drscorpio

We are in Dallas for Texas Bear Round Up. We went on an excursion to Club Dallas as part of the activities. They have remodeled their play area since the last time I was there with a nice play area outside and a smaller, darker maze area. Over the 3 hours of the trip, I spent a fair amount of time in the sling (not all in one setting - I let other cumholes have their turn). The first time, there were a couple of guys who were more into fingering and trying to fist me than fucking although they both did fuck me a little. I had a fresh bottle of poppers, so I enjoyed that quite a bit. Not sure if either of them actually got their whole hand in, but I know it was multiple fingers. I took a break. When I returned, I just wasn't getting any takers. I was getting out of the sling when a young chub stopped me. He was very eager to fuck me, and he did a good job. Then despite my asking for the load, he pulled out and sprayed it all over me. So I was doubly annoyed. I got out, took a shower, and got a drink. Later, I was back in the sling, and I got fucked by a big, tall top who was very verbal. He made me beg for his load. At some point, my husband wandered up, and he got into the verbal action egging on the top and telling him to breed me. After he shot inside me , we were both a sweaty mess. We walked to the shower and cleaned up and made out a little. I decided to check out the pool area. There were a lot of hot naked guys sunbathing and a few playing. I grabbed a drink and wandered around watching some hot sex. Then I decided I wasn't done taking loads and headed back inside. I went into the dark area and since I had come in from outside, I could not see a thing. I felt my way to the sling and climbed in. I figured it was a good place for letting my eyes adjust. At that moment a voice on the PA announced a 30 minute warning for the bus back to the hotel. Almost immediately, a guy stepped up to the sling and slid inside me. He fucked me fast and hard and came quickly. My eyes still had not adjusted, so I have no clue what he looked like. It was all pitch black to me. Soon after, a top who I know from years past at TBRU came by. We had been trying to connect for a good fuck the whole time, but I kept running into him when he was already inside another bottom. He said that it was about time, and he gave me a hard, passionate fuck. He is a tall, stocky Bear with 8 inches of BBC, so I loved every moment. I got up, and we made out for a while. Then I showered and got dressed. There were several other guys who fucked me but did not cum, and one guy who fucked me wearing a rubber. All in all, it was a good day - a dozen cocks in me and 3 loads.

FYI despite what the URL says, this is not a pozzing scene. Paul Canon is pretty emphatic about being neg. I am clarifying this so no one reports the post as Backroom content.

Let me try this again. Let's look at this http://www.poz.com/pdfs/P04-14p53.risk_transmission.pdf Each episode of raw topping gives you a 1/909 chance of infection. That is a 908/909 chance of not. If you top raw 100 times, you have a chance of infection of about 1 - (908/909)^100 which is about 10.4% You have to top raw around 625 times before it gets to 50%. As to your claim that I must be a total outlier for bottom bare 15 years and staying neg, there may be some truth to it. I don't live in a big city (even though I did take sex vacations in big cities during that time), so a lot of my sex was with fuck buddies rather than new random guys all the time. But if you read around the forum, you will find lots of cases similar to mine. Even several cases of guys who were actively trying to get HIV who have gone years of bottoming with known poz guys and stayed negative.

Great news - good luck!

How about "That was really hot the other day. Are you up for a repeat?" The sex was good, and I want more is a pretty good reason to reach out to a trick. The way you approached him (I looked awful. No wonder you wanted me gone.) is totally the teenage drama queen approach. Just tell him what you want (to see/fuck/breed him again). It is WAY too soon to talk about feelings or anything, but you seem to have made a good sexual connection. After you fuck a second time, ask him if he would like to get a drink or coffee some time. If he is happy to fuck you but doesn't want to hang out, then at least you are on your way to a good fuck buddy.

First, you posted this in one of the area where a moderator has to approve your posts. The rules for where things go are here: Normally advice about a trip would go in the correct regional forum for where you are going. Since you are going several places and you are new, I am going to move this to General where it should get the most attention.

Sure. If you want to post a new version, that is fine.

