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  1. LetsPOZBreed
    Never heard of this happening... I'm just not the kind who's into putting a wrapped cock in my mouth to even attempt this. But if a top wants to do some broken condom stealthing play....there are plenty of other ways to accomplish this feat. Prob more of a fetish thing that I'd reserve for discussing in the Fetish forum, though.
  2. LetsPOZBreed
    To the original poster: you're asking us the wrong question. We're happy to give you advice (in addition to all of the previous posts on the various forums where we've given advice on this very point). But it's not up to any of us to tell you what kind of sexual being you are....and it's certainly not up to any of us to tell you what kind of sexual being you should be. What works for you may not work for me...and vice versa. But even if you're only planning on barebacking one-on-one, by all means consider PrEP. It's not a solution for STI's as others have said...but at least it largely protects you against HIV.
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    If I had to peg myself on the continuum above, I'd class myself as a "Bottom Vers" - but on the apps and websites that I use, I put versatile bottom. In my profile, I state that it takes a certain connection with a guy before I'm interested in topping...being on top isn't my go-to preference these days. Where I've been miffed before is when I'm talking to a potential top (vers-top, whatever) and at some point in the convo I mention how I'm not quite 100% bottom...then there's this sudden urge on his end to talk about how much he would love to take my load, and all semblence of "top-ism" from him has vanished. One of my big pet peeves on the apps/websites these days.
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    If it's been a while since I've been fucked by a guy, then yes...occasionally, I'll notice pink cum on my hole afterwards....I notice this because I have a weird thing of wanting to finger my hole after getting bred, want to feel just how wet it is (yes, I'm weird like that - no I don't apologise for it). If I'm getting regularly fucked, then it's less likely to happen.
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    The sex joints have become my go-to's for action last 7 or 8 years...once I slim back down a bit more, I think I might hit them up again. Honestly, I don't like when a guy comes over and he doesn't do anything to build my desire in the moment...not kissing falls under this, or coming over high, but also not making any sort of eye contact as well. My preferred position to get fucked is lying on my back with legs in the air for my man/men. I want to give them the pleasure of seeing me in pleasure...that feeling when I can tell that he's close and my face lights up with anticipation.
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    I wonder if the guys who do the "on the hole, then push it back in" got the idea from watching TIM porn. I know lots of us got some of our earlier ideas of gay sex based on what we would see in porn vids...I assume this is still the case (and wonder if I might start a thread about this specifically). To each his own, but personally, there's no better feeling of it being deep inside pumping every last drop. The bond that forms between partners when loads are shot deep and bareback is something that is unmatched in any other sexual act. Wasting any drop of it on the hole just makes things seem a bit broken...even unfinished.
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    I grew up in a very conservative area of the southern US. When I was in uni, I would get hit up by the "straight-curious" guys on the local gay chat room. A couple of them ended up being my fuckbuddies, which was nice. What made it work in these scenarios is that both of us had an understanding that the relationship was purely sexual...neither of us was looking to date the other. As a result, the sex was about the sex; some cases there was kissing, some not. Also, it was a good way to keep my sex life as private as possible and not have it bandied about town with the gossipy queens...my str8 sex mates didn't want this info out, and I wasn't about to advertise it and ruin whatever contacts I had. Sure, there were the odd cases of straight guys who were too paranoid and it just flopped (proverbially and literally)...but like any other bad hookup, we just left it and moved on. I can definitely see the benefit of it if you want a purely sexual relationship...but it's the kind of thing where you both need to have an agreement of what is on and off limits from the outset and stick to it.
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    Yeah..."bussy" would make me start hysterically laughing in bed and would ruin whatever moment we're having. I've always found that guys referring to my ass as a pussy doesn't work either. Maybe it was the way they said it, or the sound of their voice...just never worked. Admittedly, this has been a rare occurence, though and hasn't happened for a couple years. Cunt has been said to me a handful of times to; I'm not sure what it is, but if a very masculine type guy says that to me, it actually (weirdly?) has made me want to open up for him even more. But again...coming out of the wrong mouth, it just sounds a bit odd.
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    Also, the best bottoms I've fucked don't necessarily fit the chiseled Adonis-type (with maybe a couple exceptions here and there). Sexually, I like guys of differing qualities (legal age, race, body type, etc.) as it's more about the attitude than the physical side - within reason of course. The best bottoms are the ones who don't go around wearing this distinction on their sleeve. Personally, if I read in a guy's profile about him being the best [insert sexual act here]; my own experience tells me that I'll be disappointed. The best bottoms are the guys who are able to peak my curiosity - somehow telling me they are a good bottom without them actually saying they are a good bottom. Sounds counterintutive, but hopefully that made sense...
