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  1. LetsPOZBreed
    I once told a guy that I wanted him to "look me in the eyes when you tell me you're breeding me". It doesn't quite have to be that verbal, either. I just like watching my tops face as he gets close. I like for my top to see the look of joy on my face as I can tell he is about to pump me full of his jizz. And there's that moment during (and even after) the ropes erupt that is incredibly bonding.
  2. LetsPOZBreed
    This one SO, SO much! Personally, I think it's a lack of respect for the guy you've invited over (or agreed to meet). Effectively, this is a bottom "hedging his bets" in case the initial guy is not up to his expectations. This one too. Reminds me of a time I got fucked (REALLY good) by this guy at one of the London saunas. He did breed me...about 30 min later...and we sat together afterwards to catch our breath. Told me that he liked that my reactions to him fucking me was just to let my moans just go with it. Said that when bottoms beg him to cum that it's actually a put-off. I get not every top is going to be like this, but I've actually gotten to the point of telling potential tops that I message that I'm not interested in begging for your cum unless and until YOU say it's okay to do so. In a way, I think both of these comments go hand-in-hand. As a bottom, my job is to respect and appreciate the guy that is fucking me. I'm not interested in his cum or his mates....I'm interested in HIM and the way he fucks me. Anything in excess of that is a bonus, but not something I'm going to be asking (or begging) for.
  3. LetsPOZBreed
    I think there's always been those in our community that are a bit scared of the whole leather/rubber thing. They don't understand it, and don't want to understand it. There are those in our community that turn their noses at any kind of fetish (including those that don't involve gear at all). I also don't think this type of judgement is anything recent; though you're prob more apt to hear it said out loud in a public forum (as you did). I get them not wanting to go because it'll be incredibly busy; I don't get this whole polishing a turd thing. Are they implying that those in leather are somehow doing this to mask imperfections? Do they believe it's the only way those guys would get any action? Honestly, I haven't really done the leather and rubber thing...but I've never passed judgement on it; I have close friends who are into it, and they're perfectly happy doing so. Far be it from me to tell anyone how to enjoy their sexuality.
  4. LetsPOZBreed
    I've gone back and forth over the years. I didn't like bottoming initially; thought it was just not my thing, but in later years found out that condoms were uncomfortable in my hole. So, before my bareback exclusing phase in my mid-20's, I was pretty much about a 90% top...I knew that raw was the only way I could enjoy bottoming, but was too afraid to go full-on barebacking then. it was actually a vers fuckbud that convinced me to go raw with him...because it wasn't our first time, I agreed. Felt great, and realised that this is what I really wanted to do. So, I gave up condoms altogether at the age of 25. I'd say my initial years as a barebacker, I was pretty much vers...I actually loved going to group parties where I would give the lucky bottom the first load; would get off on each guy after that using that as lube. I didn't really get to the point of being an almost total bottom until after becoming poz. But that was 10 years ago, and I don't think there's really any turning back from here.
  5. LetsPOZBreed
    My red-flags for in-person encounters: 1. Attempting to reach for my cock when I'm wearing a jockstrap or ass-less pants. This is not the part of my body that I'm offering to the masses, so back off. 2. Chatting me up without the clear intention of fucking me in the very immediate term. Make your move...you're only wasting both our time. 3. Clearly trying to do something I'm not comfortable with. If I ask you to stop trying to force my head down to deep throat you, I will walk off if you attempt it again. 4. If you can clearly see that I'm locked eye-to-eye in gaze with the guy fucking me...now is not the time to try and intervene. You can have your turn when we're done. Don't ruin our moment just to try and get yours.
