LittleCav

I could not have said it better myself. I have fucked a lot of straight blokes and so many of them (especially the married ones) are unhappy with their sex life with their wives/girlfriends. And they always want to do EVERYTHING and try EVERYTHING. It kind of amazes me how really nasty and raunchy some of these straight blokes can be! Tony

All the signs are there - he's seeing someone else.

I don't think I understand what you mean "down too much" either - but I can give you my opinion as a barebacker top. I always encourage all bottoms to douche and douche – and douche again. I have fucked a lot of blokes and most have had a method of cleaning out their ass before sex and in most cases the enemas or douching or laxatives or whatever they did was all done without me seeing it – which is a good thing. One chap I was seeing used to fast the day before I fucked him (that took a bit of planning) and I thought that was a bit extreme. But in my experience, about 90% of the time all the planning and fasting and enemas failed. In almost every “planned” fuck session with a bloke, I have ended up packing their fudge. It has not always been pretty, with some rather disastrous and shitty (and smelly!) experiences that not only made a huge mess but embarrassed the bloke I was fucking to no end. But in most cases my experience is pulling my cock out of his ass after cumming and seeing a thick layer of his shit packed in under the cleft of my cock head. Almost every time I have fucked a bloke I have ended up with shit on my dick. I accept that as my cock is pretty long that I am probably “plumbing the depths” of a bloke’s asshole and that as a barebacker: there will be shit. I am not into shit in any way, shape or form but I have accepted it as a fact of my sex life. I say “planned” because this douching conversation doesn’t always include those instantaneous sexual encounters where I wind up fucking some random or anonymous bloke – where he has not has the chance to clean out his ass. Some of those incidents can be pretty gruesome but also quite funny to see the bottom’s total embarrassment when his breakfast starts pouring out of his ass as I pound him with my big dick. But I always see it through the end and give him my load in his shitty ass. As before, I am not into shit but sometimes “shit happens”. Sorry, could not resist that one! Tony

Get closer to him and become better friends. Build trust with him and he will trust you. Then, when he's not looking (just kidding) make your slow, careful and gentle move to fuck him - or for him to fuck you. You know this is where you want this to go - so just do it. I have never fucked a blind bloke but damn I would love to. You are a vey luck chap! Go for it and nail his ass! Tony

Yeah, that's me. If a bloke tells me to stop I always just fuck him harder. Safe words are for girls....

I wish all the blokes I fuck could be just like you. Usually I am not very concerned about his orgasm at all but I think it is incredibly hot if he cums handsfree. I don’t think it is something a bottom can learn but as I am the bloke who delivers 1 and 2 above and know that my big cock fucking his ass might make him cum handsfree… it is flattering. And I have fucked blokes really hard so they will cum handsfree and it usually works, but ultimately it’s up to his body. I don’t really need to get into the semantics of his orgasm but if he CUMS handsfree without an ORGASM, that is quite sexy. The frustration and desperation he feels in that instance is so hot and only makes me fuck him harder. TONY

I love the word "cherish".

Who is this bloke? This is probably my ideal bottom! I LOVE to fuck blokes with really small cocks, especially if they are young and can't get hard. Of course these blokes never try to fuck me (which will never happen) but really I feed off the humiliation, vulnerability, control and dominance. He will submit to my big cock and I will bareback his ass for hours and breed him several times. If he is very nice I may even suck it for a bit, trying to get him hard, but hopefully that would be useless. No, he just needs to be fucked and if his cock is nice and tiny, it will stay out of the way while I fuck him and just watching him desperately try to get his little cock hard will amuse me and make me laugh. After fucking him for hours and giving him a few cum loads up his ass, he won't be hard, he won't get to cum and that is so satisfying and sexy and beautiful. Give me the small cock blokes every time!

Don't do it - walk away from this one. "Don't Shit Where You Eat".