Actually topping is anywhere from 50 to 100 times less risky than bottoming. Here is some good information. https://www.poz.com/article/HIV-risk-25382-5829 I bottomed bare for 15+ years before I went on PrEP. Get tested and get on PrEP, then go back to barebfucking.

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I think you are still telling the truth if you say Neg+PrEP. The fact that you might be on a different PrEP medication does not change the fact that you are on PrEP. PrEP is not equal to Truvada.

Here is the definition from the Department of Justice: Sexual assault is any type of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient. I think it is clear that stealthing meets that definition.

If you are following a member, you will get a notification every time they do anything. You will need to unfollow people.

Moderator's Note: One person already got an infraction for speculating about having sex with an underage person. Let's not have any more discussions about it. highwindcaleb, this is a hot story, but there will be no depiction of your having sex with a middle-school student EVEN IF the story is true. I have hidden your last update which implied that your underage student had sex with you. This thread is closed.

I don't think guys (wherever they are) are automatically morally pure. The guy who depends on people not lying to him to stay neg whether in the sling or on a website is likely to end up poz because people lie, and people stealth. Actually as we now know, the liars are not the people most likely to poz you; it is the guys who genuinely believe they are neg but who actually got pozzed last month and have a sky-high VL. I think you are conflating two arguments. One argument is moral/philosophical, and the other is real-world/practical. I can believe stealthing is morally wrong, and still accept it happens all the time. I don't understand how you can accept that guys will lie in a bathhouse and still want to believe everyone on the website only tells the perfect, honest truth every time.

I think you hit on a great analogy early on - the one about leaving keys in a car. The guy climbing in a sling and asking guys if they are negative and the guy who leaves his key in his car are both being idiots. They are trusting other people's honesty to protect them. Their strategies for protecting themselves make no sense. They have no reasonable expectation of being protected. Still I have seen cars with keys in them and not stolen the car. I have fucked guys who never checked whether I put on a condom, but I didn't fuck them bare (this was a long time ago when I was more vers and using rubbers - also I am neg, so I cannot poz stealth). I am not compelled to take advantage of the other person's carelessness. I can make a moral decision not to do so. The stealther and the car thief both make a conscious decision to take advantage of another person's vulnerability. That's what makes it morally wrong. The bottom and the careless driver are tempting people to take advantage of them. There are poz guys and shady people who might commit a crime of opportunity that they would not have otherwise done. That does not make it any less wrong for them to do so. A bottom who gets in a sling and takes all loads is more like a driver who leaves his car running and walks away with a sign taped to the window that says "You want it, take it." No one who takes advantage in either of these situations has done anything wrong. All of that said, stealthing is a super hot fantasy. I have read many stealthing stories. I have beaten off to many stealthing stories. I have even written several. I am happy we have a place to talk about what turns us on.

Have they said why they were closing? Is it lack of business or something else? I know the baths in Austin closed just because they owner was ready to get out of the business.

When you ask someone a question and they lie and you make a decision based on their lie that you would not have made if they told the truth, I would say you have been victimized by a dishonest person no matter what the context or situation.

I deleted your public album, but I cannot see your private album unless you link to it. Feel free to send me a private message.

I think tighthole64 is actually talking about the beginning of this thread not the one we are in now.

I think the original poster might have been a little impatient with the system. His ad had been up less than 48 hours before he posted this thread. There used to be a feature on the old site software where you could look at a map of the world and see where everyone who was logged in was located. Even at the busiest times, it was a pretty barren map. There are lots of us on this site, but not so many when you spread us out over the whole world.

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I have occasionally had sharp pain while cleaning out, but nothing as bad as what you described.

A bottom who let's someone breed them because that top lied about their status after the bottom made it clear he was not willing to take poz loads has been victimized. The fact that he is willing to take other loads does not obligate him to take yours. Change that situation to a bottom taking all loads without asking questions, and I will agree with you that the top has done nothing wrong. Don't ask, don't tell is a two way street.

I don't disagree with you that a bottom who gets in a sling is playing a dangerous game and expecting others to look out for your safety is foolish. I just want all of you who are banging the "personal responsibility" drum to accept that it goes both ways.

I don't have an explanation. Are there other members who have had this happen? Please let me know, so I can try to figure it out.