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I don't find it hardcore, but that's a personal preference. I remember back in uni, I received some "safer sex" literature that was handed out to our campus' LGBT organisation (this was back in the mid-90's). One page in the pamphlet had a list of "do's" and "don'ts", and it warned against the exchange of fluids inside your partner. Cum was obviously listed, but then it also mentioned piss...that was my first indication that that was a "thing" sexually. Somewhere in the back of my mind, I always knew I was into piss play, but reading this jogged my curiosity. I couldn't say the same for the others in the group, though, as there was some pearl-clutching going on. Over the years, I've found that watersports is one of those either/or fetishes. Ether a guy is really into it (count me in!) or is really put off by it. What was good about London, is that there was (and hopefully will again be) a club called S.O.P. held at Central Station on Sunday and Tuesday. Was good to go there and find other guys who were obviously into the fetish...I have some fantastic memories of going there.

The load is the reward. It's a top's way of physically expressing just how good your ass was to him, that he pumps it inside of you. That being said, I make my tops feel welcome inside of me as long as they respect what I'm giving them. Overaggressive fucking is a turn-off; similarly, I hate guys who are "one-note" (same motion, no variety, etc.). I don't mind a top that claims "it takes me a while to cum", if they make up for it by keeping it interesting and me interested.

"It's not the size of the ship, but it's the motion of the ocean" 😄 I don't engage with guys like this either. I certainly don't send the first message; if they engage first, then I'm polite, but upfront that I don't meet their "criteria". As a vers bottom, though, this doesn't happen to me very often. I don't mind topping a guy once in a while, but overaggressiveness in either role is a big put-off for me.

This is an important distinction as well. It should never be the goal to "hurt" in this type of roleplay. This is another big reason for this to be restricted to partners that are very in-tune with one another. Many guys who are into this scenario (as a bottom, especially) have been sexually assaulted in the past; playing out this scene is a chance at gaining control over a bad experience by playing it out in such a way where they do have some unspoken level of control (i.e. safe words/signals). One can even argue that it's actually the bottom/"victim" in this scene that is actually the more powerful one for that very reason; they can theoretically stop it at any time by safe-wording out of it.

If anyone has heard of one in London, do send me a DM. I'd be interested in something like this.

Words cannot express just how important this particular step is (and thank you @BreedingTop71 for calling it out). My personal take on all of this is that you'd be surprised just how common this fantasy is. That being said, there is a way to do this responsibly so that you don't inadvertently cause any emotional damage to your partner. If this is a guy you've only spoken with online so far, neither one of you is really ready for this. This scenario can only be successfully carried out by partners with a deep personal face-to-face connection with each other that's built up over a very long period of time (in some cases years). I don't intend to put you off by saying that. There are many pitfalls to this scenario, though, and not all of these you can anticipate - even for more experienced partners. That being said, it is something you can both work up to. Build up an intimate connection first, then slowly add in the intensity to push each other's limits. Some spanking play is a good first step, then maybe add in some dirty verbal, etc. Always have a safe word and/or safe signal; I'd recommend both, because in the heat of the moment, your partner may lose the ability to speak (may be out of shock or something else), so include a gesture as well so you have an additional safeguard. Discuss a general guideline of the scene (i.e. where it will happen, will you wear a mask, any biting/fighting allowed, etc.), as well as what is strictly off limits (no punching or any other hard limits). Go in with a plan based on that - leave something to the imagination, while still respecting your agreed limitations. You'll need to be mindful of both your immediate and intermediate surroundings. If this is going to happen at one of your homes/flats, make sure the room is clear of anything that might cause a hazard (i.e. nothing loose on the floor) and that you know where a first-aid kit is located - just in case. Also, be mindful of any neighbours - the last thing you want is for a scene that's going to plan, only to have a well-intentioned neighbour call the cops and put you in potential jeopardy; as the "top", you're at bigger risk of arrest (or worse) as the "aggressor" in the scene. The most important...and I do mean the MOST IMPORTANT...part of this process is to discuss with your partner what kind of aftercare they will expect from you (what I've quoted from another poster). Your sub is going to experience a range of difficult emotions - maybe more so, if this plays out in a very realistic way. Even you will feel a range of emotions (so-called "dom drop") where you may wonder if you pushed it too far. You must be prepared to fully accomodate and pamper him - be very loving, tell him how good he is, how sexy he is. This may be a days-long process for the both of you, and you both must be mindful of this. These scenes, if done properly, get INCREDIBLY intense. After everything has calmed back down (and appropriate aftercare measures have taken place), talk with your parner about the situation...what worked, what didn't work, would you do it again, what would you change?

