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But how would that be tracked, though? Certainly you couldn't leave that up to hosts (either they wouldn't want to do it, or it would just be too cumbersome and not worth the effort). And having BBRT manage it would be problematic as well; I doubt some guys would want to hand over their personal health data to a hookup website.

This is the funny thing about fetishes: You're never alone. There's always someone else out there that's into it or willing to give it a try. I'll agree with the statement that this is more Cosplay, rather than full CD. Your fetish is for a specific outfit, rather than just dressing in feminine clothing altogether. Also, never feel like any fetish is a "slippery slope." If you don't want to wear a wig/make-up/bra, then just state that to your partner. You're perfectly within your rights to define the limits of your fetish; however, if you are ever curious about that other stuff, by all means give it a go - life is too short for regrets. BTW, I do like that pic of you in that gear.

Should also add that as a bottom, my ideal scenario is for me to cum in my top's mouth after he's bred me. This way, nothing ever goes to waste. There's an undeniable bonding that happens when you can share each of your loads with one another.

This has to be one of my absolute favourite sex acts to do with a partner, but I find very few guys that are actually into this. Question to you all: If a guy unloads into your mouth, do you enjoy the thought of being able to kiss it back to him? For me, this has to be one of the most intimate acts that can occur between two men.

There is definitely some sort of bliss when you receive a load, whether it be orally or anally. I have read a few articles before about the fact that receiving cum can help you de-stress and things like that. Personally, I know when I receive a guy's cum, I do get into this bliss-like state that others have mentioned. It's more pronounced when I get bred, but I still feel it when I get to swallow. To be clear, that's just a general "high" of being rewarded. You can also get properly high off a guy's cum if that guy is high off his tits as well...(I've known that to happen too, and it's far less fun).

I didn't really have a teacher, but I took to it quite easily. I wouldn't go so far to say I was a natural, though, as I did need to learn to make some improvements over time. I think what benefited me in uni was having a guy that regularly let me suck him off to completion. I had a bit of experience by then, but the fact that he came over so regularly really helped me hone my craft. It also helped that he was a moaner when he got sucked, too. My pet peeve when sucking off a guy though is when he takes the back of my head and forces it down. I like to be in complete control when I suck him, and any of that grabby stuff makes me think I'm not doing a good job on him. After this much experience, I'd rather let my honed skill speak for itself.

Agreed with @MuscledHorse above. Just take the plunge and do it. Just don't go into it with too many expectations, as your own fantasies are not going to perfectly match reality. I'd suggest starting off with something purely sexual - leave the roleplay and verbal out of it for now; once you get a comfort level, you can add it back in later on.

I'm never hard when I'm getting fucked. In fact, I purposely try not to get hard at all while I have a guy inside me, purely because any stimulation of my prostate will cause me to ejaculate and tighten back up. Personal preference is that I let my guy fuck the living daylights out of me and pump me full of seed (and a second round if he can manage it). Once he's good and spent, we can make out during his come-down and then I'll get hard. If he's into it, I'd prefer to cum in his mouth so that we can kiss with it afterwards - ensure no drop is ever wasted.

While I am doing my civic duty as well (my second jab is in 2 weeks), we can't rely on everyone else to do the same. I don't thing BBRT is yet ready to open this back up and potentially opening up the floodgates again. At least not until there's a higher percentage of people getting jabbed globally. I also don't think they can open it region by region, so there may also be concern about some countries not being anywhere near the threshold for immunity that could justify it.

Oh yeah. Especially back when I started going exclusively bareback. This was back in 2004-ish, before PrEP, and I was living in a rather conservative area at the time. Lots of other judgemental gays clutching their pearls at the thought. I later found out that others were doing it in secret, but I got shamed for being upfront about it. Didn't really bother me too much back then, and I certainly give zero fucks about it now.

