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I’ve been a volunteer doorman for cumdumps. I don’t mean to be a downer, but in a major gay market, like New York or San Francisco, because there’s so much competition between anonymous cumdumps for loads that age, looks and willingness to share face pics really matter. I’ve found it’s hard to get tops to show up in these cities. You might have better luck at a bathhouse or sex club.

You’re lucky to have such an accommodating husband. Does he hookup too? Would have been hot to get the whole walking group to mount you.

But that was definitely not the norm before PrEP, especially in the early 90s.

Nothing online is truly free and I wouldn’t trust a free VPN. They have to make money somewhere. I subscribe to NordVPN through Apple, which anonymizes my subscription (NordVPN doesn’t even have my name or email address).

I’m so jealous of the bareback action college guys can get these days. That was a huge fantasy of mine when I was in undergrad, but I never would have done it in the 90s.

Unfortunately not every guy at a clothing optional gay resort is looking to fuck and many might not want to fuck in front of an audience. As you noted, most of the action happens in the designated play areas later at night, even at the raunchier places. I don’t think a butt plug would make much of a difference either way.

I traded blow jobs with a housekeeper in Chile once. He started cleaning my room while I was in the shower. I came out of the bathroom and saw that he was there. I dropped my towel and he really got to work. Unfortunately he didn’t want to fuck. I’m always on the lookout for cute room service twinks, but most are not that hot.

In my experience, massages, even erotic massages by gay masseurs, don’t typically involve anal. I’ve been fucked by therapist, but that was more about us getting carried away and not a usual service. Most erotic masseurs will offer two options, with or without “release,” which is usually just a handjob. If you’re looking to get fucked, you really want an escort that offers some massage as foreplay. It’s pretty common, but don’t expect a real massage and negotiate everything beforehand to set expectations and let him prepare properly.

I don’t try to deceive anyone, but as a vers guy, I do enjoy convincing bottoms to shoot their loads up my ass after I’ve bred them.

The most important things to know about Inn Leather is that it’s very small (only ten rooms), very basic (one-star) and the demographic skews older: not 40s and 50s, but 60s and 70s+. When I was there, only 10 percent of the guys were under 65. Despite the name, the scene is not so much kink or fetish as it is older and bearish. Most of the guys are locals on day passes. They arrive around 10:00 or 11:00 and spend the day hanging out at the pool. Everyone is completely naked and, as there is no enclosed playroom, all the sex takes place in the open. A lot of guys get sucked off in the pool. There’s also a sling and a picnic table for guys to get fucked. Most of the guys engage in sexual activities for a bit, but it’s not a full on orgy. It’s also essential to note that the day passes all end at 5:00, when everyone that is not staying in one of the ten rooms is escorted out. As the vast majority of the guys there are on day passes, the place becomes a ghost town after 5:00. You can invite your own guests over (and let them in the gate) but otherwise the options for “fresh meat” are limited. The rooms are very basic and grungy. No one stays there for the quality of the accommodation. The advantage of staying at Inn Leather is, unlike other clothing-optional hotels in Fort Lauderdale, almost everyone is looking for sex. The disadvantage is that I didn’t want to have sex with most of them. I was hoping the vibe would be more like 321 Slammer (a diverse set of guys of all ages and types being piggy) but with sleeping rooms. The scene is pretty chatty and social so if you like hanging out naked with slutty guys in their 70s, it’s definitely the place for you. Otherwise, there’s not a lot to recommend it. I’m not bashing older gay men and I think it’s wonderful that they have a place to hangout and have fun. The place caters to a very specific demographic and it’s either you thing or it’s not.

My first time was also in Toronto but it was lame. I was in my early 20s and booked a cheap, last minute flight. I was so excited I dropped my stuff off at my hotel and rushed over. Unfortunately it was the middle of the day and the place was nearly empty. I learned my lesson to on peak times.

In a big gay Mecca like New York, it really depends on your looks and your willingness to put a face pic in your ad. If you’re young and hot you can put an ad on Sniffies and have guys lined up around the block waiting to load you up. If you’re average, you’ll have a hard time competing with the gorgeous muscle cumdumps (including minor porn models) offering their fuck holes for free.

This company (Bleachers and Co.) alters sportswear and jeans with a zipper to give guys full access to your fuck hole. If you play it off as a clothing fetish, guys might get into fucking you almost fully dressed. Also handy for cruising toilets and parks.

I see a lot of cumdump ads on Sniffies, which is much better for groups than Grindr.

I’ve never done a substance harder than whisky. I clearly state that I don’t “party” in any profile I have and it’s never been an issue finding sober bareback fun. Personally I don’t like playing with guys that are partying because they tend to be so inward-focused that I feel more like a human dildo than a sex partner. I’m not judging their lifestyle choices, but I just think they are less fun to be around.

I’ve done all of the acts that I’ve fantasized about. What remains are situations, such as a biological father and son, that I doubt will ever happen.

These are my favorite kind of groups, but unfortunately difficult to either find or arrange. Vers guys into dog-pile fucking are rare. I find most guy that are into piggy groups a bossy cumdump bottoms that don’t give as well as they take.

What kind of scenario do you want to record ?

Bookstore cruising is not much of a thing in Manhattan anymore. Of course they exist, but they’re not well trafficked and the guys are not hot. Impromptu parties organized on Sniffies are much more popular these days because they offer privacy and control over the crowd.

Flip fucking with multiple guys in a public area.

I suspect it’s more a psychological attraction to a person (and what he represents) than a chemical addiction to the sperm. If I find a person that is especially validating psychologically, I want his load because I want him to be a part of me.

Have you started training your hole with butt plugs and dildos? That would be useful to include in your ad as it demonstrates your commitment to learning to take dick.

For me it’s all about validation; being accepted and desired by attractive men.

I have a husband and don’t do traditional hookups. I saw an ad on Sniffies for a minor porn model on Raw Fuck Club hosting a bukkake party at his apartment in Chelsea. He was a mid-30s otter with hot face and body pics in his profile. Not Corbin Fisher material, but definitely attractive and typical of the guys you see on the raunchier sites like Treasure Island or RFC. Sniffies showed 50 people signed up to go and had very specific instructions on when to arrive, how to get into the building, etc., which was helpful. He clearly does this a lot. There was a thirty minute window for guys to arrive. I deliberately arrived five minutes late and there were already a few guys zipping up and getting ready to leave. The bottom was on his knees with about ten guys standing over him and a couple more on the sofa. I unzipped and took my dick out. I was there to watch as much as participate so I didn’t want to cum too quickly. The demographics were diverse: 20-somethings to mid-50s, mixed between white, Asian and Latino. Overall the guys were not particularly attractive and there was only one that I was interested in jacking and feeling up. We were all there to get off with a guy that would otherwise be out of our league. I expected it to be jacking only, but the bottom was happy to suck or get fucked by anyone who wanted. In addition to the loads on his face and chest, he ended up with a few down his throat and three or four up his well trained ass. I was there about fifteen minutes and was almost the last guy to cum. I shot on his face as he was getting fucked by the last guy. The guys that were there to get off and get out very quickly. Not sure if there was a second wave after I left, but I saw about 20 guys. All-in-all, a fun fifteen minutes and worth the Subway ride. A few takeaways for cumdumps. Bukkake parties are very efficient. Because the advertised window is so short, guys show up on time and are ready to blow. Bukkake parties can attract guys looking jack, get sucked or fuck. If you’re looking for numbers, you’ll get more guys if they have options on how and where to nut. The guys that want to attend know that other people will be there so it avoids the awkwardness of dealing with tops that don’t want to be seen.

Sex with a FTM. Some of them are really hot.