That may be, but I think BBRT might be taking the view that the regional "Connect Now" (or whatever it's called now) is for one-2-one meets. The group section is unequivocally used for groups that run afoul of the max sizes allowed under restrictions in many places. It only takes some bad press of an outbreak coming from the group section of that site that would lead to all kinds of headaches for the site owners; therefore, they are going to air on the side of caution for the forseeable future.

That may very well happen at a private party, but I doubt BBRT will be satisfied with that rationale in order to re-open the parties section.

But how would that be tracked, though? Certainly you couldn't leave that up to hosts (either they wouldn't want to do it, or it would just be too cumbersome and not worth the effort). And having BBRT manage it would be problematic as well; I doubt some guys would want to hand over their personal health data to a hookup website.

This is the funny thing about fetishes: You're never alone. There's always someone else out there that's into it or willing to give it a try. I'll agree with the statement that this is more Cosplay, rather than full CD. Your fetish is for a specific outfit, rather than just dressing in feminine clothing altogether. Also, never feel like any fetish is a "slippery slope." If you don't want to wear a wig/make-up/bra, then just state that to your partner. You're perfectly within your rights to define the limits of your fetish; however, if you are ever curious about that other stuff, by all means give it a go - life is too short for regrets. BTW, I do like that pic of you in that gear.

Should also add that as a bottom, my ideal scenario is for me to cum in my top's mouth after he's bred me. This way, nothing ever goes to waste. There's an undeniable bonding that happens when you can share each of your loads with one another.

This has to be one of my absolute favourite sex acts to do with a partner, but I find very few guys that are actually into this. Question to you all: If a guy unloads into your mouth, do you enjoy the thought of being able to kiss it back to him? For me, this has to be one of the most intimate acts that can occur between two men.

There is definitely some sort of bliss when you receive a load, whether it be orally or anally. I have read a few articles before about the fact that receiving cum can help you de-stress and things like that. Personally, I know when I receive a guy's cum, I do get into this bliss-like state that others have mentioned. It's more pronounced when I get bred, but I still feel it when I get to swallow. To be clear, that's just a general "high" of being rewarded. You can also get properly high off a guy's cum if that guy is high off his tits as well...(I've known that to happen too, and it's far less fun).

I didn't really have a teacher, but I took to it quite easily. I wouldn't go so far to say I was a natural, though, as I did need to learn to make some improvements over time. I think what benefited me in uni was having a guy that regularly let me suck him off to completion. I had a bit of experience by then, but the fact that he came over so regularly really helped me hone my craft. It also helped that he was a moaner when he got sucked, too. My pet peeve when sucking off a guy though is when he takes the back of my head and forces it down. I like to be in complete control when I suck him, and any of that grabby stuff makes me think I'm not doing a good job on him. After this much experience, I'd rather let my honed skill speak for itself.

Agreed with @MuscledHorse above. Just take the plunge and do it. Just don't go into it with too many expectations, as your own fantasies are not going to perfectly match reality. I'd suggest starting off with something purely sexual - leave the roleplay and verbal out of it for now; once you get a comfort level, you can add it back in later on.

I'm never hard when I'm getting fucked. In fact, I purposely try not to get hard at all while I have a guy inside me, purely because any stimulation of my prostate will cause me to ejaculate and tighten back up. Personal preference is that I let my guy fuck the living daylights out of me and pump me full of seed (and a second round if he can manage it). Once he's good and spent, we can make out during his come-down and then I'll get hard. If he's into it, I'd prefer to cum in his mouth so that we can kiss with it afterwards - ensure no drop is ever wasted.