  6. LetsPOZBreed
    Can't say I was expecting a 1950's TV reference on this site, but there ya go! But back to the topic at hand... Look, I was told by an older close friend of mine many years ago that I should just assume any raw cock inside me is poz. When he first took me to the bathhouse in New Orleans, he told me straight up: "if you get bred, you're gonna be pozzed". Did I actually get pozzed then?...no. But this was long before PrEP, so it was a statistical likelihood. A guy's chances nowdays are going to be different due to the prevalence of PrEP (in first world countries, at least) and the proportion of undetectable guys out there. If anything, this guy might not get pozzed with HIV, but it wouldn't surprise me at all if he contracted one or more other STI's instead. If you've put out there that guys aren't completely honest about their status in some cases, that's about the extent of what you can do. You've put the facts out there; you can hope it doesn't fall on deaf ears, but it might. This guy might find out the hard way that you were telling him the truth, but prior to that - he'll only hear what he wants to hear. It's a shame, but that's the truth.
  7. LetsPOZBreed
    Ok, so here's mine. A few have been listed already, but it just shows how pervasive some of this stuff is. Applies to the apps...I can come up with a different list for in-person meets and sex club encounters. 1. The proverbial "race to the bottom" from a vers or vers/top guy. I'm upfront that I rarely fuck an ass nowadays, but still get this one more times than I should. 2. I've been clean and sober for a decade now. I can pick up on the subtle words one uses to imply that some form of drug use is expected: "long/all-night session", "chilled meets", etc. Actually had this one happen to me yesterday...asked the guy to tell me what he meant by a long session and he faffed on about "whatever you think it means". I guarantee you that if you leave it to me to fill in the blanks, I won't fill them in the way you'd want. 3. (Speaking for myself as a bareback bottom): "How many loads do you have?" It's hard enough finding one good top, much less finding enough tops in one day to say the number of loads you'd want. In my experience, any number I give won't be high enough...he'll always ask if I can get more for him. 4. In a similar vein to #3, the "can you bring any mates". Happened when I used to top more, but this always annoyed me. If I had good top mates, they'd be fucking ME, not YOU. 5. "There's ## of horny guys here looking for more"...see #2 above. This is a tell-tale sign of drug usage. If you're all horny, you should be doing something about it amongst yourselves. The only reason you're not is because no one can get hard. 6. Assuming my screen name (same one as on here) implies that, by default, I should totally devolve into the worst of our community (such as actual bug-sharers - such as deliberate infection of STI's other than HIV). I have a very particular fetish around verbal play, yes...but I draw the line at further jeopardising my own health.
  8. LetsPOZBreed
    While in theory, they could round up fellow bottoms...they won't. Tops are in short supply in many cities, so bottoms tend to be selfish.
  9. LetsPOZBreed
    Never heard of this happening... I'm just not the kind who's into putting a wrapped cock in my mouth to even attempt this. But if a top wants to do some broken condom stealthing play....there are plenty of other ways to accomplish this feat. Prob more of a fetish thing that I'd reserve for discussing in the Fetish forum, though.
  10. LetsPOZBreed
    To the original poster: you're asking us the wrong question. We're happy to give you advice (in addition to all of the previous posts on the various forums where we've given advice on this very point). But it's not up to any of us to tell you what kind of sexual being you are....and it's certainly not up to any of us to tell you what kind of sexual being you should be. What works for you may not work for me...and vice versa. But even if you're only planning on barebacking one-on-one, by all means consider PrEP. It's not a solution for STI's as others have said...but at least it largely protects you against HIV.
  11. LetsPOZBreed
    If I had to peg myself on the continuum above, I'd class myself as a "Bottom Vers" - but on the apps and websites that I use, I put versatile bottom. In my profile, I state that it takes a certain connection with a guy before I'm interested in topping...being on top isn't my go-to preference these days. Where I've been miffed before is when I'm talking to a potential top (vers-top, whatever) and at some point in the convo I mention how I'm not quite 100% bottom...then there's this sudden urge on his end to talk about how much he would love to take my load, and all semblence of "top-ism" from him has vanished. One of my big pet peeves on the apps/websites these days.
  12. LetsPOZBreed
    If it's been a while since I've been fucked by a guy, then yes...occasionally, I'll notice pink cum on my hole afterwards....I notice this because I have a weird thing of wanting to finger my hole after getting bred, want to feel just how wet it is (yes, I'm weird like that - no I don't apologise for it). If I'm getting regularly fucked, then it's less likely to happen.
