LetsPOZBreed
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My preference is for verbal tops...but verbal can be a bit tenuous. One wrong thing being said, and it can kill the entire moment. I'd say if it were my first time with a guy, I'd prefer he keep to his moans and grunts...as will I when receiving him. Silent tops are a put off...if my guy is making no noise at all, I consider it a lack of real interest.
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There's no one answer here...best I can give you is my own personal view on it. I prefer to clean out before any fucking. It's because I don't want to run the risk of anything happens...might not be foolproof, but it's a complete mood killer for many tops when they see or smell any waste during fucking. I'd also say that your daily diet would have an effect as well. If you're eating lots of fiber and avoiding things such as fast-food or excessive amounts of coffee...you'll be less likely for any accidents. Now, that being said, there is a small subset of tops that actually prefer messy holes. These tops aren't the kind that interest me; but if you're not going to clean out, these may be your best option...they wont' get put off in the moment, when shit happens (literally).
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OH MY GOD, both of these! I'm willing to bank that the "watchers" are the bottoms-in-disguise. Basically, they know you have tops coming over and are doing the search work for them. When you're busy getting fucked by one, they are going to proposition any other top that shows for some side-action. And as far as the second one goes...I stop responding when I get the questions about load counts. I also pass by guys who explicitly state "I fuck sloppy holes" in their profile....these guys aren't going to meet because they will never be satisfied with whatever number I give them. They'd just assume head to the sauna instead. I suspect many of these are gifters-in-disguise; the types that will knowingly infect a sloppy hole then claim "it wasn't me" when said hole turns up with the syph / clap / ghon
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Here's a recent one from me: Guy showed as being an upcoming traveller to London. Exchanged a few introductory messages to gauge interest; all good there. He gets to London, messages me one day and said he wanted to meet up and play...but he was going to dinner with friends that night and didn't want to get sweaty. His alternate proposal? Come over while we sniff poppers and only do the verbal bits and jerk off. My response: "What about that would be interesting to me?" There were no further exchanges...
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What annoys you most about gay porn.
LetsPOZBreed replied to Barebackpiggy's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Obviously high participants....that glossed over look in their eyes while they make the same half-ass sound over and over again. Guys putting no effort into it; phoning it in just for a paycheck. Participants who clearly do not click with one another (see above for the side-effect of that) I'm not into feet, so I couldn't care less about socks being kept on...but for God's sake, TAKE YOUR SHIRT OFF! -
My response was no response. It's not really nice, but I could have said much worse... I just don't respect guys who propose I jeopardise my heath just so they can have a fap.
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How to stop bareback cheating? (no judgment)
LetsPOZBreed replied to Rendezvousnow's topic in General Discussion
May I ask why these are not being considered as options? What part of your original concern are you more worried about: the barebacking, or the cheating? I'd suggest you think of them as two separate things. If it's the cheating part that's really got your gears, then understand what your underlying concern is...do you WANT to have the ability to be sexual with persons other than your committed partner? I suspect you're trying to go a bit puritanical, and disregarding and negating legitimate solutions. Sure, they may not conform to Western "norms" of relationships, but that doesn't make them invalid. -
About to cheat bare on my man, should I?
LetsPOZBreed replied to detour's topic in General Discussion
Can I express a bit of a pet peeve here? Apologies to come across rather abrassive, but something bothers me about these types of posts. I'm failing to grasp the rationale for asking our "permission" to cheat. This is not the right question to be asking us. I don't want to be responsible for encouraging this type of behaviour, and I know many of my fellow BZ bretheren feel similarly about this. I'm not going to answer the original poster's question, but I would prefer to offer some advice: speak to your long-term partner about this. I know you might be scared of his reaction, but believe me when I say you're due for a much worse reaction when the secretiveness surfaces. If you really require anyone's permission, it's going to be his - not ours. -
Here's the thing for me. I've had guys do poz talk during sex (even when we're both undetectable and there's no real reason for one of us to infect the other). In the right moment, I love the verbal and role play. But that's precisely it for me...it's ROLE PLAY. I use this screen name on a few sites, and you can imagine the crazy replies I get. I'll hear from guys asking me pointe-blank "I hope you're not ruining your status by taking all those toxic meds". I had another one recently just state: Why are you wasting your status by being undetectable...you should be infecting as much as possible. My problem with it comes from others in the community telling ME how I should go about living my status. I've considered changing this screen name before, as it can be a bit much on occasion. But I actually decided to keep it....why? It strangely invites guys to be a bit more upfront and honest with me about what they're after. If that is to enjoy the verbal role play aspect without actually infecting anyone - great. If that means some guy wants to fuck and load me with his "unknown" or "do not care" status; I know to stay away. Similar to you, @NWUSHorny, I've not (knowingly) infected anyone. I'm not seeking to change that either.
