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Traveling to London, Berlin and Brussels
drscorpio replied to catcherinneed's topic in General Discussion
First, you posted this in one of the area where a moderator has to approve your posts. The rules for where things go are here: Normally advice about a trip would go in the correct regional forum for where you are going. Since you are going several places and you are new, I am going to move this to General where it should get the most attention. -
Sure. If you want to post a new version, that is fine.
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Should I "expect" an HIV positive result?
drscorpio replied to concerned1's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
Actually topping is anywhere from 50 to 100 times less risky than bottoming. Here is some good information. https://www.poz.com/article/HIV-risk-25382-5829 I bottomed bare for 15+ years before I went on PrEP. Get tested and get on PrEP, then go back to barebfucking. -
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I think you are still telling the truth if you say Neg+PrEP. The fact that you might be on a different PrEP medication does not change the fact that you are on PrEP. PrEP is not equal to Truvada.
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Here is the definition from the Department of Justice: Sexual assault is any type of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient. I think it is clear that stealthing meets that definition.
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How to stop email notifications of new images posted
drscorpio replied to mascjock8guy's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
If you are following a member, you will get a notification every time they do anything. You will need to unfollow people. -
Moderator's Note: One person already got an infraction for speculating about having sex with an underage person. Let's not have any more discussions about it. highwindcaleb, this is a hot story, but there will be no depiction of your having sex with a middle-school student EVEN IF the story is true. I have hidden your last update which implied that your underage student had sex with you. This thread is closed.
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I don't think guys (wherever they are) are automatically morally pure. The guy who depends on people not lying to him to stay neg whether in the sling or on a website is likely to end up poz because people lie, and people stealth. Actually as we now know, the liars are not the people most likely to poz you; it is the guys who genuinely believe they are neg but who actually got pozzed last month and have a sky-high VL. I think you are conflating two arguments. One argument is moral/philosophical, and the other is real-world/practical. I can believe stealthing is morally wrong, and still accept it happens all the time. I don't understand how you can accept that guys will lie in a bathhouse and still want to believe everyone on the website only tells the perfect, honest truth every time.
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I think you hit on a great analogy early on - the one about leaving keys in a car. The guy climbing in a sling and asking guys if they are negative and the guy who leaves his key in his car are both being idiots. They are trusting other people's honesty to protect them. Their strategies for protecting themselves make no sense. They have no reasonable expectation of being protected. Still I have seen cars with keys in them and not stolen the car. I have fucked guys who never checked whether I put on a condom, but I didn't fuck them bare (this was a long time ago when I was more vers and using rubbers - also I am neg, so I cannot poz stealth). I am not compelled to take advantage of the other person's carelessness. I can make a moral decision not to do so. The stealther and the car thief both make a conscious decision to take advantage of another person's vulnerability. That's what makes it morally wrong. The bottom and the careless driver are tempting people to take advantage of them. There are poz guys and shady people who might commit a crime of opportunity that they would not have otherwise done. That does not make it any less wrong for them to do so. A bottom who gets in a sling and takes all loads is more like a driver who leaves his car running and walks away with a sign taped to the window that says "You want it, take it." No one who takes advantage in either of these situations has done anything wrong. All of that said, stealthing is a super hot fantasy. I have read many stealthing stories. I have beaten off to many stealthing stories. I have even written several. I am happy we have a place to talk about what turns us on.
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Have they said why they were closing? Is it lack of business or something else? I know the baths in Austin closed just because they owner was ready to get out of the business.
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When you ask someone a question and they lie and you make a decision based on their lie that you would not have made if they told the truth, I would say you have been victimized by a dishonest person no matter what the context or situation.
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I deleted your public album, but I cannot see your private album unless you link to it. Feel free to send me a private message.
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I think tighthole64 is actually talking about the beginning of this thread not the one we are in now.
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I think the original poster might have been a little impatient with the system. His ad had been up less than 48 hours before he posted this thread. There used to be a feature on the old site software where you could look at a map of the world and see where everyone who was logged in was located. Even at the busiest times, it was a pretty barren map. There are lots of us on this site, but not so many when you spread us out over the whole world.
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request to delete CDUMP NETWORK phone number
drscorpio replied to neg4aggressivepoz's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
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I have occasionally had sharp pain while cleaning out, but nothing as bad as what you described.
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A bottom who let's someone breed them because that top lied about their status after the bottom made it clear he was not willing to take poz loads has been victimized. The fact that he is willing to take other loads does not obligate him to take yours. Change that situation to a bottom taking all loads without asking questions, and I will agree with you that the top has done nothing wrong. Don't ask, don't tell is a two way street.
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I don't disagree with you that a bottom who gets in a sling is playing a dangerous game and expecting others to look out for your safety is foolish. I just want all of you who are banging the "personal responsibility" drum to accept that it goes both ways.
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I don't have an explanation. Are there other members who have had this happen? Please let me know, so I can try to figure it out.
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The problem with your analogy is that even though they would chew you out for not taking precautions, the police still would arrest the guy for stealing your car if they caught him. The fact that you should have been more careful does not make the theft no longer a crime. Personal responsibility goes both ways. Yes, the bottom in the sling should practice a more effective prevention strategy, but the top has a responsibility to answer the question truthfully (even though the use of the word "clean" is rude, everyone knows what is meant by it) and respect the bottom's wishes. What you are doing is blaming the victim, and that is never okay. Expecting people not to steal or lie may be naive. Still, the negligence of the car owner or the bottom does not relieve the thief or the stealther of their personal responsibility.
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Something with a plus sign? http://tattoo-ideas.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Geometric-Plus.jpg
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I'm a Straight Man, But Want Gay Sex
drscorpio replied to Bob123456's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
Alcohol lowers inhibitions. When you are drunk, you are brave enough to admit what you really want. When you are sober, you pretend not to want it because the whole thing scares you. If you try it, chances are you won't want to quit it. That will put your partner at risk of emotional damage and sexually-transmitted diseases. Finding out you are into guys might drive her away. You have a lot to be nervous about. It is totally understandable. -
Why don't you ask him? He may be afraid you will freak out if he asks for it. If he is into it, then there is no problem.
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We have gotten a few comments about putting up a thread for members to introduce themselves. Let's give this a try.