I would assume it's when the majority of the major countries have fully reopened, with minimal to no restrictions. I don't think it's possible for BBRT to open the party section by region, so they are just waiting until it's safer to do so for the whole site.

Also, understand that fantasy is all your own doing. You can have fantasies about how you envisage your sexual experiences going, but the reality is heavily dependent on one factor that you can't replicate when you're home alone: the other guy(s). Sometimes you can be pleasantly surprised, other times you can be disappointed. Wonder if you need to reset your own expectations of what might happen in a real-life hookup?

Also depends on the venue (from what I've noticed). I get more action from the cruise clubs and saunas than I do from the apps. Wonder if anyone else has noticed (specifically vers bttms or bottoms) that it's easier if you're Neg + Prep than it is if you state that you're UD.

I've experienced this on both sides...have had quiet tops and quiet bottoms. It's not for me, and I just don't get how that happens. When I fuck and get fucked, I make noise. It's not by choice, it just happens. It's the natural way to let your partner know how you're doing. If a guy is on top and not making any noise (but I'm doing my usual moans and squeals) I feel awkward; like any second the guy is going to lose interest or start telling me to shut up. If I'm on top and my bottom isn't making any noise, I think I'm doing a bad job and I'll just lose interest. By that same token, though, I also get annoyed if a guy sounds like he's putting on a voice...I find it just as off-putting as making no noise at all.

I mean, these were never really that expensive to begin with. I used to get the Fleet ones from the local drugstore...did the trick and you could re-use the bottles a couple times afterwards. I will say that if you're looking to regularly want to start bottoming this frequently, you should invest in a proper rubber bulb, though.

I've prob run through the whole gamut of thoughts on this over the last 14 months. I was recently out of a relationship prior to the original lockdown in the UK. Really only spent a couple weeks rediscovering my inner slut. Obviously, my first thoughts about post-lockdown were focused on resuming this, and making up for any lost time. The longer that lockdowns persisted, though, that shifted. My fantasies got more intense, and even darker in nature (I'll reserve the details for another channel on here). Nowdays, I just want to find a regular guy to play with. Someone who is into a range of things from the intimate to much more intense. It's a tall order, but I've waited this long; no reason I can't hold out a little longer for an experience that I'll probably enjoy far better. Good luck to all those bottoms out there wanting to go full-on gang bang though. The competition will be stiff (pun intended)!

First time I got fucked raw, the top just stuck it in me without a condom. It did feel amazing, and I didn't stop him in the moment. After the whole experience was over, though, I couldn't stop panicking. I didn't convert off of that experience, but it made me more cautious for a bit. The heat of the moment is not the best time to try and convince someone. My thoughts around not stopping my top were rooted purely in how things felt in that particular moment, not about what I might feel after it was all done. Also, if you are attempting to damage a condom to be used for the sole purpose of it breaking during sex...it's rape, textbook definition of violation of consent. The bottom consented to be fucked with a condom; while it may be possible for a condom to break unintentionally, tampering with it in order for it to purposely break is not what the bottom signed up for. If you're into the roleplay of it all, that's totally fine. Just as long as you do so with all the proper boundaries and limits in place (i.e. safe word, safe signal, etc). Trust me, you'll cum just as hard when you're lost in that type of scene; you don't need to resort to something borderline illegal. There are plenty of willing bareback bottoms of all shapes/sizes/colours/ages out there that would negate any need to try and "convince" someone.