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Might sound silly, but here it goes.... People who know me intimately know that I'm a huge underwear fanatic. I have tons of different pairs, some of which I've owned for years. A couple of the older ones are sadly getting to the stage where they are quite literally coming apart at the seams. I know I'll need to get rid of them, but thinking I'd want to give them a proper send off. Want to find a guy I trust enough, but hoping to play out a rough fuck scenario. Have my top man come over and put on a ski mask...find me on the bed wearing some of these derelict skivvies. He sneaks up on me and gets me all nervous...I put up a good fight, but he is much too powerful for me. The kicker is that he grabs hold of where the briefs have started to come undone and just rips them on me. Tearing them to shreds to expose my hole and ass. This would be the kicker for me to surrender, as I'm now totally exposed and vulnarable. From here, my top just has his way with me....enters me, gets verbal, could even throw in some condom-to-bareback play. Make it a proper rough fuck. Afterwards, he takes a photo or two of me in the ripped pants...hole completely wrecked. I think it's a good way to give them a proper send off, and could possibly even keep them as a souvenir to what is (hopefully) a hot memory!
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I'll tell him how good he is, and how I don't want him to stop. Yes, it's his cock doing the work inside me, but he's controlling HOW it's working me over. It's like it's been said above...I want my guy to know that I want him, and that he's more than just his penis. That being said, though, you've gotta be really fucking me good for me to start saying these things to you. If I'm not saying this, or begging for it eve harder...you're more than likely not doing a good job.
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I've done it, though usually it's guys that are also on other sites or apps (such as bbrt). Wouldn't necessarily say it's been directly from here, though.
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I'll concede this one. It's not impossible; I guess I was trying (badly) to make the point that it's not even remotely commonplace. And in keeping with the supporting our fellot bottoms, I must congratulate you on a load count like that! Certainly beats my daily record by a longshot!
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This is where it's helpful for bottoms to set realistic expectations. A darkroom scene in real life is not going to be the same as the parade of TIM gangbang scenes we all watch in the privacy of our own homes. Let's be honest...we bottoms all want our "Dawson fantasy" (I doubt I'll need to explain what that means). But the realities are that you'll never truly be in a situation with that kind of lopsided top-to-bottom ratio in favour of tops. The tops also aren't getting paid to fuck and breed me to ensure that I'm the one actually getting bred in the end. I also generally focus less on the load during a fuck these days...sure, I may want it, but it's more about getting you there. If a top is giving me an amazing fuck, I don't want him to stop. And certainly don't want him to cum too fast. If that means he has to leave me for a bit; that's fine. If he comes back for more, even better!
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This line stood out to me. My educated guess, from having been in many darkrooms myself, is that guy #1 was really after your load. Once you've moved on to the next guy, he felt he's missed his chance and that the other bottom will receive what he apparently desperately wants from you. I see this type of behaviour with darkroom newbies. They have the fantasy that eery top that fucks them will breed them; this is far from the actual case. Many guys - especially older ones that frequent these spots - are good for only one load in an evening. Once he's cum, he's spent. It means that I'll get fucked by quite a few men before getting my first load of the night...and even then, I'd say that the fuck to bred ratio is quite low by the end of the evening (or early in the next morning).
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I'll say that the fucks with intimacy are the ones that are the most memorable. The ones I remember and jerk off to years later. It's just that it's more of a connection than the usual mediocre pump-and-dumps. I used to not require it, but nowdays I can't get into a fuck without any level of intimacy being present.
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recommendations Recommendations on Bathhouse Bag?
LetsPOZBreed replied to Rhu's topic in General Discussion
I've used a stretchy armband. Something that fits snugly around my bicep, but can stretch out a little (like a rubberband) to hold both my poppers and lube. I always know where they are, can always FEEL where they are, and it's easy access. I also can sometimes stuff the poppers and lube into my socks. Depends on the venue, and if they allow you to wear any clothing. -
What's your favourite position to take a guys load?
LetsPOZBreed replied to a topic in General Discussion
I once told a guy that I wanted him to "look me in the eyes when you tell me you're breeding me". It doesn't quite have to be that verbal, either. I just like watching my tops face as he gets close. I like for my top to see the look of joy on my face as I can tell he is about to pump me full of his jizz. And there's that moment during (and even after) the ropes erupt that is incredibly bonding. -
This one SO, SO much! Personally, I think it's a lack of respect for the guy you've invited over (or agreed to meet). Effectively, this is a bottom "hedging his bets" in case the initial guy is not up to his expectations. This one too. Reminds me of a time I got fucked (REALLY good) by this guy at one of the London saunas. He did breed me...about 30 min later...and we sat together afterwards to catch our breath. Told me that he liked that my reactions to him fucking me was just to let my moans just go with it. Said that when bottoms beg him to cum that it's actually a put-off. I get not every top is going to be like this, but I've actually gotten to the point of telling potential tops that I message that I'm not interested in begging for your cum unless and until YOU say it's okay to do so. In a way, I think both of these comments go hand-in-hand. As a bottom, my job is to respect and appreciate the guy that is fucking me. I'm not interested in his cum or his mates....I'm interested in HIM and the way he fucks me. Anything in excess of that is a bonus, but not something I'm going to be asking (or begging) for.
