LetsPOZBreed
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I don't get this wanking into an open mouth. Even in porn meant to be about "cum swallowers", half the load gets on the cheek or nose or wherever. I can't really know if my top is a shooter or dribber to know where it's going to go if I gave it even the slightest open space. Maybe I'm a bit strange for thinking this, but I find that cum loses a bit of its taste when it hits the open air. There's a certain warmth about it when it goes directly from his balls to the back of my tongue.
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I've debated off and on about putting my number on the Cumpdump network. I think the idea is a good one, but my work schedule means I'd have to plan on a top coming over (something that the rules of the network frown upon); I can't really be ready every moment. Also, I'm now at a point where i want to meet potential regular playmates. The last few hookups I've had did nothing for me....lack of connection, for one reason or the other, and it's left me disappointed. I'd say in London it would be relatively easy, but I've even put out the idea of starting a local small group that would get together regularly for playing; that post got a parade of bottoms only (which meant very lop-sided numbers) and also a parade of guys in far flung locations putting "wish I were closer" (which is very unhelpful). I gave up on that idea, unfortunately. If I did put my number out there, I'd be mindful that I'd probably get messages from other bottoms or other guys stating "if I were closer..."
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I haven't been. It's not actually affiliated with the Fickstutenmarkt parties that are in Germany/Netherlands, as it's not on their website; and the mailing list for Fickstutenmarkt explicitly states that locations not on their website are "copy cat" events. I thought about it a few years ago, but I have body image issues that means that I didn't want to travel and be turned away. Also, with the prevalence of Prep, it means that the red hood mares (what I'd be) are becoming too abundant. It's supply/demand economics in a sexual setting...back when red hoods weren't as commonplace, it would be something that set me apart from the otehr mares and attract the type of tops that I'd be interested in. Now I, a bottom in my 40s, am in direct competition from any twinks and Muscle Marys that have now started their Prep regimen. So, I think I'm probably past wanting to do it now, and I'm okay with that. Besides, I like the one-on-one connection these days, and that's not quite something I would get there.
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Is being poz as exciting once you get it?
LetsPOZBreed replied to a topic in What's It Like To Be Poz?
I'm more sexually liberated since becoming poz. Tended to go more into my kink and fetish side, and I actually don't regret that part of it. Healthwise? It made me change things about my day-to-day life and get rid of unhealthy habits. So, that's a positive. It does have it's detractions, though Keeping up with the daily meds. I don't really have trouble doing this, but it's part of the deal. Plus there's all the bloodwork you have to do every 3 to 6 months (depending on where you live) if you're undetectable - more frequent if you're detectable. Also, I notice that even hooking up online can be a bit of a challenge to some degree. Depends on the site, I guess, but being a bareback bottom means that I get offers to get "chemmed up", "slammed", or invited to sesisons with drug use...I gave all that up after converting, so no thanks. Also, the guys on some sites that freely state their status as "don't care" or "don't know"...I'm not really interested in jeopardising my health just for them to get a quick nut. And before I get the comment...YES, I get that STI's are a risk of barebacking; I fully accept this risk. I ascribe to the practice of risk reduction, though. There's a big difference between taking that risk versus walking into a situation where it's all but a certainty. If a guy KNOWINGLY has a treatable STI, I'm not interested in taking his cock or load. -
Not quite where I thought this was going, but still annoying nonetheless (and I've had this happen to me as well). Where I *thought* you were going was guys who are fucking you and saying they are "almost there" and then still fuck you for 10 min and say "almost there".
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Feel it Shooting in Your Mouth?
LetsPOZBreed replied to rstone1964's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
I'd say that many of the factors are similar to the ones where you'd be able to feel it shooting in your ass. Would be volume and intensity. Even if you didn't feel it actually shooting, though, you'd def feel the taste of it. Here also, you're in a bit of a unique position; in theory you could have your eyes open and might even be able to see your partners cock pulsating as it unloads...If I know I'm in a situation where I'm going to swallow, this is my go-to. -
Chances of being pozzed not on PrEP
LetsPOZBreed replied to BiCurious100's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
Being a math ans statistics nut, these numbers intrigue me. Interesting to note (though not surprising) that one is much more infectious in the first 8-12 weeks of infection...slightly better than a 1 in 3 chance. Does explain why most people likely get pozzed from a partner that doesn't actually know it yet (or only recently found out). Outside of the acute infection period, though, I'm surprised the anal receptive number is so low. Would think it's greater than just 1.43%, but I'm sure these people have the emprical data to back that number up. -
Is there a middle ground here? I prefer FB's, but also love the exhilaration I get from a new guy (assuming it goes well). There are some more intense sexual scenarios that I'm into, details better reserved for the fetish sections, and I just don't have a comfort level with a stranger on a first-time meet to even propose any of that stuff. A regular FB is someone where we could eventually build up to both mine (and his) more darker and stranger fetishes.