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    Not that I ever call it "pussy" (either mine or someone else's), but what has made guys stand out for me in the past is this. Any bottom that can make *me* (an admitted vers bttm) want to repeatedly top him has got to have something good going on... - Agreed with @Ieatcumholes on the rhythm part. If your "pussy" is moving at a different speed to my thrusting, I quickly lose interest. You should be following *my* lead...not dictating yours. This also goes for bottoms who attempt to reposition me to something where I'm not able to thrust as comfortably and deeply as I want. - I don't really like bossy bottoms either. It's one thing if you tell me what you like before playing, but ordering me around is the quickest way of getting me to pull out and leave. - Be legitimately responsive to my actions. If you're too quiet when I'm fucking you, then I think you're not enjoying me; also this when a bottom does "fake moaning" that you see in professional porn. - Inside of a hole, my cock tends to be a bit of an intense squirter; much more than when I'm just jerking off. Also, I tend to stop at the point of the first shot so that my bottom can feel me throbbing. The best bottoms are the ones that genuinely respond to this and instinctively pull me in closer. It's the kind of thing that makes me feel "wanted", even if it's an anon session. I guess it's a bit of a personal preference, but I love it when my bottoms show a genuine interest in *me*. I'm not asking anyone to fall in love, but just let me know in some way that you're actually enjoying what I'm doing and that I'm not just another random cock in your hole. It's the kind of practice that I use when I bottom - really show my tops how much I want them fucking me - that keeps them coming back for more.
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    Thanks for the folllow back mate 🙂 

  12. LetsPOZBreed
    I don't mind being fingered, but I'm checking fingernails before letting that happen. I've had instances in the past where a rather unmanicured fingernail has made the whole thing painful, and it ruined the entire experience. Honestly, every bottom is different when it comes to if they want you to let them relax around you or not. Personally, if you're a newer top for me, then I want you to let me guide you inside me...once you're at a certain point, then you can take over. As I get to know a top over more sessions, though, I let him take that control from the get-go since he has a better idea of what sets me off. I wouldn't call shorter people a fetish, but how short are we talking, here? I'm over 6' tall, so most people are shorter than me 😄
  13. LetsPOZBreed
    I have, but honestly the quality of the cock is the same regardless of race. For me, playing with black guys (or any other race) is based on attraction...and BBC is no exception here, in my personal experience. I've had good BBC and bad BBC, just as I've had good and bad with any other type of guy.
  14. LetsPOZBreed
    This can be a bit touchy. Disappointed as you may be, I'd have to side with the host here. The anonymous rule may be what draws some of those guys there in the first place...if that's broken even once, then it reflects badly on the host. This would manifest as either (a), the great-sex guy you're talking about would never show again due to a violation of the anonymous rule, or (b) word of mouth about this rule being violated may prevent other guys from showing at groups sessions in the future. Main reason for the anonymous rules in these setting is that you don't really know about someone's "situation" outside of the group. They could be partnered, married (incl. to a female), closeted, or anything like that...so even if you asked the guy directly, there's no guarantee he'd be comfortable about giving you his info anyway. Only thing I'd suggest here is to attend the next group session held by this same host. There's a chance you may run into this guy again, at which point you can ask him directly if he'd be comfortable exchanging info.
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    Mendicant needs to be made our word of 2022. Kudos to you @BruxoCub for bringing it to the forum! I'm also annoyed (but not wasting any stress over it) at the point that @AlwaysOpen makes. The London profiles are similar in that anyone not classified as strictly Top is probably a bottom in disguise. Mine is versatile bottom...which is accurate; I do enjoy topping, but I only top guys I've developed a proper sexual connection with over many sessions. I just can't do it to anyone. It's also strange in that when I bottom, I'm totally into the gamut of anon/darkrooms to eye contact - but put me on top, and I can't do the anon bottom thing anymore...I want to look my guy eye-to-eye while I pound away. I also love giving a guy head - even guys I meet from BBRT. But I'm pretty upfront with my tops that I want their load in my ass, and they should stop me sucking them if they get even remotely close.
  16. LetsPOZBreed
    Showing my age here, but I used to get straight cock off of internet chat rooms back in the late 90's. I'm talking the more local Yahoo and MSN ones; occasionally it would be on gay.com back when you didn't really need to create a whole profile, but as time went on that got less and less.
