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theplayerking

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  1. Years ago I had a fuck buddy that was into fisting and used CO2 suppositories that he could only get in Germany. They were supposedly safer for frequent use as you are essentially just blowing air up your ass and farting it out. I tried it once and it worked well, but I’ve never seen them available for purchase, even in Europe.
  2. Tell him you want him to breed you. I find the dirtier the talk, the faster the inhibitions come down in the moment.
  3. Now you’re versatile. Congratulations! No need to overthink it. It’s just opens more options for playtime.
  4. I’ve had good luck on Sniffies except for the groups, which never seem to happen.
  5. Flip fucking is my favorite kind of sex. Glad you enjoyed it!
  6. Did the group actually happen? I’ve signed up for a couple a groups on Sniffies, but the hosts disappeared and, as far as I know, the groups never happened.
  7. There’s a lot going on here. Personally, I would clarify your situation with your girlfriend before you worry about what you do with your man crush.
  8. I’ve wanted to be vers as long as I can remember and am really attracted to flip fucking. Something about the comradeship and reciprocity of taking care of each other’s holes really turns me on. However, if only one of us is getting fucked, I’m usually the top. I do get fucked without flipping on occasion, but the guy has to be super hot.
  9. I can fuck for a long time but find a get bored after a while, which is why I prefer sex parties.
  10. I admit I’m shallow and sex is mostly about personal validation. As such, my favorite moment is the initial penetration of a stranger. By accepting my cock in his ass I feel that he’s accepting me. My second favorite moment is flipping over and letting him penetrate me, for the same reason.
  11. I prefer sex parties to bathhouses or hookups. Much more consistent crowd … and I love groups.
  12. Tell your partner it’s your first time so he can be extra gentle and make sure you’re opened up properly. Especially if you’re at a bathhouse, you don’t want someone who’s just going to slam it in.
  13. PrEP is the only part of my sex life that has changed appreciably. I’ve always been interested is anonymous hookups and group sex. Now I can do it raw.
  14. Get him on PrEP. If you met him on Scruff, his issue might be more about safety than casual sex per se.
  15. I’m definitely a metrosexual, which many people outside of New York or LA assume is potentially gay.
  16. I think in Japan you can signal your preferred roll by where you put your key, e.g., left arm or right arm, etc.
  17. I’ve found in wealthier countries they tend to be expensive and legit (if sensual) massages. In poorer countries, they immediately start trying to upcharge you for “additional” services. In those places, they have no intention of providing a real massage at all and, if that’s what you’re looking for, not worth the money.
  18. I would play with a friend or coworker that I was attracted to if we happened to bump into each other at a bathhouse or sex party. However, if I recognize someone I know on an app, I would not contact him. More out of fear of rejection than embarrassment.
  19. I don’t think this is possible unless he is naturally predisposed to feel the same way. Some guys can completely separate sex from emotion while others can’t. A guy that equates sex with emotion will always be insecure that you’ll leave him for someone else.
  20. I find eye contact is enough for a guy to register his interest (or disinterest). Guys that are not interested usually look away quickly and I do the same. I suppose there might be some shy newbies that look away to be coy, but I won’t approach a guy who won’t look at me.
  21. I’ve rejected guys at the beginning of sex parties that I ended up playing with by the end. Once I’ve surveyed all the available options my standards sometimes shift.
  22. No. I’m shallow. I get off more on the validation of being desired by a hot guy than the sex itself.
  23. Even if you’re been fucking raw, getting bred is crossing a big emotional and psychological line. Before I went on PrEF, I would get caught up in the moment and fuck raw but never knowingly got bred. I recommend going on PrEP.
  24. When I was single I would hope to meet a BF at a bathhouse or sex party under the assumption that a guy I met under such circumstances would be open to non-monogamy and group sex. Unfortunately it didn’t work out. I met my husband on Tinder and he wants exclusivity.
  25. I have always fetishized going raw but came of age during the AIDS Crisis so was hesitant I have a big dick and have difficulty staying hard in a condom I used to go to a lot of sex parties where nearly everyone was fucking raw (either on PrEP or undetectable) PrEP became available and was almost free with insurance Going bareback opened up the possibilities of hooking up with much hotter guys (especially in group situations in big U.S. cities) It feels amazing It’s a huge psychological rush to let a man cum in my ass All that being said, I probably would have never barebacked regularly were it not for PrEP.
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