LetsPOZBreed
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I love SOP. I don't go regularly, but do pop by once in a while. Usually wearing some brightly coloured pants that I want to get soaking wet!
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I stand corrected (and I know this, and still fucked it up!).
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It's part and parcel of the brotherhood, but you can do things that keep you in the game as much as possible. I can't stress this enough, but TEST, TEST, TEST! I'm UD, so I only need to go and do my usual HIV bloods half-yearly. I do pop by once a month though, just to make sure I haven't picked up any other bugs in the meantime. And, as slutty as I am, I do try and suss out situations/men where I don't feel completely comfortable. Anytime there's drug use, I steer clear (more than one reason for that). I also do have a discussion about this ahead of a hookup. It's not 100% bullet-proof, though. Any guy that thinks that a discussion about STI's is a "bone killer" probably has one, and I steer clear as well. As has been mentioned above as well, if you find a clinic/doctor that is genuinely non-judgemental, it helps. If you feel comfortable getting tested, and feel that you won't get the third degree when something pops up, stick with them.
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There's stigma on many factors, but here's my thoughts. Stigma around fucking (or getting fucked bb) has lessened, but I've noticed with myself that I don't get responses from guys on PrEP. Even though it says very plainly on my profiles that I'm UD, and have been for years. On the flip side of that, I was with a group of mates recently (non-sexual) and it came up in conversation about our sexual proclivities. Many were being very condescending about bb and guys who were into it, so even in the advent of PrEP, there's still stigma out there.
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I'd take it off. But I also have a fetish of condom-2-bb and broken condom play. I like guys who are into doing that as a top, so if anyone wants to hit me up for that 🙂
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As I've gotten older, and especially since joining the #BBBH, I've done more sexual experimenting on various fetishes. Some I would have never thought I'd be into, but once I tried it, I was hooked. Voyeurism is one; I was always too self conscious to be in a position where I could be watched, but I love hitting one of the local saunas here in London and going into the porn room and having a man have his way with me in full view (and earshot) of everyone. I also never thought I'd be in to the total anonymous/blindfolds scenarios, but it's become one of my favourites. Some of the others, are light to medium BDSM play, being dominated, spanking play, and so on. What are some of the fetishes that you were initially put off by/scared to do, but you've come around over the years and it's turned into some of your favourite things?
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I've gone between slim, stocky, slightly chubby, then back to slim and have been a cumdump throughout. The main thing is realising that different guys are into different types, so you have a place in our creamy community. 🙂 Just know that not every top will be into you, no matter your body type, but don't be afraid to message a guy and state what you're after; you'll find yourself pleasantly surprised sometimes. I've found that BBRT since moving to the UK has steadily gone more flaky/druggie, so I don't get the meets on there like I did when I lived stateside. There are no shortage of apps out there, but they won't be bb specific; although, some will have a "safer sex" category where you can choose that you're into BB play (however they name it). If you're in Manchester as well, I'm sure you can hit up a sauna/sex club as well. From the perspective of taking that much dick in one night, my advice would be to come prepared; thoroughly clean out beforehand, and use your dildo as much as possible. There's no worse feeling of going out to get gangbanged and being too tight (or unclean) to go the full distance.
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Any guys in a neg/poz relationship?
LetsPOZBreed replied to JFC1982's topic in HIV Risk & Risk Reduction
Since being diagnosed, I've been in two "serodiscordant" relationships. The first one, we did use condoms, the second one we started out using them but then stopped. I've been UD for six years now, so there was no risk of transmission to either partner, but I left the choice up to them. I gladly explained U=U to both, but I wasn't going to force either one of them into a decision. Honestly, they both appreciated that it was a discussion and not me lecturing them on why we shouldn't use condoms. It's their bodies, after all; just like it was mine when I made the decision to start getting fucked bb. -
I'm into this (on both sides). Would love to have some limits of mine pushed; I love the idea of being in a place where other guys send tops to fuck me. I have zero control over who this is. I'm also up for being the arranger too. A part of me wants to get off being the guy selecting a lucky top for some poor helpless cumdump; knowing I have complete control over who gets a chance to fuck my buddy. I'd even love it if there were a way to hear the sound of them getting pounded (no video; just the sound).
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My fascination with it started when I was younger as well...maybe around 10 or 11 when I also started to slowly realise I was attracted to boys.
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I think it's getting over the "hump". Doing it with another guy for the first time, and letting your bladder go without any shyness. I actually visited my favourite cruise club for ws nigh again. Those poor orange Diesel briefs never saw it coming. 🙂
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Do You Like Taking Loads In Dark Rooms?