1. I was about 15 when I started messing about with my little brother – first just rubbing up on each other and jacking off together but we quickly moved on to more serious fucking. Just saying that the fist bloke I barebacked was my little brother still kind of messes with my head. The first time I fucked him was really intense and amazing for me; we were sleeping together like spoons and I was so hard and his ass was grinding against my cock – so I just took it out, lowered his briefs, spread his cheeks and pushed my cock inside him. No lubricant or condom so it took some hard pushing to get into his virgin ass – and I held him close to me because I could tell how much pain he was in. But he never said STOP and I wasn’t going to stop until I got my cock all the way up inside his ass. But I was only 15 so it’s no surprise that I got my cock inside him and fucked him for about 5 minutes before I shot my load inside his ass. I’ll never forget that first time because I think it set me up to be the top that I am now. Fucking my little brother’s ass for the next few years made me feel a bit powerful, a bit “in control” of my brother and I really liked that, it made me feel so good. TONY

I’m a redhead and quite pale – well, translucent, really – and I don’t like tans at all. It’s virtually impossible for me to get a tan because I just burn and turn red and I don’t find them at all attractive on other men. TONY

I can eat a hot, white ass for days and days sand days, just dreaming about fucking it in an hour or so... I'm not really bothered about cleanliness (indeed, a squeaky clean hole is a bit of a turn-off) but honestly, there is not always the time! Sometimes sex for me is furtive and spontaneous and if there is not enough time, it is far more important to get my bare cock up a bloke's asshole than it is to get my tongue up there. But I do prefer both!

I am a redhead so I have had a few compliments, many of them a bit unusual – how pale my skin is, how big my “perfect cock” is, that I have a perfect “bubble but” (which I don’t; I tend to think my butt is not my best feature…) and my white/pink/purple nipples. But the hottest compliment recently was last Christmas when I met this really hot bloke who was obsessed with my big hands and size 12 feet. He told me they were perfectly shaped and big and perfectly snow white – all true I suppose (except for my toenails which are always too long) but I had never really thought about it. We only had sex once and it was all about him being my foot and hand slave. I was desperate to fuck him but when he started sucking on my hands and fingers and feet and toes… I gave in. It was one of the most amazing sexual experiences I have ever had without fucking someone. I let him jack me off (which I usually don’t do) until I came and he jacked himself off until he blew a huge load all over his shirt. It was amazing. I never saw him again but would love to get into this a bit more – so needless to say, I have started taking better care of my big hands and big feet… TONY

For me it's not a fetish at all – cum retention it is at the very core of my Barebacking Soul. I am a top only and for me it is of paramount importance that whoever I bareback, they will take my load up their ass. I will breed them, no questions asked and I always insist they keep my cum in their ass as long as possible. Some blokes are better at it than others, I have to admit; my ex-boyfriend had the tightest ass and he could keep my load up his guts for hours. I think that skill alone kept me fucking his ass for an extra month or so before we broke up. If his ass muscles are too loose, I have used the butt plug trick on a bloke’s ass but that doesn’t always work. A few times (much to their confusion) I have used tampons on a bloke’s ass, inserting the cotton tubes deep into their rectum to hold in my sperm. This does keep everything from coming out of his asshole but the cum just gets absorbed into the tampon and some lads say the chemicals on the tampon are very irritating to their assholes. I’m not really bothered by his ass hurting but if anyone has any other ideas on how to keep a cum load up a bloke’s asshole… I would love to hear them… TONY

Hello Bi-new2BB: excellent attitude! I wish all the lads I fuck could be as focussed as you.... TONY

Ditto....

For me, it depends on who I am fucking. If it is some random or anonymous bloke I am fucking or a bloke that I picked up for the night, I am usually not very interested in his cock. I just want to fuck his ass and leave my load deep inside him. In those cases I would prefer he not get hard and I would not let him touch his cock: I want him to concentrate on my cock fucking his ass and his cock just becomes a distraction. I will let him shoot his load, but not before I shoot my load into his ass. He’s not allowed to cum before me. If I am fucking a bloke that I am dating or a boyfriend (though I am currently single) or someone I care a lot about, I am less bothered if he gets hard but I would prefer he stay soft. I usually take it as a compliment, that I am fucking him right and he is enjoying it and I am giving him pleasure. However, I don’t want him to play with his cock so I always get into fucking positions where he can’t touch himself and as before. I usually won’t let him cum before me – if I can help it! TONY

