, maybe too awesome. I really intended to fuck him for a long time, but as luck would have it one of the guys who had just been fucking me in the quonset came up behind me and started fucking me while I fucked my perfect fuck. I don't think I lasted a dozen strokes in that silken cum filled hole and the big dick filling me on the back stroke before I came. Unfortunately due to the circumstances of the day/week, I wasn't able to get it up again. I did get fucked a lot more over the next several hours and took at least one more load in my ass. My biggest regret came shortly before I left around midnight. A really cute cub joined the fun and I really, really would have loved to have fucked and bred him. For some reason he didn't seem to be able to attract anyone who could get hard, and at one point we were side by side on the U shaped bench, while I got railed by an older guy and he was being occupied by a hot younger guy who spent a lot of time eating his ass and trying to fuck him, but couldn't get hard. Because I was so tired, I called it an early night and headed back to my hotel and slept like a well bred slut, and knew it was going to be a great sexcation.

Spit works for me.

Has anyone been to Buddies in Colorado Springs recently? I haven't been in more than 5 years, it was a smaller venue than DSC, but similar vibe. Hopefully someone has and can report back as to whether or not it is still a very active fuck club.