LetsPOZBreed replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I at least try to cop a general feel of the guy. My tastes in men are rather broad, so I enjoy a wide range of body types; i just do it to make a mental picture in my head. My big erogenous zone is actually my ears, so I like sounds when I'm getting fucked (especially when made near my ears. -
Neither of you can host: Where do you go to fuck?
LetsPOZBreed replied to nastybottom's topic in General Discussion
If you live in a city where you have access to a bathhouse/sauna, then I'd suggest that; neutral ground, and you potentially have other options if things aren't working out. Even in small-towns, you have known cheap motels where you can split the cost for a couple hours or so. Outside of that, I'm sure you can find some secluded place for a quick shag (as long as you're both comfortable with one another) -
Personally, when I know I'm going to a gangbang or big sex party, this is what I do: I lay off eating anything for around 8-10 hours (similar to what's described above). I was given this advice by a top buddy a long time ago, and it's worked like a charm since. I try and set up a few hookups in the leading days. Make sure my ass is comfortable getting fucked by an actual guy. Toys are fine, but I'm the one controlling them at the end of the day; you have to at least try and get into a situation where you're at the mercy of a top man. With gang fucks/groups, you don't always know what you're going to get, so best to be prepared to handle different fucking styles. Honestly, I can't stress enough the importance of trying this out as well - I've been fucked at group parties where if a guy tried that one-on-one, I know I'd have trouble. The day of, I start working myself with my dildo off and on throughout the day to train my ass to take it. I'm fine cleaning out the usual way (douching); if you're not having meals for some time before, you should be okay with just that. I just give myself enough time ahead of leaving to go out and make sure I'm definitely "cleaned" (water running clear, the whole thing).
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Yessir, right smack in the centre here 🙂
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I think it's a preference thing. I prefer to host at mine but that's because it's easier for me. Also, if I'm not into a guy, it's not a frustrating ride back home on the bus or tube; just fire up the apps and see what else I can find, or just head to the sauna.
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Tops cumming too quickly - success or failure?
LetsPOZBreed replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
The times that I do top, I'm the same. I find changing tempo and alternating between fast and slow is good for my bottom. Only the really aggressive bottoms will try and "milk" me (which I actually hate; after all I'M supposed to be in control then). -
Tops cumming too quickly - success or failure?
LetsPOZBreed replied to ErosWired's topic in General Discussion
The alternative is that they don't cum at all, which is monumentally more frustrating. I don't mind a quick load; it's still a load after all. -
I got barebacked for the first time at age 20. Was a couple years before it happened again, and then only again a couple years later. I didn't start getting fucked bb regularly until after I finished uni in 2005; it was no turning back after that. Got diagnosed in 2013.
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Us bottoms also like the thought of having a "top team" we can count on to give us our gang bang cravings. If you get a good group together, I'll volunteer to bottom for you all on occasion 🙂
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I had a med school student once. He loved it bareback and anon (he was vers, but wanted to top me). I remember him fucking me really rough and hard and shooting a thick creamy load inside me. I think he was trying to knock me up - if you catch my drift 🙂
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I find older tops do this more than younger ones. I had a former FWB when I lived elsewhere that was around 60; he could stay hard for a bit after he's cum, so he would stay inside and slowly push his load deeper. Once slipped out, he would switch to fingering me until he got hard again. He wouldn't be able to cum a second time, but it was more to help me build up a load in my balls that he would then want squirted in his mouth.
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@NLbear, I'm not sure about "still" as the interview I saw is prob about 3 years old now. She did sever ties with Vivid once they started making some bareback porn, though.
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Looking to Start a Small Fuckbuddy Group
LetsPOZBreed replied to LetsPOZBreed's topic in London Metro Area
Unfortunately, I never could get this off the ground with the completely lopsided bottom to top ratio. I'm still interested in starting a group, but the numbers have to make sense for everyone to have fun. My ultimate goal is to have a group of around 12 guys (relatively evenly distributed between top/bttm/vers. I'd prefer to personally audition each one of them (I do top on occasion) to check if I think they're a good fit. From there, we can have a group that guys can individually pair off when the mood strikes and then occasionally have a larger gathering once in a while for some free-for-all play. Maybe wishful thinking on my part, but could work out with the right group. -
This is hard thing to address for me. I've played out a fantasy once, but I'm also an actual rape victim. i can tell you that these are two starkly different experiences. If I want to play out a fantasy, i make sure it's with a guy I'm sexually comfortable with. There's always a safe word, and either one of us can stop if things get a bit too crazy or uncomfortable. The difference between the fantasy vs. the real thing is consent. In role playing, you want to simulate the actual act as close as possible, so lots of emotions are going to run through your head in the moment; you have to be sure you're ready for that. When playing out a fantasy, it'll stay with you for a bit, and you'll recall it in your mind in a positive light (no matter how much it may have "hurt" in the moment.
