Jump to content

LetsPOZBreed

Senior Members
 View Profile  See their activity

  • Posts

    664

  • Joined

  • Last visited

 Content Type 

Everything posted by LetsPOZBreed

  1. LetsPOZBreed
    Agreed that this is a tough one. I've been at a group party once where I was on my knees taking turns sucking off a couple guys in a corner. There were men elsewhere in the room, and at some point you could get the very distinct waft that someone hadn't cleaned out. I don't think I ever saw a hotel room full of naked men clear out so fast in my life. It's the kind of thing where this was clearly just a lack of preparation on the part of one guy...and it killed the whole moment for everyone. On the other hand, when I was much younger and inexperienced, I didn't really have a douching regimen (I know, I'm totally bad). Even on the off chance I did, it was relatively minor. Douching is obviously a pain...I don't want to go through the whole process if I'm unsure if I'll actually get fucked that night. Even when I do, I've had some very disappointing tops that made me think the whole thing was a waste. But honestly, I'll go through with it if I have even the inclination that something might happen that evening because I'm not really a fan of the alternative. Maybe that's just a personal preference on my part...
  2. LetsPOZBreed
    I generally don't judge anyone's personal preferences. If a guy is only into sucking off a guy and swallowing his load, more power to him. -HOWEVER- BBRT is by no means the forum for that. The purpose of that site is to find someone that is wanting to put his cock inside you without a condom (i.e. "bareback" or "BB"). Or you're looking for a bottom that will let you fuck him that way. Oral-only is not the kind of thing that should be condoned on BBRT; there are other apps for that, I'm sure.
  3. LetsPOZBreed
    Look, I'm now in my early 40's and no longer expect to get the level of action I used to get in uni. I'm totally fine with that, though. I find that the guys who do hit me up on the apps/BBRT that are into guys my age will invariably do or say something else that completely puts me off: drug use, asking me to do fetishes that I'm not into, asking me if I'd take a "med holiday" so that they can fuck a toxic poz guy. Am I disapopinted I don't get as much sex as I'd like to have? Surely yes. These days, though, I'm more interested in quality, so I'm much more content in waiting for a GOOD experience and not just the NEXT one. Personal opinion there. Prob doesn't work the same for everyone; just the thing that works for me.
  4. LetsPOZBreed
    I don't know about community-accepted nicknames, but selfish/lazy/boring all come to mind 😄
  5. LetsPOZBreed
    As far as front desk people go (and this is from knowing a few in the industry over the years). They don't necessarily have a quick way of knowing whether or not your're a guest. In theory that person could have checked in when a different person (or persons) was on shift...so, unless you're acting particularly suspicious, most just nod and let you on your way. By the time you leave a little while later, you'll have done your deed...what's the point of accusing you of something then? I've actually gone to a few group parties over the years where there was all indoor access - I never had an issue once getting to the actual hotel. It's totally fine; not ideal, but not really much to worry about. Where you might get into trouble with front desks, though... Be leery if it's a group party advertised (think BBRT) where the name of the hotel is given. I've had instances before where the hotel was mentioned in the ad - someone who got a little annoyed about their request not being accepted then called the hotel to report what was going on (a particularly bad novice here who also managed to put the room number out ther). The hotel then called the guy who booked the room (who by now had checked in) and threatened to make him leave.
  6. LetsPOZBreed
    I knew a guy in the US who planned sessions for his bottom buds about once a month. After I got to know him well enough, he explained the level of work involved in getting these things ready, so I agree with everything stated in this post. Also, appreciate @rawislaw87 for putting this thread out there. One bit of advice I was also given back then that I didn't see in this post is to potentially have one of your mates be there in a bit of a supervisory capacity. If I'm going to be blindfolded, then I can't really have eyes on everything going on in the room while I'm getting fucked - would be good to have someone be my eyes for me. This may put off some of the more skittish tops, I'll admit, but it just gives me a level of comfort for my own safety as well.
  7. LetsPOZBreed
    Yeah, I like one-on-one with tops who can take a while to cum - so long as they keep things interesting. Different paces/intensity, good eye contact, etc. I just don't want to be bored.
  8. LetsPOZBreed
    Thank you for your reply and input. This also goes back to another post of mine in this thread about being careful about placing oneself in a risky situation. Personally, if I'm going to be in a place where I might be in a sling (or even restrained in general), I make sure I take a buddy along with me. I need another person there to intervene on my behalf if I'm put in a position where I can't do it on my own. Prob not the kind of thing everyone might do, but at least I have someone around who knows what my limits are.
