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Honestly, not painful in my case. I’d had plenty of objects, butt plugs and dildos up my ass in the years before a guy fucked me for the first time. I was lubed up and was well prepared for what it would feel like. I was more self-conscious about my hole being a bit too wide for his smallish cock, as he was pushing my legs and ass cheeks together to get a tighter grip. -
Yeah, that’s the same for me. I’ve always been about the ass and a pussy holds no allure. And I’d describe myself as a heteroromantic bisexual. I’m mainly attracted to women, but I’ve always had to think of other things to stay hard when the vagina is the focus. The road to being a bottom has been a long and gradual one. I’ve been putting objects up my ass since I was 15, but I had a weird rationalisation at the time about needing to know what it was like for the imaginary women I was going to fuck. The obvious answer was that I simply enjoyed having my ass penetrated, but that was beyond my comprehension back then. As a teen, I’d occasionally fantasize about fucking my guy friends as well as the girls, but that was never anything I tried to act on. It was also the 1990s and HIV was still a big scary thing. Gay sex (and condomless sex in general) was dangerous and best avoided! I’ve always been quite shy and submissive, but I tried my best to mask it to cope with the challenges that presents in high school, early adulthood and playing a lot of competitive sport. It wasn’t until my very late 20s/early 30s that I began realize how good it felt to admit to myself that I enjoyed being dominated, even with women. When it comes to sex, condoms just don’t do it for me. So the next step was finding out about PrEP. That was a lightbulb moment. To know I could take a pill and submit to raw cocks and get my ass filled with cum essentially without risk of being pozzed made it viable for me and clicked the puzzle pieces into place. It was intensely liberating to know I could now embrace a role that fitted me perfectly.
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Practically, when the number of loads taken goes up and the selectivity goes down, the label “cumdump” is probably appropriate. A cumdump’s primary role is to be an easily available, willing (enough) cum receptacle. A natural cumdump will usually feel some guilt or shame if they find themselves being picky or rejecting advances. Connection, intimacy and the cumdump’s pleasure are, of course, irrelevant. Objectively viewed, someone can be a cumdump regardless of self-perception or how others perceive them, but that can add another dimension. As a heteroromantic bi bottom, it’s behavior I’m drawn to and feels like a natural fit. Cock and cum in my ass is all that really matters. I’m not looking for love, nor do I care about being labeled. But I’m not really there yet. I’ve taken anon cock, but I’ve still mostly been on the sidelines. Would-be cumdump for now…
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Growing up what wdid you use before you discovered dildos?
liger replied to Sqwert's topic in General Discussion
From about 15-16yo I was using large carrots with Vaseline for lube. I could wedge the end of the carrot between a mattress and the bed base. Then I could get on all fours and ram myself while looking at porn on the computer. -
Had an anon fuck me when I was ass up in the bathhouse last night. Hope he left satisfied, but the condom he slipped on (to a small dick, to be honest) made it pretty underwhelming. At least give me some reward!
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Do you bottom with guys that have small dicks?
liger replied to Iker80's topic in General Discussion
I’m all for variety, so when it comes to being fucked, dicks of all shapes, sizes, colors and creeds are welcome in my hole. Even a small cock, wielded well, is likely to result in a good time. If I’m only playing around with dildos or butt plugs then I want size to make it worthwhile. Had to clear out a lot of my stuff for a move and was left with access to a large butt plug and a 6-inch realistic cock and balls dildo. Better than nothing, but I could barely feel the dildo. -
I’ve already mentioned my desire to be tied/locked down while countless guys take turns fucking and filling me up. But I’m also thin and physically a bit of a weakling, so it feels right to be manhandled. After many loads, I’d love to be removed from the restraints and carried around by a couple of guys, parading my dripping cum hole and holding me up to fucked some more, as well as lowering me onto some seated cocks. Another is getting fucked by amputees, with a hard cocks going in and out, and stumps slapping against my ass.
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Would love to be locked in pillory or similar while a roomful of guys take turns to ram and fill my hole well past the point of overflowing.
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Why not? It’s my aspiration to take cocks of all shapes and sizes, colors and cultural backgrounds. There’s the (of course, ridiculous) cultural boundary concerning interracial sex that still exists, so it can be fun to play with that in a sexual context. I understand some don’t want to racially typecast or be typecasted and don’t like terms such as BBC, etc., but I think most people who express a passion for interracial sex are really just poking genuine racist attitudes in the eye. I grew up as a white kid in a (very) white, monocultural environment. I actively prefer to share my ass with a wider world.
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Bottoms: Girth or length is more important and why?
liger replied to TsJul69's topic in General Discussion
No preference, I'll take any. When it comes to cock, I'm happy to have all shapes and sizes inside me, as long as there's a big load spurting out at the end. I'm only really picky about dildo dimensions. If I'm making my own fun or taking a strapon, I want it deep and hole-stretching. -
Subs.. Was there a moment you realized you were a sub?
liger replied to badjujuboy's topic in General Discussion
Accepted the fact in my late 20s. I'm bi and post-puberty longed to live out that conventional aspiration of bedding countless beautiful women. Because that's what I thought you had to want. When I realized as a teen that I could be turned on by guys as well, I fantasized a little about being a top. But none of that was realistic for me. I was a shy, skinny kid and grew up to be a... shy, skinny adult. I was never comfortable taking control socially or sexually and came to understand (after comparing the sheer number of objects, dildos and cocks that had been in my ass in the preceding ten years against how many holes my useless penis had entered) that being dominated and penetrated was the most rewarding and realistic path for me. -
People with physical disabilities might have an impairment that presents sexual challenges, but I don’t see that as a problem at all. For mental disabilities where there’s issues of consent, of course you would need to be aware of that, but all people should be able to enjoy themselves. I’m not disabled, but I’ve always been fascinated by various aspects of impaired mobility and function. Since childhood, I’ve been obsessed with casts, which create temporary disability. I taught myself how to make them so I can wear them or apply to others. It’s a huge turn on to see someone casted, on crutches or in a wheelchair, on the street. I would enjoy being fucked while in a cast or by someone in a cast. Pics were from when I spent two weeks in a full leg cast and went out to parties and clubs. Had the cast signed by many randoms and DJs. Got plenty of attention and it was a fascinating experience to be “helpless”. Pretty sure I could have gotten cock, but I wasn’t looking for it that time. The same goes for amputations, but I’m yet to have sex with an amputee.
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It’s the place I want to get to. As a bi guy in a relationship with a woman, there’s certain risk mitigation and practical considerations I always feel I need to keep in mind, but I know I need to be true to myself. The path to cumdumpster status isn’t about setting up goldilocks moments, it’s submitting to the needs of men and making it work for them. It’s one thing that I haven’t actively sought what I want anywhere near enough due to silly artificial barriers, but actually refusing loads just feels terrible. A guy found my BBRT profile a little while back and hit me up saying his balls were full, hadn’t drained them in over a week, and asked was I ready to take it balls deep? I didn’t make it happen for flimsy reasons and it just made me feel guilty and a fake.
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I’ve been too timid sexually to have experienced that degree of group use yet, but I aspire to be the owner of a sloppy, wrecked, cum-container of a hole, wondering if there are still loads to be dumped inside before the day or night is done.