Hello Bboi90: From what you have written, I think he is lying to you – he was fucked by the other bloke and chances are there are others who were and are fucking his ass. I think his reaction to deny it to the end is a pretty “standard” response, and one I know so well because I have been a serial cheater myself. I have tried to have a serious “committed” relationship with 3 different guys and whilst I loved each one at the time, I could not resist bareback fucking as many other blokes as I could while we were together. I admit it was terrible and so destructive of me but it was like, once I was “together” with a bloke, I just wanted to fuck around even more and not just with anonymous blokes. I was fucking the friends, brothers, cousins, work colleagues, etc. of my partner and just pushing our relationship to destruction and I just don’t know why I was doing this. In the end I was caught cheating by 2 of my ex boyfriends and sadly neither wanted to expand our relationships and bring other blokes into it for sex – which I think would have been hot. But there was too much anger and too much jealousy. The one never found out I was cheating – as far as I know. I was cheating on him with anonymous blokes but also fucking one of his friends and one of his younger cousins. We broke up about 2 months ago (so I am sure he now knows all the gory details) and at that time I decided “committed relationships” were not for me. I think I agree with what one chap already said in this post, that men are not designed for monogamy. And that must be me! TONY

I hate that term “Boy Pussy” and think it’s a major turn-off for me, especially when I am in the middle of fucking a bloke’s ass. But I think the “Boy Pussy” thing is often associated with feminine bottoms – and I am not attracted to feminine guys and I won’t fuck them. So I have not had any experience with that. But I have had a few non-feminine blokes call their ass a “Boy Pussy” or “Boy Cunt” whilst I have been fucking them and I have stopped fucking them for a minute and told them not to say that – and they complied. TONY

Until about 18 months ago I was not into pissing at all but a few experiences over that time really opened my eyes. I am not into drinking or being pissed on but I love watching other blokes pissing and I am really turned on by making blokes piss themselves. It is such a turn-on to control a bloke’s bladder so he just helplessly pisses himself – especially in public. His humiliation, embarrassment and vulnerability are such a turn-on and always make my cock hard. About a year ago I met this sexy chef at a friend’s wedding – he was really sexy and blond and thin and from what I could tell underneath his kitchen white uniform, he had a nice body. His tight uniform trousers showed he had a nice ass and was wearing tight white briefs. Always a good thing. He kept coming out to the party to check on the buffet and we made eye contact. About 15 minutes after that, we were in the alley behind the hotel and I was barebacking his hot ass as we stood up behind the rubbish skip. We only had a few minutes so I pushed him up against the skip and lowered his uniform trousers to just the top of his thighs – and I saw his amazing ass wrapped up in a pair of tight, white cotton briefs and I went mad. I wanted him to leave tose on so I quickly worked my fingernail into the cotton fabric around where his asshole was and tore open a hole to get my cock through to fuck him. “Hey, wait…” he said, realising I was ripping up his underwear. “Shut up. Get ready.” I pushed my hard, un-lubricated cock up inside his and started fucking him hard. I pulled him back against me, holding his arms back behind his back so he couldn’t touch his cock or take off those sexy briefs. After pounding his ass for about 5 minutes I gripped his hips hard and started pulling his ass towards me so I could get all 9 inches of my cock inside of him. His arms went limp behind him as he just gave in to my cock that was destroting his ass and I knew I was giving his prostate a real pounding. Looking back I realise I was also pounding his bladder and after a few minutes he whispered back to me “Hey, wait a minute, okay? Just wait because I gotta….” I hate it when blokes tell me how to fuck so I gave his ass a few hard thrusts and within seconds I could hear liquid splashing onto the pavement below. I looked at his crotch and saw that he had strted pissing himself as I was fucking him. It was so fucking sexy to see him so helpless as he pissed his briefs and trousers and it made me feel so good that my big cock was making him piss himself. His warm urine coursed down his legs, soaking his white trousers and filling up his socks and trainers and he had pissed so much that his drenched crotch was almost completely transparent and I could see his small, soft cock shooting out his dark yellow piss. He didn’t try to get away from my hold on his arms and almost seemed resigned to pissing himself and just getting it over with. I was so turned on from making him him piss himself; I gave his ass a few hard thrusts, trying to punch his bladder with my cock so he would piss even more. He never stopped pissing and I could see he was completely soaked as I gave in - and then shot my load into his ass. He seemed to go limp and didn’t say anything as I pulled out of his tight ass and pulled up his soaking wet briefs and trousers. I didn’t know if he had planned on cumming himself (and I didn’t really care) so I zipped him up and stepped back to check if he had pissed on me at all – and amazingly he had not. I put my cock back in my trousers and patted his shoulder. “Thanks, that was hot. I gotta get back to the wedding.” And I left his there, standing in a pool of urine. I didn’t see him for the rest of the wedding or ever again but it was one of the hottest experiences I have had. Just watching him helplessly piss himself in a semi-public place still gets me hard and I want this experience to happen again. Has anyone else been in a situation like this, or even dreamed about it? Either being the bloke who has pissed himself or the bloke who made another bloke piss himself? I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences! TONY

