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NWUSHorny

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  1. I haven't used artificial lube in my hole for several years now, a little spit, precum and my hole lubes itself no matter the size of the cock. If I have even 1 load in me we can skip the spit.
  2. I prefer to briefly suck any pole that is about to go up my ass, especially if it has just been pulled out of someone else's hole.
  3. I got a late start taking loads. I didn't take loads in my own hole until after I found out I was poz and sufficiently recovered from the cancer treatment I was undergoing when I found out, so I've only been taking loads for 6 years. Since I primarily get bred when I travel a huge percentage of them are from new dicks, but I have to be at least approaching 200 if not over. It seems really low, since I suspect I have seeded around 5,000 holes, but over a period of nearly 35 years.
  4. I ultimately went the generic Cialis route, and so far it has worked and I haven't had any issues with my acid reflux. What I have found is that it has a significant delay, and is most effective for me on the 3rd day and can easily get hard and breed at least 4 to 5 holes a day after I've been taking it that long, and lasts for 3 to 4 days after I stop taking it. The other issue is it does absolutely nothing for the psychological ED I get when I go to a bathhouse where no one is fucking, which is the norm here in Portland.
  5. Good to know this still works in Chicagoland. I know it still works in several cities including a couple in the Midwest, but haven't had the opportunity to test it in Chicago for more than 25 years. I just wish it worked everywhere in the world.
  6. It has been years since CFS was my to to site for finding hookup spots, but am very sorry to see it go. I have many great memories from cruising spots I found on that site when I lived in Dallas and Denver, as well as traveling after moving to Portland (I'm yet to find any resource to help find reliable hookup spots here).
  7. Generally speaking you won't have very many bottoms to compete with, but on the other side of the equation there won't be many tops either. Portland is very much a city of sides. I haven't been in several months, but it hasn't drawn much of a crowd the last few times I did go. If you are here and not doing anything else it is worth a try, we do on rare occasions get some decent action going, but keep your expectations low.
  8. I love to plunge my dick into recently bred holes. It is one of the reasons I love active gay orgies.
  9. I haven't encountered the pronoun thing, but I have scrupulously avoided the trans social events. Guys definitely ask whether they can touch you, and there are definitely guys at the bathhouse that will not touch a germy icky dick or let you touch theirs, and for some reason more than a few of them have been attracted to me at the bathhouses, and are more than happy to spend hours trying to convince that they know 1001 ways to have really great "sex" where no one has to. Yes, you are in luck they do post stuff like that on A4A.
  10. I find that to be true across most of the places I've frequently traveled to for work. The exceptions are Vancouver, Seattle and Portland. There isn't much fucking at all, and still more condom usage than I've seen anywhere else. Ironically the entire region has a high percentage of the population that self identifies as gay, but it does not translate to an active casual sex scene.
  11. We still have 2 bathhouses, but they have been mostly fuck free zones for the 18 years I've lived here. They have both leaned heavily into non-sexual themed events and fetish events, which quickly devolve into non-sexual events. We also have a large number of cuddle events here that are explicitly non-penetrative events, yet the bathhouses are still filled with guys looking for a cuddle buddy instead of a fuck. They love to tell each other how open and accepting they are of various sexualities, but the reality of them are more asexual than anything else. Ironically I routinely call A4A Christian Mingle for gays here, it feels like every profile is looking for a romantic relationship with absolutely no sexual information, it is the only hookup app I've ever been banned from, and believe my ban was from responding to local profiles with overt questions and answers about sexual preferences. Doublelist is another interesting one locally, it is all about finding buddies to get high and hang out usually with at least a blip saying nothing sexual included. I have used both BBRT and Sniffies fairly extensively and successfully when I travel, but they have become virtual ghost towns here, and what little activity that is posted on them looking for cuddle buddies. Luckily I travel frequently, if I didn't I don't think I could have endured living here. It isn't just Portland, it is the US PNW and West Coast Canada that is afflicted with this gay cultural phenomenon. All 3 cities have huge communities that identify as gay, but it does not translate to an active sex scene.
  12. I've fucked and been fucked by men of all races. I don't really have a fetish or attraction for any race in particular for a one time hookup. I do have a strong attraction for versatile, tall, hung black men who are into flip fucking and have had more fuck buds that met that description than any other, going back to the 2nd guy to ever shove his pole up my hole and 1st guy I ever flipped with.
  13. Across the country, it has probably been 99% for the last few years. Locally to where I live it is certainly no more than 75-80% of the exceeding small number of guys looking to hookup for a fuck online.