  13. LetsPOZBreed
    The sex joints have become my go-to's for action last 7 or 8 years...once I slim back down a bit more, I think I might hit them up again. Honestly, I don't like when a guy comes over and he doesn't do anything to build my desire in the moment...not kissing falls under this, or coming over high, but also not making any sort of eye contact as well. My preferred position to get fucked is lying on my back with legs in the air for my man/men. I want to give them the pleasure of seeing me in pleasure...that feeling when I can tell that he's close and my face lights up with anticipation.
  14. LetsPOZBreed
    I wonder if the guys who do the "on the hole, then push it back in" got the idea from watching TIM porn. I know lots of us got some of our earlier ideas of gay sex based on what we would see in porn vids...I assume this is still the case (and wonder if I might start a thread about this specifically). To each his own, but personally, there's no better feeling of it being deep inside pumping every last drop. The bond that forms between partners when loads are shot deep and bareback is something that is unmatched in any other sexual act. Wasting any drop of it on the hole just makes things seem a bit broken...even unfinished.
  15. LetsPOZBreed
    I grew up in a very conservative area of the southern US. When I was in uni, I would get hit up by the "straight-curious" guys on the local gay chat room. A couple of them ended up being my fuckbuddies, which was nice. What made it work in these scenarios is that both of us had an understanding that the relationship was purely sexual...neither of us was looking to date the other. As a result, the sex was about the sex; some cases there was kissing, some not. Also, it was a good way to keep my sex life as private as possible and not have it bandied about town with the gossipy queens...my str8 sex mates didn't want this info out, and I wasn't about to advertise it and ruin whatever contacts I had. Sure, there were the odd cases of straight guys who were too paranoid and it just flopped (proverbially and literally)...but like any other bad hookup, we just left it and moved on. I can definitely see the benefit of it if you want a purely sexual relationship...but it's the kind of thing where you both need to have an agreement of what is on and off limits from the outset and stick to it.
  16. LetsPOZBreed
    Yeah..."bussy" would make me start hysterically laughing in bed and would ruin whatever moment we're having. I've always found that guys referring to my ass as a pussy doesn't work either. Maybe it was the way they said it, or the sound of their voice...just never worked. Admittedly, this has been a rare occurence, though and hasn't happened for a couple years. Cunt has been said to me a handful of times to; I'm not sure what it is, but if a very masculine type guy says that to me, it actually (weirdly?) has made me want to open up for him even more. But again...coming out of the wrong mouth, it just sounds a bit odd.
  17. LetsPOZBreed
    Also, the best bottoms I've fucked don't necessarily fit the chiseled Adonis-type (with maybe a couple exceptions here and there). Sexually, I like guys of differing qualities (legal age, race, body type, etc.) as it's more about the attitude than the physical side - within reason of course. The best bottoms are the ones who don't go around wearing this distinction on their sleeve. Personally, if I read in a guy's profile about him being the best [insert sexual act here]; my own experience tells me that I'll be disappointed. The best bottoms are the guys who are able to peak my curiosity - somehow telling me they are a good bottom without them actually saying they are a good bottom. Sounds counterintutive, but hopefully that made sense...
  18. LetsPOZBreed
    Not that I ever call it "pussy" (either mine or someone else's), but what has made guys stand out for me in the past is this. Any bottom that can make *me* (an admitted vers bttm) want to repeatedly top him has got to have something good going on... - Agreed with @Ieatcumholes on the rhythm part. If your "pussy" is moving at a different speed to my thrusting, I quickly lose interest. You should be following *my* lead...not dictating yours. This also goes for bottoms who attempt to reposition me to something where I'm not able to thrust as comfortably and deeply as I want. - I don't really like bossy bottoms either. It's one thing if you tell me what you like before playing, but ordering me around is the quickest way of getting me to pull out and leave. - Be legitimately responsive to my actions. If you're too quiet when I'm fucking you, then I think you're not enjoying me; also this when a bottom does "fake moaning" that you see in professional porn. - Inside of a hole, my cock tends to be a bit of an intense squirter; much more than when I'm just jerking off. Also, I tend to stop at the point of the first shot so that my bottom can feel me throbbing. The best bottoms are the ones that genuinely respond to this and instinctively pull me in closer. It's the kind of thing that makes me feel "wanted", even if it's an anon session. I guess it's a bit of a personal preference, but I love it when my bottoms show a genuine interest in *me*. I'm not asking anyone to fall in love, but just let me know in some way that you're actually enjoying what I'm doing and that I'm not just another random cock in your hole. It's the kind of practice that I use when I bottom - really show my tops how much I want them fucking me - that keeps them coming back for more.