  17. LetsPOZBreed
    I don't mind pubes. But there's bushy...and then there's BUSHY. Personally, I have to trim mine every so often as my pubes seem to grow faster than the hair on my own head these days (thanks aging!). I like a reasonable amount on my guys too; a stray hair during oral here and there isn't the end of the world, but I don't want to be visiting Tarzan in the jungle every time I deepthroat.
  18. LetsPOZBreed
    Agreed that this is a tough one. I've been at a group party once where I was on my knees taking turns sucking off a couple guys in a corner. There were men elsewhere in the room, and at some point you could get the very distinct waft that someone hadn't cleaned out. I don't think I ever saw a hotel room full of naked men clear out so fast in my life. It's the kind of thing where this was clearly just a lack of preparation on the part of one guy...and it killed the whole moment for everyone. On the other hand, when I was much younger and inexperienced, I didn't really have a douching regimen (I know, I'm totally bad). Even on the off chance I did, it was relatively minor. Douching is obviously a pain...I don't want to go through the whole process if I'm unsure if I'll actually get fucked that night. Even when I do, I've had some very disappointing tops that made me think the whole thing was a waste. But honestly, I'll go through with it if I have even the inclination that something might happen that evening because I'm not really a fan of the alternative. Maybe that's just a personal preference on my part...
  19. LetsPOZBreed
    I generally don't judge anyone's personal preferences. If a guy is only into sucking off a guy and swallowing his load, more power to him. -HOWEVER- BBRT is by no means the forum for that. The purpose of that site is to find someone that is wanting to put his cock inside you without a condom (i.e. "bareback" or "BB"). Or you're looking for a bottom that will let you fuck him that way. Oral-only is not the kind of thing that should be condoned on BBRT; there are other apps for that, I'm sure.
  20. LetsPOZBreed
    Look, I'm now in my early 40's and no longer expect to get the level of action I used to get in uni. I'm totally fine with that, though. I find that the guys who do hit me up on the apps/BBRT that are into guys my age will invariably do or say something else that completely puts me off: drug use, asking me to do fetishes that I'm not into, asking me if I'd take a "med holiday" so that they can fuck a toxic poz guy. Am I disapopinted I don't get as much sex as I'd like to have? Surely yes. These days, though, I'm more interested in quality, so I'm much more content in waiting for a GOOD experience and not just the NEXT one. Personal opinion there. Prob doesn't work the same for everyone; just the thing that works for me.
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    I don't know about community-accepted nicknames, but selfish/lazy/boring all come to mind 😄
  22. LetsPOZBreed
    As far as front desk people go (and this is from knowing a few in the industry over the years). They don't necessarily have a quick way of knowing whether or not your're a guest. In theory that person could have checked in when a different person (or persons) was on shift...so, unless you're acting particularly suspicious, most just nod and let you on your way. By the time you leave a little while later, you'll have done your deed...what's the point of accusing you of something then? I've actually gone to a few group parties over the years where there was all indoor access - I never had an issue once getting to the actual hotel. It's totally fine; not ideal, but not really much to worry about. Where you might get into trouble with front desks, though... Be leery if it's a group party advertised (think BBRT) where the name of the hotel is given. I've had instances before where the hotel was mentioned in the ad - someone who got a little annoyed about their request not being accepted then called the hotel to report what was going on (a particularly bad novice here who also managed to put the room number out ther). The hotel then called the guy who booked the room (who by now had checked in) and threatened to make him leave.
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    I knew a guy in the US who planned sessions for his bottom buds about once a month. After I got to know him well enough, he explained the level of work involved in getting these things ready, so I agree with everything stated in this post. Also, appreciate @rawislaw87 for putting this thread out there. One bit of advice I was also given back then that I didn't see in this post is to potentially have one of your mates be there in a bit of a supervisory capacity. If I'm going to be blindfolded, then I can't really have eyes on everything going on in the room while I'm getting fucked - would be good to have someone be my eyes for me. This may put off some of the more skittish tops, I'll admit, but it just gives me a level of comfort for my own safety as well.
  24. LetsPOZBreed
    Yeah, I like one-on-one with tops who can take a while to cum - so long as they keep things interesting. Different paces/intensity, good eye contact, etc. I just don't want to be bored.
  25. LetsPOZBreed
    Thank you for your reply and input. This also goes back to another post of mine in this thread about being careful about placing oneself in a risky situation. Personally, if I'm going to be in a place where I might be in a sling (or even restrained in general), I make sure I take a buddy along with me. I need another person there to intervene on my behalf if I'm put in a position where I can't do it on my own. Prob not the kind of thing everyone might do, but at least I have someone around who knows what my limits are.

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