  9. LetsPOZBreed
    Appreciate your compliment 🙂 Further to your point here, though, this is where we bottoms have to be extra careful. Unethical as it may be, trying to withdraw consent in the heat of the moment is very risky. There's always that possibility of a top not honouring this, and that's unfortunate. This is one main reason that I try and vet out any potential tops first (i.e. not just telling them my address after two messages); if something sets of my internal alarm bells, I back out and move on. Your consent only needs to be violated once before it sticks with you for the rest of your life.
  10. LetsPOZBreed
    I just prefer to do this at home before I head out. My thought is that no one wants to see or hear this being done at the venue of choice. I don't think most places have spaces for it anyway, though.
  11. LetsPOZBreed
    I've often wondered about this, but I would prefer to have one in addition to everything else. I top about 1/4 of the time lately, and I do enjoy it when I do...would hate to lose that ability; however, I would love to have the experience of having an actual vagina to see how it might be different to taking cock the way I usually do.
  12. LetsPOZBreed
    Hopefully not creating a false equivalence here (so apologies in advance), but it's a consent thing. Anyone (top, bottom, vers) can withdraw their consent at any time if they feel uncomfortable in the moment. That has to be respected. While I may be disappointed/annoyed that this consent was withdrawn right before loading the guy up, I honour that decision regardless. It's similar to when I do any fetish play and someone says the safe word during play - in the moment, something can feel a bit "too much". I'm not going to violate a guy's consent, just as I would expect that some guy won't violate mine.
  13. LetsPOZBreed
    Perfectly fair question, so no need to apologise for asking it. It's something I've shifted on over the years...usually didn't mind when I was younger. For me, I like the idea of building a connection...I do like seeing a nice cock/ass/body, but if you can stimulate my mind a bit first, then I have more of a desire later on.
  14. LetsPOZBreed
    Good topic. I find that many aspects around the notion of having sex come into play here. Certainly this whole idea of "gender roles" may come into play where a guy might (erroneously) think that because he's "masculine" then he has to be the one on top. I've encountered quite a few guys over the years who simply state "I don't bottom". It's one thing if that's just your preference - such as tried it and hated it, or even some past trauma (abuse/rape). It's another thing entirely to write it off just becuase taking dick is seen to be too femine. Also, being "slutty" is viewed as going against these heteronomative ideas, although straight people can be just as slutty (if not more) than some of us. Where I grew up in the rural south of the US, I would have some guys ask me "how many guys have you been with". It's not like I keep a counter by my bed. Also, what difference does it make? Back to the original post, I don't like unsolicited nudes...it's a different story if we've gotten to the point in a conversation where sex is on the table, at which point it becomes relevant. I also feel that it's perfectly acceptable to fuck on the first date. Sex may not be everything, but I definitely want to experience a physical connection with someone. I'm not all about this "wait until X number of dates" or anything like that.
  15. LetsPOZBreed
    Overheating during cuddling is an actual thing. It happens to all of us. Some guys tend to give off more body heat than others; I personally give off a lot, so it's been fairly commonplace for my guy to separate from me after a little while to cool off. I don't take any offence or read anything else into it.
  16. LetsPOZBreed
    I personally don't care what the "community" thinks, but I also think the community is a bit disingenuous about cumdumps - and even barebackers in general. In uni, I lost count of the guys at the gay bars who would give me the evil eye because I was unashamed of my sluttiness. These same guys would find me on the gay chat rooms afterwards and message me for a fuck, and ask to fuck me raw as well. It's not about what the community thinks; it's never about what the community thinks. It's more about "what would my friends think", so they find avenues where their friends aren't looking.
  17. LetsPOZBreed
    I'd just caveat it with this: speak to your bottom about it first. This technique does take some practice, whereby you have to know how gentle to start. Also, you need to know your bottom's limits well enough to know just how slowly to ramp up the intensity. An added benefit to the top is that because you're holding position for a bit (whether "just the tip" or balls deep) it helps you edge your load a bit. It's hard to resist the urge to blast off and go over the edge, but try and wait until you revert back to a thrusting pace.
  18. LetsPOZBreed
    Maybe just personal speculation here, but I wonder if drug usage plays a part in this. I used to get so turned on by TIM vids back in the day when they first started to really challenge the mainstream studios in popularity (think early '00s timeframe). I've looked back on some of these, though, and don't really get what got me so hot and bothered about these. I can see obvious tweaked out bottoms going through the motions, and even the tops can have this glossy-eyed look on their face during the scene. Personally, back when I was using (about 10 years ago), when I was high off my tits, I couldn't even get hard...let alone try and get myself anywhere near the point of cumming. Maybe it's a similar thing?