This poll is for the bareback bottoms in the group, either full-time bottoms or those who just get barebacked occasionally. In your PERFECT sexual encounter, where you are being barebacked for hours by Mister Perfect’s huge cock, when would you like to reach your climax and shoot your cum load? I say PERFECT because we rarely always get what we want when it comes to sex but ideally, when would you like to cum?

I am the first check box on all those forms: "White / British". Through my father: English, Dutch, German and through my mum: English, Danish, German. Currently a White For White Only boy, I am curious about ethnic men. Watch this space! Tony

I have only ever been attracted to other white blokes and have never pursued ethnic blokes, or I guess anyone with a skin tone darker than mine. And I’m pretty pale! I have never been attracted to Latin, Asian or black blokes but who knows what will happen in the future? Reading some of the posts here it seems like I might be missing out on some great sex but I am 25 so this may come to pass in the future. And at that time I may be ready for it because I certainly get hit on by ethnic blokes A LOT, especially by black blokes and Asian blokes. It might be because I am so white and “opposites attract” for these blokes, but right now I’m just not up for it. But we shall see what happens…. TONY

I am a top with a big cock and I think most blokes I have fucked have ended up with a bloody asshole, once I have finished pounding their hole. Most just bleed a little bit at the beginning, when I push my cock in and start fucking but a few (usually the virgins) produce more blood from their ass, during the whole time I am fucking them. One bloke’s ass (another virgin) was so ripped and bleeding he was turning my kitchen floor into a hospital accident and emergency unit. When I insisted we stop and he take care of his hole, he demanded I keep fucking him until I shot my load inside him. I was happy to oblige and seeing my cum load pour out of his hole with all that blood was pretty intense and so sexy. And where a bloody asshole is just part of my sexual experience as a top, it generally doesn’t turn me on. I also think I must contribute to the trauma because I don’t use lubricant and one of my favourite “tricks” with a bloke is to shock him by thrusting all 9 inches up inside him, with no lube. There will be blood. But I will admit that I do think it is a BIT of a turn-on, knowing my big cock is destroying and ripping up his asshole and my barebacking him is tearing his rectal tissues so they bleed. It seems very juvenile but it makes me feel just a little bit masterful or dominant. After I breed him it is so hot to see my cum load all mixed up with his ass juices and blood and once, when I was stand-up barebacking a lad from university, I caught sight of a trickle of his ass blood dripping down his pale, white thighs as I pounded his ass. It was such a striking sight (he was very pale) it really turned me on and I started fucking him even harder. So, I am sure it happens to most bottom blokes, especially if they are getting fucked by a big cock and it shouldn’t cause any panic. And if things get messy and there is a lot of blood, tops should do the right thing and pull out and help him treat his asshole. Maybe give his sore, bleeding hole a thorough wash with hydrogen peroxide, followed by an antiseptic wash, ensuring you pour some of the antiseptic into his hole to treat his torn rectum. Believe me, he will thank you for your attentive care of his damaged asshole… TONY

I was about 8 when I started messing about with other lads – at first it was just with schoolmates. I went to a boy’s Catholic boarding school and we were getting up to all sorts. I went through puberty early and started fucking at about 15-16 – I had/have a pretty big dick and was always on top and always fucked bareback and never even thought about condoms. In a Catholic boy’s school, where would you begin to look for a condom? Everything was bareback and we never thought it was an issue. Being on top felt good, almost like I was “in charge” of my mates and I think that probably influenced me at that young age because now I never get fucked and am exclusively on top. From about age 15 to 17 I was messing about with my little brother and one of my cousins and when I was 17, I had my first experience with a “grown up”. He was my father’s business partner and about 45 years old and really handsome. I had a bit of a crush on him but he just wanted me to fuck him, so for him it was just about sex. The funny thing is, about 3 years later I started fucking his 20 year old son and we went out together for about 2 years. Tony