NWUSHorny
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I agree they aren't. The problem is with local guys, they know more ways to have "really great sex" without using a dick than anywhere else I've ever lived or visited, I see this as unintentional encouragement of that kind of behavior. -
That's always been my assumption, I'm actually afraid to stop and ask, since it will probably result in a long conversation in a fetish I have no interest in.
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This has to be one of the most poetic descriptions of one of my favorite activities that I have ever read.
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@ellentonboy I with you on both the toys and fists. I have fisted as a top even jacked off inside a few guys, but it's not really my thing and I don't even want to try it. @funpozbottom I'm fine with encouraging the watersports even if they aren't my thing, and have no objection at all if you incorporate them with fucking. To be honest I don't remember seeing guys doing them at that club in the past, when I lived in another city I was a frequent customer of a very active bathhouse that advertised a special watersports bathroom that I know saw both watersports and other activities. My issue with advertising the toy washing facility, is that guys were already bringing them in, to use in lieu of sex not to enhance it. @hntnhole When they originally opened they tried having "Fetish Friday" every week where they invited groups to come in at a discounted rate to do show and tell about their favorite fetishes, most of which involved BDSM gear. For the most part all they did was display and model their gear, which led to some of the regulars that I talk to avoiding no fuck Friday nights. @FelchingPisser I've been there done that with room cruising bottoms in other places. The problem is that has not been my experience here. They don't seem to do much room cruising here, or for that matter adhere to the common understanding how it works. The most common thing I see when I walk down the room hallways, is doors cracked just enough and bodies positioned so the only thing I see is the occupants feet?
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I loved hitting the tearooms. Do they not still exist in some places? I know we don't have any active ones where I live and I haven't found any in the 15 years I've lived here, but was still finding them in cities where I frequently traveled prior to COVID. I think I spent more time in the tearooms than the classrooms when I was in college and grad school.
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I've been hooking up with a wide variety of Asian guys since college over 30 years ago. A lot of the east Asian do tend to be smaller statured individuals, Japanese guys are the exception to that or at least a lot of the Japanese men I've hooked up with have been 6+ foot tall. I have not found that they are any less likely to be into topping than any other group stereotypes aside. I have bottomed and flipped with a significant percentage of them. I am a big guy by pretty much every measure, and often have trouble finding smaller guys that are willing to defy the top/bottom stereotype, even if they are versatile, to top me is often difficult, I have generally found that is less true among smaller Asian guys than any other group.
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Same here, I've been in all 3 participating positions for just licking the cock plunging in and out of the hole. I have to admit I find the idea of trying to get the lickers tongue in the hole with the cock intriguing.
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There aren't that many things that I want to do but haven't at least tried at this point. One would be getting two cocks in my ass for a prolonged fucking, I've never succeeded for more than a couple strokes. My biggest group sex item on the list would be to get double fucked while fucking an ass and sucking a cock. I have a lot of items on my list that I would merely like to do more frequently, but do occasionally get while traveling.
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Bisexual bareback ethics with them girls
NWUSHorny replied to bbboyfucker's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
I always suit up if I have sex with a woman even if she is getting gangbanged at an adult venue, but at this point it has more to do with not creating an unexpected child than STD transmission. I did have bareback sex with several women I was in a relationship with, but the most recent was almost 20 years ago when I was playing mostly safe with men. -
I was 13, about 6 months after my dick started growing and around the time I had my 1st wet dream. I was embarrassed by my little dick in 7th grade PE locker room, by the beginning of 8th grade my dick was obviously well above average but didn't start to get my pubes until winter, by spring I had a nice bush. 9th grade was an even bigger revelation when I realized my equipment was bigger than most of the 12th graders.
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That is another interesting difference, there is zero risk of a Puritanical complaint causing the businesses problems, adult venues of all types are embraced by the "keep Portland weird" movement and are almost sacrosanct for that reason. The Puritanical behavior of the patrons of the sex establishments more than makes up for the lack of a public Puritanical complaints.
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I had fun there Friday and Sunday, unfortunately I had a mild reaction to my monkeypox vax and skipped Cumunion on Saturday.
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You are more generous than I am, and could be right. I'd still prefer that they discourage playing dildos at a sexclub, it is disruptive for the guys that are actually there to have sex that involves using a real live boys dick. Another note, the list of features in the original post is from the main page of their website. They are advertising it as a feature. Ironically at the previous location they had a problem with guys pulling the sinks off the wall when they tried to wash their dicks at the sink instead of the shower 10 feet away from the sink.
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One of the weirdest things I've ever seen at an adult theater happened around 2010 at the one in downtown, which had moved from the Jefferson to the Paris by that point, all of them are closed now. A mid twenties chick came in with her bi-boyfriend (I had hooked up with them several times at that point both at theater and hotels), one night when the theater was completely packed to try to get gangbanged. On that night, not only did she not get gangbanged, she was totally ignored. They went down to the bed in the front of the theater and got naked with her legs in the air, and had only been there a few minutes when an elderly obese couple came in and sat in the couples section at the back of the theater. Every guy in the theater turned around and gave there complete attention to the elderly obese woman who just sat there and smiled at them for 2 hours. My friends finally left after about 2 hours after she was only fucked by 4 guys including her boyfriend and me (I had also fucked the boyfriend briefly on the gay side but we couldn't get anymore action going there either). When they finally gave up and left a few of the guys in the theater at least turned around and watched the movie, but most of them continued to give the fully dressed elderly obese woman behind the ropes in the couples section their full undivided attention until I gave up and left an hour later.