While I am doing my civic duty as well (my second jab is in 2 weeks), we can't rely on everyone else to do the same. I don't thing BBRT is yet ready to open this back up and potentially opening up the floodgates again. At least not until there's a higher percentage of people getting jabbed globally. I also don't think they can open it region by region, so there may also be concern about some countries not being anywhere near the threshold for immunity that could justify it.

Oh yeah. Especially back when I started going exclusively bareback. This was back in 2004-ish, before PrEP, and I was living in a rather conservative area at the time. Lots of other judgemental gays clutching their pearls at the thought. I later found out that others were doing it in secret, but I got shamed for being upfront about it. Didn't really bother me too much back then, and I certainly give zero fucks about it now.

I would assume it's when the majority of the major countries have fully reopened, with minimal to no restrictions. I don't think it's possible for BBRT to open the party section by region, so they are just waiting until it's safer to do so for the whole site.

Also, understand that fantasy is all your own doing. You can have fantasies about how you envisage your sexual experiences going, but the reality is heavily dependent on one factor that you can't replicate when you're home alone: the other guy(s). Sometimes you can be pleasantly surprised, other times you can be disappointed. Wonder if you need to reset your own expectations of what might happen in a real-life hookup?

Also depends on the venue (from what I've noticed). I get more action from the cruise clubs and saunas than I do from the apps. Wonder if anyone else has noticed (specifically vers bttms or bottoms) that it's easier if you're Neg + Prep than it is if you state that you're UD.

I've experienced this on both sides...have had quiet tops and quiet bottoms. It's not for me, and I just don't get how that happens. When I fuck and get fucked, I make noise. It's not by choice, it just happens. It's the natural way to let your partner know how you're doing. If a guy is on top and not making any noise (but I'm doing my usual moans and squeals) I feel awkward; like any second the guy is going to lose interest or start telling me to shut up. If I'm on top and my bottom isn't making any noise, I think I'm doing a bad job and I'll just lose interest. By that same token, though, I also get annoyed if a guy sounds like he's putting on a voice...I find it just as off-putting as making no noise at all.

I mean, these were never really that expensive to begin with. I used to get the Fleet ones from the local drugstore...did the trick and you could re-use the bottles a couple times afterwards. I will say that if you're looking to regularly want to start bottoming this frequently, you should invest in a proper rubber bulb, though.

I've prob run through the whole gamut of thoughts on this over the last 14 months. I was recently out of a relationship prior to the original lockdown in the UK. Really only spent a couple weeks rediscovering my inner slut. Obviously, my first thoughts about post-lockdown were focused on resuming this, and making up for any lost time. The longer that lockdowns persisted, though, that shifted. My fantasies got more intense, and even darker in nature (I'll reserve the details for another channel on here). Nowdays, I just want to find a regular guy to play with. Someone who is into a range of things from the intimate to much more intense. It's a tall order, but I've waited this long; no reason I can't hold out a little longer for an experience that I'll probably enjoy far better. Good luck to all those bottoms out there wanting to go full-on gang bang though. The competition will be stiff (pun intended)!

First time I got fucked raw, the top just stuck it in me without a condom. It did feel amazing, and I didn't stop him in the moment. After the whole experience was over, though, I couldn't stop panicking. I didn't convert off of that experience, but it made me more cautious for a bit. The heat of the moment is not the best time to try and convince someone. My thoughts around not stopping my top were rooted purely in how things felt in that particular moment, not about what I might feel after it was all done. Also, if you are attempting to damage a condom to be used for the sole purpose of it breaking during sex...it's rape, textbook definition of violation of consent. The bottom consented to be fucked with a condom; while it may be possible for a condom to break unintentionally, tampering with it in order for it to purposely break is not what the bottom signed up for. If you're into the roleplay of it all, that's totally fine. Just as long as you do so with all the proper boundaries and limits in place (i.e. safe word, safe signal, etc). Trust me, you'll cum just as hard when you're lost in that type of scene; you don't need to resort to something borderline illegal. There are plenty of willing bareback bottoms of all shapes/sizes/colours/ages out there that would negate any need to try and "convince" someone.