  19. LetsPOZBreed
    I'd say that if the original question is referring to someone in particular, there's an obvious place to start: just...ask him. That's not to say he might give you an honset answer, but the whole thing can be also be down to mismatched expectations. You may like him, but have the both of you made a commitment to one another? This really isn't the kind of thing one should just assume. I actually don't expect any of my potential partners to be monogamous with me prior to actually discussing this. And even then, I'd say that I've become less inclined toward monogamy altogether.
  20. LetsPOZBreed
    I like tops that can vary the pace at which they fuck me. What you've suggested @hntnhole about the initial slow "get to know you" strokes is amazing; I feel much more comfrotable with a guy if he seems more interested in testing my proverbial waters befroe getting to the hot and heavy stuff. One of my favourite things that a top can do, though? Once I get really comfortable with a guy, I like him to get a little rougher, but the hottest thing that can be done to me is this: ...the slow withdraw out to where only the cockhead is still in. Then holding that position for a little bit to build my anticipation and then WHAM...a big push back in. On the first one, not too hard, but getting more intense with each one. For me, it's that sensation of "loving pain" where I'm looking deep into my tops eyes as he is now balls-deep and letting me once again relax around his cock. My general rule when I top is to borrow the techniques I've experience with the awesome tops who have fucked me over the years. If a bottom isn't being too demanding and lets me take the lead, then I never get any complaints by doing this.
  21. LetsPOZBreed
    This is a great question! I've actually had this conversation with an ex-partner before when he asked me what I loved about it so much (he wasn't into having cum in his mouth). I said that for me, the taste isn't phenominal...in fact, the taste alone is generally "okay" (with some exceptions...I've had guys who had the sweetest, most delicious cum before). The act of doing it, and the mental stimiulation of knowing that I took my guy over the edge makes it all worthwhile for me and easily beats any taste that may arise from it. That being said, as much as I love the act...I will spit out rancid tasting jizz in a heartbeat. We all have our limits.
  22. LetsPOZBreed
    I've had this happen too. When I would go to the cruise spots/sauna/sex clubs, I would always wear a pair of ass-less underwear. Fits tighter than a jockstrap, so it makes it more difficult for those wanting to reach in and try and pull my cock out. There'd be enough fiddling around on their part that my arm would go straight for their hand and pull it away. I'm not even massively hung, (instead, I'm pretty average size), and when in bottom-mode I'm rarely even hard at all - just don't see what would be calling out to someone saying "I should pull his cock out".
  23. LetsPOZBreed
    I've come full circle on this, certainly on bottom and also on the few (but increasing) instances where I top. When I was younger, I loved the connection...cumdump sex never appealed to me then. By my late 20's, though, as I started exclusively barebacking, I got into that scene...especially after I started regularly attending group parties and the like. It was fun for a bit, but after a couple years I came to the realisation that something was missing. I wasn't really enjoying it any longer, and noticed how I would gravitate to one guy at the group and just focus my efforts there. So, now I am back to wanting connection. If I'm at a cruise club, I find a guy that I click with, and we find our corner and just go at it. I'd rather spend the whole evening with one guy having amazing sex then have a parade of half-assed attempts where I may or may not get filled. I'm more discerning on the apps, too. I don't post for multiple loads, or look for multiple guys. I actively seek sessions with top guys who like that I will appreciate them and not just their DNA. On the increasing chances that I may be on top, I immediately disengage with a guy who tells me about how many loads he already has in him, or that he is clearly looking for just a pump-and-dump and nothing else. I also disengage when my potential bottom starts to ask if I know of any other tops that I can get to use him with me (no...if I had other top mates, I'd ask them to fuck ME not YOU).
  24. LetsPOZBreed
    10 out of 10 for me from the UK
  25. LetsPOZBreed
    This site is amazing for pozzing porn. I haven't been on it in some time, though; think they pulled an xtube some months back and a whole litany of my favourites were deleted. So, I honestly haven't been back to see what remains.

Other #BBBH Sites…

This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.

Top Bareback Porn Sites…

×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

By using this site, you agree to our Terms of Use, Privacy Policy, and Guidelines. We have placed cookies on your device to help make this website better. You can adjust your cookie settings, otherwise we'll assume you're okay to continue.