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My preference is for verbal tops...but verbal can be a bit tenuous. One wrong thing being said, and it can kill the entire moment. I'd say if it were my first time with a guy, I'd prefer he keep to his moans and grunts...as will I when receiving him. Silent tops are a put off...if my guy is making no noise at all, I consider it a lack of real interest.
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There's no one answer here...best I can give you is my own personal view on it. I prefer to clean out before any fucking. It's because I don't want to run the risk of anything happens...might not be foolproof, but it's a complete mood killer for many tops when they see or smell any waste during fucking. I'd also say that your daily diet would have an effect as well. If you're eating lots of fiber and avoiding things such as fast-food or excessive amounts of coffee...you'll be less likely for any accidents. Now, that being said, there is a small subset of tops that actually prefer messy holes. These tops aren't the kind that interest me; but if you're not going to clean out, these may be your best option...they wont' get put off in the moment, when shit happens (literally).
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OH MY GOD, both of these! I'm willing to bank that the "watchers" are the bottoms-in-disguise. Basically, they know you have tops coming over and are doing the search work for them. When you're busy getting fucked by one, they are going to proposition any other top that shows for some side-action. And as far as the second one goes...I stop responding when I get the questions about load counts. I also pass by guys who explicitly state "I fuck sloppy holes" in their profile....these guys aren't going to meet because they will never be satisfied with whatever number I give them. They'd just assume head to the sauna instead. I suspect many of these are gifters-in-disguise; the types that will knowingly infect a sloppy hole then claim "it wasn't me" when said hole turns up with the syph / clap / ghon
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Here's a recent one from me: Guy showed as being an upcoming traveller to London. Exchanged a few introductory messages to gauge interest; all good there. He gets to London, messages me one day and said he wanted to meet up and play...but he was going to dinner with friends that night and didn't want to get sweaty. His alternate proposal? Come over while we sniff poppers and only do the verbal bits and jerk off. My response: "What about that would be interesting to me?" There were no further exchanges...
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What annoys you most about gay porn.
LetsPOZBreed replied to Barebackpiggy's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Obviously high participants....that glossed over look in their eyes while they make the same half-ass sound over and over again. Guys putting no effort into it; phoning it in just for a paycheck. Participants who clearly do not click with one another (see above for the side-effect of that) I'm not into feet, so I couldn't care less about socks being kept on...but for God's sake, TAKE YOUR SHIRT OFF! -
My response was no response. It's not really nice, but I could have said much worse... I just don't respect guys who propose I jeopardise my heath just so they can have a fap.
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How to stop bareback cheating? (no judgment)
LetsPOZBreed replied to Rendezvousnow's topic in General Discussion
May I ask why these are not being considered as options? What part of your original concern are you more worried about: the barebacking, or the cheating? I'd suggest you think of them as two separate things. If it's the cheating part that's really got your gears, then understand what your underlying concern is...do you WANT to have the ability to be sexual with persons other than your committed partner? I suspect you're trying to go a bit puritanical, and disregarding and negating legitimate solutions. Sure, they may not conform to Western "norms" of relationships, but that doesn't make them invalid. -
About to cheat bare on my man, should I?
LetsPOZBreed replied to detour's topic in General Discussion
Can I express a bit of a pet peeve here? Apologies to come across rather abrassive, but something bothers me about these types of posts. I'm failing to grasp the rationale for asking our "permission" to cheat. This is not the right question to be asking us. I don't want to be responsible for encouraging this type of behaviour, and I know many of my fellow BZ bretheren feel similarly about this. I'm not going to answer the original poster's question, but I would prefer to offer some advice: speak to your long-term partner about this. I know you might be scared of his reaction, but believe me when I say you're due for a much worse reaction when the secretiveness surfaces. If you really require anyone's permission, it's going to be his - not ours. -
Here's the thing for me. I've had guys do poz talk during sex (even when we're both undetectable and there's no real reason for one of us to infect the other). In the right moment, I love the verbal and role play. But that's precisely it for me...it's ROLE PLAY. I use this screen name on a few sites, and you can imagine the crazy replies I get. I'll hear from guys asking me pointe-blank "I hope you're not ruining your status by taking all those toxic meds". I had another one recently just state: Why are you wasting your status by being undetectable...you should be infecting as much as possible. My problem with it comes from others in the community telling ME how I should go about living my status. I've considered changing this screen name before, as it can be a bit much on occasion. But I actually decided to keep it....why? It strangely invites guys to be a bit more upfront and honest with me about what they're after. If that is to enjoy the verbal role play aspect without actually infecting anyone - great. If that means some guy wants to fuck and load me with his "unknown" or "do not care" status; I know to stay away. Similar to you, @NWUSHorny, I've not (knowingly) infected anyone. I'm not seeking to change that either.