  14. Those of you who completely reject fuck partners if they want to use condoms, must live in areas where you have a lot more potential partners than I do where I live. Very few guys at the bathhouse, ABS or any cruising spot will even entertain the idea of fucking and will often get mad when you suggest it, even after an extended period of foreplay or multiple no fuck hookups. Also a huge percentage of the app profiles do not list fucking as one of the activities they are into so a majority of them completely omit the condom/safe sex information, at least 99% list cuddling, maybe 50% list sucking as an activity they are into, and it is probably being optimistic if 10% list fucking. While condom usage at the bathhouses has gone down here, it is far from unheard of and we still have a few guys still insisting even for oral sex (I will no longer suck a condom covered cock, but will sometimes let them suck mine if I think they might be willing to fuck or get fucked). Personally I would rather put up with a condom when I fuck or get fucked rather than not fuck at all.
  15. Aren't these the same? They know 1001 ways to have the greatest sex ever, where no one has to even touch anyone else's icky dick, yet they have to explain it in detail.
  16. I really miss living in Denver, I could always get laid if I had an hour to spend trying.
  17. "Let's cuddle 1st" "Let's cuddle all night" I seem to live in the cuddle capital of the world, the cuddling fad seems to be dying off a little bit, but for last couple of years I got a lot of invitations to cuddle and not fuck.
  18. Psychology has long seemed to have an effect on my ability to get an erection. It became very noticable to me when I moved to Portland in my late 30's, prior to that I pretty much had a continuous erection if I was at any kind of gay hookup spot if other guys were present, knowing I was going to get sex and watching the other guys have sex, but the much slower and less intense hookup culture quickly became a complete boner killer for me. I still get it up if sex starts happening but it needs to be sustained for more than a few seconds, but didn't have the continuous erection from the time I got there like I did in other cities. The ED drugs don't seem to change that for me, I don't have a problem getting hard enough to fuck once or twice a day, but could no longer go 5 to 7 times a night several days in row like I could until I reached my middle 40's, so I decided to try a prescription of Cialis before I took my 4th of July sexcation last summer. The Cialis worked great for me in Palm Springs and was able to fuck all week like I did in my prime, but doesn't really do a damned thing for me here in Portland. The last 2 weekends provide a good illustration. Last week I was extremely horny and totally focused on getting laid over the weekend and remembered to take a Cialis on Wednesday and Thursday (I find they are most effective 2 to 3 days after taking one) went to the baths and found a complete blue ball fest and couldn't get hard enough to fuck even when the one bottom actively offering his ass finally showed up at Steam on Saturday. This week I had a really difficult week of work and totally forgot about taking a Cialis mid week, but went to Steam on Saturday night and found a just little bit of action going on(as good as it ever gets here) and I was able to fuck 5 guys and breed 2 of them without the aid of Cialis.
  19. I fucked 5 guys and bred 2 of them at Steam last night. I had 2 guys fuck me, but didn't think I got bred until I woke up to a massive cum fart around 6 am.
  20. If you are promiscuous enough it will happen eventually, multiple times.
  21. They bring a bag of underwear, some of it assless some of it that covers their ass. They change every 5 to 10 minutes then make another circuit around the club, but usually scrupulously avoid the play areas on their circuits. One of the will occasionally let guys grope his package and even let me suck him briefly a couple of times when we were the only guys in the club, but is a committed total side like most bathhouse goers here.
  22. I've always had the idea that wearing assless attire at a bathhouse or orgy was generally a good indicator that a guy was hoping to get fucked, I don't necessarily associate it with being a total bottom, and at least for guys who wear jocks tend to be pretty versatile pigs in those situations. Other forms of assless underwear does tend to indicate the wearer is mostly bottom, but I have found plenty of exceptions even to that. My issue is with local guys who bring an assortment of underwear to the bathhouse, and make circuits around the club in every pair. At least a handful of them have told me they had never heard of the association to assess attire and wanting to get fucked.
  23. My kind of pigs, I don't know whether I would do it in broad daylight. I don't want to get arrested, but I did let a Palm Springs fuckbud breed me in his driveway, just a few feet from the street on a well lit suburban street around midnight, no cover at all, I simply grabbed my ankles. The 1st time he bred me it was in front of his car pared in a carport. I kind of hope he has a neighbor that jacked off to at least one of the times on his doorbell cam. Sadly the last few times he fucked me in my hotel room.
  24. My experience has been that wearing a jock at a sex venue indicates you want fucked, so probably not appropriate if you are only wanting to suck, but perfectly acceptable if you are a flip fucking pig. Here in Portland we see guys bring a bag of jocks and underwear to model at the bathhouse, they put one on make a circuit through the club and then change into the next. My observation is that they have no interest in bottoming and a couple of them that I've asked about it seemed to have no idea that jockstraps and assless underwear at a fuck venue were a signal that you wanted to get fucked in other regions.
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