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I think there's always been those in our community that are a bit scared of the whole leather/rubber thing. They don't understand it, and don't want to understand it. There are those in our community that turn their noses at any kind of fetish (including those that don't involve gear at all). I also don't think this type of judgement is anything recent; though you're prob more apt to hear it said out loud in a public forum (as you did). I get them not wanting to go because it'll be incredibly busy; I don't get this whole polishing a turd thing. Are they implying that those in leather are somehow doing this to mask imperfections? Do they believe it's the only way those guys would get any action? Honestly, I haven't really done the leather and rubber thing...but I've never passed judgement on it; I have close friends who are into it, and they're perfectly happy doing so. Far be it from me to tell anyone how to enjoy their sexuality.
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I've gone back and forth over the years. I didn't like bottoming initially; thought it was just not my thing, but in later years found out that condoms were uncomfortable in my hole. So, before my bareback exclusing phase in my mid-20's, I was pretty much about a 90% top...I knew that raw was the only way I could enjoy bottoming, but was too afraid to go full-on barebacking then. it was actually a vers fuckbud that convinced me to go raw with him...because it wasn't our first time, I agreed. Felt great, and realised that this is what I really wanted to do. So, I gave up condoms altogether at the age of 25. I'd say my initial years as a barebacker, I was pretty much vers...I actually loved going to group parties where I would give the lucky bottom the first load; would get off on each guy after that using that as lube. I didn't really get to the point of being an almost total bottom until after becoming poz. But that was 10 years ago, and I don't think there's really any turning back from here.
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My red-flags for in-person encounters: 1. Attempting to reach for my cock when I'm wearing a jockstrap or ass-less pants. This is not the part of my body that I'm offering to the masses, so back off. 2. Chatting me up without the clear intention of fucking me in the very immediate term. Make your move...you're only wasting both our time. 3. Clearly trying to do something I'm not comfortable with. If I ask you to stop trying to force my head down to deep throat you, I will walk off if you attempt it again. 4. If you can clearly see that I'm locked eye-to-eye in gaze with the guy fucking me...now is not the time to try and intervene. You can have your turn when we're done. Don't ruin our moment just to try and get yours.
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Guy thinks men are all honest about their status
LetsPOZBreed replied to BareYorkshire's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
Can't say I was expecting a 1950's TV reference on this site, but there ya go! But back to the topic at hand... Look, I was told by an older close friend of mine many years ago that I should just assume any raw cock inside me is poz. When he first took me to the bathhouse in New Orleans, he told me straight up: "if you get bred, you're gonna be pozzed". Did I actually get pozzed then?...no. But this was long before PrEP, so it was a statistical likelihood. A guy's chances nowdays are going to be different due to the prevalence of PrEP (in first world countries, at least) and the proportion of undetectable guys out there. If anything, this guy might not get pozzed with HIV, but it wouldn't surprise me at all if he contracted one or more other STI's instead. If you've put out there that guys aren't completely honest about their status in some cases, that's about the extent of what you can do. You've put the facts out there; you can hope it doesn't fall on deaf ears, but it might. This guy might find out the hard way that you were telling him the truth, but prior to that - he'll only hear what he wants to hear. It's a shame, but that's the truth. -
Ok, so here's mine. A few have been listed already, but it just shows how pervasive some of this stuff is. Applies to the apps...I can come up with a different list for in-person meets and sex club encounters. 1. The proverbial "race to the bottom" from a vers or vers/top guy. I'm upfront that I rarely fuck an ass nowadays, but still get this one more times than I should. 2. I've been clean and sober for a decade now. I can pick up on the subtle words one uses to imply that some form of drug use is expected: "long/all-night session", "chilled meets", etc. Actually had this one happen to me yesterday...asked the guy to tell me what he meant by a long session and he faffed on about "whatever you think it means". I guarantee you that if you leave it to me to fill in the blanks, I won't fill them in the way you'd want. 3. (Speaking for myself as a bareback bottom): "How many loads do you have?" It's hard enough finding one good top, much less finding enough tops in one day to say the number of loads you'd want. In my experience, any number I give won't be high enough...he'll always ask if I can get more for him. 4. In a similar vein to #3, the "can you bring any mates". Happened when I used to top more, but this always annoyed me. If I had good top mates, they'd be fucking ME, not YOU. 5. "There's ## of horny guys here looking for more"...see #2 above. This is a tell-tale sign of drug usage. If you're all horny, you should be doing something about it amongst yourselves. The only reason you're not is because no one can get hard. 6. Assuming my screen name (same one as on here) implies that, by default, I should totally devolve into the worst of our community (such as actual bug-sharers - such as deliberate infection of STI's other than HIV). I have a very particular fetish around verbal play, yes...but I draw the line at further jeopardising my own health.
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While in theory, they could round up fellow bottoms...they won't. Tops are in short supply in many cities, so bottoms tend to be selfish.