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Might sound silly, but here it goes.... People who know me intimately know that I'm a huge underwear fanatic. I have tons of different pairs, some of which I've owned for years. A couple of the older ones are sadly getting to the stage where they are quite literally coming apart at the seams. I know I'll need to get rid of them, but thinking I'd want to give them a proper send off. Want to find a guy I trust enough, but hoping to play out a rough fuck scenario. Have my top man come over and put on a ski mask...find me on the bed wearing some of these derelict skivvies. He sneaks up on me and gets me all nervous...I put up a good fight, but he is much too powerful for me. The kicker is that he grabs hold of where the briefs have started to come undone and just rips them on me. Tearing them to shreds to expose my hole and ass. This would be the kicker for me to surrender, as I'm now totally exposed and vulnarable. From here, my top just has his way with me....enters me, gets verbal, could even throw in some condom-to-bareback play. Make it a proper rough fuck. Afterwards, he takes a photo or two of me in the ripped pants...hole completely wrecked. I think it's a good way to give them a proper send off, and could possibly even keep them as a souvenir to what is (hopefully) a hot memory!
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I'll tell him how good he is, and how I don't want him to stop. Yes, it's his cock doing the work inside me, but he's controlling HOW it's working me over. It's like it's been said above...I want my guy to know that I want him, and that he's more than just his penis. That being said, though, you've gotta be really fucking me good for me to start saying these things to you. If I'm not saying this, or begging for it eve harder...you're more than likely not doing a good job.
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I've done it, though usually it's guys that are also on other sites or apps (such as bbrt). Wouldn't necessarily say it's been directly from here, though.
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I'll concede this one. It's not impossible; I guess I was trying (badly) to make the point that it's not even remotely commonplace. And in keeping with the supporting our fellot bottoms, I must congratulate you on a load count like that! Certainly beats my daily record by a longshot!
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This is where it's helpful for bottoms to set realistic expectations. A darkroom scene in real life is not going to be the same as the parade of TIM gangbang scenes we all watch in the privacy of our own homes. Let's be honest...we bottoms all want our "Dawson fantasy" (I doubt I'll need to explain what that means). But the realities are that you'll never truly be in a situation with that kind of lopsided top-to-bottom ratio in favour of tops. The tops also aren't getting paid to fuck and breed me to ensure that I'm the one actually getting bred in the end. I also generally focus less on the load during a fuck these days...sure, I may want it, but it's more about getting you there. If a top is giving me an amazing fuck, I don't want him to stop. And certainly don't want him to cum too fast. If that means he has to leave me for a bit; that's fine. If he comes back for more, even better!
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This line stood out to me. My educated guess, from having been in many darkrooms myself, is that guy #1 was really after your load. Once you've moved on to the next guy, he felt he's missed his chance and that the other bottom will receive what he apparently desperately wants from you. I see this type of behaviour with darkroom newbies. They have the fantasy that eery top that fucks them will breed them; this is far from the actual case. Many guys - especially older ones that frequent these spots - are good for only one load in an evening. Once he's cum, he's spent. It means that I'll get fucked by quite a few men before getting my first load of the night...and even then, I'd say that the fuck to bred ratio is quite low by the end of the evening (or early in the next morning).
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I'll say that the fucks with intimacy are the ones that are the most memorable. The ones I remember and jerk off to years later. It's just that it's more of a connection than the usual mediocre pump-and-dumps. I used to not require it, but nowdays I can't get into a fuck without any level of intimacy being present.
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recommendations Recommendations on Bathhouse Bag?
LetsPOZBreed replied to Rhu's topic in General Discussion
I've used a stretchy armband. Something that fits snugly around my bicep, but can stretch out a little (like a rubberband) to hold both my poppers and lube. I always know where they are, can always FEEL where they are, and it's easy access. I also can sometimes stuff the poppers and lube into my socks. Depends on the venue, and if they allow you to wear any clothing.