  19. LetsPOZBreed

    Thanks for the folllow back mate 🙂 

  20. LetsPOZBreed
    I don't mind being fingered, but I'm checking fingernails before letting that happen. I've had instances in the past where a rather unmanicured fingernail has made the whole thing painful, and it ruined the entire experience. Honestly, every bottom is different when it comes to if they want you to let them relax around you or not. Personally, if you're a newer top for me, then I want you to let me guide you inside me...once you're at a certain point, then you can take over. As I get to know a top over more sessions, though, I let him take that control from the get-go since he has a better idea of what sets me off. I wouldn't call shorter people a fetish, but how short are we talking, here? I'm over 6' tall, so most people are shorter than me 😄
  21. LetsPOZBreed
    I have, but honestly the quality of the cock is the same regardless of race. For me, playing with black guys (or any other race) is based on attraction...and BBC is no exception here, in my personal experience. I've had good BBC and bad BBC, just as I've had good and bad with any other type of guy.
  22. LetsPOZBreed
    This can be a bit touchy. Disappointed as you may be, I'd have to side with the host here. The anonymous rule may be what draws some of those guys there in the first place...if that's broken even once, then it reflects badly on the host. This would manifest as either (a), the great-sex guy you're talking about would never show again due to a violation of the anonymous rule, or (b) word of mouth about this rule being violated may prevent other guys from showing at groups sessions in the future. Main reason for the anonymous rules in these setting is that you don't really know about someone's "situation" outside of the group. They could be partnered, married (incl. to a female), closeted, or anything like that...so even if you asked the guy directly, there's no guarantee he'd be comfortable about giving you his info anyway. Only thing I'd suggest here is to attend the next group session held by this same host. There's a chance you may run into this guy again, at which point you can ask him directly if he'd be comfortable exchanging info.
  23. LetsPOZBreed
    Mendicant needs to be made our word of 2022. Kudos to you @BruxoCub for bringing it to the forum! I'm also annoyed (but not wasting any stress over it) at the point that @AlwaysOpen makes. The London profiles are similar in that anyone not classified as strictly Top is probably a bottom in disguise. Mine is versatile bottom...which is accurate; I do enjoy topping, but I only top guys I've developed a proper sexual connection with over many sessions. I just can't do it to anyone. It's also strange in that when I bottom, I'm totally into the gamut of anon/darkrooms to eye contact - but put me on top, and I can't do the anon bottom thing anymore...I want to look my guy eye-to-eye while I pound away. I also love giving a guy head - even guys I meet from BBRT. But I'm pretty upfront with my tops that I want their load in my ass, and they should stop me sucking them if they get even remotely close.
  24. LetsPOZBreed
    Showing my age here, but I used to get straight cock off of internet chat rooms back in the late 90's. I'm talking the more local Yahoo and MSN ones; occasionally it would be on gay.com back when you didn't really need to create a whole profile, but as time went on that got less and less.
  25. LetsPOZBreed
    I don't mind pubes. But there's bushy...and then there's BUSHY. Personally, I have to trim mine every so often as my pubes seem to grow faster than the hair on my own head these days (thanks aging!). I like a reasonable amount on my guys too; a stray hair during oral here and there isn't the end of the world, but I don't want to be visiting Tarzan in the jungle every time I deepthroat.

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