drscorpio
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I think you hit on a great analogy early on - the one about leaving keys in a car. The guy climbing in a sling and asking guys if they are negative and the guy who leaves his key in his car are both being idiots. They are trusting other people's honesty to protect them. Their strategies for protecting themselves make no sense. They have no reasonable expectation of being protected. Still I have seen cars with keys in them and not stolen the car. I have fucked guys who never checked whether I put on a condom, but I didn't fuck them bare (this was a long time ago when I was more vers and using rubbers - also I am neg, so I cannot poz stealth). I am not compelled to take advantage of the other person's carelessness. I can make a moral decision not to do so. The stealther and the car thief both make a conscious decision to take advantage of another person's vulnerability. That's what makes it morally wrong. The bottom and the careless driver are tempting people to take advantage of them. There are poz guys and shady people who might commit a crime of opportunity that they would not have otherwise done. That does not make it any less wrong for them to do so. A bottom who gets in a sling and takes all loads is more like a driver who leaves his car running and walks away with a sign taped to the window that says "You want it, take it." No one who takes advantage in either of these situations has done anything wrong. All of that said, stealthing is a super hot fantasy. I have read many stealthing stories. I have beaten off to many stealthing stories. I have even written several. I am happy we have a place to talk about what turns us on.
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Have they said why they were closing? Is it lack of business or something else? I know the baths in Austin closed just because they owner was ready to get out of the business.
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When you ask someone a question and they lie and you make a decision based on their lie that you would not have made if they told the truth, I would say you have been victimized by a dishonest person no matter what the context or situation.
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I deleted your public album, but I cannot see your private album unless you link to it. Feel free to send me a private message.
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I think tighthole64 is actually talking about the beginning of this thread not the one we are in now.
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I think the original poster might have been a little impatient with the system. His ad had been up less than 48 hours before he posted this thread. There used to be a feature on the old site software where you could look at a map of the world and see where everyone who was logged in was located. Even at the busiest times, it was a pretty barren map. There are lots of us on this site, but not so many when you spread us out over the whole world.
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request to delete CDUMP NETWORK phone number
drscorpio replied to neg4aggressivepoz's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
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I have occasionally had sharp pain while cleaning out, but nothing as bad as what you described.
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A bottom who let's someone breed them because that top lied about their status after the bottom made it clear he was not willing to take poz loads has been victimized. The fact that he is willing to take other loads does not obligate him to take yours. Change that situation to a bottom taking all loads without asking questions, and I will agree with you that the top has done nothing wrong. Don't ask, don't tell is a two way street.
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I don't disagree with you that a bottom who gets in a sling is playing a dangerous game and expecting others to look out for your safety is foolish. I just want all of you who are banging the "personal responsibility" drum to accept that it goes both ways.
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I don't have an explanation. Are there other members who have had this happen? Please let me know, so I can try to figure it out.
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The problem with your analogy is that even though they would chew you out for not taking precautions, the police still would arrest the guy for stealing your car if they caught him. The fact that you should have been more careful does not make the theft no longer a crime. Personal responsibility goes both ways. Yes, the bottom in the sling should practice a more effective prevention strategy, but the top has a responsibility to answer the question truthfully (even though the use of the word "clean" is rude, everyone knows what is meant by it) and respect the bottom's wishes. What you are doing is blaming the victim, and that is never okay. Expecting people not to steal or lie may be naive. Still, the negligence of the car owner or the bottom does not relieve the thief or the stealther of their personal responsibility.
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Something with a plus sign? http://tattoo-ideas.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Geometric-Plus.jpg
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I'm a Straight Man, But Want Gay Sex
drscorpio replied to Bob123456's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Alcohol lowers inhibitions. When you are drunk, you are brave enough to admit what you really want. When you are sober, you pretend not to want it because the whole thing scares you. If you try it, chances are you won't want to quit it. That will put your partner at risk of emotional damage and sexually-transmitted diseases. Finding out you are into guys might drive her away. You have a lot to be nervous about. It is totally understandable. -
Why don't you ask him? He may be afraid you will freak out if he asks for it. If he is into it, then there is no problem.
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We have gotten a few comments about putting up a thread for members to introduce themselves. Let's give this a try.
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That's very sad news. I hope I get a chance to visit one more time, but I don't think I will. I was looking forward to going when I was at TBRU.
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It sounded to me like you got told "no" once and were fishing for another answer. I had already given you a clear answer here: If you feel like I am not doing my job, you may complain to the admin, rawTOP. I stand by both my answer and my tone.
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It is. That's my husband
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This is your second post about this issue. You really need to let it go. If you don't like our rules, then don't post here. For everyone's benefit here is why we don't delete posts/accounts: Guys post here, and then later (after they shoot most likely) they regret giving voice to their darker desires. They want to get rid of these posts. Then a few days later (maybe a few hours), they get turned on again and post more or less the same thing. Then they feel regret again and want to delete. This became a huge workload burden on staff, so rawTOP decided not to allow it anymore. This does not really answer the original question here though. Why don't we let YOU delete your posts? Let's say you start a new thread. If it sits there for a while without anyone commenting, that is one thing, but most of the time you get responses. Once other people enter the discussion and comment on your post, it belongs to the whole community here not just to you. The fact that you don't care about a topic anymore does not change the fact that other people are now enjoying a discussion on that topic. It is not fair to everyone else to let you unilaterally decide the thread is over. Why can't we just allow you to delete your own posts? Go pick out any thread with more than a handful of responses. Now imagine trying to read that thread without one person's posts. All the posts that refer to that person's posts now no longer make sense. It can be done if a moderator spends half an hour or so adding editorial comments to the existing posts, so that everything makes sense again which brings us back to a workload burden on the staff.
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Thanks! I had no idea how to go about finding out where it came from .
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A Series of Unfortunate Breeding
drscorpio replied to GanthianRaph's topic in Bug Chasing & Gift Giving FICTION
Moderator's Note: the two threads have been merged. Please continue the story in this thread rather than splitting the chapters into separate threads. -
Report he pic and ask the moderator to delete it.
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Neg, but sucking glory hole cock?
drscorpio replied to Deleteaccountpls's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
Here is a nice reference to bookmark for such questions :http://www.poz.com/pdfs/P04-14p53.risk_transmission.pdf The chances you will get pozzed from doing this are very slim to none. You may well catch herpes or any kind of bacterial STI though. -
They are back to taking credit cards directly now.
