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theplayerking

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  1. I remember in seventh grade I was only one of two boys in the locker room to have a full bush.
  2. 18 with my freshman year roommate.
  3. I’m short-ish and prefer a bench, both for fucking and getting fucked.
  4. Like to flip as much as possible, but only cum once at the end. Once I shoot, I’m done.
  5. 1. The availability of PrEP 2. Getting older and difficulty staying hard with a condom 3. More and more people in New York wanting it raw 4. The possibility of hooking up with hotter guys that only played raw
  6. For me it’s the request and consent. I love it when a hot stranger gets on all fours and says, “Breed my hole.” That part is hotter than the sex itself.
  7. Rob Lowe and Christian Bale.
  8. Love it doggy, but my boyfriend prefers missionary. When I was single going to sex clubs, my favorite was standing up against a wall.
  9. Exactly the same here. I have difficulty staying hard in a condom. PrEP is very popular in New York and it's a lot easier to hook up if you're on it. I recently got a boyfriend and we are monogamous, but we bareback and I still take it. I'm hoping he'll be into threeways someday, but he's much more conservative sexually than I am.
  10. It still happens at Fire Island, but that's such a controlled environment, it's functionally a bathhouse.
  11. I'm in my early 40s and just started a relationship for the first time in my life. He checks every box I had for a boyfriend, except he's not sexually adventurous. He's only slept with five guys in his life, whereas I consider fucking five guys a halfway decent party. We're monogamous for now and I don't plan on cheating, but it would be hot to have threeways and groups with him. I'm planting ideas slowly and maybe one day it will happen. To me, group sex is more a recreational activity and about male bonding, but he definitely doesn't see it that way. Fortunately we're both vers. and he's willing to fuck raw because I'm on PrEP and recently tested for everything. If have to say, waking up next to a handsome naked man with his load in your ass is a very nice feeling.
  12. The problem is not creating the space, but finding the guests. I've been to bathhouses and sex clubs around the world and they're all hit-or-miss. The most reliable in the U.S. are Slammers in Fort Lauderdale and CCBC in Palm Springs. Even Cumunion in New York, a city of 8.5 million people, has some very slow nights.
  13. Those have to be Asian (probably Indian) prices. Ordering from those places make me nervous. There's no FDA (or equivalent) oversight and you have no idea what's in them.
  14. Thanks for the tip. I just placed an order with Hims to try it out.
  15. Roman is a legit, U.S.-based pharmacy that offers prescriptions over the phone. It's not super cheap, but you can trust what you're getting.
  16. Not until I started PrEP in my early 40s. I had lots of sex, occasionally bare, but never had a boyfriend so I never got bred.
  17. Before I went on PrEP I would bareback occasionally with regular fuckbuds, but I never came in them or (to my knowledge) had them cum in me. Now that I'm on PrEP I pretty much only hookup with guys looking to breed and be bred. As status is always acknowledged beforehand, it is not an issue.
  18. I've seen some old news stories about Viagra being available in the U.K. over the counter at places like Tescos. Is that true. I can't find any recent info on how to get some.
  19. Going to Costa Rica for Christmas and New Years. Hoping for a lot of action.
  20. The real question is, have people changed because of the AIDS crisis, or are there just more people who are out, including more conservative views of casual sex? I know a lot of guys (most?) who would never consider going in PrEP, even though their insurance covers it and would never dream of going to a bathhouse. They may hookup on occasion, but it's infrequent and highly selective. I don't think those people would have done much in 70s.
  21. There's a documentary called Gay Sex in the 70s. I rented it from Amazon years ago. It has interviews with original participants who describe what it was like.
  22. I think it more 1970s and a natural extension of the leather scene. The fetish is for hyper-masculine, blue collar types like cops, construction workers and bikers. As chaps are both leather and assless it's an obvious choice.
  23. I got bred by one last weekend at a sex party. I enjoy it when it's available, but it's not something I actively seek out.
  24. You touched upon the fact that bottoming is psychological. You have to get into the idea of being filled by a man.
  25. I don't let former safe buddies know since I started PrEP. I tried with a couple of them and they didn't take it well, even in New York where it seems like the whole city is on PrEP. Now I have PrEP on all of my profiles and assume new tricks will figure it out.
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