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I would agree, that there are occasional good times to be had. Portland was one of the early locations for Cumunion parties, and until they were widespread drew some very horny travelers. The problem was, the locals that attended wouldn't even look at each other, let alone touch each other in the month between the Cumunions. Even now, if you happen to have a hot night at the somewhere, it is virtually guaranteed that it will be a total blue ball no mating dance situation all over town for weeks afterward.
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@partying.hard maybe I'm just missing the signals, I'm the 1st to admit I'm sexually incompatible here, and because I traveled and was able to meet my needs elsewhere before COVID meant I never adapted, however I have been witnessing cruising and sexclub behavior for 15 years here that I've never encountered anywhere else. I'm not at all subtle with the fact that I love to fuck and get fucked, which often puts me at serious odds with the passive aggressiveness that is the norm here. I'm also not interested in becoming a part of the drug culture, which is also predominate here, so I have little doubt I'm missing sexual opportunities there as well.
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I intentionally did not identify the bathhouse here, but if I were to I would have to add that it's former location prior to COVID, it had the most active sex scene in either Portland or Seattle. I'm not sure dildo washing facilities will help them maintain that status.
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@EuRawVerseyou got lucky getting an orgy started. More often than not if 2 guys start having sex in a public play space, the rest of the guys will leave and avoid that area until you finish. I do know what you are describing can happen, it has happened to me as well. You did the right thing by not following up on the offers, most of them are looking for a relationship and get super clingy if you see them again, and one that wanted you to fuck him at least once a week would have soon made it just once a week while expecting you to become monogamous with him during your stay. Several years ago I had several encounters with a versatile guy who was a surprisingly good fuck top or bottom, that went to the adult theater every day to jack off, and "allowed" himself to have sex once a week. I quickly learned to ask him as soon as I got there when the last time he had sex was, and not waste my time with him unless it was over a week.
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After 15 + years of living here, and traveling most of the time I've lived here, I've come to the conclusion that the guys that describe their great times at the sex clubs have a combination of different expectations and a good imagination for fantasies. I have the imagination for fantasies, but also the expectation to act on them in a sex club populated with like minded guys. I know at this point I'm in my 50's and not everyone's cup of tea, but still find lots of sex in other parts of the country. I don't really get the room thing, they generally don't even understand the concept of bathhouse room cruising, so I'm not sure why someone would comandeer your room. I greatly prefer having sex in the open areas where in most locations you have a good chance of getting other guys to join in, so I just get a locker generally. I had a lot of fun when I lived in DFW back in the 90's, but as far as I have been able to find out you can't do that here.
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I think I've commented on this thread before, but as a versatile guy with a deep affinity for group dogpile sex scenes, it has to be the fuck. I want to sample as many holes and poles as possible and am willing to acknowledge that most guys can only cum once or twice.
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I work throughout North America, and agree that it is unique to a region covers that covers PNW US and far western Canada of North America. Haven't had the opportunity to explore Europe that way, but it has always sounded like there are places that I would fit right in. Here sex free spaces and events that are predominately non-sexual are the norm. I haven't been to one for obvious reasons, but cuddle parties that explicitly prohibit all sexual contact are very popular and advertised on the hookup sites. I've been criticized on this BZ in the past for telling guys thinking about moving from small Midwestern cities to Seattle or Portland, that casual sex is easier to attain in the small Midwestern cities than it is here. Putting aside the number of gays in the different areas, I have extensive experience in multiple small Midwestern cities and cities in the Great Plains and east in Canada that tell me the total number of potential partners isn't the only or even primary factor when it comes to hooking up. I will say that if you are into fetishes and kinks, and really don't care about the sexual act itself, that the PNW of the US and far western Canada are the place to be. They have groups for more fetishes and kinks than I've ever thought about, just don't go to one of their events, or do a 1 on 1 hookup with someone whose profile is about fetishes and kinks, and expect to fuck or get fucked, because it isn't likely to happen. In fact they will probably take offense at the idea of actually fucking.
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For non-sexual reasons, it will most likely be next spring before I finally make the move. I have hopes that I will be doing quite a bit of travel starting in late November, which should allow me to enjoy my talents more.The COVID years of not traveling have convinced me that living here is a non-tenable sexual situation.
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Guys that bring toys to play with and won't touch anyone else's dick or let you touch their dick are pretty common here. There is nothing quite like being approached while in a sling by an offer to use his dildo on you but not fuck you, or approaching a guy that is ass up in his room that wants you to use a toy on him but won't let you fuck him even with a rubber, but I get both of those situations regularly. The other bathhouse in town does not have toy washing facilities and neither did this one at it's former location. The sinks are well marked and have a dawn dish soap dispenser, "for degreasing your toys", one of them is a big custodial type scrub sink. The list of facilities posted above is from the main page of their website. My guess is they are trying to accommodate the local idiosyncracies and get guys in the door. I'm curious as to where? In all of the other places I've been to sex clubs, they try to encourage actual sex rather than fetishes that don't involve penile penetration. They need to get bodies in the door paying admission, and the functionally lesbian (for lack of a better term) gay men are a group they seem to be able to attract.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
NWUSHorny replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Hawks, they are still building it out so the darkroom while open is nothing but an empty shipping container, with one small mat on the floor, without anything on the doorway to keep it dark. If you want to bring your sex toys and play dildos instead of have sex they do have really nice dildo washing sinks designated, which boggles my mind that this would be considered a feature worth advertising on their website, but they are in the PNW. I haven't been to Steam since July, but the pent up hornyness of last summer and fall has definitely past, it wasn't as bad as it was before the pandemic, but lots of see and be seen without having sex.