Bad experiences are just part of the process. You WILL have them; you just have to learn how to properly deal with them. I've had the occasion at a bathhouse/cruise club/etc. where one bad guy will ruin your night, or at least the next hour or so. Just know that it's okay to walk away if it's not right. The sore on the cock is a big red flag - your disgusting guy is almost certainly aware that it's there, and attempting to force guys onto it is probably the only way it would get any action. As limited as you may be with your free passes, it still shouldn't mean you should settle. @ErosWired is absolutely right that it pays to plan ahead. The most seemingly counterintuitive days and times tend to be the ones with the biggest pay-offs. There is (and hopefully will be) a popular cruise bar in central London where the naked nights are on Monday and Thursday evening - these nights are even busier than the weekend (clothed) nights. Also, if it suits one to do so, going right when it opened for the day (around 1 p.m.) meant that you caught the guys looking for a quick cum-and-go, so there wasn't as much wandering around. Also, when I lived in Dallas, one of the bathhouses there - the now-closed Midtowne Spa - if you went on a Saturday evening, used to give you a voucer for a discounted room on a weeknight, typically a Tuesday or Thursday. I found that the Saturday nights are very hit and miss, but the weeknight of the voucher had better prospects overall. Basically, go on days and times where your chosen venues are not in competition with other (nightclubs/etc.). Take it from those of us who have been at this for yeasr (and even decades): never get discouraged. I can go to the same cruisy spot two different times within a week of one another, and never see the same guy twice. Even if you do run into the same guy, the experience with him may be different the second time around; could be better, could be worse. You never really know who will turn up until you're there, although advertising that you will be present could alleviate this somewhat.

I understand it, though it's not a practice that I ascribe to. It's (alleged) risk-aversion. The potent part of bareback sex isn't the raw cock itself, it's the fluid exchange. By a bottom asking a top to pull out, the bottom is under the idea that they have managed to cheat the process. It's the proverbial "have his cake and eat it too."

Nailed it right on the head with this statement right here. Neither you or I, or the larger BZ community, are trying to erase any talk of STIs. We're all comfortable talking about our experiences with them and discussing the fact that these are part-and-parcel of the barebackers' lives.

It'll be interesting to see the final stats on this, once the voting has largely regressed to a stable statistic. I have checked this thread a couple times and find that over 90% of us have said "no" to both questions (myself included). Fair conclusion that those of us who have answered are solidly behind @rawTOP on this. I've had an STI in the past (syphillis) and it wasn't fun at all. There is nothing glamourous about going to the clinic once a week for three weeks to get jabbed in the butt-cheek. There's nothing glamourous about the anti-biotics. For those who don't test or treat it early, there's nothing glamourous about it progressing to the point of having the spotty rash, or worse, tertiary syphillis - with all the neurological baddies that come along with that. This is just one of many STI's, each with it's own nasty effects on the body.

Since the prevalence of PrEP, I'm noticing this happening less and less. As a general rule, when I meet up with a guy and the expectation is that I'll be on top (rare, but still happens), I'm upfront about the fact that I'm going to cum inside. Most guys who have doubts will end the convo right there. There's no guarantee, though, and it did happen on a couple of occasions where the guy did ask me to pull out in the heat of the moment. I honoured the request, in the interest of consent...I don't want to be "that guy", but it still makes this type of thing disappointing.

Also, try not to get too much into the details with your potential mates on the apps/websites. Overdescribing it sets too many expectations. Just cover the basics (i.e. ask them to wear a jockstrap or blindfold) and set up a time and place. If there's too much back and forth past that, I think you might get anxious again.

I can only speak for my own posts; I'll leave the others to comment on theirs, but want to add some colour to the last comment. I'm not expecting "solidarity" from a guy who gets fobbed off at the fact that he's been asked to leave a party for not adhering to protocol (i.e. not following boundaries/etiquette, or persisting past a certain point of non-interest with other guests). If he's asked to leave, the expectation is that he'd go without incident, and the rest can continue to enjoy their evening. The guy can just simply go home, block who he wants on the apps/websites, delete his profile, whatever....The "snitching" aspect is the one-bit-too-far moment. It's the "if I can't have fun, no one can" kind of attitude that is the intent of this thread.

I fucking love it. By depriving your sense of sight, you have to rely on your other senses. I think it makes for a much more intense encounter. You get that nervous feeling of butterflies when you can hear him undressing...that anticipation of feeling his body against yours. Every little sound, grunt, moan, whisper...